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I Let Go of a Disfunctional Relationship

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    Love/Hate Relationships Are Wild

    I had the experience of a love/hate relationship once with someone I knew for a few years as a good friend.  To this day I'm not sure why the relationship went the way it did. But OMG it was so powerful. We loved each other so much we were always as if we were one.  The...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    Alcoholic Wife Beater

    So it took me almost 6 years To fully wake up and realize That no matter how badly I wanted it to work It wasn't meant to be He wasn't the guy for me My whole life I have been pretty much an "only child" (not literally but all my siblings are way older~ hence...
    delishious delishious 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2010

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    Nothing But Drama

    Let me start off by saying, thank GOD I was never married to this psycho. Anyway, I met him at the factory where I worked. He asked me out but I didn't give him an answer right away. Bout a month later, we finally did go out. He seemed to be the perfect guy. But it didn't last...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    The List

    I made the list sometime in high school. It had everything I could ever dream of in a man. When I met this guy, he was all I'd imagined and then some. Fast forward two years. I was on my knees, begging him to take me back - pleading and saying I was sorry. I even sort of...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 26 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Me and my boyfriend are so disfunctional😂
    gemmamastro gemmamastro 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Yes here are in the present..... I learned to stop loving him. We talked on the phone a few nights a week, we went out a couple of times, but as friends. I met someone else, my...
    timetoheal65 timetoheal65 41-45 Jul 2

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    Let me start with year 1 My husband and I were drifting apart after 10 years together. 4 years previously I caught him making plans on line to meet a girl he met on facebook for a...
    timetoheal65 timetoheal65 41-45 Jul 2

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    Year 2 started with him taking his wife away on a romantic vacation. He came back thinking all was good and ended it with me. Before the week was up I got the text "Can you meet me...
    timetoheal65 timetoheal65 41-45 Jul 2

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    Through most of year 3 it was her then me, bounce back to her then me..... He never ended it with me, just asked me to be patient and if I had to go, go.... But he never said he...
    timetoheal65 timetoheal65 41-45 Jul 2

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    Saw this on another page, and it really is worth reading if you are in a bad relationship and know it. July 10. Ending Relationships. It takes courage and honesty to end a...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F Jul 10

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    I usually don't think about topics like relationships, intimacy, etc etc. But a few weeks ago I came to the conclusion that a polygamic relationship could work out fine for both...
    OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    Falling in love with your best friend probably is one of the most wonderful (kilig) or inspiring things that can happen your love life.:) I've experienced it, I realized that I...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    Soo I'm having relationship problem with my girlfriend and I need advice from someone. So my girlfriend and I just had a crazy argument about weed last night.my girlfriend likes...
    djchicle djchicle 22-25, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My wife/sub and I are seeking a woman that might be interested in a poly relationship with us. Hoping to find a woman in her early 20s like my wife. If we find the right person...
    daddy4slut daddy4slut 41-45, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I love my husband but we are having problems right now. I'm working full time and going to school. He's having some time off to try to figure out what he wants to do with his life...
    britannagis britannagis 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    It took me some time. But I declare that in the name of Jesus I am letting go of my past relationship. I am so grateful to be able to reach this point in life. I don't want to see...
    NoContactRule NoContactRule 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm the oldest child in my family, 32 years old now. As long as I can remember I have always felt abnormal, and could never understand how my friends were able to be sole...
    ladybutterfly82 ladybutterfly82 31-35, F Jun 29

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    Hey everyone one! Let's here your best breakup lines!! I'll start!! Here's one for you guys/gals: "It's been real and it's been good, but it hasn't been real good!! Haha ouch!! My...
    BlondeBrightEyes BlondeBrightEyes 26-30, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Me and my boyfriend almost broke up last week and saw each other for the first time last night. He cuddled me and kissed me all night in his sleep (to the point he kept waking me...
    slmh slmh 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and he left July 2nd for basic and I am honestly having a really hard time dealing with this. I write him everyday an I...
    Lizlovesyou123 Lizlovesyou123 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    The longest relationship I've ever had is almost two years. I just called it off and I feel terrible... All that time spent with someone, all the planning and talking about...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I have written some about my experience with my now ex wife and BPD. We are now officially divorced as of 6/26 A few days before our wedding anniversary. She said it was because I...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Long distance relationships can work, but only if the two companions are honest, loyal, communicating ( not meaning up each other's ***** ), and trusting. A long distance...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am completely devastated and heartbroken. I have a partner, we have been in a relationship for 5 years now and last March, she proposed to me in our holiday trip. It was going...
    Oblivion111 Oblivion111 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I used to let everybody into my life, but now I'm very selective and don't want to let anybody in who I don't think is good enough. If people want to be in my life, they have to...
    annoyedagnostic annoyedagnostic 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    This is not a love letter. I couldn't find a experience close to what I mean so this will do. I write letters to my future self or for my children and family I will have. It sounds...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    How do you gain/build trust back in a relationship? (Being the woman) Please, anything is helpful at this point.
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    If You Have Been Or Are In A Long Distance Relationship Please Tell Me About Your Experience And How To Make It Work Or Why It Didn't Work.
    Hajile2238 Hajile2238 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I had a dream that I was in elementary school but I was older. I was sitting behind a guy that is implied to be my bf. We were talking and playing around and having fun. He stops...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    He used to control me. If I would talk to a guy friend then suddenly I was cheating on him. He would accuse me of faking my asthma, that was the one time I stood up for myself. A...
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have been with my current boyfriend for close to six years. He is really the only guy I have ever been with in any serious way and during our freshman year in college, he broke...
    gobrooke gobrooke 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Please excuse my language i am not so good at writing...I havent seen my sister for about 3 years now and i dont know how to reach her or hear about her i dont know if she is fine...
    hearts121 hearts121 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Its so nice to hear from you. I enjoyed the little time we had. Hopefully we could estabilsh a longer relationship some day. Try not to be too hard on your dad. Men dont think the...
    JustMe2B JustMe2B 36-40, F Jun 28

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    I met (let's call him T) T two years ago. In April of this year, I had the opportunity to go visit him in Japan and really hit it off with him. We ended up liking each other and...
    dreamsheep dreamsheep 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am sure lots of people can relate to this but I grew up in an emotionally abusive environment. My parents fought every single bloody day, screaming at each other, screaming at me...
    thiswatermelonlovesme thiswatermelonlovesme 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    And here I was thinking the guy was a sociopath. No, he's just a narcissist. Like that's supposed to be comforting or something.. Well, here's the story. When we first met, he fell...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am married and we have a one year old. We have always have certain issues between us - an up and down relationship where everything is 'perfect' one minute then suddenly from...
    Bosnell02 Bosnell02 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. People said our relationship was not healthy. He lied to me a lot, he did something's that you shouldn't when you're in a...
    lykers lykers 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    For a very long time, I've been searching for a place to tell my story. This seems like my best bet so far, so here goes. When I was 14, I was in my first real relationship. It...
    junelily junelily 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I feel like a terrible person rightnow... and I don't know what to do anymore... I'm already in a long distance for 8 months.. He lives 8 hours away by train.. We barely manage to...
    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    After 7 years of being in a relationship and living together for the past year, my boyfriend and I ended our relationship and cut all contact. About a month ago there was an...
    beachbum18 beachbum18 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    5 months ago I started talking to this guy I knew from Facebook, we talked about the most stupid things but I was also there if he needed me and he was there for me too. We got...
    123anotherme 123anotherme 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    well, since the last post, i met a really great guy, and sadly, i had to let him go. mr. red-head (my nickname for him) moved to California, and we agreed to maintain a friendship...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 4 days ago