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I Like Eye Contact

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    I really like women when they dress sexy with

    yoga pants and tight shirt with a cleavage or ether with a mini skirt or tight jeans and with a cleavage also and when they look at them they give you a very nice smile too make you thinking even more :-) but I hate women when they dress sexy and Shen they look at them they get...
    2komfort 2komfort 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hazel

    my favorite eye color is now hazel   to be more specific hazel with greenish overtones that is..   they hold my gaze for hours until she catches me then we hold an electric stare until it tickles like a small shock  in the middle of our backs and we both...
    purepotential purepotential 36-40, M Mar 7, 2008

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    Trust

    If someone can look me directly in the eye, I tend to trust them more. I am BIG on making eye contact, simply because it shows that I am aware of myself, what I am saying, and shows the other person that they can trust me.
    DramaticSuicide DramaticSuicide 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    Honesty?

    People who avoid looking into my eyes have something to hide. I am provoked by here inability to connect like this. It makes me doubt their integrity a little since looking into eyes is a connection of souls.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Eyelid

    I do like eye contact.  :)My story is about my eyelid.  I think, I had an infection for about a few days.  Today it got better.  This morning, I put lots of warm water on my eyelid and it worked.  It isn't as red as it used to be, less painful and swollen.  I checked it out...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 20, 2011

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    Eye

    I got a bloody eye.........Really red!!!  It will take an average of 10 days to go away.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 24, 2011

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    So Unusual These Days

    I was brought up to make eye contact. Plain and simple. I was taught it was the courteous thing to do and shows someone they have your full attention. I've noticed that it's apparently an unusual trait to have. The first time someone ever commented on it was at eleven. School...
    meh0706 meh0706 18-21 Nov 11, 2010

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    Eye Contact Is a Sign of Sincerity

    I get weirded out when someone doesn't make eye contact with me when we are speaking. I get the feeling that they are being untruthful, or are uncomfortable in the situation. Looking someone in the eye while listening to them or addressing them is one of the most important...
    erocka erocka 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2008

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    Eye Contact

    To me...when I'm listening to someone, I feel like making eye contact is me telling them that I respect them and I am validating that they are important to me and I care what they have to say.  I'm just silly that way :)
    DeFunkial DeFunkial 41-45 4 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    It feels good. When you are talking

    and all eyes are on you. It makes you feel that what you are saying is important. I don't think many people will deny that receiving eye contact in conversations is very meaningful. Sometimes receiving eye contact can say more than we can
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jan 6

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    Very Important to Me

     We can go days maybe even weeks without any direct eye contact. The other day, we met for a "serious" lunch. We were discussing the intricacies of our separation and divorce. Halfway through, I realized that he wasn't even looking at me. Every time I attempted to...
    scarlet54 scarlet54 36-40 3 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    An Idea - Do You Support It?

    seldom happens, but it is something that I do not take for granted. It would make me feel that I am someone worth paying attention to, and that somebody values my opinion. Greatest feeling in the whole wide world. To encourage this, I thought about pretending not to hear people...
    AlbinoPolarBear AlbinoPolarBear 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    But I Avoid It

    For some reason, every time i catch some eyecontact, i look for just a moment and then quickly look away... I dont know why, i feel some kind of fear in myself but i cant define it... Either way, i like eyecontact, its just that fear that makes me do the same stupid thing over...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    I Love Eye Contact

    I think holding someone's gaze when they're talking to you is important and I feel like I can trust a person if they can look me in the eyes. I'ma lucky guy because my girlfriend has the most beautiful blue eyes and I love looking at them/can't stop looking at them...
    Cnbrrn Cnbrrn 16-18, M 1 Response Nov 2, 2007

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    Random Story Post After 10 Clicks

    This is a good topic for me. I'm totally into eye contact. I'm not like that guy on Lie to Me who makes looking into someone's eyes a science I just know them without knowing how. When I look into a person's eyes it really is like peering into their soul. Some times when I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7, 2012

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    A Girl (/girls)

    I love it when I look a girl up and down in the street, and she does the same, and we smile. Wish I knew how to progress from there... One in particular - 6' tall, I've never dated anyone taller than 5'8... Shoulder-length blonde hair with strong waves. We passed near the...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 22-25, M Jul 25, 2009

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    It Shows Respect

    I know that in some cultures eye contact is considered rude and hostile. However, in my culture it is a sign of respect. If I am willing to meet your eyes then I respect you and I have nothing to hide.I always meet someones eyes when I am talking to them. This shows that I am...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Dec 16, 2012

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    Can You See

    I do not like to be talking to anyone and they not listening to me. I must have contact I do not like someone to be looking at tv or reading or on the phone. I like to have eye contact.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    Growing Up In a Big City, One Learned Not To...

