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I Like Eye Contact

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    I love when girls look into my eyes

    and smile at me... I get butterflies so easily from that. It's amazing. Whenever a girl looks into my eyes and smiles at me it makes my day 100x better 😍 the girls that do that, keep doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 24, 2015

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    Can You See

    I do not like to be talking to anyone and they not listening to me. I must have contact I do not like someone to be looking at tv or reading or on the phone. I like to have eye contact.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    TikaTikaTika TikaTikaTika 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    Sometimes I get lucky

    and find that hottie with a body who manages to find my eyes on them. I love it when it happens because I just have so much to say.... Without actually saying anything. Eyes now locked... I give her that slight smile and raise an eyebrow. She smiles back and keeps looking. And I...
    pitabready pitabready 18-21, M Jul 9, 2014

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    One of my flatmates makes eye contact with the

    other girls and barely even looks at me. It leaves me feeling left out and disliked. I can't fathom why I'd be treated like an outcast when I always am friendly and nice to her :/ she seems nice enough one on one, but in groups she'll turn away from me practically, like I'm a...
    BumbleofJoy BumbleofJoy 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2015

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    It feels good. When you are talking

    and all eyes are on you. It makes you feel that what you are saying is important. I don't think many people will deny that receiving eye contact in conversations is very meaningful. Sometimes receiving eye contact can say more than we can
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jan 6, 2014

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    Remarkable, What a Difference It Makes.

    When I was young and had a paper route, my dad would help me on Sunday mornings when the papers were so large and heavy for a little girl to cart around by herself so early in the morning. Afterward, we would always stop at a donut shop. The person who owned it, a sweet old lady...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 24 Responses Dec 8, 2008

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    Ooh I Love It

    Eye contact is the single most powerful communication tool we have, Yes it is simply outstanding, you can tell a lot from just a look, you can guess a whole story, you say you're happy, your eyes are showing otherwise, you say you are sincere one look and DING, DING we have a...
    yoyo96 yoyo96 16-17, F Apr 12, 2012

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    But I Avoid It

    For some reason, every time i catch some eyecontact, i look for just a moment and then quickly look away... I dont know why, i feel some kind of fear in myself but i cant define it... Either way, i like eyecontact, its just that fear that makes me do the same stupid thing over...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Eye

    I got a bloody eye.........Really red!!!  It will take an average of 10 days to go away.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 24, 2011

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    Look Deep Into My Eyes

    There is nothing quite like staring deep into the eyes of the man who loves you and maintaining that eye contact for a long time. To look deeply into his eyes to the man underneath and realize that he is looking back right into your soul is amazing.  I love this focus...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Eye Contact Is Important

    I always look people in the eye when I'm addressing them. To me, its a gesture of respect and honesty and trustworthiness. What's not to like? ....Although there are those people who excel at lying while looking at you straight in the eye...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 6 Responses May 10, 2008

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    I Need It...

    I remember being little thinking when you got eye contact, that you were headed for a talk, because you must have done something bad! Now it's the opposite,if you can't look me in the eye,than I know your trying to avoid something, or probably lieing to me... I use eye contact as...
    bommer537 bommer537 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    I consider myself shy

    but I enjoy eye contact with people, haha :P
    Tylerwy Tylerwy 16-17, M Sep 19, 2014

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    It Can Make My Heart Stop and Skip a Beat

      Eye contact is Important, plain and simple. Looking at people and meeting their eyes are the first steps toward striking up friendships and romantic hints; it will be a determining factor in making positive impressions. I think eye contact shows personal involvement and...
    unpredictablyme unpredictablyme 31-35, F 22 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    PikachuIsPikachu PikachuIsPikachu 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14, 2015

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    Clearly the eyes have enormous power,

    such that eye contact can have an almost magical effect on other people Not only do our eyes sometimes send stronger signals than what we say, they can also be as informative as the whole of the rest of our face put together. However, when someone stares at you, without context...
    Arlys Arlys 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2015

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    It doesn't have to be constant,

    but it is important. The eyes are the root of the soul they say. Honesty is seen in the eyes.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Revealing and Intriguing

    I am both a bit shy and a bit bold in my eye contact with people. I like to directly connect with the eyes, but I don't like to have a conversation where eye contact is maintained almost constantly. It feels invasive to me to be stared down. I like to look into their eyes, hold...
    mierje mierje 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Honesty?

