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I Let Go of a Disfunctional Relationship

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    I made the list sometime in high school. It had everything I could ever dream of in a man. When I met this guy, he was all I'd imagined and then some. Fast forward two years. I was on my knees, begging him to take me back - pleading and saying I was sorry. I even sort of...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 26 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Love/Hate Relationships Are Wild

    I had the experience of a love/hate relationship once with someone I knew for a few years as a good friend.  To this day I'm not sure why the relationship went the way it did. But OMG it was so powerful. We loved each other so much we were always as if we were one.  The...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    Alcoholic Wife Beater

    So it took me almost 6 years To fully wake up and realize That no matter how badly I wanted it to work It wasn't meant to be He wasn't the guy for me My whole life I have been pretty much an "only child" (not literally but all my siblings are way older~ hence...
    delishious delishious 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2010

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    Nothing But Drama

    Let me start off by saying, thank GOD I was never married to this psycho. Anyway, I met him at the factory where I worked. He asked me out but I didn't give him an answer right away. Bout a month later, we finally did go out. He seemed to be the perfect guy. But it didn't last...
    FactoPlast98 FactoPlast98 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
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    I'm narrating a story which happened 9 months ago.I've just entered junior college but my high school memories are still fresh.I had been on the last school trip.High school was a...
    cubes1998 cubes1998 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    my parents got a divorce when i was 7 and every since then i have been broken, torn, i just havent been the same and it hurts to see your family split up, i have 5 brothers and...
    brianna7589 brianna7589 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I recently met a guy online. We have been talking. He states he wants a dom/sub relationship. This scares me some bc I've never done that. I have a very submissive personality and...
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hi. This post is more to do with me just writing down my feelings about a recent break-up with a BPD ex girlfriend, as I'm having a really bad day today. We had been dating (and...
    GoodThingsToCome GoodThingsToCome 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    I need advice big time. So we only first met a few weeks ago and he's amazing. I feel comfortable around him but tomorrow I'm going round his for the whole day. We're going to make...
    Unkn0wnym0us Unkn0wnym0us 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I always was bothered when people asked me about my mother when I was growing up. I also always was uncomfortable when people said things like, "She's your mother. You love her...
    Micaysopinion Micaysopinion 18-21, F Sep 22

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    My boyfriend and I having a long distance relationship from the day we met, it's now almost 10 months, but I can only say we start our real couple relationship since last month as...
    Maggiehere Maggiehere 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been out of my abusive relationship for many years about 7 years now and it is still something that haunts me. I don’t really have an outlet to talk about it and try and...
    Ruger1212 Ruger1212 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    shihan333 shihan333 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    My whole life, I had been taught by my family, and peers that long distance relationships were impractical, and could never possibly work out. Sadly enough, I believed them...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    People think I'm a heartless ***** for this, but I would say that I'm more selfish than heartless, which is not necessarily a bad thing. I think under certain circumstances its...
    ADargis ADargis 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 20

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    I'm in a long distance relationship...AGAIN! In may I broke up with my boyfriend of over two years, mainly because it wasn't working out for us. Well for me at least. But also...
    Pennyhearts Pennyhearts 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'd like to start off by saying I met my boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Or I still am in one. I'm not sure. At the moment he's not here and he says he's not coming back but he always comes back. I don't want him to come back. I am frightened of him...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Dear Friends, View my blog for complete reformation on your relationship. We dot give people Plan B in their relationship because our foundation "JESUS" is Matchless. Quite...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M Sep 18

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    Dear Friends, Reformation of your relationship. We don't give people Plan B in their relationship because our foundation "JESUS" is Matchless. Quite simply I know that i have...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M Sep 18

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    I'm tired of people on here complaining that their partner won't have sex with them. Sex doesn't just happen because one person gets turned on. You can't treat someone like a...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12

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    Haven't posted an experience in a very long time, but looking for a little feedback, but too many details for the question section, I think haha, so here goes.... I have been...
    shygirl14 shygirl14 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I believe LDR can work as long as you have a plan. If you don't have a plan to get together, or to see each other, it most likely won't end up ok. You have to live in reality. Do...
    Acprat Acprat 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I wish this is the kind of happy experience that says "i am happy with my boyfriend." Which truly, i am happy. We only have been together for over 3 weeks now, and its going on...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've never been keen on relationships. Growing up in a house full of women being raised by a single mom just about did me. As I got older I couldn't see myself giving some one my...
    ConfusedTeenGirl ConfusedTeenGirl 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I left him and i cried my heart out. He messaged me past midnight for 3 days to ask if we could go have dinner as "friends" just before i left Europe because he would feel bad...
    Cookielover5752 Cookielover5752 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I am in a very loving DD/bg relationship and have never felt more loved. I trust my Daddy entirely and cannot imagine life without him. He always looks out for me and protects me...
    klp77 klp77 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Dad, I want things to be better. I don't want any more interruptions of my processes. I don't want any more commands. I don't want you to yell at me. I don't want you to be...
    LEMONrelishthemusic LEMONrelishthemusic 18-21, F Sep 16

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    Hi guys, I posted at the beginning of September about a long-distance relationship I'm currently in. Long story short; he lives in Korea and I live in Canada. We were together in...
    cheersbabe cheersbabe 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    I met a beautiful, smart girl online 3 years ago. She told me she loved me, and we had a long distance relationship for 8 months. Many changes were happening, especially me getting...
    sjyul sjyul 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 and a half years now. 59 days (not counting or anything) left til I leave and move in with him. I get asked so much how to make it...
    ShiveringGaze27 ShiveringGaze27 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 23

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    Most of the time I am proud of my relationship and family. But sometimes I am incredibly sad. I am the young one of 27 while my husband-to-be is 48. We've been together for 5 years...
    BlueJasmine2244 BlueJasmine2244 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My past is one involving betrayals, cheating and abusive girlfriends, bullying, and being alone. I decided when I was younger that letting people get close only hurt me, so I...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well, I suppose my narcissist got out of the relationship with me. Exactly 2 weeks ago, everything was rosy again. I say "again" because it was the typical pattern of his daily...
    Avicularia Avicularia 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I think I'm starting to like my best friend again. I'm black and he's white and we had a really deep conversation on Friday night but it mostly started the next day from 3am to 5am...
    jessm2194 jessm2194 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    So this all started in 5th, I felt as if it was destiny that brought us together. He first moved to this elementary school n then I also moved to the elementary in like the quarter...
    intellinerdgirl intellinerdgirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    It hurts to admit but I have to say it out loud, I am letting go and moving on. After four years together, I need to let him go and the idea of us go. He is the love of my life and...
    shasha73 shasha73 41-45 Sep 13

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    It has affected my relationships so much and not just my love type of relationships but friendships as well...I just can't seem to open up am bubbly,life of the party but I can't...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I have been told a few times, my straight forward honesty can be brutal. sigh... I agree, but I have a problem with holding things inside, not talking about things "at all." I am...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response Sep 21

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