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I Let Someone In

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    And Then They Walked Out

    It hurt, still hurts and it makes me a little worried about doing it again. I know that not every man will treat me like he did, but I also know that I can't deal with that level of pain again. I can handle being dumped, I just can't handle the way he did it, and...
    ShrubberySoup ShrubberySoup 26-30, F 10 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    A Favour

    ... and you can stay for as long as you like to. But I have this huuuuuge favour to ask... Stay liking forever. =)  
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    I Did

        i let angelwriter in . and i am so glad that i did .
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 6, 2009

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    And They Hurt Me.............

    I still don't understand why. As far as I know or can recall, I never ever used anything they told me against them. I wouldn't even think of it to be honest. I use to think that I deserved whatever bad I got, but that doesn't fly with me now. I know deep inside that I NEVER...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 3, 2009

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    He Walked Away With My Heart...

    For almost 5 years I had a wall around me not allowing anyone to get close to me. I was protecting myself from disappointment, heartache and pain. I had been through 2 very abusive relationships...1 with my ex husband and the other with my daughters father. I thought I needed...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    And I Wish You Would, Too

    I let you in because I trust you. I got to know you, and I chose to trust you and to let you into my life, and into my mind. I chose to let you see the things I can't show anyone else. The things that have gotten me hurt when I showed them to someone else before. It took me some...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Mar 3, 2012

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    And It Still Scares Me!

    I've been with my boyfriend for a long while now, and i still really panic that we're too close! He understands me more than anyone in this world, and i'm quite a hard faced person, and i generally cut emotions out of situations so I can deal with the **** in my life. But he...
    kidston23 kidston23 18-21 May 18, 2011

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    I wonder if 'getting it' has to do with a common thread of understanding between two individuals? Sometimes people share the same woes which creates a natural bond. While other...
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    I'm drunk first of all, so sorry for anything that doesn't really make sense. my first serious boyfriend was the first person I ever loved. and from him. I learned that o am loyal...
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    I told my best friend that we couldn't be friends anymore bcuz i was tired of our friends asking me if I liked him as more than a friend and our teammates making jokes about us...
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    Why is letting go is so hard ?
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 3 hrs ago

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    I like this! After many years of holding on to relationships with people (boyfriends) who weren't good for me, I'm finally letting go of the need, the desire, and the wanting of a...
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    having a friend is the most important thing in life.and having someone who would love us the way we are is all we want.we all heart it.
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    if someone waits for you, it doesn't mean they have nothing else to do. It simple means that nothing is important than you.
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I thought that I found someone but I keep pushing him and pushing him and now he hates me....I guess this what I wanted...I did it to myself...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I can't tell anyone how I feel. The people around me would rather think I'm quiet and awkward, but no one knows all that I am and what I've felt inside...I must move on, and hope...
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    Its been two mornings and two nights not talking to Tim ,I don't know if he is hurting but I am torn apart I cry all the time I miss his voice so much my chest hurts .I want to...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Tears One day here, one day there, one day he's missing and here comes my tears.I saw the signs each and everyday, but I never knew how to help him and in what way.I loved...
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    I can only wait for a special someone I can talk to anytime and tell anything at all without the thought of possibly loosing them :/ hopefully a nice person with a good soul will...
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    When I think of you I feel hurt and sore, My stomach is of cold air and butterflies, but not the beautiful type we felt together, these bring me nausea and torment. When I think...
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    Wrote this as a sample for when I was teaching my students about memoir :) I still have the photograph of what looked like the most perfect day. I'm sitting on the dock with my...
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