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I Learned To Hate My Family

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    i used to care for them. they weren't the greatest parents when i was a kid but they were good enough. when i was a kid things were normal, had working parents... spent most time with "dad" cause "mom" worked nights and i barely got to see her. back them i still called them that...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M Jan 23, 2011

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    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I live with my mom, my grandmother, and my sister and I constantly feel like my sister just has made it her life's work to make sure that everyone thinks of her first. She finds...
    RaeRiley97 RaeRiley97 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm really the black sheep of the family here. I have one sibling, an older brother. It isn't just my immediate family I don't fit in with, its seriously all of it. On my moms side...
    happyinmyskin happyinmyskin 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Basically my whole immediate family is one big fat black sheep, but I'm probably the worst because I'm anti social and gay. No one knows about that last one but I'm sure it's not...
    superstar2271 superstar2271 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    It's not that they're terrible people, I just don't like them. My sister is scum, fat, herpes infested, and takes alot alot of prescription pills, uppers, downers, the whole...
    learntoswim learntoswim 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My family isn't perfect if anything it's dysfunctional. Maybe on a new level and u absolutely hate it. I don't feel like I fit in at all. I spend all my time in my room u barely...
    Smiles1997 Smiles1997 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I hate you so much, you never cared, you sunk your claws in me when I was in a bad place in life and you took advantage of me, I did things that I didn't want but I was to scared...
    quietangel101 quietangel101 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I have a very complex relationship with my parents. A long time ago, I stopped sharing anything with them because I feel that they couldn't be trusted. They are very quick to judge...
    beyondctrl beyondctrl 18-21, F Jun 29

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    Have you ever just sat and started to cry?. Because you know that no her you do will ever take away the pain. So it all started at the age of 14 I was a bit bigger than the other...
    anonymousgirl1010 anonymousgirl1010 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Okay, I need to get this is off my chest. My husband never tries to see things from my perspective. Every time he upsets me he never takes me seriously and here is the most...
    jrlegg jrlegg 26-30, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Okay I think this is extremely unfair but here is my story; My mum has been raising me since my dad was sent away when I was 9 (To god knows where, I have a feeling it is jail and...
    AsherWest AsherWest 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I have learned to take everything day by day. Nothing is ever going to be perfect. I have learned that your family is the most important thing. I have learned, nothing is better...
    OwnWhoYouAre OwnWhoYouAre 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Writing a diary is too risky, so I’ve decided to make a blog. I am not actually that good in writing essays but when I do, I always have a lot of things to say. It was this...
    kurinatot kurinatot 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Some days I just want to disown my entire family. *drama* I think I kind of resent growing-up in a big family (esp being the youngest). Unless you were bleeding or crying bloody...
    dukelostboy25 dukelostboy25 26-30, M Jul 13

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    Um i guess i just thought that this would be a good way to express how i feel and maybe if i posted on the internet i could convince myself that people might listen. Before i...
    JustMui JustMui 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    My husband'a family is so inconsiderate. His father is deceased so I've never met him. His mother is way too needy and is always seeking approval from the men in her life (her sons...
    lipservice22 lipservice22 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    This is one of my biggest worries. I the oldest of 3 children, 1 guy 2 younger sisters with a divorced mom. As if this wasn't enough, of all my family in my father side and mother...
    ClassicGentleman ClassicGentleman 18-21, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I really hate my family but spend each day trying to make things better. So long story short but when I was two my mom passed away and my dad played the mom/dad role for many years...
    leek12345 leek12345 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Let me say this as just hate me for loving so sincere and have no return treat from the one i am in love with. OK! I found out that my girl friend can walk and protest and do...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    She says she wants to make things easy. She is stubborn and a *****. She says no to packing up my things on the three days I can feasibly do so. Then I tell her she is being...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I am married. I am going to be a mother. I turned 18 and I lived in another state for 5 years away from my family. Now I am pregnant and surrounded by only my husband's family. It...
    sophie0852 sophie0852 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I don't like my home environment at all. Everyone shouts and it's just a messed up family, if you can even call it a family. The problem for me is that I want to get away from it...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I'm new to this experience thing. But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a...
    aloflo aloflo 16-17, F a week ago

