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I Like Intelligent Men

First reason to be attracted to a guy - Intelligence. Then comes the rest. 445 People

    I had this professor whom I had a major crush

    and I just loved the way he spoke and how passionate he taught the subjects. Sad he moved away.
    jadestrangely jadestrangely 22-25, F Aug 28, 2014

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    i just think they give out this aura

    that is just so desirable and i like it when they can keep up a converstation. i just find it s e x y especially if they have glasses on
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    I Got a Thing For Professors

    Do I love intelligence and education!  I especially love guys in the hard sciences like math and physics.  I am thinking of getting my Ph.D in literture/classics and the professors turn me on.  I don't care too much for the ones in my field or interests, but the...
    learningcurve13 learningcurve13 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2008

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    Nothing More Sexy

    There is nothing more sexy than an intelligent man. One that can hold a good conversation,make you laugh,matching wits. A man that's intelligent turns me on more than anything because he stimulates my mind first. Yes there is nothing more sexy than an intelligent man. NOTHING AT...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    WANTED: Man With High Iq

    I love intelligent men.  Intellect is so sexy and if I have to choose between brains and looks then I am choosing brains any day.  I cannot get turned on by a man that isn’t at least above average in intelligence.  No offense to those of us that aren’t...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 63 Responses May 15, 2008

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    Above All

    I love having intelligent male friends with whom I can talk and share.
    butterflygirl09 butterflygirl09 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Well I also like men

    who are really fit and positive. I also like guys with nice big arms and a lil hairy chest๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ˜ Also shy and awkward like me
    Jamila94 Jamila94 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    I Want An Intellectual Equal

    I just know that in a relationship I cannot live on physical contact alone. I need intellectual stimulation, I need to be able to flex my mind and test it on him in passionate intellectual exchanges as well. It is part of the turn on. The better we communicate and are on the same...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2012

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    Corvette

    Donโ€™t look at the face. He may be a tall drop dead gorgeous hot guy. Like you could count the washboard abs! He may have money, manners, or very popular and charming. He may love to have fun and go wherever he wants. He may be a real hunk as they categorize it. But at the end...
    FreeyourSoul FreeyourSoul 70+ 3 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    Smart an charming. All

    that I want...
    JessicaIs20 JessicaIs20 22-25, F Jan 5, 2014

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    I am pathetically on the verge of being

    infatuated with a man named -Manuel. -He's 6 feet, 2 inches of pure sarcasm. -Systems Engineer at a software firm, where he rules. -Digs cool **** like the Open Source Movement. -He's 22 years old. -Mature as hell. -Makes me feel fuzzy inside. -Stubborn. -Intelligent...
    Devly Devly 18-21, F Dec 13, 2013

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    I Want A Man...

    I want a man that knows his stuff. If he only knows how to cook, if he knows it well he's attractive to me. But of he knows absolutely everything, I will loathe him. If he knows a little about a lot of topics he won't be able to keep up and if he knows nothing I will feel sorry...
    BeautifulMyth BeautifulMyth 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Oh My Yes

    If you can stimulate my brain, that's the biggest turn-on...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2011

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    As hot as a guy can be,

    without brains, he's nothing
    abercrombie99 abercrombie99 13-15, M Jul 10, 2014

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    Quote Me Shakespeare And Poe....

    Ah nothing besides a 'Vette makes me met like an intelligent man. He's got style, he's got class and yeah with his knowledge of fine arts, he knows how to get my ***. Likes Van Gogh, Picasso and Monet too. He feels comfortable in many settings even taking my girl to the zoo...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 3, 2011

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    The Professor Continues

    It's now been over three years since I met my professor. I can't say we actually ever dated. We seem to be extended acquaintances. We were very close throughout 2011 while I worked on his book. The book he said had a publisher for, but didn't. I spent nearly six months...
    learningcurve13 learningcurve13 41-45, F Jul 29, 2012

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    The Shy Professor

    Alright, intelligent men are my weakness.  I have a crush on one of my former professors (I am no longer his student), but it is driving me crazy!  He shows me all the interest, but never makes a move.  I come forward, but he does not seem to take the hints. ...
    learningcurve13 learningcurve13 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Intelligence Is Attractive.

    Most intelligent men are attractive. Some are overbearing and have no common sense, but that can be anyone too. A lot of men I've met who I can communicate on a high level with are the ones I am more attracted to. I think it's because we can either share similar thoughts and...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F Nov 22, 2008

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    Just trying to say I like men.

