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I Like a Guy That Has a Girlfriend

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    Do I Really?

    So, I think I like this guy in my U.S. history class, however he has a girlfriend. We're both juniors, while she's a sophomore. Anyway, we talked a little bit when we were freshmen, back when I was still trying to pretend to be someone who I knew I wasn't. So, now that we're...
    RRazure RRazure 18-21, M Dec 10, 2010

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    Impossible.

    He has a girlfriend, I have a boyfriend.Recently we started kissing and hugging.. cuddling up and lying together.. It feels amazing even though it is wrong. I know it is cruel of me.. but for lots of reasons my relationship isn't a happy one. I won't say that makes it right...
    Tiyana Tiyana 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2010

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    A Night

    so there was a dance and the guy I like was there and he kinda had a thing with this girl and she had to leave early and then all of a sudden everyone was grinding on each other and then out of no were he comes up behind me and grabs my waist and one of the people where like you...
    Victoria19 Victoria19 16-17, F Oct 24, 2011

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    He Didn't Seem Into His Gf...

    About a month and a half ago I went out to a bar for my birthday and there were bands playing...anyway there was the HOTTEST guy on the door...me and my girlfriend couldn't stop staring at him....he was ...beautiful! As the night went on he was joined by his Girlfriend....she was...
    Lostmk Lostmk 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2010

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    I Dont Know

    so i like tis guy derik and he has had a girlfriend sincethe late winter months of this year. in the beggining of the year we both have feelings for eachother but being nervous because of the fact he is older than me i sort of cut ties with him for a little while,but we always...
    ninaxo ninaxo 16-17 Aug 18, 2009

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    So... There'S This Guy...

    And he's in my lecturer and he's cool and nice and we talk occasionally but... he has a girlfriend and she seems real sweet and all but I like him... I just... how do you a) know if a guy is interested, and b) how do you get him to be/keep him interested? Is it better to 'treat...
    KEScap3 KEScap3 18-21 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Plz Reply

    ok i still like this guy i used 2 wrk wit at my old job. wen we met we both were going out wit sum 1 but eventually we split wit the plp we were wit. b 4 all this started he had made a pass at me but at the moment i didnt feel the same but after that i felt a connection there. we...
    miaNken miaNken 18-21 2 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    I Can't Get Him Out Of My Head.

    I sat next to this guy in a class for about a month and a half. i really got to know him and develop a crush on him. But he has a girlfriend whose track record aint so great. Pretty much cheated on every guy she has been with, slept with her cousin, everyone in our school...
    yourXmyXbrand0fXheroin yourXmyXbrand0fXheroin 16-17 2 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Torn Between...

    I like a boy who has a girlfriend. They have been dating for about a year now yet he constantly talks/hugs/holds hands/kisses me when she's not around. He claims he is not happy in this relationship but he will not leave her. I have a couple options: Option 1.) I could end all...
    HeartBreaker2000 HeartBreaker2000 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2013

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    Liberated At Last!

    Just recently the boy I have liked (that has a girlfriend) has tried taking things to another level such as kissing on a regualr basis. I know it doesn't sound as bad but he has a girlfriend so even a funny look is "another level". Anywho, I've felt particularly conflicted and...
    HeartBreaker2000 HeartBreaker2000 16-17, F Mar 20, 2013

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    The Worst Day Of My Life

    where to start I feel like I'm invisible in his eyes he wouldn't even talk to me or anything and when ever he walks by with his gf in the hall way he always puts his arm around her and it breaks my heart into a million peices............. it's like he does it on purpose and it...
    Victoria19 Victoria19 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    I met him this summer.

    So, they're were 2 girls. One 21 and one 17. The boy I like is 21. I thought because the boy and the girl were both 21, they were twins. Until I found out they were dating! There's nothing I can do about it. But, I've noticed that the boy constantly looked at me during those 3...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F Aug 3

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    He's Perfect!

    I like a guy who has a girlfriend. There, I said it. I haven't told ANYONE about this. Even my best friend. I have a feeling she'll think it's wrong since we're both friends with this guy. I've never seen this guy with his girlfriend, but my bff told me he's been dating...
    clairemailey clairemailey 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2009

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    The Guy I Like Now Has a Girlfriend

    Ok.  SO I have liked this guy, we'll call him Dean, for over two years now.  We dance together in a semi-proffessional performance group.  When I joined the group, we were both single, but I was still very young and stupid and I knew this about myself...
    Fuglyliz Fuglyliz 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    I Know He Likes Me.... But Don't Wana Ruin His Relationship

    Thers a guy that i went out with a couple of years ago and we split up over what seems so silly now, but at the time was massive. All my m8z fell out with him and i secretly still had feelings even though it was me who ended it due to a missunderstanding. Now we have become close...
    anonymousnwanted91 anonymousnwanted91 16-18, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    Missed Opportunity

    I'm 15. Last summer, I began texting a guy that I have known since Kindergarden, but haven't spoken to since the sixth grade, when we were both 11. A few days after we started talking again, his girlfriend broke up with him. And I talked him through it and helped him to not get...
    AliceinWonderland121 AliceinWonderland121 16-17, F Jul 20, 2010

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    I Didn't Even Do Anything.

    kim found ryan's phone, and didn't like all the texts & calls she saw between us. i've been in love with ryan since i met him in 1997, but i only kissed him once and that was way before he was with her. i have deep feelings for him, and he's really attractive - but i've done...
    darlingmarla darlingmarla 21-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2007

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    The Other Woman

    I've been seeing a guy for about a month and we're already telling each other we love each other. He's been with his girlfriend for over 15 yrs on and off and their still not married which is kind of strange to me but what ever. They don't have any kids together, but they are...
    Serenity1 Serenity1 26-30 Jul 28, 2008

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    Im Confused ...

