I Like Guys Who Are Older Than Me

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    There's a reason I never dated in high school.

    I wasn't able to relate to people my own age and I've never been with anyone less than 5 years older than me. Currently, I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 33. To be honest, I'm still a bit more mature than he is but I find his childlike enthusiasm very endearing.
    NadieVI NadieVI
    26-30, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    In highschool, I had the biggest crush on my

    best friend's dad. Never told her, of course. But I'd sleepover at her house and hope to catch him looking at me. Lol
    lindseyy11 lindseyy11
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    always have and always prefer a older guy I

    tried dating a lad my age never again
    Desperatehousewife1986 Desperatehousewife1986
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    would love to date a younger girl.

    OK I'm 50 now but there's something about a younger girl that attracts me towards them. specially if they have long hair and love having there hair brushed and played with. any girls from the UK. send me a message would love to chat
    longerhairstyler longerhairstyler
    51-55, M
    Mar 16, 2016

    I'm bored and I like talking.

    Anyone is free to message me ❤️💙
    SydKid SydKid
    16-17, F
    Feb 7, 2016

    I used to love men getting

    so excited about our age differences, the bigger the age gap the better. I still love older men, but it's not the same as being 50-60 years younger than a man. I loved doing things I knew they hadn't done in years.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    I had this relationship with a married man he

    is 47 and darn sexy! 13 years older than me, i wish i married an older sexy man!
    mymami mymami
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    Older guys are more mature

    and can carry on an intelligent conversation compared to guys my age. Guys my age are either goofy or self-centered.
    littlebumps littlebumps
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    I am not really sure why

    but I like guys who are older than me. I think I always have for a while.
    AfraidOfMyOwnMind AfraidOfMyOwnMind
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 16, 2015

    I've made an experience like this before,

    and I got 20 messages from old pervs, so just to clarify, as in "older" I mean 20-25, NOT 30-60, ._.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 1, 2015

    This is quite embarrassing

    since this is my first serious crush; as in I really want to get to know him personally and just spend time with him. Minor details to know is that there is a bit of an age gap of eight years and he is not an "official" teacher, meaning he works at my prep school full-time. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 16, 2016
    ImABabyBoy ImABabyBoy
    13-15, T
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016
    JenniferBlack JenniferBlack
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    I am so glad i came across this website,

    I am attracted to men who are older than me. At first i found it weird but now i am beginning to accept it because i am 20.
    Ratiwe Ratiwe
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Mar 23, 2016

    I've talked to a few guys

    who were 10+ years older than me even though I'm only 16. So much more respectable and maturer than guys my age in my opinion. Can't say that for all of them though. There's good and bad in everything.
    blackheartlover blackheartlover
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    I was dating a 44 year old!

    Not the best thing but it was awsome!!!! I like the 33 year old better!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    Anyone interested in teaching a naughty

    masochistic little girl a lesson?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    I don't know why but there is something

    so sexy about a guy in their fortys. Maybe it's the scruff on their face? The experience (if you get what I mean)?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Feb 17, 2016
    KCups18 KCups18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2016

    Any guy over 20 to 35.

    I want a cute older guy that gets flustered easily.
    Yadirarubi Yadirarubi
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    I am dating a man 7 years older then me he is 30

    and I am 23 we met on okcupid we both have disabilities he has autism I am in a wheelchair he lives in midland I live in Saginaw
    Christiancountrygirl Christiancountrygirl
    22-25, F
    Nov 26, 2015

    The combination of experience

    and stability is what does it for me. I also can't resist some salt and pepper hair or a silver fox.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Mar 25, 2016

    definately, older guys have more of a chance of

    having the maturity and responsibility and respect that you should expect, but doesn't mean all older guys have those qualities.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    I find that men who ate older

    than me being a different perspective about sex. Young guys want to get themselves off, guys my age want to get us both off, but older men want to get me off. I like that in a man.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    i like guys my age too

    but i like starting to like guys older then me cause they know what their doing and how to do it.
    wsstar wsstar
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Apr 5, 2015

    any girls or women looking

    for a older man to date
    DaddyTonyB DaddyTonyB
    41-45, M
    Nov 24, 2015

    I really like guys who are older

    than me. For me age is just a number. Age doesn't matter if you really love each other. :)
    melodyyyy melodyyyy
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    Any older guys wanna chat?

    I'll show anything;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    They aren't stupid like the guys my age

    and act dumb and inmature
    JessLion JessLion
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    I have been with two men over the age of 60.

    . I feel so dirty. they both made me call them daddy... one even talked about thing he wanted his dog to do to me...
    SummerK267 SummerK267
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 23, 2016
    hurrytfup hurrytfup
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 31, 2015

    It happened again. I fell

    for a guy a decade older than I am. Although he is fun and young at heart. we are having so many issues, i think it's mainly because of me. but seriously? another one? urgh!
    QueenofIceandRoses QueenofIceandRoses
    22-25, F
    Apr 20, 2016
    masterangel1977 masterangel1977
    36-40, M
    Nov 12, 2015

    I NEED ADVICE! So, I've just written a 3 page

    letter to my teacher crush explaining my feelings for him, where the stem from, and why I think I feel this way towards him. I also said that I would never do anything that would put his job or his marriage on the line. Not only that, but I also wrote examples of what made me...
    Hfms99 Hfms99
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Feb 22, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    I'm a 17 year old virgin

    and it's so embarrassing. I feel like the only virgin left. I ********** every night. And i honestly just want to loose my virginity already. My issue is I like older men. But if an older man is interested in me he's usually a pervert. I've had a hard life and I've had to...
    ahitsbrie ahitsbrie
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    I'm a 50 yr old guy. I would love to date

    or chat with younger girls. I get on better with younger girls and I have been with a few younger ones since my divorce. I specially like girls with long hair that love to have their hair brushed and played with. I'm from the UK
    longerhairstyler longerhairstyler
    51-55, M
    Mar 16, 2016

    Im living with my aunt

    and her boyfriend M. In the last days i havê a flu and because my aunt is out of th e town he is taking care of me. I had allways check in both of th em but i must admite that once i Saw m. Naked i start to fantasise with him. I know he look at me too. As im writing this layed...
    straightbi straightbi
    18-21, M
    Oct 27, 2015

    I like experienced older guys.

    it's much hotter when they know what I like. message me (;
    asweparade asweparade
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2015

    before i start this is not a hook up wanted ad

    this me stating why i like older and do not wish for them to come to me wanting thing. number 1 i like older guys for the respect number 2 the deep conversation we can have that do not in-pile that. 3 it the romance side young guys dont really know how to woo a girl now a day...
    akiwolf akiwolf
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2015
    weng26 weng26
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    I don't know why, I can't date guys my age.

    It sounds bad. I'm only 14 and I always find myself crushing on 17 18 19 year olds. It's not my fault. I can help it.. I just find myself attracted to guys older then me ! Is this bad ?
    Mimi3430 Mimi3430
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 6, 2013
    lisetterod18 lisetterod18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015
    weng26 weng26
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2016

    Not dramatically older.

    Like 5 years would be the absolute maximum. I seem to only like guys who are older for some reason. All the guys I've ever liked were 1-4 years older than me. I guess I appreciate maturity and well, what development does to a guy physically.
    PierceTheMarua PierceTheMarua
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2016

    Again, the title says it all!

    But, let's dig deeper... Today I went to visit my dad at work (he owns a car dealership) my intent was to bring the salesmen lunch (there's about 6 of them) just to be kind. They love it when I do this, and they flirt with me a lot (there ages range from 25-45) Like, a lot. So...
    Hfms99 Hfms99
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2014
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