    Moving to the middle of nowhere mnade it make sense to use the eyes to communicate - and now I fear I "stare down" too much; unintentionally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 24, 2009

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    "Eye Contact"

    I don't know!! "maybe i'm wrong" , but i always thought making eye contact with someone! when your engaged in conversation comes naturally, well to me it does anyway! But there, saying that!!, a "friend and her daughter" when they are speaking to anyone, they look above the heads...
    welshbabe welshbabe 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Was Told It Shows Confidence

    In High school in my Leadership class we were given skills and tricks to help us succeed in life, one of those being eye contact. They say confidents and sencerity are in eye contact and the more I do it the more I realize people don't look in one anothers eyes that much...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 14, 2008

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    Eye Contact Is Important

    I always look people in the eye when I'm addressing them. To me, its a gesture of respect and honesty and trustworthiness. What's not to like? ....Although there are those people who excel at lying while looking at you straight in the eye...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 6 Responses May 10, 2008

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    Revealing and Intriguing

    I am both a bit shy and a bit bold in my eye contact with people. I like to directly connect with the eyes, but I don't like to have a conversation where eye contact is maintained almost constantly. It feels invasive to me to be stared down. I like to look into their eyes, hold...
    mierje mierje 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Remarkable, What a Difference It Makes.

    When I was young and had a paper route, my dad would help me on Sunday mornings when the papers were so large and heavy for a little girl to cart around by herself so early in the morning. Afterward, we would always stop at a donut shop. The person who owned it, a sweet old lady...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 24 Responses Dec 8, 2008

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    I Need It...

    I remember being little thinking when you got eye contact, that you were headed for a talk, because you must have done something bad! Now it's the opposite,if you can't look me in the eye,than I know your trying to avoid something, or probably lieing to me... I use eye contact as...
    bommer537 bommer537 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Tells You a Lot About a Person

    Eye contact says several things to me - it says that the person I am talking to is open and honest; it says that they are giving me the courtesy of their attention like I would give to them; and the eyes do tell you a lot about a person, I think - how hard their life has been...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    If someone avoids eye contact whilst talking to

    me, I'm thinking they find me boring or something
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Look Deep Into My Eyes

    There is nothing quite like staring deep into the eyes of the man who loves you and maintaining that eye contact for a long time. To look deeply into his eyes to the man underneath and realize that he is looking back right into your soul is amazing.  I love this focus...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 3 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Yes, Please

    i believe that what they say is true: you can tell a lot about someone by their eyes, particularly by their EYE CONTACT. if i'm having a conversation with someone and they can't even meet my eyes, the first thing i wonder is WHY? what are they hiding? if someone can't...
    runnagirrl runnagirrl 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2009

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    The Most Alluring Trait

    A woman who knows how to use her gaze is a huge turn on to me. In a crowded room, knowing you have caught someone's attention when she gives that first, quick gaze, followed by a longer gaze and a half-smile---totally sexy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 19, 2013

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    Look At Me

    Sometimes I get really annoyed with people when they look around or look down at their fingernails while they are talking to me.  If you are going to talk to me, LOOK at me.  I don't think I'm that hideous lol.  When people spend the entire conversation picking at...
    Luvbooks Luvbooks 36-40, F 1 Response May 10, 2008

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    Look At Me!!

