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I Learned Something From My First Love

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    I remember when there was a time where nobody was made for eachother like me and him. Young, naive and fearlessly in love. I loved how i just fell for him without being afraid or...
    kcm92 kcm92 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    First Lesson(s) In Love - I dated this guy for a few months before he broke up with me, and I learned a few things in the short time we spent together. I learned that any guy who...
    alwaysuplate alwaysuplate 16-18, F 26 Responses Aug 22, 2007

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    My First Love - Frances, not her real name. She is the most beautiful amazing woman I know. Super smart, loving, caring, and a great friend. Her only flaw if that's what you call...
    Rfs299 Rfs299 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    the Day Love Flew Bye - It all started when I met this guy named Tyler at a football game. He was sweet and very cute, everything I was looking for. We played it cool for a while...
    sHenson sHenson May 31, 2006

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    I learnt to not trust people...
    magicfairy1 magicfairy1 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Mr. Changeable - I learned that not everything is as it seems. My first love was soo great when we first got together and then after being together for several months he changed...
    dansbabygirl07 dansbabygirl07 16-18, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2007

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    Don't even fall in love love sucks I promise
    RavenHearts RavenHearts 16-17, F Mar 19

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    That sometimes your first love ends up being the one you didn't realise was your first love at the time and you wasted so much time and opportunity and now you know you will never...
    lilykyra lilykyra 26-30, F Mar 22

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    Totally Not What I Want - Its better to get to know someone before you begin dating. I didnt know this a while back, when I had my first love. In the moment, he was perfect....he...
    cantdothis5 cantdothis5 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    i loss my new love she is so cute but she she new bf I'm so sad
    mohamed7204 mohamed7204 26-30, M Mar 25

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    It was simply to never stop trying πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ thanks ex
    edgarr edgarr 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I learned if they lie once, give them a second chance. If they lie twice, be worried but give them another chance. If they lie CONSTANTLY you need to know you're better than that...
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 18-21, F Mar 24

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    Less Poetic - Mine is short and sweet. I was very young but we start off young in Mexico. My first boyfriend was very handsome and also very popular. He could be nice but he he...
    lilraskall lilraskall 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2006

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    I learned that people lie and cheat, and will blame others no matter what. People are hypocrites and I have the right to stand up for my self and to protect myself.
    stumb stumb 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    My Lesson From My First Love - My first love is also my first crush and sadly my first heart break. Despite the pain, I am still happy because he has taught me valuable lessons...
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    The Messed Up Story Of Us - *Note: I think every story should have a soundtrack. *Song 1. - "Guilty As Charged" by Tegan and Sara We met when we were little kids. He was the...
    iamalaska iamalaska 16-17, F Sep 11, 2013

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    Never believe what you see on the surface
    taiterz taiterz 26-30, M Mar 13

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    Not to trust so easily and not to fall so hard. I regret kissing him so hard with my eyes shut so tight.
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Learned What I Should Have Known - I learned that I dont believe in love, only that I love the idea of it. 
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2006

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    I learned it but did the same mistake again. Stupid, I know.
    Soulartgirl Soulartgirl 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I Learned... - I learned just how yummy boys are. And I learned that there are some times that saying "no" doesn't really work out so well. And that just because you love someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 13, 2006

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    No matter how much I hurt I had to let her go because I loved her truly
    cowboyac82 cowboyac82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    Til Death Do Us Part... - My first love was an instant attraction, from the moment I first laid eyes on him, I felt in my heart, surely this is my SOUL MATE. I first met him when...
    ReBornAnArtist ReBornAnArtist 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Pumping Love - My first real love was a boy I met when working at the local gas station. I was just starting college, and took a job there, I was a novelty, and he was a cutie. He...
    dirtylittlesecret dirtylittlesecret F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2006

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    Yeah, I Learned... - To take off my d@mn shoe and hit your piece of crap a$$ upside the muth@fukkin head, if I ever see you again! Plus, you owe me $52 b!tch and I want my other...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    The Lost of Love - It all happen when I was in 7th grade. He was in 6th grade and I was in 7th garde. Every day he came to my table at lunch and started playing with my hair...
    LaBeba4lyfe LaBeba4lyfe 16-18, F Apr 18, 2006

