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I Left My Husband

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    I Left My Sexless Marriage

    i feel on uncharted territory - married 19 years this year, years and years of problems...mutually, we don't want to be together anymore at this time. i am ok with that. but i am realizing i don't know entirely know who i am without my marital problems. i have so more time...
    Gazell Gazell 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    Now What?

    I just told my husband of 3 and a 1/2 years that I am no longer romantically attracted to him. I'm really unsure if I ever was. I mean, I do love him very much but it's is not romantic in any way. He's a terrific guy. He's taken such good care of me but I just feel like I would...
    LadyAshe LadyAshe 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I Feel Better Now

    I left my husband two weeks ago today. I have felt much better and so have my kids. I got a job and start next week. I enjoy the house I'm living in. I feel so relieved.
    literalgal literalgal 31-35, F 4 Responses May 1, 2008

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    I Gained 7 Years of Life By Divorcing My Husband!

    This marriage had been a difficult 2 years of my young life.  After divorcing, I respect myself more.  My freedom to choose, to do what I want, to take control of my life (from what I buy, to how I decorate my room, to where I travel, and who I...
    tangelo17 tangelo17 21-25, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    Left My Husband

    I am so confused.  I left my husband three months ago.  We have a three year old daughter and have been married 4 yrs, yeah do the math... When I first met him I was young, single, and had no children.  He had a twelve year old daughter, who I clicked with almost immediately...
    deediaz720 deediaz720 31-35 4 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    Choose Me Or Your Sister

    I left my husband recently, after 8 years together. I moved out totally and rented a room. But sometimes, I am confused still if I did wrong decision. Thanks God we dont have any children. The issue is since we have being living with his family (his bro and his sis). His parents...
    todaydaisy todaydaisy 31-35 Aug 11, 2012

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    Taking My Life Back

    I left my husband 2 days ago.  After 14 years of a marriage I had finally had enuff.  At first all was well but as the years went by and the children came it got worse for me.  He had to take a job that took him away from the family and that is when i realized...
    startingnew startingnew 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    It has been a couple of days

    since I left my husband. I don't regret the move and am quite happy in my new apartment. I'm hurt though because I gave my all and now that I'm gone he sees it. Figures! This does not change my decision and honestly I don't trust his words or his intentions. It hurts more that...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F Sep 11

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    Miss The Spark

    I left me husband 8 month after we married. I was traveling when we met and I was single for the first time. I had just left a relationship and was finally happy. Then I met my husband at a party and he wouldn't leave me alone. I eventually fel for him and we moved in together...
    Lookingforhappiness2 Lookingforhappiness2 26-30 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    I Left My Husband Two Months Ago And I'M Starting To Feel Anxious About It

    My husband and I have been married for four years and together for fourteen years. Two years into our marriage his son came to live with us full time. Our marriage has been rocky for many reasons. Four months ago everything flipped upside down. I was snooping through his phone...
    Eviefox Eviefox 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Was It The Right Decision?

    I've been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 4 year old son. My husband works hard, doesn't cheat, do drugs. And he is not abbusive. But I left my husband a few days ago. I packed my stuff and came to stay with my parents. He just sat there and watched me and my son leave. He...
    Bburson33 Bburson33 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    I Left Him For Good This Time

    I left my husband 9 months ago for the third time after 25 years of marriage and this time its for good. My life has totally changed and I am so much happier. Betrayal, deception and lies can kill a love no matter how hard you try to hold things together. Life is too short, live...
    formieyesonly formieyesonly 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2013

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    The Leaver

    My husband and I had been married 6 years in June. It had been more like roomates who shared a bed for a long time. Within the first 3 months of our marriage he had an emotional affair(girl#1). I fought like hell for him and our marriage and I "won" but not really. After that it...
    lovedusboththatmuch lovedusboththatmuch 31-35 Nov 13, 2012

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    Living Hell

    I left my husband 10 days ago and my life has been nothing short of living hell. What pleasure is he getting out of my suffering? He’s still living in our house. I’ve moved twice all ready. I have to beg and play his games just to get back into the house to get more of my...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2010

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    I Left On My Wedding Night

    I left him on our wedding night. I ran away and called my father to pick me up. That was 2 months ago, I live with my parents now. I never told anyone, not even my parents, why I left. My father thinks he hurt me in some way but he didn't. I left because I'm afraid to have sex...
    amberjean18 amberjean18 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    Ending My Marriage

    My husband had a drinking problem for a few years. He's a very strong character. He could tie me up in knots in an argument so I end up backing down! He could say cruel things n say he didn't mean but they made a dent each time! He decided to quit drinking but to do so quit his...
    Vom1985 Vom1985 26-30 2 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    He was abusive, I'm alone in this Country.

    ..my soul is wounded, I feel lost.
    ClowdyDays ClowdyDays 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Had To Go ?