    I want people to look into my eye when they talk or when they are listening to me..!! eyes speak... !!!
    cognition cognition 18-21, F Jun 6, 2008

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    Ooh I Love It

    Eye contact is the single most powerful communication tool we have, Yes it is simply outstanding, you can tell a lot from just a look, you can guess a whole story, you say you're happy, your eyes are showing otherwise, you say you are sincere one look and DING, DING we have a...
    yoyo96 yoyo96 16-17, F Apr 12, 2012

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    Most Important

       The eyes may be the most important part of a persons outward appearance. I love to make eye contact and hold it. Yes, it can be uncomfortable at times, but wow can you learn alot.
    Percheron Percheron 41-45, M 2 Responses May 9, 2008

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    Im Doing Fine Now

    i mentioned once that i love eye contact, but i avoid it for some reason thats left a mystery even to myself...but i recently read a book, "the celestine prophecy" and at one part of it there was an interesting thing about eye contact... anyway, it says that when we get in eye...
    misunderztood misunderztood 18-21, F 1 Response May 17, 2012

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    It Can Make My Heart Stop and Skip a Beat

      Eye contact is Important, plain and simple. Looking at people and meeting their eyes are the first steps toward striking up friendships and romantic hints; it will be a determining factor in making positive impressions. I think eye contact shows personal involvement and...
    unpredictablyme unpredictablyme 31-35, F 23 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Please Look Into My Eyes!

    I like people looking into my eyes while they speak to me. I think the main advantages of looking into someone's eyes are: 1)To read in the eyes what the mouth isn't saying explicitly - they're the main item of body language. 2)To be trusted as a frank and straight person...
    weirdcolor weirdcolor 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2007

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    Such a Strong Gesture

    Simple eye contact can be the most effective form of nonverbal communication. It gives us the ability to convey messages through non-linguistic means. Eye contact sends natural communicative signals, which facilitates effective communication.  Our eyes say so much...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Mar 18, 2009

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    Trust

    When I talk to someone, I like to make eye contact with them. That is a trust issue for me. If you look me in the eye while we talk, then to me you are who you say you are. I always look people in the eye when I speak to them or have a conversation. This just adds to the...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 10 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    Sometimes I get lucky

    and find that hottie with a body who manages to find my eyes on them. I love it when it happens because I just have so much to say.... Without actually saying anything. Eyes now locked... I give her that slight smile and raise an eyebrow. She smiles back and keeps looking. And I...
    pitabready pitabready 18-21, M Jul 9

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    The Old School Way

    My mother was "old school" and told me to always look people in the eyes when I spoke to them and I have never forgotten that important lesson. I find it invaluable in the business world and I think it makes one come across as genuine and approachable, and confident. If...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F Dec 9, 2008

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    The Night I Met My Husband...

    After talking for hours at the bar we met at, we went to eat at a little diner in Missoula.  Anyways, it was about 15 minutes later and when the waiter brought our food that I realized (and I think him too) that we had been just *gazing* into each other's eyes basically the...
    mj915 mj915 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Not sure since when, but I don't like making eye contact with much people. It's very uncomfortable, literally speaking, it's like looking at their souls. I do not want to see their...
    enragedmisfit enragedmisfit 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I have trouble making eye contact. It's either too much eye contact or too little and I know sometimes it's noticeable and makes it seem awkward. How do I get over this
    jullunety jullunety 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    When I first met my bf and we started talking I never made eye contact with him because I was still getting to know him and he was cute but now I make eye contact to him so it's...
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F Jul 10

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    I can't seem to make eye contact with other women in the office. I feel beneath them, or like I'm not good enough. We all have the same job title and I'm pretty good at my job I...
    LovelyNGa80 LovelyNGa80 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I have been told I am fearless and honest. I am sincere, so I make eye contact to assure people of this!
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F Jun 28

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    when i look at people in the eye for a long time during a conversation I feel like they're evaluating me and looking deep inside my thoughts and stuff. then I realize they're...
    englxnd23 englxnd23 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I feel like I'm staring at someone and that I'm being rude, I don't feel comfortable.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay, I am a lesbian and came out to quite a couple of close friends. I just recently met this girl at the restaurant near our office building. I got some old friends who are...
    InkBlots InkBlots 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Looking into someone's eyes is like looking into their soul *shivers* that's why eye contact is so difficult ._.
    untitled360 untitled360 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I like watching others as they wander through their surroundings. I find it interesting how others sneak a glance or stare at the ground wary of others taking notice of them...
    selaparty selaparty 46-50, M Jul 15