    Lol there is parently no one experiencing this. I often feel that the forgotten sexual orientation is heterosexual nowadays. Lol I think noo matter what someone is going to think someone else is wrong. Soon us straightys will be outcasts. Weird how things turn out
    KJ935 KJ935 18-21, F 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Don't You Love It...

    When a man you find even semi-attactive is talking about a subject he is very knowledge on that you also find interesting? That always just makes my heart melt for some reason.
    songno1sings songno1sings 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2008

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    What A Difference A Year Makes!

    I did not know I posted about my shy former professor over a year ago. I had this incredible urge to do an update on the story, since what I thought was true a year ago was not the case at all. My shy professor had no problems dating a student. His problems stemmed from...
    learningcurve13 learningcurve13 41-45, F Oct 10, 2010

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    Brains Required...lol

    I do tend to enjoy surrounding myself with intelligent men.  If a man is not intelligent, I get bored rather quickly.  Depending on the person and the situation, I could find myself talking about everything from politics to sports to some highly charged flirtatious...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    I like guys who can keep the conversation going.

    Especially when a guy writes long and meaningful messages to me. ??
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2014

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    I like a guy who in our class.

    He is cute. But He is a year younger than me.
    fitwealth fitwealth 26-30, F Jan 27

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    Body Used to Be #1

    But now-- its smart guys.... Seriously.... I am very attracted to brains... As I have said-- Love guys with glasses-- but glasses dont have alot to do with brains..... BRAINS ARE SEXY
    BurgundyGirl BurgundyGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2007

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    Intelligence Is So Sexy

    I have a hard time with dumb people, but hate a dumb guy.  I love intelligence, being able to talk about something other than what I am wearing or if I swallow,  is so nice and refreshing.  Talking about books, ideas, travel, food, and speaking with knowledge and...
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 5, 2008

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    His Intelligence Is Sexy...........

    I not only like intelligent men - I tend to fall in LOVE with them!!!  If they aren't smarter than me (and I'm kind of smart) then I tend to think they're an idiot - and usually don't have any respect for him.  I know it's sounding like I'm snobbish - but...
    SingEmily SingEmily 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    My Former Writing Professor

    I have feelings for my former professor. He is married with kids and is also a playwright. It started out as a conversation and then I started to notice his actions. Every silly thing I said made him laugh or smile. I would walk into the room and he would look up. The cherry on...
    BrokenFlowers4me BrokenFlowers4me 26-30, F Jan 9, 2013

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    Nourish My Soul

    If you're just talking about sex, i guess it doesn't really matter if he's a less than sharp man..but if you're talking about nourishing my soul, i llke a man who can stimulate me more ways than one!!    P.
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 8 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Hello, Dr J.

    This morning we had an in-service update on care of high risk neonates. We had an awesome neonatologist lecturer. Dr. J was brilliant, as usual. He talked for 3 straight hours, but I found myself listening intently. Nothings makes my heart beat fast than listening to a man who...
    thissillyatom thissillyatom 22-25, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I Love Talking To Sensible People.

    Time is not wasted on talking to intelligent people. We can talk anything under the sun, and learn new facts on them.
    Jennypinks Jennypinks 46-50, F Sep 1, 2013

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    I like younger men or men my age, but like the hipster side of guys or emo/scene type of guys. :P
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    Teenage boys do nothing for me. Never have. I like older men for many reasons but mainly because they are more attractive. Better body, able to rock facial hair. And yeah the...
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    I have always like older men, even though I'm a teenager . I have always found myself wanting an older man , I know that its wrong but I can't help it.
    TropicalIsland TropicalIsland 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    why do short girls especially like tall men? its like we enjoy struggling to reach someone just so we can kiss them lol.
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    I feel I live in the wrong part of the world. Certainly in this country. Have talked with lots of teen girls who are very naughty and, at least say, want to get together...
    woodyone1 woodyone1 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    I am attracted and settle down and around with intellectual men. I thoroughly enjoy being with an intelligent man. He normally has a higher paying job than minimum wage, college...
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    And I'll tell you why. They are strong - and - they are intelligent.
    bethlan bethlan 18-21, F Jan 29

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    So very tired of men who can't hold a conversation, or have no idea how to debate, or has no clue about poetry or the arts. Gimme a man with smarts and watch me open up like a...
    WildEyedGirl WildEyedGirl 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Looking to chat with an intelligent, attractive man aged 22-39.
    Lelayla Lelayla 31-35, F 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    I like to think my wife and I are intelligent. We embrace nudity too as clothing seems unnecessary when in a warm environment. Here she is in her glory!
    EclipseV EclipseV 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
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