    People who avoid looking into my eyes have something to hide. I am provoked by here inability to connect like this. It makes me doubt their integrity a little since looking into eyes is a connection of souls.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    They say the eyes are the windows to the soul.

    ... There are very few people skilled at lying who can look you squarely in the eyes. Eye contact speaks of at least a little honesty, even if it is with semantics they effectively lie to you, changing the nature of what they tell you in their word choice and expression.
    Rovigatti Rovigatti 18-21, F Feb 19, 2015

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    Eye contact forges connections.

    Hard for somebody to lie to you if you have eye contact.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 27, 2015

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    A Girl (/girls)

    I love it when I look a girl up and down in the street, and she does the same, and we smile. Wish I knew how to progress from there... One in particular - 6' tall, I've never dated anyone taller than 5'8... Shoulder-length blonde hair with strong waves. We passed near the...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2009

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    There's something incredibly sexy about

    lingering eye contact......
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2015

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    This is a good topic for me. I'm totally into eye contact. I'm not like that guy on Lie to Me who makes looking into someone's eyes a science I just know them without knowing how. When I look into a person's eyes it really is like peering into their soul. Some times when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7, 2012

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    Deep set and soulful .

    . . I would melt staring at them :)
    purplehaze78 purplehaze78 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    Eye Contact Is a Sign of Sincerity

    I get weirded out when someone doesn't make eye contact with me when we are speaking. I get the feeling that they are being untruthful, or are uncomfortable in the situation. Looking someone in the eye while listening to them or addressing them is one of the most important...
    erocka erocka 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2008

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    If someone avoids eye contact whilst talking to

    me, I'm thinking they find me boring or something
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    Making eye contact with someone is a wonderful

    thing . some say its the gateway to your soul .
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2015

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    Tells You a Lot About a Person

    Eye contact says several things to me - it says that the person I am talking to is open and honest; it says that they are giving me the courtesy of their attention like I would give to them; and the eyes do tell you a lot about a person, I think - how hard their life has been...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    It can start as a mutual,

    brief glance. Who knows where it will eventully lead... Got to love it...
    tilky tilky 61-65, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2015

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    Its the first thing i look at on a female,

    her eyes and if i find her atractive and eye to eye contact is made then i come over all unecessary.
    wetmate wetmate 51-55, M Oct 12, 2015

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    When I think of eye contact,

    the first person who comes to mind is a special man I work with. He always looks in my eyes when he speaks to me. He smiles at me, too. It makes me just want to melt. My husband has severe emotional issues, so he's unable or unwilling to look me in the eyes, even while we're...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F Jan 16

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    The Most Alluring Trait

    A woman who knows how to use her gaze is a huge turn on to me. In a crowded room, knowing you have caught someone's attention when she gives that first, quick gaze, followed by a longer gaze and a half-smile---totally sexy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2013

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    Please Look Into My Eyes!

    I like people looking into my eyes while they speak to me. I think the main advantages of looking into someone's eyes are: 1)To read in the eyes what the mouth isn't saying explicitly - they're the main item of body language. 2)To be trusted as a frank and straight person...
    weirdcolor weirdcolor 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2007

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    Eye contact to me is

    so sensual. It can give so many messages, and can determine how to react to a situation. Also, I love people's eyes. They're just gorgeous.
    peeingmypanties69 peeingmypanties69 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    If you cannot look me in the eye then I know

    honesty with you is not real.
    Ama13579 Ama13579 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Strong eye contact. Eye contact

    that when you stare deeply into someone's eyes you know that they are feeling what you feel. That irreplaceable, unmistakeable eye contact that kicks you right in the gut when you're not expecting it and says wake the **** up.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 26, 2015

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    It Shows Respect

    I know that in some cultures eye contact is considered rude and hostile. However, in my culture it is a sign of respect. If I am willing to meet your eyes then I respect you and I have nothing to hide.I always meet someones eyes when I am talking to them. This shows that I am...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Dec 16, 2012

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    Im Doing Fine Now

    i mentioned once that i love eye contact, but i avoid it for some reason thats left a mystery even to myself...but i recently read a book, "the celestine prophecy" and at one part of it there was an interesting thing about eye contact... anyway, it says that when we get in eye...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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