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I Left My Husband

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    Miss The Spark

    I left me husband 8 month after we married. I was traveling when we met and I was single for the first time. I had just left a relationship and was finally happy. Then I met my husband at a party and he wouldn't leave me alone. I eventually fel for him and we moved in together...
    Lookingforhappiness2 Lookingforhappiness2 26-30 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Choose Me Or Your Sister

    I left my husband recently, after 8 years together. I moved out totally and rented a room. But sometimes, I am confused still if I did wrong decision. Thanks God we dont have any children. The issue is since we have being living with his family (his bro and his sis). His parents...
    todaydaisy todaydaisy 31-35 Aug 11, 2012

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    Letting Go And Letting God

    Its not easy, Lord knows it isnt. But you can do it!!! And the freedom you feel is great. It beats feeling bad all the time. Just remember...IF YOU DNT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH SOM1 AND THEY HAVE NEVER MADE IT AN EFFORT TO TELL U,  THEN STOP STANDING AND START WALKING. TODAY I...
    Buttercup44 Buttercup44 36-40 3 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    Now What?

    I just told my husband of 3 and a 1/2 years that I am no longer romantically attracted to him. I'm really unsure if I ever was. I mean, I do love him very much but it's is not romantic in any way. He's a terrific guy. He's taken such good care of me but I just feel like I would...
    LadyAshe LadyAshe 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I Left My Sexless Marriage

    i feel on uncharted territory - married 19 years this year, years and years of problems...mutually, we don't want to be together anymore at this time. i am ok with that. but i am realizing i don't know entirely know who i am without my marital problems. i have so more time...
    Gazell Gazell 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    He was abusive, I'm alone in this Country.

    ..my soul is wounded, I feel lost.
    ClowdyDays ClowdyDays 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    After 3 years of marriages,

    I left my husband 2 months ago. He is a complete narcissist. He was pulling me further and further from my family. He had complete control of everything, even the finances. If I spoke my opinion about anything, I was complaining. He often told me that If I can't do what I...
    KelleyJCK KelleyJCK 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I Have A New Story And Hell Is A Walk In The Park

    it has been 4 1/2 month now since I lift my bastard of a husband. He has striped everything away from me, I have nothing. His kids, a girl 28 toke some of her things from the house but was to afraid to go back. His son 19 is at college now and will be moving in with me. I was at...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    Taking My Life Back

    I left my husband 2 days ago.  After 14 years of a marriage I had finally had enuff.  At first all was well but as the years went by and the children came it got worse for me.  He had to take a job that took him away from the family and that is when i realized...
    startingnew startingnew 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    Was It The Right Decision?

    I've been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 4 year old son. My husband works hard, doesn't cheat, do drugs. And he is not abbusive. But I left my husband a few days ago. I packed my stuff and came to stay with my parents. He just sat there and watched me and my son leave. He...
    Bburson33 Bburson33 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    I Gained 7 Years of Life By Divorcing My Husband!

    This marriage had been a difficult 2 years of my young life.  After divorcing, I respect myself more.  My freedom to choose, to do what I want, to take control of my life (from what I buy, to how I decorate my room, to where I travel, and who I...
    tangelo17 tangelo17 21-25, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    The Leaver

    My husband and I had been married 6 years in June. It had been more like roomates who shared a bed for a long time. Within the first 3 months of our marriage he had an emotional affair(girl#1). I fought like hell for him and our marriage and I "won" but not really. After that it...
    lovedusboththatmuch lovedusboththatmuch 31-35 Nov 13, 2012

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    Living Hell

    I left my husband 10 days ago and my life has been nothing short of living hell. What pleasure is he getting out of my suffering? He’s still living in our house. I’ve moved twice all ready. I have to beg and play his games just to get back into the house to get more of my...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2010

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    Had To Go ?

    I left my husband friday mornin. for the past 6 months he has not worked an has refused to get a job. im tired of working 12 hour days an him doing nothing. when i got n feom work he would freak out asking me who ied had slept with what i did all day. total jelousy. enough to...
    2012amys 2012amys 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    I Left On My Wedding Night

    I left him on our wedding night. I ran away and called my father to pick me up. That was 2 months ago, I live with my parents now. I never told anyone, not even my parents, why I left. My father thinks he hurt me in some way but he didn't. I left because I'm afraid to have sex...
    amberjean18 amberjean18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    I Feel Better Now

    I left my husband two weeks ago today. I have felt much better and so have my kids. I got a job and start next week. I enjoy the house I'm living in. I feel so relieved.
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 4 Responses May 1, 2008

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    Ending My Marriage

    My husband had a drinking problem for a few years. He's a very strong character. He could tie me up in knots in an argument so I end up backing down! He could say cruel things n say he didn't mean but they made a dent each time! He decided to quit drinking but to do so quit his...
    Vom1985 Vom1985 26-30 2 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I Left My Husband Two Months Ago And I'M Starting To Feel Anxious About It

    My husband and I have been married for four years and together for fourteen years. Two years into our marriage his son came to live with us full time. Our marriage has been rocky for many reasons. Four months ago everything flipped upside down. I was snooping through his phone...
    Eviefox Eviefox 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Left My Husband