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    I learned that guys are ********! Lol most of them anyway :P
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I mean i guess you learn something from every single person you share your life with, even if you learn with the hard way. I learned that i have to love myself and i deserve a...
    FunnyEnglish FunnyEnglish 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Just Understood It In Love. - When love comes How did you know, it is only what you want? When love comes But, it's not belong to you, what will you do? When love comes, How...
    shao810505 shao810505 18-21, F Jul 24, 2013

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    I learned to not make that same mistake again...to not let myself become vulnerable and open to be hurt.
    pinkisperfect pinkisperfect 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    1) Always date a few times before "becoming official" as it helps you learn their personality and it helps stop you from wasting time. 2) No matter how well you think you know them...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Well 4 years, planned and all. Now she cheated on me.. Kissed another guy got so scared came back to me quiet. Lied to me to meet him again... Kept quiet.. Came back to me again...
    lusicqued lusicqued 18-21 4 days ago

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    Slow Down - I feel in love when I was fresh out of high school and staying for a year with family in France. Lothair was my uncle's coworker, a handsome and distinguished man in...
    charbakes charbakes 26-30, F Jun 27, 2013

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    I Am Getting Smarter By the Minute! - The thing I learned from my first love is this; It is okay to walk away and make a better choice for your life and your future. The man I...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Speechless... - My first love and I used to get together for long, extended makeout sessions. I am amazed now that we could literally French kiss for four hours at a stretch. And...
    hellosailor hellosailor 36-40, M 14 Responses Oct 13, 2006

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    Heartache In Paris - It all started, or should I say ended, when I flew back to Paris for my final year of college. Each of the previous times when I had flown in from my 2 month...
    Lisbon5 Lisbon5 21-25, M 3 Responses Feb 13, 2006

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    How crazy is it that my first love happened at the age of 35. I never knew what love was until I met him. I learned from him that not all men are horrible. You don't necessarily...
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Where Should I Begin?!  M... - Where should I begin?!  My first love was a wonderful, wonderful man.  He had the kindest heart and was normally soft-spoken, yet he...
    RaraAvis RaraAvis 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4, 2007

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    I learned that my first "love" really wasn't my first love at all. Our relationship was a lost cause that ended with heartbreak. I don't blame him for hurting me. I only blame...
    emmerrzz emmerrzz 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Not the Did, But the Was - It's difficult to pick from these prompts, only because love is such an amorphous feeling. At first, I wanted to say "Lost Love," but truth be...
    PatientRapunzel PatientRapunzel 31-35, F 28 Responses Feb 14, 2006

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    Quite A Few Things Actually - Well my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs and have been through a lot together. I'm hoping...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    Doormats And Guitars - Love is a finicky thing to someone who has never experienced it before.  What resources should I trust?  Should I take advice?  Is my &lsquo...
    renough renough 21-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2006

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    Sex , especially the first time, creates an intense emotional and lingering bond. it can leave you bonded to someone who is painfully unsuitable. Sex is not necessarily love...
    jurispree jurispree 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    In the beginning it was the typical high school relationship. He waited 2 years before I gave him my virginity. Then all down hill after that. I tagged along, for a year, on a...
    Katietwice Katietwice 31-35, F Jan 9

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    She Taught Me - My first love thought me quite a bit about life. I met her when I was still in High school and still not as mature as i should have been. She was younger than me...
    dobosininja dobosininja M 2 Responses Feb 12, 2006

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    I learned from my first girl friend that I don't want a child and not to rush in to relation Shia and that I shouldn't trust so easy I also learnt how it fells to be cheated on
    boomboomx20 boomboomx20 18-21, M Mar 8

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    This Goes Out To All Teenagers! - As a teenager, I understand what goes through the adolescent mind. Love is one of the first things on it. If you think you’re in love at a young...
    domo93 domo93 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    I learned that people will lie and hide everything from you to save there butt. I learned that god have me a brain.. I need to use it and have Common sense. I learned that it am a...
    scar7136 scar7136 16-17, F Mar 15

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    Thy Love Is Blind... - They say never fall in love with a best friend because it'll just break your heart, & one person will always end up getting hurt. I didn't listen very well...
    lostndelirious lostndelirious 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2013

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    I'd say what I learned was that we weren't meant for each other. We shared a moment of our lives together learning about ourselves and relationships. We learned how to love and...
    oceancrab oceancrab 36-40 1 Response Feb 11

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