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I Learned To Hate My Family

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    i used to care for them. they weren't the greatest parents when i was a kid but they were good enough. when i was a kid things were normal, had working parents... spent most time with "dad" cause "mom" worked nights and i barely got to see her. back them i still called them that...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M Jan 23, 2011

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