I Learned to Let Go

Important lessons are never easy 679 People

    Letting go is always easier said then done.

    As humans we weave a tangled web for ourselves as far as getting closure and letting go. We ache and pine over that which hurts us, whether it be an object, and emotion, a state of mind our way of thinking, or a person who breaks our soul. Yes, I said breaks our soul, not our...
    CTMama CTMama
    31-35, F
    Feb 12, 2016

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    l1skub4n l1skub4n
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    No Longer Holding On

    I am no longer holding onI am free nowI can't forgetBut I choose to move onAll those negative feelings I once had...Was like venom running though my soul...Poisonous and killing me slowI finally learned to let go
    surrealreality surrealreality
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2011

    I read something really pretty today.

    here goes: God says: The reason some people have turned against you and walked away from you without reason has nothing to do with you. it happened because I have removed them from your life because they cannot go where I am taking you next. They will only hinder you in your...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    A Beautiful Nightmare

    I was sitting alone on a hard plastic chair in the hallway of a hospital.  The smell of the hospital hung heavy in the air, making me physically ill.  The sour odor permeated my pores and seeped into my brain, burned in my memory forever. About twenty feet away my...
    Myonis108 Myonis108
    56-60, F
    21 Responses Feb 5, 2009

    Hey people! Please learn me how to let go an

    idiot that didn t deserve me... I need to be strong to let him go but I feel I can't even he s making me sick..
    Antidot92 Antidot92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2016

    The Jacket, The Love No Where To Be Found But With Inside .

    I went shopping one day with my mother and i had came across this jacket . It was gorgeous , i knew the from the moment i saw it , it just had to be mine . I was "In Love." Later on still in the store my mother wanted to go to the second floor of the building and since we could...
    lillybeeetch lillybeeetch
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2012

    Still learning actually.

    .. it gets hard to move forward at times cause I can't stop thinking on past things. Trying to let go of anger and more but I can't. Maybe therapy next week will help.
    EternityF EternityF
    26-30, F
    Feb 12, 2016

    I've pretty much lost all of my family.

    My mother is completely different, and she's mean now, and irresponsible. Her father is violent and mean as well, not to mention sneaky and shady. My grandmother died from cancer. My father loses his ability to care about anyone but himself more and more every day. His wife has...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat
    16-17, T
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    My heart has been torn apart by the death of

    those I love and through relationships. The pain was worse than any physical pain and yet I survive, as do others who have lost.The single purpose of love is to experience and deal with the pain of loss, find a way to let go and move on alone.It is the greatest life lesson and...
    marmitemicky marmitemicky
    66-70, M
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2015

    Letting Go = Freedom

    Like a meadow full of flowers I am among those who have experienced a substantial amount of pain and grief. Like a stubborn nosed bull I have held onto those emotions resulting in anger and the deepest pain within. It digs deep inside of you creating a huge black hole for all...
    MoonFlower11 MoonFlower11
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Jun 29, 2010

    My Experiences

    I've learned that the best moments are coming from the craziest ideas I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. You never know what might happen next day. I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. So make choices...
    thepianogirl thepianogirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

    You can only be as Free

    as you are willing to be Truthful about yourself. - Guy Finley
    letitgo2136 letitgo2136
    46-50, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    I Wish I Would Remember Before It Gets Bad

    So many times my Higher Powers have saved my life. 1.) Occult.  Lost baby.  Almost me. 2.) Teenage Runaway living with bikers. 3.) Domestic Abuse 4.) Crack And there are many times I couldn't do what needed to be done, after giving it everything I had.  My...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Sep 18, 2008

    Lesson Learned

    If a person doesn't want you in his/her life anymore.. it clearly shows in their behavior!! You suddenly become the last priority or worst are not in their priority list anymore.. That person doesn't care about what you say or feel and everything he does , he will make you feel...
    hehe12 hehe12
    1 Response Jan 4, 2013

    Color Blind

    i have blocked my self , i cant see  , i cant feel , i cant smell the scent of life! what is it? do i have a curtain of blood in front of me or hate. what does it take to let go . hate or love . denail? acceptance? you cant accept something you know noting of . people talk...
    AnaRosa AnaRosa
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2008