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    I hate when you message someone and they dont text back.I hate when you ask someone for a pic of them and they show you there profile pic.I hate when you try to be nice but people...
    koolboy55 koolboy55 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    i hate my family i hate my family i hate my family i hate my family my mother ruined me. she left me with a series of emotional scars i carry with me wherever i go. and i grow up...
    lovelyintrovert lovelyintrovert 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I would like to live a life estranged from my family. My father was abusive both physically and emotionally. The pain he has caused me throughout my 22 years is at times...
    Liz3125 Liz3125 18-21, F Jul 13

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    I can't stand my family.. Since I was young my real dad left when I was young I don't even know who he is and my mother she never gives me the time of day, when my step dad and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F Jul 14

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    I was a pk in a very religious church. I had to be perfect, but I was never quite sure what that meant. So I followed every rule, did every religious thing, got straight A's (then...
    7boyz3girlz 7boyz3girlz 46-50 6 days ago

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    Please don't hate.... haters feed on being hated. Just like lovers grow on love. Become neutral, indifferent... it takes you less energy and feeds them less. I have hated with a...
    mickyisback mickyisback 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Everyone, including my own extended family, thinks that my husband is just the nicest guy in the world. He puts on his nice, friendly mask and attitude when others are around...
    wifeofmiserabletyrant wifeofmiserabletyrant 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I want to cry Not because I feel their love Not because I am so young But maybe because I simply suck I want to cry Because I find no point in life Because I learned to hate my...
    randomstranger20 randomstranger20 22-25, F Jun 28

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    My hatred for my father is complex and still disturbs me after all this time. I wish I didn't hate the man. I can't say I ever really knew him, but that's part of the problem. My...
    AngusDuke AngusDuke 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Why was I born into a family with so much hatred. My grandma tells me regularly that I'm worthless. And that I won't make it anywhere in life. Well guess what? I'm gonna prove you...
    reneeo11314 reneeo11314 18-21, F Jun 30

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    My mom and father both smoke. Dad had quit for a long time and then a family friend got him back on it. I resent her for it. My mom hadn't smoked in years. Then one day when we...
    jcylee99 jcylee99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I hate working right now because I'm going to be with this bully! She is too much about her jokes on me and I couldn't stand it, whenever I won't respond to her bad jokes on me...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    Well at least finding this place shows me that I'm not the only one... I'm 48 years old and a couple of years ago came back to live with my mother and older brother... All my...
    beherenowthen beherenowthen 46-50, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Family is whoever takes good care of you and no matter what will protect you and be there for you.Mother,father,uncle,aunt,cousin...just words with no meaning.You gotta earn the...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    My best friend is part of my the family and she isn't a blood relative
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    It is not so that I hate my mother in law because she in my mother in law. No, no, no. I hate her because she is a bad person. At the begining I wanted to be a friend of hers, but...
    emikolic emikolic 26-30, F Jul 3

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    I absolutely hate my family and it is not because I am a spoiled brat or am ungrateful, it is because they have mistreated me so bad throughout my life that I can no longer put up...
    rosesrthebest rosesrthebest 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I used to look up to my father; he was my hero. When I was younger, my dad used to go out of town a lot for his 'job' and I would miss him terribly. Now, I cannot stand being in...
    lesluu07 lesluu07 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I had a boyfriend in 6th grade who I loved alot. When we both had to change schools for elementary school, we were still toegether and texted alot, he came for my birthday, etc...
    HorseBeauty HorseBeauty 13-15, F Jul 8

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    Ok unlike what the title says, I don't true lay hate my boyfriends family. I just see that they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever met. They are extremely different from...
    SilentNynja SilentNynja 22-25, F a week ago

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    I always hate it when the night time comes. I always felt a wave of sadness swept through me when I saw the sky turn dark. It got me wondering: this day is coming to an end. Did I...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The word family has always been an uncertain word and concept for me. My mom's side and dad's side are complete opposites. My mom was raised in an agricultural and calm background...
    greener0grass greener0grass 16-17 Jun 23