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I Let Go of a Disfunctional Relationship

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    Love/Hate Relationships Are Wild

    I had the experience of a love/hate relationship once with someone I knew for a few years as a good friend.  To this day I'm not sure why the relationship went the way it did. But OMG it was so powerful. We loved each other so much we were always as if we were one.  The...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    The List

    I made the list sometime in high school. It had everything I could ever dream of in a man. When I met this guy, he was all I'd imagined and then some. Fast forward two years. I was on my knees, begging him to take me back - pleading and saying I was sorry. I even sort of...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 26 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Alcoholic Wife Beater

    So it took me almost 6 years To fully wake up and realize That no matter how badly I wanted it to work It wasn't meant to be He wasn't the guy for me My whole life I have been pretty much an "only child" (not literally but all my siblings are way older~ hence...
    delishious delishious 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2010

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    Nothing But Drama

    Let me start off by saying, thank GOD I was never married to this psycho. Anyway, I met him at the factory where I worked. He asked me out but I didn't give him an answer right away. Bout a month later, we finally did go out. He seemed to be the perfect guy. But it didn't last...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    When I had started my first year of college I went in with a 10 month relationship but it had quickly ended when I found out news that he had given me an Std after visiting the...
    M0nica15 M0nica15 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Dear Friends, View my blog for complete reformation on your relationship. We dot give people Plan B in their relationship because our foundation "JESUS" is Matchless. Quite...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M 17 hrs ago

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    Dear Friends, Reformation of your relationship. We don't give people Plan B in their relationship because our foundation "JESUS" is Matchless. Quite simply I know that i have...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M 12 hrs ago

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    Hi guys, I posted at the beginning of September about a long-distance relationship I'm currently in. Long story short; he lives in Korea and I live in Canada. We were together in...
    cheersbabe cheersbabe 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Not exactly confused but rather worried about him. I am proud to let the world know my boyfriend is a United States Marine but sometimes it feels like he doesn't let people know I...
    luisaacosta luisaacosta 18-21, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I had no choice, really. It was either let her continue the I'm pushing you away then pulling you back when its convenient thing or walk away and prove that I love MYSELF. It...
    PesteredByPenguins PesteredByPenguins 36-40, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Because i was in one myself for several years. He abused me as my bf, and i believed him when he said he would change and control his temper. I believed him so completely that i...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 21 hrs ago

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    Maybe it's my fault that we have problems. Since the beginning of our relationship I wasn't sure if I wanted to be with him. I was always trying to break up with him and I cheated...
    weeniegirl weeniegirl 22-25, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I are very comfortable with each other. He watches ****, I watch ****... We are both totally okay with this... Sometimes we watch **** together... Lesbian ****. I...
    SecretlyBiRightNow SecretlyBiRightNow 16-17, F 13 hrs ago

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    I have never been in a relationship and I really just want a girlfriend
    225pro 225pro 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I am in a long distance relationship and I haven't seen my man in 3 years. My family dislikes him greatly and I am nervous. Hope things go well when he gets here.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    Im writing this in hopes it helps clear my mind. Hopefully someone would be able to help me understand why life and love works the way it does... Years ago i met a man who truly...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Okay here's my story, i met a guy online, we became best friends on internet. I know his full background, he know my full background too. I even met his father, brother and grandpa...
    AnnieChua AnnieChua 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Keep in mind that I was always one of those girls that never understood why women stay in abusive relationships. I was a broken child. Acted out, drugs, sex basically whatever I...
    mmememe mmememe 22-25, F Aug 26

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    My whole life, I had been taught by my family, and peers that long distance relationships were impractical, and could never possibly work out. Sadly enough, I believed them...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    but its going down hill and i dont know if i care anymore. I like long term relationships. This is my second one. And its been about the same time for both.. but i've never really...
    fallenfar fallenfar 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Or I still am in one. I'm not sure. At the moment he's not here and he says he's not coming back but he always comes back. I don't want him to come back. I am frightened of him...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    I posted this before in another group but I'm trying to get as much help as possible , and people here will understand sorry , if it's long though : I am in a long distance...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F Aug 26

