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I Left My Husband

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    Miss The Spark

    I left me husband 8 month after we married. I was traveling when we met and I was single for the first time. I had just left a relationship and was finally happy. Then I met my husband at a party and he wouldn't leave me alone. I eventually fel for him and we moved in together...
    Lookingforhappiness2 Lookingforhappiness2 26-30 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Ending My Marriage

    My husband had a drinking problem for a few years. He's a very strong character. He could tie me up in knots in an argument so I end up backing down! He could say cruel things n say he didn't mean but they made a dent each time! He decided to quit drinking but to do so quit his...
    Vom1985 Vom1985 26-30 2 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Left My Husband

    I am so confused.  I left my husband three months ago.  We have a three year old daughter and have been married 4 yrs, yeah do the math... When I first met him I was young, single, and had no children.  He had a twelve year old daughter, who I clicked with almost immediately...
    deediaz720 deediaz720 31-35 4 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    It has been a couple of days

    since I left my husband. I don't regret the move and am quite happy in my new apartment. I'm hurt though because I gave my all and now that I'm gone he sees it. Figures! This does not change my decision and honestly I don't trust his words or his intentions. It hurts more that...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Had To Go ?

    I left my husband friday mornin. for the past 6 months he has not worked an has refused to get a job. im tired of working 12 hour days an him doing nothing. when i got n feom work he would freak out asking me who ied had slept with what i did all day. total jelousy. enough to...
    2012amys 2012amys 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Living Hell

    I left my husband 10 days ago and my life has been nothing short of living hell. What pleasure is he getting out of my suffering? He’s still living in our house. I’ve moved twice all ready. I have to beg and play his games just to get back into the house to get more of my...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2010

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    I Left My Husband Two Months Ago And I'M Starting To Feel Anxious About It

    My husband and I have been married for four years and together for fourteen years. Two years into our marriage his son came to live with us full time. Our marriage has been rocky for many reasons. Four months ago everything flipped upside down. I was snooping through his phone...
    Eviefox Eviefox 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Taking My Life Back

    I left my husband 2 days ago.  After 14 years of a marriage I had finally had enuff.  At first all was well but as the years went by and the children came it got worse for me.  He had to take a job that took him away from the family and that is when i realized...
    startingnew startingnew 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I Left My Sexless Marriage

    i feel on uncharted territory - married 19 years this year, years and years of problems...mutually, we don't want to be together anymore at this time. i am ok with that. but i am realizing i don't know entirely know who i am without my marital problems. i have so more time...
    Gazell Gazell 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    I Have A New Story And Hell Is A Walk In The Park

    it has been 4 1/2 month now since I lift my bastard of a husband. He has striped everything away from me, I have nothing. His kids, a girl 28 toke some of her things from the house but was to afraid to go back. His son 19 is at college now and will be moving in with me. I was at...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    Letting Go And Letting God

    Its not easy, Lord knows it isnt. But you can do it!!! And the freedom you feel is great. It beats feeling bad all the time. Just remember...IF YOU DNT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH SOM1 AND THEY HAVE NEVER MADE IT AN EFFORT TO TELL U,  THEN STOP STANDING AND START WALKING. TODAY I...
    Buttercup44 Buttercup44 36-40 3 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I Left On My Wedding Night

    I left him on our wedding night. I ran away and called my father to pick me up. That was 2 months ago, I live with my parents now. I never told anyone, not even my parents, why I left. My father thinks he hurt me in some way but he didn't. I left because I'm afraid to have sex...
    amberjean18 amberjean18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    Was It The Right Decision?

    I've been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 4 year old son. My husband works hard, doesn't cheat, do drugs. And he is not abbusive. But I left my husband a few days ago. I packed my stuff and came to stay with my parents. He just sat there and watched me and my son leave. He...
    Bburson33 Bburson33 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Choose Me Or Your Sister

    I left my husband recently, after 8 years together. I moved out totally and rented a room. But sometimes, I am confused still if I did wrong decision. Thanks God we dont have any children. The issue is since we have being living with his family (his bro and his sis). His parents...
    todaydaisy todaydaisy 31-35 Aug 11, 2012

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    After 3 years of marriages,

    I left my husband 2 months ago. He is a complete narcissist. He was pulling me further and further from my family. He had complete control of everything, even the finances. If I spoke my opinion about anything, I was complaining. He often told me that If I can't do what I...
    KelleyJCK KelleyJCK 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I Feel Better Now

    I left my husband two weeks ago today. I have felt much better and so have my kids. I got a job and start next week. I enjoy the house I'm living in. I feel so relieved.
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 4 Responses May 1, 2008

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    Now What?