    So Many Wrong Thoughts

    Well ive learned now that there is much i was wrong about and i am okay when i am wrong because i learn from my mistakes. Women Yes there are hot women. Yes i find hot women attractive. Yes i look at them. No i do not give a hot woman who is hot more thought then a decent...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2012

    Im In The Progress Of Letting Go

    i find it hard to let things go and not worry about the past
    MickDundeeFromAustralia MickDundeeFromAustralia
    22-25, M
    Jul 24, 2012

    I've had to let go/start letting go of some

    people in my life lately. Although I feel like I'm doing the right thing, I'm finding myself feeling very lonely. I'm usually okay with being alone, but lately that hasn't been the case. I know I need to learn to love myself and learn my self worth before anything, but it's...
    CookeyV CookeyV
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2016

    At My Darkest Moments.......

    At my darkest moments I know how to "Let It Go".  I'm learning to practice this before I get to that point.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 8, 2009

    I Go to Let Go

    I am going to get out of the relinship and go on my own. And Let Go and Let God show me where he wanted me to go. But I feel this is not where I should be. I am not get in where. I feel better about my self. But I need to move on. And I grow as much as I could with the guy...
    lashanda lashanda
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2008

    first writing after truth

    prevailed: "Treachery" h t t p : wp.me/p5YvqR-2 most recent writing, 3+ months after: "Emergence" h t t p : wp.me/p5YvqR-t I'd say I'm well on my way to fully letting go.
    bcharap bcharap
    36-40, M
    Jun 3, 2015

    Learn to Love and Let Go

    as much as we want to, nothing really stays the same. Change is the only permanent thing in this world. People come into our lives and they go---or maybe, their roles change. It's really that way. And it's best to just let it go. We meet people and there are reasons why they come...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 14, 2009

    You ruined everything.

    Nothing escaped your hatred. You believed a lie. I withstood your nature. I loved you and even your faults. I became like you and realized myself. That we both need more. I declare war. War on control. I let it go. Free us... now; grace is all I know.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 13, 2016

    Both my exs want to get back together with me

    all of sudden ... Why ... I mean it's called an ex for a reason. Just move on.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    She Walks Like Rain.

    Tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet? Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day... and head back to the milky way. And tell me, did Venus blow your mind? Was it everything you wanted to find And did you miss me while you were looking...
    seventhstar seventhstar
    18-21, M
    6 Responses May 15, 2009

    Good Bye

    I learned long ago to let go ... of the past . bad experiences ... happy ones I'll cherish ! I can't control anyway,you can not change your past . So , I look forward to the future!  
    CrystalRainsPearls CrystalRainsPearls
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Aug 22, 2009

    So often in my life, people,

    experiences, friendships, seemed to want to end before I was ready. When I lost my cat, Tabby, as a child, I cried for weeks. As I grew older, I learned to read the energy around life experiences, so that I would not be blindsided. The last time a major friendship suddenly ended...
    slver slver
    51-55, F
    Mar 7, 2016

    Let go of the past, with all it's pain

    and anguish. We can't change what is set in stone. Now we must move forward.
    lifesize lifesize
    22-25, F
    Apr 15, 2014

    Letting Go

    I have finally learned to let go of the arguing, making life perfect, worrying needlessly, and other useless feelings and actions and just let go and go with the flow of life and not fight it. Not to say that I have given up and don't bother anymore its more like, accepting what...
    restlessinsomniac restlessinsomniac
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 2, 2010

    My Knight In Shining Armor

         After spending 38 years of life on this planet called earth  I have finally found my Knight in shining armor!  When we were little girls we pretended that we met our knights in the most romantic ways!   He was perfect and better still he thought we we were perfect...
    L7Dreamz L7Dreamz
    Apr 20, 2012

    "People that does not belong in your life,

    no matter how hard you love them, tried to care for them and hold them back, they will eventually walk away..." I've learned it the hard way... It's tiring, it's emotionally hurting, it's disappointing and it's sucks. It literally drives you crazy. Don't be like me, better if...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517
    22-25, F
    Feb 9, 2014

    " Start to learn and you will be taught.

