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I Let People Walk All Over Me

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    Learn - All my life I have let people walk all over me, but I am learning as I get older. I just hope I really do remember to learn from all of my mistakes which led people to walk...
    Arual Arual 22-25, F Oct 29, 2007

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    Go With The Flow... - I let people walk all over me because I'd prefer to just go with the flow. I usually believe it would be much easier this way, but sometimes it just doesn't...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    The Doormat Friend. - I have always let people walk all over me. I always do whatever someone asks, even if they never do what I ask. Even if they intentionally hurt me, I'll...
    invisblegirl invisblegirl 13-15 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    Understanding - Well it seems as I have been pondering this for the last few hours I have been growing increasingly concerned because I feel as though I have to fix this problem...
    leaper66 leaper66 16-17 Jul 27, 2008

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    I'm too nice of a person. Even to the people I hate. I just...can't help it.
    LadyFranco LadyFranco 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    My "friends" - Okay, let me set the scene. I was in 6th grade, went to a school in a bad part of town. My so-called-friends decided it was a good idea to tell someone I liked them...
    saxgurl212 saxgurl212 13-15, F Nov 1, 2012

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    Walk All Over - I did make people step and walk all over me.  I say; you take it in once, twice, three times, one hundred million times, then its time to wake up.  Why do I let...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    Doormat - It is ofcourse my own fault. I let people take advantage of my kindness. Even after it happens, and its usually done discreetly, I play the fool and pretend it never...
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 29, 2007

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    Walk All Over Me - A few days ago, my husband & I were actually having this conversation, why do I let people step all over me?  He said I need to stop this behaviour and...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    Invisible... - i am so invisible to the world. it seems like if i wasnt born, no one would ever notice. nor if i died. i make NO difference whatsoever in this world, whats my point...
    averageordinarygirl averageordinarygirl 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2008

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    I Let People Walk All Over Me - I'm 26 years old, but ever since I was a kid, I have always let people walk all over me..all throughout school, relationships, and even work. I'm...
    sj8614 sj8614 26-30, M Jun 13, 2013

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    People Walk All Over Me - I always do whatever my friends want because I am scared they won't want to be my friends otherwise. A lot of the time I end up doing things I really don...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2007

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    I Need to Learn to Stand Up For Myself - I know Im old enough to be able to just stand up for myself, but for some reason I cant. I work third shift at a local supermarket with a...
    matt82583 matt82583 22-25 Feb 19, 2009

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    People Take Advantage - All my life people only came to me for avice or to take advantage of me . My mom only calls to ask of a favor or becouse something is wrong n she wants to...
    Bratzpixy Bratzpixy 31-35, F 1 Response May 18, 2012

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    Don't Know How to Stop - Seems my whole life people have taken advantage of me. But I don't know how to stop. Son lives with me, he has no job, he has a son, I pay for everything...
    capricorn10550 capricorn10550 46-50 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    Easier Than Standing Up For Myself - i think that letting people get what they want from me is easier than sticking up for myself, cos most of the time if i try sticking up for...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    Depends - i also fightish backish, and depends who .. like bosses and blah .. im not in the position to face them back down .. yet ..
    wezamuntkee wezamuntkee 36-40, M Sep 1, 2007

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    I used to be a rather trusting person but as of recently I've discovered that some people really aren't your true friends no matter what they say. I would say that currently I only...
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    I have such a hard time letting my walls down. Also the fact that i was in a seven yr relationship that just recently ended doesn't help. But I just can't trust people at all. I...
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    Ever since my dad died I have never had the same emotions again. It's like I have no heart now.. I don't feel love like I used to. Or let people in too much. As if I push them away...
    JDHarrison93 JDHarrison93 18-21, M Mar 17

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    All the time, I am wishing that I could start my life all over. I would have done so many things differently. I would have stopped so much crap. I would have spoke up sooner. I...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I love it when my boyfriend comes up to me and holds me close right up next to him. He will kiss my neck on the side lightly as his hands will slowly wander up the back of my shirt...
    4hispleasure 4hispleasure 18-21, M Apr 2

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    I am falling in love all over again. I've been with her for over 5 straight years and I have always loved her. Now our love has hit another level. So yes I am falling in love again...
    Bwlane Bwlane 36-40 Apr 9

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    “If only there could be an invention that bottled up a memory, like scent. And it never faded, and it never got stale. And then, when one wanted it, the bottle could be uncorked...
    wendu44 wendu44 18-21, F Mar 17

