I Learn Lessons The Hard Way

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    Nothing Is Ever Easy For Me

    All the lessons I learn have been the hard way.  And the kicker is, when I try to share my experinces with others, I just get the "what do you know?" response.  It is like I'm Cassandra and no one beleives what I tell them even though it is true.  Oh well...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 5, 2010

    This is the lesson I've learned about trucks

    and vehicles in general find something you'll enjoy and can operate safely i.e if you can't drive stick don't buy one. Unless your rich take care of it sure have a little fun but be smart don't wrap it around a tree and you might think it's cool and you're a bad as but please...
    Biggy742 Biggy742
    22-25, M
    Dec 27, 2014

    Life's Demerit System

    All married men will attest to some real wisdom in this....In the world of romance, one single rule applies:MAKE THE WOMAN HAPPY!  Do something she likes, and you get points.  Do something she dislikes, and points are subtracted.  You don't get any points for doing something...
    Gyummy Gyummy
    51-55, M
    9 Responses Dec 21, 2012
    babygurl431 babygurl431
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2014

    Trey songs said it best.

    Sax ain't better than love.
    JuBear424 JuBear424
    18-21, F
    Jun 17, 2014
    JDcent JDcent
    16-17, M
    Jun 18, 2014

    Near Miss

    It's an elementary precaution - look both ways before crossing the street. My sarcastic pleadings for an unusual, news-making death - in a bout I recall the old addage, "Be careful what you wish for." Despite not really wishing for it, I nearly got it. I was walking in...
    TheHonestLiar TheHonestLiar
    26-30, M
    Mar 18, 2010

    Hardway

    That is the only way i want to learn. I enjoy it and always have a good experience to come out of them.
    Arorin Arorin
    22-25, M
    Mar 15, 2010
    LoveIsSublime LoveIsSublime
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2011

    Over & Out

    Apparently the most painful lessons are the most difficult for me to accept. I don't want to see what I don't want to believe Even I can't ignore what is directly in front of me. This is a mistake I will never make again.
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy
    51-55, F
    Aug 8, 2011
    romi777 romi777
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    What I Am Now

    Yes, I have learned a lot about myself, about trusting myself, having faith in myself the hard way. Let me start it from the very beginning of what had happened. I was very secured, very comfortable of what I had that time. I had a great job with good income, had friends who...
    Lena04 Lena04
    22-25, F
    Sep 15, 2012

    The hard way yes, it's the only way i seem to

    learn my lessons, i must admit i like a challenge, i'm a petite but gutsy gal that doesn't run away from things because they are hard, made many mistakes along the way but haven't we all, but one thing i can honestly say is i never make the same mistake twice i learn from them...
    Nightofpassions24 Nightofpassions24
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2014

    Never borrow money from a loved one.

    Or even a 'liked'one Never lend a loved or liked one money. It gets messy, it gets terrible and it gets catty. It's bad. But if I ask for money, it'd be nice if you won't miss it. Because I'm bad at paying back. Hello, my name is Sam and I'm a borrowholic. I've been...
    Unknownimus Unknownimus
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2014

    Ashamed

    I held a double standard with someone I loved, playing games with him to ensure he truly cared about me. I am disgusted with myself. I presented myself as more witty and smart than I actually am, so he fell in love with a fraud.
    angeldog2013 angeldog2013
    46-50
    1 Response May 26, 2013

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