    " The Zen philosophy showed me how to break my chains by acknowledging that there are no chains. It showed me how to let go by acknowledging that control does not exist. I learned how to break free by acknowledging that my cage is just an illusion. I wish sometimes that I...
    Smokerish7 Smokerish7
    Sep 1, 2014

    Do I Let Go, Or Give It One More Chance....

    Hello All, This is my first time posting anywhere about my husband's addiction. We have been married for almost 7 years and this year will be the first time I fully admitted his addiction to everyone around me. We have 3 beautiful children together and I am 8 months pregnant. He...
    almostenough almostenough
    31-35, F
    Jan 14, 2013

    Moving On Is A Simple Thing, What It Leaves Behind Is Hard

    I thought that I was trying to let go, but I was actually trying to hold on. What I wanted had already been promised to me when we both promised it to each other before god and all our family and friends. When he broke that promise he destroyed me and I thought that he should...
    TypicalPisces TypicalPisces
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Mar 31, 2010

    Letting Go And Moving On

    It was first month of the year of 2001,my hubby was hospitalized,but before that we always go to hospital for check up...his doctor never told me anything serious about his condition.But on the 4Th day he was confined,he was comatose...for a few hours and then I lost him.He...
    enigma17 enigma17
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2010

    I've Learned..

    Yesterday I learned something; to forgive then move on. I just wanna share it to all..   I have this friend, we’re very good friends. But since we moved in and live together, something’s became different to us. I know that she’s insensitive and she says and...
    grasya grasya
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 2, 2010

    I read a pretty cool quote today : "A setback

    is a setup for a comeback" So true !!!! Spread the word :-)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 1, 2014

    I'm Still Trying

    I think it takes a special kind of training to actually *let go* of the things that happened in the past.I'm trying. I can forgive somethings, but there are things that still hang on, still hurt me on almost a daily basis.
    Serenitree Serenitree
    70+, F
    Oct 19, 2012

    It's not that it's easy

    for me to say goodbye. I just MAKE it easy for me... it's like... to protect myself I guess from more pain than I would usually feel... So I let go of people quick for good reasons. He kinda made me realize that. lol. I just look at the worth of things.. If I find incongruence...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve
    26-30, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    I Need To But I Still Hold On For Dear Life

    I hold onto things longer than I should and want to. Its a good thing and a bad thing. I can relive some really awesome memories and experiences. I also hang onto events which hurt me way longer than I should. It takes me a long time to get over things. I harbour the pain almost...
    TotallyAmazing TotallyAmazing
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2010

    In life, don't expect anything from anyone.

    Because expectation, when not fulfilled, gives you pain. When you get something without expecting it, It gives you pleasure. So take the time to do something unexpectedly heartfelt for someone today! It could make all the difference in their lives. Pay it forward! Have a good...
    got2Breal got2Breal
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2014

    Letting Go

    There are certain situations and experiences in life that are out of ones control. Ive always had a problem accepting that. But I'm learning now that it's ok. Not everything works out the way you want it... That's reality. And I'm learning now how to let those things go. It's...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance
    36-40, F
    Jul 24, 2012

    Heaven Knows

    Today I decide to let you go, after you told me that somebody can comfort you is him, not me. I always here for you, but when you're in trouble, it's him that you seek. What am I for you? You said it's not like that, you said that you just befriend, but everything's clear now...
    Nelangsa Nelangsa
    22-25, T
    Sep 9, 2013

    Of things i can not change,

    things that were out of my control, things that i have no power to change. Come to terms with how my life turned out..i will no longer blame myself for some ones wrong doing. I've set that and you free❤
    deleted deleted
    Feb 12, 2016

    I'm Free!!

    Recently I was terminated from my job with malice on so many levels to the point where my attorney says I have the strongest case for wrongful termination she’s ever seen in her 20 yr. experience. But I’m letting go…..I don’t care….it is so not...
    lilyofthenile lilyofthenile
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 13, 2010
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