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    Sometimes I look at the amount of people in this group and wonder if they are all really being sincere when they join this group. Have they all been hurt? Have they maybe hurt...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I always try to be open and honest, be the person I would like to be seen as. It can be difficult sometimes and I have opened myself up to a lot of untrustworthy, nasty people over...
    Bellastasia Bellastasia 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I've let so many people down in just one day. I let down my mum, my friend that needed me for her beauty exam, I've let down my head of year, I've let down my teachers, I've let...
    venetiaroses venetiaroses 13-15, F Apr 2

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    There are only two people in my life that know me very well - and even they don't know *everything* about me. I guess it's safe to say I do not trust very easily, but I do find...
    HappyandSad20 HappyandSad20 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I jiggle even when I move a little bit sometimes it's fun to look at my belly jiggle when I walk
    justagirl07 justagirl07 13-15, F Mar 21

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    Its like this. when you stick your hand out and get bitten. you learn very quickly not to stick your hand out anymore. I've been "bitten" so many times by people who are supposed...
    sweetpea6200 sweetpea6200 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 21

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    As much I desire having close relationships with people I have come to the realization that I am a self saboteur. I don't know why I do what I do. I have friends but I don't let...
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Among the millions of people around, you and I came to be connected. Already selected? It took daring steps, one by one, allowing us to reach out, and speak from the heart...
    jenga1 jenga1 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I know that this is one of the biggest things that diminishes my quality of life and I am working on it. Yet, I have not been very successful in changing. Although, I am friendly...
    whatnow73 whatnow73 36-40, M Mar 25

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    I feel like people will judge me harshly. That they might think that I am boring. I am also afraid of them leaving me and not being my friend anymore. That really makes me sad.
    butterflyhearts17 butterflyhearts17 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I've been hurt one too many times by people who claimed they wouldn't hurt me. I don't trust very easily and have yet to find someone with genuine intentions I can depend on.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm afraid of being the person who betrays people when I gain their trust. But I'm also afraid of being betrayed. The result is that I know more of my friend's secrets. They know...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    So my first love was a girl. She's the only person I've ever love. It's been three years and well we stopped talking and started talking again I feel like im falling in love with...
    Loovee1C Loovee1C 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I is hard to trust humanity. are there any good people left?
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 8

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    "Maybe you're depressed and having all these problems in your life because you strayed from God," my sister told me. What bullshit. Even when I was religious, I was depressed...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am not married and have no children except for 4 cats and one little dog that I love more than anything. However, reaching 50 is around the corner in a few years and I want to...
    tac3004 tac3004 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I met an amazing girl at school. On the first day we exchanged eye contacts and from that day forward I knew she was the one for me. However I did not know how to approach her and...
    KAVLIX KAVLIX 16-17, M Apr 8

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    so yall already know that I am married to the man who is my everything the first man I ever kissed.. but what yall don't know is before him there were ladies I miss the ladies...
    lyanna84 lyanna84 26-30, F Mar 24

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    Sometimes I wish I can restart , my life to correct all the mistakes I have made in life , but I have been through good thing/ and bad things because of my mistakes , but I will...
    RubieeCeee RubieeCeee 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    when everyone looks to you who do you look at ? I look at God.... but yet I feel like he is getting me ready for a new test.... that I can only hope to pass
    englishbbv englishbbv 22-25, F a week ago

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    i will do anything for my friends and because of that I expect to much from them when i need it. When the time come, they do nothing. I dont want feel this way
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This post is for ep member 3 and those I may have hurt unwillingly.If YOU DON'T FORGET AND FORGIVE ,IT WILL BECOME A BIGGER PROBLEM FOR YOU.Good to forgive ;Best ,to forget...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I can't so what this group says and I wish I know how to
    lusicqued lusicqued 18-21 3 days ago

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    some peolpe just want you when they need it. I have benn there before but because of my personality I can't never do that to a person. I put someone else feelings before me.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The moon must have felt my pain that night it turned blood red. After months of staring at the moon, wondering you're looking too, maybe it was my sign ti stop bleeding for someone...
    InsaneNefelibata InsaneNefelibata 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    literally you can't hug me, i would probably end the hug because of that.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It makes me sad to see how people live their lives being walked all over. How they force themselves over and over to try again to make something work. Even though in the back of...
    comfortdistortion comfortdistortion 18-21, F Apr 9