    I am so confused.  I left my husband three months ago.  We have a three year old daughter and have been married 4 yrs, yeah do the math... When I first met him I was young, single, and had no children.  He had a twelve year old daughter, who I clicked with almost immediately...
    deediaz720 deediaz720 31-35 4 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    It has been a couple of days

    since I left my husband. I don't regret the move and am quite happy in my new apartment. I'm hurt though because I gave my all and now that I'm gone he sees it. Figures! This does not change my decision and honestly I don't trust his words or his intentions. It hurts more that...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Related Experiences

    I wonder if others have this experience. At the time I met my now husband, I had a drug problem, an abundant sexual appetite, and I drank too much. In general I was frying my brain...
    birdlover9 birdlover9 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    It was our anniversary and I planned a sexy surprise for my husband. The moment he reached home he rang the door bell, I was inside but didn't opened the door. He tried to call me...
    priyankapatel131089 priyankapatel131089 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    My husband has a had a best femal friend since before we got married. After we got married, we had problems in the first year and he went to her about it! I soon found out and not...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    My husband put anything and everything before me. He would rather talk to anyone else but me. I repeatedly tell him how I feel and he doesn't make any changes. I feel like he just...
    Tcallen Tcallen 31-35 4 hrs ago

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    I know it didn't come on suddenly, but my realization that it was true did. It was the moment another lie came spilling out of his mouth as freely as water through a hole. It wasn...
    PoisonedApplePrincess PoisonedApplePrincess 26-30, F Nov 7

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 59 years old, married for 35 years to a man I found out I didn't know at all. I found out 3 years ago that he has been a meth addict for 7 years. We had been working on a...
    oldtowngranny oldtowngranny 56-60, F 6 days ago

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    In my case the experience should read " my husband IS having an emotional affair " With half a dozen women on line! And doesn't feel that it has and will keep having a negative...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    My Husband.My rock. I am 38 and I recently loss my husband of 17 years. I am 4 months pregnant with our 4th child. It has been 42 days since he left us. I am still not recovered...
    mrsmhaia mrsmhaia 36-40 2 Responses Oct 29

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    So that was me almost 2 years ago. Feeling the despair then was all I had. My life has turned around completely. Ladies we don't have to be beholden to the men that choose lies as...
    tearose1210 tearose1210 41-45, F Nov 4

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    I have been married two years, and I want a divorce. Not as much want as need. I hate my life with him. I'm scared for my son. I'm scared to leave because I can't afford to...
    kelly65876 kelly65876 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 24

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    My husband has been incarcerated for 7 months. He has to serve 2 yrs, but unfortunately he is still in the county jail due to overcrowding of the prisons. He is my best friend, my...
    Apieceofmyluv Apieceofmyluv 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    O.K Gentlemen, this is a girls talk! So pleeeease pardon us! O.k Ladies, I once casted a local spell to know my future husband ! I did exactly as I was instructed, and then I was...
    youaremygift youaremygift 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    11 years ago my partner needed my wages to help him secure the mortgage to buy his family home. I did not want to move there, didn't actually aspire to own my own home. But he...
    bigjugs4u2milk bigjugs4u2milk 46-50, F Nov 13

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    WOW I don't know where to begin I started searching binge drinking and so how came across this website and started reading the post, and found myself replying to them. I guess it...
    mecova mecova 41-45 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've been with my now husband since I was 17 in high school. We just married this year and I am 28. We've been married going on 8 months soon. I love him so, so much. I've told him...
    CGM14 CGM14 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    After 25 yrs my husband left this weekend and move in with his mistress. But if I go against doctor's orders and go back to work and he will leave her and come back to me. He makes...
    phoebesmom12041 phoebesmom12041 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    History always repeats itself for me. After the horrible Thanksgiving I had last year My husband has invited his dysfunctional alcoholic family again I've had enough bring yelled...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been with my husband for more than 5 years. His ex wife is the epitome of drama & so are his children. He & his ex divorced more than 12 years ago. The kids are all over the...
    fedupwithallofthem fedupwithallofthem 36-40, F Nov 11

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    Help please. I have come to this place where I have made an appointment with a lawyer. I'm just tired. I wanted so badly to keep our family together so that I could see my babies...
    Regrets1230 Regrets1230 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When my husband and I first met, it was unlike anything I've experienced. He was incredibly sweet, attentive, caring, funny and exciting. He swept me off my feet with his sense of...
    survas79 survas79 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    We have been married for 7 1/2 years. Well we are now separated, I told him three weeks ago and it has been hell for me since he left. I cheated on him over a year ago and he is so...
    regretsit regretsit 22-25, F Oct 28

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    She is divorced as am I. We started dating this August, and within a few short months we have developed feelings for each other. We have shared everything with each other, from our...
    Perversed Perversed 36-40, M Oct 30

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    I guess I don't really hate him, but just really dislike him. Funny how he has no problem running to the gas station for beer at least 4 days a week, but if the kids are out of...
    Luckymomof2boys Luckymomof2boys 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 2

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    We've been married for two weeks now and I couldn't be more in love with him. We fell in love quickly but it's been a long time coming. From the moment I met him I just knew he was...
    alexmarie214 alexmarie214 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4

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