    I just told my husband of 3 and a 1/2 years that I am no longer romantically attracted to him. I'm really unsure if I ever was. I mean, I do love him very much but it's is not romantic in any way. He's a terrific guy. He's taken such good care of me but I just feel like I would...
    LadyAshe LadyAshe 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    The Leaver

    My husband and I had been married 6 years in June. It had been more like roomates who shared a bed for a long time. Within the first 3 months of our marriage he had an emotional affair(girl#1). I fought like hell for him and our marriage and I "won" but not really. After that it...
    lovedusboththatmuch lovedusboththatmuch 31-35 Nov 13, 2012

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    I Gained 7 Years of Life By Divorcing My Husband!

    This marriage had been a difficult 2 years of my young life.  After divorcing, I respect myself more.  My freedom to choose, to do what I want, to take control of my life (from what I buy, to how I decorate my room, to where I travel, and who I...
    tangelo17 tangelo17 21-25, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    He was abusive, I'm alone in this Country.

    ..my soul is wounded, I feel lost.
    ClowdyDays ClowdyDays 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My husband I have been together since highschool and we knew we wanted to be together forever. After 3 years of marriage we decided we wanted to try new things on the bedroom and...
    nikkigabber22 nikkigabber22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    So I am pretty sure I am passive aggressive or something because I am afraid to say what it is I want so instead now I just sulk. I can’t stand my husband he has left me so many...
    andylynn39 andylynn39 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why is it that whenever my husband feels like having sex I have to give it to him, but when it comes to me he's always like "I'm tired" or "You can't force someone if they don't...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I don't even know were to begin..... We have been married for about 7 years and 3 of those we spent separated from each other before deciding to work it out. I soon found out I was...
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I have been with my husband for 5 years and we have been together a total of 13 years. I have been physically, emotionally, and verbally abused for the greater part of the...
    heartbroken3084 heartbroken3084 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I Told My Husband that I Hate My Husband and I feel conflicted about it. When I first wrote about my unhappy marriage five years ago, we'd been married about 10 years. We just...
    jemcakes jemcakes 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    My husband, literally, will tell me that I am the best wife in the world, he can't live without me, and that he is the luckiest man alive one day & two hours later start telling me...
    Trapped5879 Trapped5879 31-35 3 days ago

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    My son, his wife and two preschool children came to visit from out of state, arriving Christmas Eve. I only see them about 6 times a year so I was looking forward to the visit...
    Seriouslysickofhim Seriouslysickofhim 61-65, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    To Have and To Hold: The Boiled Frog"The story is often used as a metaphor for the inability or unwillingness of people to react to significant changes that occur...
    menrclueless menrclueless 46-50, F a week ago

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    My husband was recently hospitalized for severe anxiety. Due to his "condition" I can't talk to him about anything negative, I'm going through. That's why I'm here. I feel...
    mottkat mottkat 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I don't know if this is the right group to post in but I do miss my husband very much. This is the first time I am posting about this so this is a difficult and scary post for me...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I don't hate my husbands dog, he just annoys me so much. He's a lab and he is so needy. He follows me every where I go, is very jealous and always needs attention. My husband is...
    morgp14 morgp14 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    It's happening.. The thing that hurts me the most is how I'm starting to pull away from his affection. I'm not consciously trying to. When he tries to give me a hug or a kiss, I...
    LadyJunebug LadyJunebug 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Christmas is over. And he hasn't been home for the past 7 days. Last Friday he came home drunk, again. He tried to deny it and I told him I was tired of him making me second...
    KatieDarling7 KatieDarling7 41-45, F Jan 11

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    So for anyone who has never been hurt by your husband, you are lying to yourself and if you say you have never hurt them, you are also lying to yourself. No one is perfect and...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband is like a baby I may as well call him one of my children. We have three children, a 6, 5 and 3 year old. It's a miracle we are still together close to 9 years and I can...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I've been married for 5 years , but been with him since i was 16. we've been happy all these years ,i would let him go out with friends i trusted him he wouldn't do nothing dumb...
    armani88 armani88 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    When my husband cheated, it ended in a pregnancy. My husband is pro-life and she had strong feelings for him so wanted to keep the baby. Two years later and I still harbor deep...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F Jan 15

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    I love my husband. Hes super mad at me right now. He works weird hours so i only see him a few hours in the morning then about 30 at night. Everynight he stays with his grandma...
    princessjess32 princessjess32 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I was really sick the other day, in pain. Guess I have diverticulitis. I drove myself to the doctor, which was fine. That night it hurt really bad and I just wanted to take a...
    OnlyMySideOfTheStory OnlyMySideOfTheStory 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Can someone help me understand .... I need translation from husband into the language of wife ..... "Sweetheart, I'll put the kids to bed for you tonight while you clean the...
    sunshinegirl76 sunshinegirl76 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    My husband and I have been married 3 years. We have a 2 year old child. My husband puts me down all the time, even in front of our child. He does everything that he wants to and...
    Confused24x7 Confused24x7 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I have been married for almost 11 years. My father in law used to live with us when he was alive. He was a good man. My husband was not allowed to drink because of his issues with...
    hopelesswoman hopelesswoman 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I met my husband when I was 19. He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F 14 hrs ago