    I left my husband friday mornin. for the past 6 months he has not worked an has refused to get a job. im tired of working 12 hour days an him doing nothing. when i got n feom work he would freak out asking me who ied had slept with what i did all day. total jelousy. enough to...
    2012amys 2012amys 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Letting Go And Letting God

    Its not easy, Lord knows it isnt. But you can do it!!! And the freedom you feel is great. It beats feeling bad all the time. Just remember...IF YOU DNT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH SOM1 AND THEY HAVE NEVER MADE IT AN EFFORT TO TELL U,  THEN STOP STANDING AND START WALKING. TODAY I...
    Buttercup44 Buttercup44 36-40 3 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    After 3 years of marriages,

    I left my husband 2 months ago. He is a complete narcissist. He was pulling me further and further from my family. He had complete control of everything, even the finances. If I spoke my opinion about anything, I was complaining. He often told me that If I can't do what I...
    KelleyJCK KelleyJCK 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I Have A New Story And Hell Is A Walk In The Park

    it has been 4 1/2 month now since I lift my bastard of a husband. He has striped everything away from me, I have nothing. His kids, a girl 28 toke some of her things from the house but was to afraid to go back. His son 19 is at college now and will be moving in with me. I was at...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    I love being able to lay in bed with my husband and just joke around and watch t.v till we fall asleep....i'm so glad i found someone i can just talk with and be wrapped up in...
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    Keep your damn money and stay the Hell AWAY from my children!- He doesn't give a damn about my children and never did.My vindictive ex husband filed the Hague Treaty after his no...
    SexiestChocolate SexiestChocolate 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    Three weeks ago I walked into a room and saw my husband almost kiss a friend of the family. It broke my heart in a million pieces. We have been together for 20 years, married for...
    Nancy73 Nancy73 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Reasons I Left My Ex Husband Almost 14 Years Ago- 1. He talked to me like a dog. Actually I wouldn't even talk to my dog the way he talked to me. 2. He was jealous,possessive,and...
    SexiestChocolate SexiestChocolate 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I am 18 years old my husband is 39 some people think its crazy but I love him more than anything in this world. I was always raised that woman should be obedient to their parents...
    housewife4 housewife4 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    for those of you who left, curious to know of any who had grade school kids ( 9 - 13 or so ) I have 2 young kids. Also, were any of you stay at home moms? I do have certifications...
    catalinatowner catalinatowner 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I have been married for 15 years and inherited monies. My husband wanted his own business so I provided it. After he worked in it for 2 years he felt it was too much work and made...
    Marleerh99 Marleerh99 41-45, F Oct 2

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    I've been thinking of leaving my marriage for a couple of years.....I just turned 50 and our marriage has been a rocky yo-yo....my husband now works out of province and is gone...
    rootstudio rootstudio 46-50 1 Response Oct 3

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    What to do, WHAT to do? One's life cannot continue to unravel- at the speed mine does. I feel I have paid my toll for passing smoothly at this point. To be loved, really loved...
    sunbeam1 sunbeam1 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 26

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    So a little over 2weeks ago, my husband said he wanted "space". Our therapist ( really his), suggested I go to a hotel. On a Friday night in the middle of the night, he woke me up...
    mariondavies mariondavies 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    God ,i can't stand him!He is such a loser!Never has a dime to his name,steals money from the kids,(we have 2 kids,12 and 16).I'am remarried,for five years now,and i can't get my...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 29

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    I hate my husband sometimes specially when he leaves me for his friends. We got married in August and yes I do think I should of waited because I clearly see his mind isn't where...
    chanel0408 chanel0408 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I have been married two years, and I want a divorce. Not as much want as need. I hate my life with him. I'm scared for my son. I'm scared to leave because I can't afford to...
    kelly65876 kelly65876 22-25, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been engaged to my fiancé for almost 2 years now and all we want to be is together. 
First of all let me tell you a little about us. I am 25 and was born in Por-au-prince...
    blasiancouple blasiancouple 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband of 27 years has not been speaking to me for the past three days. He speaks to my daughter lovingly, and he speaks to my sons (2) casually. A couple of days ago, my...
    neglected08 neglected08 46-50 Oct 17

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    I have tired and tired with my husband's family. I can no longer stand them! I don't want them to be a part of my life. I have been married to my husband for almost five years and...
    tonysflame tonysflame 31-35 1 Response Oct 9

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    I lost my Hubby a month ago. He died from Liver cancer. Tho he was diagnosed April of 2012. The start of June this year symptoms started to show and from then on everything just...
    ladyequine74 ladyequine74 36-40 4 Responses Oct 5

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    I met my fiance in March 2009, I love him so much. He was arrested in april of this year. The sad thing is I wasnt there when they got him, I was 4 hours away at school. I got a...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Day 11 - I haven't looked at ****, I haven't had physical contact with any women, and I haven't ***********. I did book a non-sexual massage but cancelled, as my real reason for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am beyond frustrated!! I have tried being nice and all it does is kick me in the face. I allowed him to use my car, so he could go pawn some of his things in exchange for taking...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    once a woman claimed her husband bad treatment to a wise man he asked her if she hate him and wish to kill him she agreed he gave her something to hide in his food and tell her he...
    lonelywaheed lonelywaheed 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    My husbands mother and sister are so mean to me that I told my husband to his face that I just simply do nt like them there actions tword me are horrible anyway it's so bad that if...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Oct 14

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    I had an emotional affair two years ago, and my husband has yet to forgive me. He throws it in my face all the time; even on good days he has thrown it in my face. I really put...
    fatgirl17 fatgirl17 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    We been together for 4 years and I finally got pregnant after 2 years of trying. My husband is constantly cheating on me. I found out from this woman who he slept with that my...
    anne2387 anne2387 26-30, F 19 Responses Sep 26

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