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    I'm right now in a very complicated relationship... I have to go back to my home place for two months to work and do online schooling ... So I can come back out here. But in order...
    YoungLovee15 YoungLovee15 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I'm tired of people on here complaining that their partner won't have sex with them. Sex doesn't just happen because one person gets turned on. You can't treat someone like a...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Today was my (step) cousin's christening and I didn't go. And that's because my mom and step dad are separated and my step sisters hate me and my mom (I wrote about that in some...
    holdontilmay holdontilmay 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Actually, this wasn't just an abusive relationship, he even raped me. I'm scared to say that but he wasn't charged because of multiple things. 1. They said he didn't rape me...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Hi all, I'm new to this and just come to talk to people who are in the same or similar situation that I am. I'm dating my man who is 14 years older than me, he's 36 I'm 22. Most of...
    clomo20 clomo20 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I left him and i cried my heart out. He messaged me past midnight for 3 days to ask if we could go have dinner as "friends" just before i left Europe because he would feel bad...
    Cookielover5752 Cookielover5752 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am in a very loving DD/bg relationship and have never felt more loved. I trust my Daddy entirely and cannot imagine life without him. He always looks out for me and protects me...
    klp77 klp77 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Dad, I want things to be better. I don't want any more interruptions of my processes. I don't want any more commands. I don't want you to yell at me. I don't want you to be...
    LEMONrelishthemusic LEMONrelishthemusic 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    You ask yourself why he seems sad, after the affair, and think it's because he misses being with you. That he doesn't feel love and attention from her like you gave him. Or that...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 Aug 24

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    I think that since I have been in this emotionally abusive relationship, for a couple of years, I have gotten used to the illogical statements from my husband. Tonight I am being...
    lisaandshasta123 lisaandshasta123 41-45 Aug 19

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    My sister is in a interracial relationship She's Caucasian and her boyfriend on the other hand is a different story baha. Let's just say Mexicans are hilarious! Haha My sister was...
    Kaymgraves1994 Kaymgraves1994 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I dont have time for real dates. Its causing imconvinience especially if at the end of the date i dont like the guy. In the meanwhile, online lets u meet different kinds of people...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Been together 4 1/2 years he broke up with me and kicked me out of his house out of a small argument I moved out got my own place didn't speak for a month . Started talking again...
    stephygee1991 stephygee1991 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    F.uck you--- you don't work okay? Better go f.ck yourself than f.ucking with our lives.hate you just ruined me huh? F.uck you "long distance relationship can work" you are a f...
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm in this sexless relationship with this guy that says he loves me but I feel something fishy is going on with him. He is always on his phone pushes me away a lot. I supported...
    davamp13 davamp13 41-45, F Aug 28

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    I'm in this sexless relationship with this guy that says he loves me but I feel something fishy is going on with him. He is always on his phone pushes me away a lot. I supported...
    davamp13 davamp13 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Well, I suppose my narcissist got out of the relationship with me. Exactly 2 weeks ago, everything was rosy again. I say "again" because it was the typical pattern of his daily...
    Avicularia Avicularia 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I think I'm starting to like my best friend again. I'm black and he's white and we had a really deep conversation on Friday night but it mostly started the next day from 3am to 5am...
    jessm2194 jessm2194 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    So this all started in 5th, I felt as if it was destiny that brought us together. He first moved to this elementary school n then I also moved to the elementary in like the quarter...
    intellinerdgirl intellinerdgirl 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It hurts to admit but I have to say it out loud, I am letting go and moving on. After four years together, I need to let him go and the idea of us go. He is the love of my life and...
    shasha73 shasha73 41-45 5 days ago

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    It has affected my relationships so much and not just my love type of relationships but friendships as well...I just can't seem to open up am bubbly,life of the party but I can't...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I read this in the elite daily's post. Somehow I really believe that long distance relationship is a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone. As in long...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Be strong. Get though hardships even if it's horrible. Once you hit rock bottom the only way is up. I have love for all of you and I'm sorry for your situations. Xoxoxoxo Don't end...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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