I Letters to the Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 60 People

    Oooh, you made me angry now.

    It's been a month since I know about you and so far I didn't want to write a letter to you because I didn't think I wanted to say anything. But now, after this story you shared I'd like to punch you. So you've been depressed, you know what it is, you know how it feels and...
    poppingcandyrulez poppingcandyrulez
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    You fell in love with someone

    who was married to someone else. You created a fantasy bubble for yourselves without having to deal with the day to day drudgery of real issues. You probably talked about what it would be like to be together and may have discussed him leaving her...and perhaps he actually...
    AllysWorld AllysWorld
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    To All The Women In My Former Marriage.

    Dear Bianca.... at least I think that was your name, I never knew you and I don't blame you, you only slept with him once as far as I know now, even though it was only weeks or months into my marriage I hold no anger or hatred for you he was wrong. And a real man never would have...
    brokenangel713 brokenangel713
    1 Response Oct 8, 2012

    Well, my Pastor wanted me to journal every

    night, therefore, here I am typing this letter to the other woman... Hello (You know your name) When you began looking for my husband, you knew he was married. When you finally contacted him, you thought you could find some type of way to get him to leave me. You pursued him...
    purplepas purplepas
    41-45, F
    Mar 6, 2014

    Home Wrecker

    You think he loved you.... You thought he'd leave me.... You made sure I'd find out and thought I'd would leave him.... You wanted what I have.... You thought he'd increase your financial standing.... How is it to know you were a piece of ***-and not even a good one...
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    23 Responses Oct 14, 2008

    Hi OW, I guess that you have heard of me.

    I'm not his wife, I'm his daughter. I don't write you because I want to judge you, I know that the big pig in this situation is my father, he has lied you, he has used you and I don't want to imagine all what you have gone through, but don't forget that you are guilty too, you...
    GalacticMermaid GalacticMermaid
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2015


    I will love all manners of men for each has qualities to be admired even though they may be hidden.
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    Aug 1, 2009


    The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn. -Alvin Toffler
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    Aug 1, 2009

    I Can't Stay...

    I don’t know why I’m still here. I finally believe what everyone has always said about us. What you’ve tried so hard to show me with your actions and cruel words. We don’t belong together. I’ve been fighting these words, their meaning for years. I know now that...
    Homewrecked Homewrecked
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 3, 2011

    What Did You Expect To Happen?

    You had no right to insert yourself into my marriage.  You had no right to sleep with my husband and I don't know what you thought you were going to gain by doing so.  Yes, this is his fault.  It's also yours.  I really don't give a damn who the pursuer was...
    faithinus faithinus
    38 Responses Mar 18, 2010

    Dear Married Woman/en,

    I'm the other woman and I've been her often and unapologetically. You're allowed to hate me, I think you should. But not because I stole something from you. No before I met your husband he was already long gone. He loves you though. But not in the way that he loves me. And you...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 17, 2015

    You Only Know One Side Of The Story!!!

    YOU ladies are pathetic losers who stay with a man who cheats on you...IT TAKES 2 TO TANGO...so take your responsibility as a wife...I'm sure you have more flaws than your husband to lead him astray. The other woman is the real victim here.....While your loser husband has sex...
    overcoming overcoming
    24 Responses May 23, 2010

    Lett To The "other" Woman....i Wrote It. I Mailed It.

    I recently learned my husband had an affair. Well, I'm not sure you can really call it an affair. It was a one time sexual tryst that consummated in the back seat of a car. (Classy, huh.) It began as an emotional affair of texting -or "sexting" if you will. It began just two...
    jeannell6491 jeannell6491
    61-65, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2012

    How Can Women Hurt Other Women So Bad?

    My husband had become a serious alcoholic and we finally got him to agree for treatment at in residence place. There, a woman who was an heroin addict as well as alcohol and other drugs,had lived on the streets of an major city here in California. Friendly, said hello and spoke...
    loveinthemist loveinthemist
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Oct 15, 2008

    Dear S, I'm blessed to be able to call you

    just a wannabe OW. You have known hubby longer than me. You were his best friend throughout school and even though you were dating another friend, who you eventually married, you made sure to remind my husband that you had a crush on him back then. You came back into his life...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    TO: OWs MM after DDay do not look backwards

    with fond memories there is too much guilt and regret there for them! That doesn't matter if he stays in the marriage or not. MM move forward instead and so does the Wife. Sometimes together better than before and NOT just because they have history, children, finances ... in...
    NOWRaptured NOWRaptured
    61-65, F
    4 Responses May 21, 2015
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