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I Left My Husband For Another Man

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    I have been married for 10 years.

    I have 2 kids 6 and 8. I have been unhappy for so long. I just have gotten thru life. My husband is a good man in the aspect of providing a good life for me and the kids but his work involves him being gone more then home. At first I thought I felt the way I did Is because he...
    Helpme731 Helpme731 26-30, F Jan 5

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    Scared

    Ill make my story short I've been with my husband for 11 years married for 5 he was very mentally abusive and lacked respect for me I got tired of crying and asking him to change so I did the most unethical thing by seeing another man I was absolutely ready to leave but was...
    Karmela5 Karmela5 31-35 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    I Left My Husband, But Still Love Both Men.

    I've been with my husband for 2 years, married for 1. We married on our 1 year anniversary. It did seem pretty soon, but we loved each other, and really, saw no reason not to marry. My husband and I get along great - no abuse whatsoever, he's not controlling... really, he's...
    twilightprincess8 twilightprincess8 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    I am married for 21 years.

    I have a total of 3 daughters. the last one is from my husband. I have looked for years to find my oldest daughters dad. 5 months ago we found him. I left for the Army 1 day after I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. When I got married I wasn't sure I wanted to...
    christi1258 christi1258 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Unhappy Marriage?

    I have only been married a short time ( not even a year) and I don't believe he is the one. He's not living with me yet due to paperwork in his country, but when we have been together, there have been red flags that I should have paid attention to before taking the plunge...
    jstarlight808 jstarlight808 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2011

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    I Left My Husband For Another Man.

    My soon to be ex husband and I were married for 13 years. I did want him for a good part of that. I could never stop thinking and fantasizing about other men. I was independent before I met him and had no problem giving it up when I married him. Over the years, for whatever...
    bjhw bjhw 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    Leaving Husband For Another Man Im In Love With,

    Hi i have been married just over a year now im 21 he is 57 im unhappy in my marriage as my husband is so controlling me i have to give him my money he wants to know where im going when i go out im frightened to ask him if i want anything ie new clothes, because he says no and...
    cazanne cazanne 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    I Left My Husband For His Friend And We Are Completely Happy

    My ex husband and I met our neightbors down the street about a year ago. They were a husband and wife the same age as we are.  I was instantly attracted to the husband, but I was married and so was he so I never made any move.  About 4 months into knowing them, they...
    tcooky tcooky 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    I only thought about it today, I know I definitely love a guy but I can't have him, but there's this other guy I will see soon I about a month and I got an image in my head of...
    kieran456 kieran456 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Okay in theory yes I suppose I can guess why they do. However in practise I can't for the life of me, understand how a loving man could be happy doing this? Nor how a wife could be...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    sh3rylanne sh3rylanne 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Just got some skinny jeans for my man accompanied by thick trendy belts. I love to see my man in tight sexy jeans and got some of them recently. It looks super cool on him.
    meensmith meensmith 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I fantasize watcjing my wife making love to another man.
    Secretdzires Secretdzires 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 13

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 11 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    My husband has been abusive for 21 yrs. We've been married for 18. He has a friend that expressed a interest in me 2 yrs ago and I've been seeing him ever since. He is so sweet and...
    ginahunt3 ginahunt3 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    This is probably the most traumatic thing that has happened in my life.. This is the first time I decided to write my story and share with others. Ever since it happened, I wanted...
    Foreverpeacengreen Foreverpeacengreen 18-21, F Jul 12

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    I never knew what love was until I fell in it with him, did I ever really love my husband? I love him now yes but was I ever in love with him? I dont think I was and it couldn't...
    katharine8891 katharine8891 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I’m so thankful my childhood was filled with imagination and bruises from playing outside, instead of apps and how many likes you get on a picture.........
    LoneRider72 LoneRider72 36-40, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    i have been married to the same man for almost 14 years. i really love him but his sex drive is almost more than i can handle so when he keeps persisting i make him pay not always...
    warden2000 warden2000 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's so refreshing when a man is gentlemen. A hardworking, passionate and diligent man who is wise beyond his years, a man who can fight with his words and not his fist, a man who...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I read all the posts on here about women whose men are getting out soon. I can't imagine how happy I will be when that day comes. I am happy for you all. please remember me...
    undercovermonroe undercovermonroe 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    One of the things I'm thankful for is meeting people that mark my life. Mostly all of them are for the good. I remember I met this guy at school his name was Chris N. I admired him...
    MrsScissorhands MrsScissorhands 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    He raped me when I was 16. And 2 years ago he walked in to my church. I wanted to run and hide but I knew there was a reason. I went thru a lot but 3 weeks later I was able to...
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think about my wife flirting, kissing and having sex with other men.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 1

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    My ex wanted to watch me do his best friend and I said I would but he never set it up to happen but he liked to talk about it a lot
    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I am trying to convince my wife to sleep with someone else and then tell me about it. I hope I don't regret it.
    ewcmfa ewcmfa 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 17

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    It's so hot and sexy when my wife is with other men. Love to see her pleasing other men. And more. Poly is such an awesome thing. Feel free to ask me things or we can discuss.
    c0wboi c0wboi 31-35 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't understand why people think it's cocky when you like your own body? Do they want you to hate it and gripe all the time? Why can't people just be happy?
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    If you will then tell me what color you will use
    Madditheboy Madditheboy 16-17, M Jul 15

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    I would love to be taken to a nail salon
    Shannongirlyboy Shannongirlyboy 46-50, T 1 Response Jul 16

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    Wanted to share some memorable comments I have received when I shared I wanted to open my marriage. -You do not deserve to be married -You should be happy you're a wife that...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 8

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    and you loved him, would you see if there was any meds to curb your sxe drive. He is on blood pressure, heart meds. You have tried everything nothing works. Work keeps you busy...
    IMAGINATIONATWORK IMAGINATIONATWORK 36-40 2 Responses Jul 10

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I met my wife Sarah in 2008. We met through her friend. We started dating and things were progressing fast, we got engaged and got married in October of 2009. Things were not...
    SimpleGuy77 SimpleGuy77 36-40 1 Response Jul 11

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I met my husband 9 years ago and fell deeply in love immediately I had a son from a previous relationship and he accepted me and my son told me I'm the woman of his dreams that...
    canadian4 canadian4 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I was engaged/married at an early age right out of college to my college sweetheart. I've never been with another man, and having been married several years I'm getting restless...
    sophiamxo sophiamxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I've had two best friends like this! After misery and pain, I ended the friendships. Then it was brought to my attention that my husband maybe a manipulator. I was like "no! I...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I Am Indonesian Closet Gay Looking For Closet Lesbian For Marriage (moc) Dear All... I'm closet gay looking for closet lesbian for marriage. I am Indonesian and living in Germany...
    Ijustwannabehappy84 Ijustwannabehappy84 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I have been married for 17yrs with 2 kids I've been wooed by another man whom is not married & has 3 kids & I told my husband did I do the right thing or should I have kept it a...
    maguire01 maguire01 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I Am Both Apparently I just took a test in http://testyourself.psychtests.com/ It was a test about the dominance between the left brain and the right brain. Here is my result...