    I LIKE A GUY WHO HAS A GF ! & I HAVE A BF ! This is really hard for me because they have been together since January & Ive known him for about a month now . He comes to my house every once in a while & we kiss & cuddle. I feel guilty because him & his gf have...
    Loveladyy Loveladyy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    One of the worse things that cud and hav been happening to me is most people i love treat me like trash.. Takes me forgranted.. It hurts so bad..
    Chiscuit Chiscuit 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Well a long time ago I said yes to going on a date with this guy (I was only going because I wanted to go to Prom. I will admit I was young and shallow.) but he brought his two...
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    We were out the other night and she looked really hot. She's 5' 11 and quite slim. She had black tight pants with heels, a white sheer shirt and a nice black bra underneath. Some...
    Tobeme64 Tobeme64 46-50, M 8 Responses Sep 2

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    In the name of romance, yes. I go for heart. I don't even stop at sexual orientation. The man I am in love with is straight. The only other male I fell in love with is straight too...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Aug 30

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    I this this teenage girl was a guy. Never trust someone with no profile pic, a pic that look like it's from the internet, or a pic of something other then a person.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Who have pets. Cats are the best. Maybe it just shows their loving side but i just like it. Id ask dudes w cats that im chatting with to take selfies w their cats. Love them!! One...
    sophiexone sophiexone 16-17, F Aug 30

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    Not ones that scream steroids. But ones that are big but not too big (steroids...just no). They look like they worked out so hard but still do for a reason besides girls. It's so...
    Missy3210 Missy3210 13-15, F Sep 7

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    Wait, there are people who actually do that here? O.O
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    Cant give up milk or a probe. Crass fact and hard to shed. Why is a mystery. When both genders have bitten. But bi is my honest. And honest is my treasure.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 25

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    I had so many tomatoes from the garden, heirlooms, San Marzanos, and cherry's. Decided to make a sauce from scratch. I've always doctored up good canned ones. This is my second...
    SlickFX SlickFX 31-35, M Aug 27

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    Men with beards... Ahh so sexy!
    lettalkaboutit93 lettalkaboutit93 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Reading other experiences on EP about other military girlfriends I realise how I'm lucky I am. I hear from my boyfriend every single night, I get presents in the post, letters...
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Before you comment, i'm not trying to stereotype anyone. I don't believe ALL girls are a certain way, likewise with guys. I guess i'm a person who views the lines between genders...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    This is my story on how I realised I liked girls: Well, the past few years(since I was 11), and while a lot of my friends started to like guys, I just didn't. I mean they can be...
    SoftballGirl109 SoftballGirl109 13-15, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Tonight has been very eventful.. It ended with me cutting and losing my 92 days clean and I am so disappointed in myself beyond belief. Anyways, where to begin. Well I met this...
    SwiftieGirl SwiftieGirl 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    What's saying goodbye like? He leaves Sunday for boot camp and I'm nervous about saying goodbye. I feel like it has to be perfect cause it's the last way we will remember each...
    Kendykay Kendykay 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    hands down i think guy's eyes are the sexiest thing about them. I just melt if a guy has amazing eyes..
    fallenfar fallenfar 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    It sounds wired but I would like an online girlfriend, so I don't feel so alone anymore, someone I can trust and I can open up to, because I have a hard time opening up and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Got another call today :) she sounds like basic has just grown on her and the routine doesn't effect her anymore. She got a cold thank you for that division 297 haha but she can't...
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F Aug 31

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    i hate feeling like this, surely i shouldnt have to feel like i cant tell him im upset or down, or that my heart sinks when ive waited all day to speak to him and i get nothing...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    Not extremely rough,but the guy has to be in control #justsaying :-P
    DKames DKames 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I really don't like guys my age. Their immaturity is really annoying. And yes I have my immature times and they have their mature times but it isn't the same as being with an older...
    RunawayTeen99 RunawayTeen99 13-15, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would say too old.. Ever since I was younger I've like people older than me. I'm very matured for my age and I'm usually around or friends with people between the ages 18-25...
    ManiiMorena ManiiMorena 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I like reading, and I like guys who read as well :)
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    SPANDEX IS THE BEST INVENTION EVER! It feels super great on the body and is really soft to touch and rub! I wish men could be acceptable to wear any spandex outfit even if their...
    ILoveSpandex ILoveSpandex 18-21, M Aug 17

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    Let me first start off by saying I am a natural worrier. By this, I mean my life wouldn't feel right or I would be bored if I didn't worry. Granted, it takes its' toll on me but I...
    Cherrybean84 Cherrybean84 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I’ve always listened to people when they said that it’s okay to be different. That’s why I always kinda tried to embrace it. But no matter where I go, People always seem to...
    Tweeter97 Tweeter97 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    We are in the process of having our 4 yo son diagnosed. I expressed concern to husband that I was worried my sister had undiagnosed aspergers. He opened up about his concerns of...
    littlebirdgirl littlebirdgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    It's been a while since I was last here. A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I don't believe in destiny. At least I didn't before I met him. So this is the story (all about how my life got flipped turned upside down... no? okay, let's be serious here): I...
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago