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I Like Foreplay

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10,119 People

    Not all men feel this is important to do,

    but it is, most definitely. Pushing into us is stimulating yes, but preparation, so that we desire this from an overawed state is a must. The word is preparation, the word is foreplay.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    I just had the most unusual experience

    that I've had in quite a while; its certainly not over yet though.... To begin, I'm sitting here at Starbucks and a woman who must be 10 or more years older than I got up from the table near mine. There's really nothing especially exciting about what I can see (at the moment) of...
    MrGW MrGW
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2015

    Like it? I love it! I don't understand how some

    people just 'don't' have foreplay, it's like, well what are you doing then? Where's the build up, where's the excitement, where's the winding each other up until you're ripping each other's clothes off and then pulling away to tease some more until someone breaks and can't stand...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 3, 2014


    A man can show his prowess in bed in a number of ways, but if a woman does she can put him off easily if he's not so confidant. I guess it might be like on the dance floor in a ballroom. The man leads the woman in the waltz. I guess I'm too freaky for some guys! I like to get...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    Oct 20, 2013

    Foreplay is more than just a prelude to the

    climax, it is the way to share. No foreplay or not enough leaves you in a position of compromise.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 27, 2015

    I always need about 20-30 minutes foreplay

    unless I am already very horny. I like good kissing, groping, licking,stroking and fingering then just prior to the act, I like some tongue probing and licking down below.
    janeseymour janeseymour
    26-30, F
    10 Responses May 17, 2014

    Workshop, Anyone?

    Workshop, Anyone? My wife and I are very much in love . And our sex life is great... for the most part. See, I love to receive oral loving. And my wife enjoys giving it. She'll happily take me into her mouth, playing with herself while she moans on my ****. The issue is that...
    jargonator jargonator
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 5, 2013

    It has to be top quality foreplay now

    as I am now age 65, lest I fall asleep before the sex act.
    pamela8 pamela8
    66-70, F
    9 Responses May 26, 2014

    probably the reason my first second

    and third time wasnt that great, no time for foreplay
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 8, 2014

    forplay....are those moments during

    which we explore... it's so exciting to pleasure eachother before "getting down to business". 69 is what I love most; its amazing how long I can last this way because I'm concentrating on pleasing my partner. Dare I say it? The forplay, at times is more pleasurable because it...
    MrGW MrGW
    56-60, M
    1 Response Dec 22, 2014

    Foreplay isn't just sex.

    It starts the first time you look at each other. It starts with the first words. The first kiss and the first touch. It starts in your mind and your heart I love foreplay. It should last and last.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 30, 2014

    I like to make this last

    as long as possible with plenty kissing and cuddling until she begs for more.
    timothy1994 timothy1994
    22-25, M
    Mar 20, 2016

    Fevered Pitch...

    I have a dog that wolfs down any food that you give him. It doesn't matter if it is a dog treat or a cut of steak, he simply swallows it down as quickly as possible. I think there are a lot of men in this world that are the same way. They have no idea how to savor the moment...
    MattB765 MattB765
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 7, 2013

    Monogamy Is Great For Foreplay

    Hi all, I'm sure many of your know of the adult board game monogamy. For any couples who don't have it, it's highly recommended. We don't always play it the way it's supposed to be played because that can take 4 or 5 hours and quite frequently we don't start playing until late...
    HughAndPenny HughAndPenny
    6 Responses Feb 18, 2012


    Without foreplay nothing else is happening!
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2013

    Foreplay Is Essential

    Not only do I "like" foreplay, I think it's just as important as penetration itself when it comes to sex. Of course this is my own opinion and preference, but it is my story :) Foreplay can begin before any physical contact is even made. It can be a look...making "**** me...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 7, 2012
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    Getting Better At It

    I expect most do love the foreplay, no matter the preferred method. I find I am getting better at it. . .practicing it longer and when I am in control of it, I find it hard to not give in to the ultimate yearning of penetration. . .so I allow it, atleast for some time and try...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Aug 3, 2013
    DTFgurl DTFgurl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2015

    TGIF....have a good day all

    mickwright9 mickwright9
    46-50, M
    Nov 27, 2015

    But I don't get any -

    because I don't get any sex :(Boo hoo!!!!! =O© CLAMP
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2014

    Like duh!..who doesn't?

    well I'm a woman who comes multiple times before penetration so I do for sure :-) according to the dictionary = foreplay n. Sexual stimulation preceding intercourse Foreplay (for me) is an essential part of good hot sex. It can take many forms and has so much variety and...
    PrettyPoppy PrettyPoppy
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 6, 2010

    Better Than Sex. Almost.

    Foreplay is all about understanding and pleasing your partner, I think (for me anyway) far more tha actual sex. And you know what's going to come later, which makes anticipation so good. So I could almost say that I love foreplay more than actual penetration, but that moment when...
    DeclarableKitten DeclarableKitten
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jul 22, 2013

    Erotic couples understand

    that foreplay is not something that you do 5 minutes before sex begins, foreplay, pretty much starts at the end of the previous ******.
    Ruben1970 Ruben1970
    46-50, M
    Mar 23, 2016

    I Love It

    I'm really love foreplay but sometimes is depends on someone who I am with. the best time for is 5 hours. He is totally so hot. I never describe a man who I like so much but when I met him. I know he is my best type. and no one like him. style like a rockstar really.. He is 39yo...
    flyingfish19 flyingfish19
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2013

    The Other Night...

