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I Left My Husband For Another Man

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    I am married for 21 years.

    I have a total of 3 daughters. the last one is from my husband. I have looked for years to find my oldest daughters dad. 5 months ago we found him. I left for the Army 1 day after I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. When I got married I wasn't sure I wanted to...
    christi1258 christi1258 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Scared

    Ill make my story short I've been with my husband for 11 years married for 5 he was very mentally abusive and lacked respect for me I got tired of crying and asking him to change so I did the most unethical thing by seeing another man I was absolutely ready to leave but was...
    Karmela5 Karmela5 31-35 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    I have been married for 10 years.

    I have 2 kids 6 and 8. I have been unhappy for so long. I just have gotten thru life. My husband is a good man in the aspect of providing a good life for me and the kids but his work involves him being gone more then home. At first I thought I felt the way I did Is because he...
    Helpme731 Helpme731 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Unhappy Marriage?

    I have only been married a short time ( not even a year) and I don't believe he is the one. He's not living with me yet due to paperwork in his country, but when we have been together, there have been red flags that I should have paid attention to before taking the plunge...
    jstarlight808 jstarlight808 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2011

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    I Left My Husband For His Friend And We Are Completely Happy

    My ex husband and I met our neightbors down the street about a year ago. They were a husband and wife the same age as we are.  I was instantly attracted to the husband, but I was married and so was he so I never made any move.  About 4 months into knowing them, they...
    tcooky tcooky 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Leaving Husband For Another Man Im In Love With,

    Hi i have been married just over a year now im 21 he is 57 im unhappy in my marriage as my husband is so controlling me i have to give him my money he wants to know where im going when i go out im frightened to ask him if i want anything ie new clothes, because he says no and...
    cazanne cazanne 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    I Left My Husband For Another Man.

    My soon to be ex husband and I were married for 13 years. I did want him for a good part of that. I could never stop thinking and fantasizing about other men. I was independent before I met him and had no problem giving it up when I married him. Over the years, for whatever...
    bjhw bjhw 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I Left My Husband, But Still Love Both Men.

    I've been with my husband for 2 years, married for 1. We married on our 1 year anniversary. It did seem pretty soon, but we loved each other, and really, saw no reason not to marry. My husband and I get along great - no abuse whatsoever, he's not controlling... really, he's...
    twilightprincess8 twilightprincess8 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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