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I Let Someone In

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    And Then They Walked Out

    It hurt, still hurts and it makes me a little worried about doing it again. I know that not every man will treat me like he did, but I also know that I can't deal with that level of pain again. I can handle being dumped, I just can't handle the way he did it, and...
    ShrubberySoup ShrubberySoup 26-30, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    And It Still Scares Me!

    I've been with my boyfriend for a long while now, and i still really panic that we're too close! He understands me more than anyone in this world, and i'm quite a hard faced person, and i generally cut emotions out of situations so I can deal with the **** in my life. But he...
    kidston23 kidston23 18-21 May 18, 2011

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    I Did

        i let angelwriter in . and i am so glad that i did .
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 6, 2009

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    And I Wish You Would, Too

    I let you in because I trust you. I got to know you, and I chose to trust you and to let you into my life, and into my mind. I chose to let you see the things I can't show anyone else. The things that have gotten me hurt when I showed them to someone else before. It took me some...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Mar 3, 2012

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    And They Hurt Me.............

    I still don't understand why. As far as I know or can recall, I never ever used anything they told me against them. I wouldn't even think of it to be honest. I use to think that I deserved whatever bad I got, but that doesn't fly with me now. I know deep inside that I NEVER...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 3, 2009

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    He Walked Away With My Heart...

    For almost 5 years I had a wall around me not allowing anyone to get close to me. I was protecting myself from disappointment, heartache and pain. I had been through 2 very abusive relationships...1 with my ex husband and the other with my daughters father. I thought I needed...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    A Favour

    ... and you can stay for as long as you like to. But I have this huuuuuge favour to ask... Stay liking forever. =)  
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    Every time I let someone get close to me which rarely happens they always end up disappointing me. Now I'm done letting people get close to me. I'm going to push everyone out now...
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    I'm tired of spending a night or a day with someone special. I cherish the time I get, but, to wake to someone every morning is what I miss.
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    I know I've held so many memories with emotions, and people that are dear to me in my heart. I loved someone dearly and in return I have fet loved before. It's really hard to let...
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    People that let you down...I have had so many people that let me down - i hate that disappointed feeling you get when you find yourself being let down by someone because you let...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    YOU DESERVE TO HAVE SOMEONE Who Will Marry you and Love You forever. Who Will Worry and Care about You. Someone to Make Love With You and Pamper You. Someone to Put You at the...
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    !WARNING RANT AHEAD! Okay boys and girls listen up and let Aunt Kate give you a lesson on being a decent human being! 1.) if you don't want to talk to someone, don't give them...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    For all those people that need someone to talk to. Im here for you. But if you dont wanna talk cuz your scared, theres this website called blahtherapy.com . Its anonymous and there...
    LifeIsShit18 LifeIsShit18 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I want a BEST friend someone I can talk to daily and tell everything to. I just idk I want that connection I've never had.
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 15 hrs ago

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    I need to "connect" with some on a emotional level sorta? I don't know but I just want to talk to someone I guess. Any takers?
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    Im very bored here someone want talk
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    When you ask someone are they pretty and they go she was allright what does that mean
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    Over the years I've lost nearly all of my friends. I feel very lonely and depressed right now with relationship troubles and I am desperate for someone to talk to. I just feel so...
    thesingledad thesingledad 31-35, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I really want someone to talk to. I have bin really bored on here lately.
    sneer95 sneer95 18-21, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm the type of person that will probably never ever believe that someone would actually like me so I'll just completely avoid people.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 9 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    well i once made fake profiles... and i hurt someone i love with them i didnt mean to he just got involved... but i didnt make it to hurt him you know... he has hated me for it...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I really wish I had someone to talk to. Anyone want to talk?
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    WHAT THE **** ELSE ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO SAY??? Have any of you get had a conversation in real life? You say "hi" or "hey" right? Why do you get mad when someone does it online...
    Heartsu Heartsu 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    There were someone I cared about and still care I hurt. I didn't mean it, I am not looking for excuses, there are none. I made a huge mistake, I cried a lot because of what I have...
    Classjenny Classjenny 41-45, F 24 mins ago

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    Sometimes I wish the person I have designed in my head would just walk into my life one day and turn my life around. The person I've designed in my head isn't perfect at all, but...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I was with a guy for nearly 2 years and he broke up with me. Found out he cheated on me the whole time we were together. And he left me for one of the girls he cheated on me with...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm trying hard to let go of a man I'm obsessed with. I wanted him after we first met, we had a short so-called relationship which wasn't satisfying because he never opened his...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Love never chanqes... it just rearranges..<3 The Worst Thing In Life Is To See Someone You Love, Love Someone Else How can you mean nothing to someone who means everything to...
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    Why?? I don't get it, I've been in and out of relationships since being young and leaving someone has never really effected me. I have the ability to be able to shut anyone out of...
    fatty44 fatty44 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Tonight as I write this, I'm thinking of someone far away that I know I have no right to miss or think of. Sometimes late at night he creeps into my thoughts, and even though it's...
    Themassagegal Themassagegal 31-35, F Aug 2

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    Seriously thinking about ending it all. I'm in a really bad situation. Let me start off by saying that I have only two real friends, and have lost nearly my entire family in the...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    It happened over and over again .. it wasn't really anyone's fault but my own. It's a part of me to never say, No. The thing is I'm just afraid to loose people,but aren't we all to...
    hulkgirl hulkgirl 18-21 1 Response Aug 1

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    I allowed them to come very close to me. So close that i thought they were always gonna be there. So many times i told myself silently that i am lucky to have them in my life. We...
    Unlearn Unlearn 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    Online I have learned that is easier to let me come into my life. Maybe it's because I can lay all my cards on the table and you can take me or leave me. I think in person I worry...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 3

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    So there's this girl that I've known for just about a week. I met her at this party that was held by my best friends friend whom he met through Instagram. Now she was holding this...
    MartinIsInLove MartinIsInLove 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Me too, i let many women ruin my life but today i say NO. It was enough. I got women out of my head.
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    Believe me, forget those peple who hurt you. They dont even remember you. They will not come back and opologize. The most people who hurt others, never opologize. So u can dwell...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    24 hours later. So I guess that's it. I put myself out there. But he hasn't responded back. Not only do I feel completely blindsided but I'm so confused why he hasn't contacted me...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Well then if you want to help someone who wont let you in then Let Go! Be there if they ask or need you or just listen. Sometimes people have their reasons n just want to be alone...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F Jul 24

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    i feel I can get myself together just when I am on my own. :( Letting people in my life often drags me down...and being a loner drags me down itself. I cant find the right balance...
    rockstin87 rockstin87 26-30, M Jul 24

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    I'm sure most of us have been guilty in letting others here dictate our moods or how we feel about ourselves.. I soon learnt when I came here being over sensitive is a danger to...
    primnproper primnproper 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Last weekend I was off and took the time to visit some friends of mine. Keri was an instructor of mine in college and has helped serve as a mentor for me as I head back to school...
    Marcette88 Marcette88 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    It started with good friendship and letting her open up freely and she become close to hearts and I a changed the way I user to think of her and she became more than friend... N...
    Man4luv2u Man4luv2u 41-45, M Jul 26

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    For you, I am glad to hear from you. I know you are coming back..I'm very use to it. We've been doing this for so many years but yet I haven't learned. But this time I made a...
    pluviophile pluviophile 26-30, F 6 Responses