    ...the wife and I were having sex. It wasn't making love... there was no tender kissing, it was more like she hopped on and started riding me! As she's riding me we were talking about a 3some, and she started talking about how it'd be nice for her to ride me 'like this', then...
    bimarried77 bimarried77
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2012

    Yes! It's the preparation

    before the act. And it is an art not everyone has these skills. Not everyone knows that the whole body can be used as a sexual instrument. Everything has its uses it's just a manner of discovering them and applying them. I turn my whole body into ***** when I have sex. Foreplay...
    RainbowLoveFire RainbowLoveFire
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    Undress Me

    I love to be undressed. It is a potent form of foreplay that needs no words, just a willingness to live in the moment and let go, give in.You unbutton the first button, lightly kissing my neck below my ear. I shiver with anticipation. You rub your nose on mine, unbutton another...
    moondancelady moondancelady
    51-55, F
    26 Responses Sep 22, 2012

    I Value Foreplay More Than Anything.

    Foreplay means pleasing and understanding your partner. I wouldn't imagine a man going to penetration without even initiating to wether short or long foreplays.Same way, it's just not so right for a woman to unbutton and, well ****. Well we can consider few times and it happens...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Jun 6, 2012
    hornylatinodoll hornylatinodoll
    51-55, F
    64 Responses Nov 18, 2014

    Yes I love forplay, it is a great start to a

    really hot time, for the first time meeting someone and the nervousness of one or both it is a great way to break the ice and for regular partners it starts the warming up process to the explosive end
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    Jan 9, 2016

    With a lot of kissing,

    licking, sucking & of course suckling.
    Gia1996 Gia1996
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    Foreplay is a very essential part of the act,

    I need plenty foreplay, kissing, groping and fingering plus a good licking to get me ready for it.
    juicylucy69 juicylucy69
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Feb 28, 2016

    Love It!

    I seriously love foreplay. Especially went it lasts for hours. Messages back and forth during the day. Sending dirty little pictures. Out together, we discreetly or even not so, fondle each other. You "accidentally" brush my nipples as you raise your hand. I rub your **** so that...
    32DDtits 32DDtits
    46-50, F
    23 Responses May 12, 2013

    It can last all day start with a text a touch

    as you open the car door . She bra free for me . Standing waiting for table my croch on her ***. Hand on **** as we sit at table. ...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    Five Senses....

    Watching as you walk towards me... The musky all-male smell the is uniquely you... Fingers reaching out to trail over your hot skin... Tongue tasting as it moves up the side of your neck... Listening as your breathing gets rough and shallow...   Indulging my...
    MissSass MissSass
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 18, 2010

    Ohh **** Me.............

    Without is just nothingness.............any woman who refuses to suck her mans **** is just looking him to cheat on her...............any man who refuses to eat ***** is equally dillusional.............Tonight hubby and i had some pretty intense foreplay for a...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Jan 1, 2012

    It'S Needed

    you need foreplay or at least I do. Going slow, exploring every inch of her and her reactions to your kiss, touch, kissing, savoring every moment, every inch of her, every curve, every scent, every taste.
    Jackk45 Jackk45
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 31, 2013

    That is the first sign on how things with this

    person is going to be a1 or a ton 99999999999 (of #'s)!! LOL
    harleyrider2009 harleyrider2009
    56-60, M
    Aug 26, 2015

    Since we are not rabbits

    but humans, we shouldn't act like rabbits right? lol.. sex is not the intercourse only, guys, don't believe the fcking **** which fcks your brains these days. sex starts with a touch, smile, look, and flirting, and goes on with foreplay, and finally there is no turning back...
    Gallantio Gallantio
    41-45, M
    Jan 30, 2016

    Sometimes if the foreplay was long

    that was better than the sex itself. I really enjoy pleasing a woman! I could do it all day!
    deleted deleted
    Sep 25, 2015

    When I Carried Her Into The Bedroom, She Glanced Over And Noticed I Had Placed The Pillows.....

    .... in such a special way. When I kneeled on the bed with her in my arms I placed her buttocks on top of two pillows so she would be tilted back and could watch everything I did to pleasure her. I slowly removed all of her clothing and had her hold her legs back towards her...
    JeffLAS JeffLAS
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2013

    As of this writing, I'm not in a physical

    relationship so foreplay is really all I've got... not that I would give it up once things get more intimate. I love hugging and kissing and exploring each others bodies, finding out what kinds of reactions we can get out of each other just by applying pressure in one spot...
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2014


    Touching, caressing, kissing, exploring, playing, teasing, wanting, needing, short of breath, first touches, needing, slowing down, starting over, warmth, heat, wetness, panting, wanting, moans, hardness, softness, tasting, smelling, how can you not love it and want it to last...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 13, 2012

    Imagination I'd everything.

    Not stories of what you'll do to me, with strange settings and lots of rude words. Subtlety. Teasing is good. Feathers. Leather. Handcuffs. I love how a man can pick an ****** with the minimum of contact with me. How he can make me so excited that I may squirt!
    Desartes Desartes
    26-30, F
    7 Responses May 20, 2014
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