I Like Someone I Can't Be With

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 518 People

    I feel like a horrible person

    for liking a guy right now... 😕
    AshleaHuff AshleaHuff
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    This guy I know he's real by the way I've seen

    him and anyways ... I like this guy but 1. He's straight 2. I'm his Bestfriend
    Javier09 Javier09
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    You like them, they don't like you!

    Then you start to get over them and they try to get back in touch with you... not cool
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

    I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship

    and I've already left once. My time away was amazing and horrible at the same time. During the "break" I went on a couple of dates with a female co-worker (I'm bi) and it felt amazing being with her. We have a lot in common and our humor is similar. I developed strong feelings...
    emoteemo emoteemo
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2014

    im having an affair with married man

    and im married too. we got to know each other since we were teenager. I really liked him. after 15 years we met again. I want him. but we both married
    amoda amoda
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 17, 2015


    right now i like a lot of people i cant be with. 2 of which i work with, one of which doesnt even see me that way, and to the others theres things standing in the way...the one i like the most doesnt see me that way, and it kills me. i guess all in all im just sick of the...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 19, 2007

    Bad things always seem to happen to me

    when I begin to really like someone. Here is one example. At the beginning of this year, I started talking to this guy more. Eventually I developed feelings for him and I thought he would be the one. I was excited to spend time with him (although he didn't know I liked him) I...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2014


    I'm slowly getting over him.  There are days when I barely think of him.  But then there are days when everything I see or hear reminds me of him and the way he smells and of his beautiful face. I hate not being with him.  But, I know that it's better off this way...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2008

    I have this new friend?

    If that's how he sees it, too. He's fun being with. He makes me laugh, he takes my mind off stressful work. He can be amazing cause he's really smart and wise. He often says good stuff about me, but it's more of making fun of me instead of complimenting me. One time, we sat...
    itcheru itcheru
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2015

    When you like someone

    so much that it's painful
    emelon12 emelon12
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    Sometimes I just don't understand.

    I never end up with the person I really like. Either there's always someone else or I'm just not good enough. But what about when someone leads you on and then you finally have the courage to tell them how you feel? They just want to be friends. This happened to me last month...
    blackspikex blackspikex
    22-25, F
    Jan 20, 2015

    I found someone I like a lot!

    Sadly he lives in a different part of the world. But I don't care. I can still be happy talking with that person. As long as they are in my life I will be happy. :)
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    Can't Be With Him

            ...because he is my best friend.. sigh*
    sstmofadwn sstmofadwn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2009

    It sucks, but honestly what are you going to do

    about it? just grin and bear it and wait for the day she no longer crosses your mind.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    I Like Someone I Shouldn'T Like

    I'm a lesbian and committed to my beautiful girlfriend of three years. But I have a crush on a woman who is twenty years older than me and straight. Do I take the risk of getting involved with my crush?
    mikkis mikkis
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2013

    He moved to Pennsylvania at the end of December.

    We had a pretty interesting partnership for about a month before he left. I was really digging his energy, & he knew a little bit of everything. His entire existence was just a surplus of random facts. We were really vibing, & than he peaced out. Sure, we still like each other...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2014

    There is this guy I am starting to like,

    but I know it can NEVER happen. And there are various reasons why. I mean, who would want to even think about dating a girl like me? I'm plus size. Im depressed. I have severe anxiety. There are too many things wrong with me. And also, he is a flirt to almost every girl he meets...
    tomaddyandbeyond tomaddyandbeyond
    18-21, F
    Jan 6, 2014

    I like this guy who I can't be with.

    He so hot. I see him every now and than. He live in my building. He probably 24 years old I think or around that age. His white, I like white guys. I saw him yesterday. I stared at him for a min. I didn't want him to see me and think I'm weird for staring at him. I can't help it...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    My best friend is so pretty

    and everytime I like someone they end up having a crush on her.. Makes me feel like poop.
    GJ23 GJ23
    18-21, F
    Dec 4, 2013

    It sucks when you're ignored by the person

    whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her either. Through my mind, I was thinking, "you know what, I'm gonna try to...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789
    18-21, M
    Apr 2, 2014

    I like someone who Is my friends ex Which is

    really awkward I really do like them but I don't want to hurt my friend
    MissHannah97 MissHannah97
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2014

    Her name is Emma She's 13,

    pretty, almost perfect and skilled at anything, and loves and likes anything... except me:( Right now, she hates me so much. Wat should i do to make her change her vision of me?
    filipinotroll41 filipinotroll41
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 22, 2014

    I'm Scared Of Being Hurt

    I really like a guy (he's called Cody) who has been my best friend for over a year, he's good looking, charming, just one of those safe trustworthly guys. The sad thing is along time ago, months ago actually he nearly slept with my friend Sel, she is the kind of girl that would...
    mysteryteen mysteryteen
    18-21, F
    Jun 14, 2012

    Okay so I'm a little (very) confused

    and need you guys' opinions and thoughts. Well I have my eye on this really cute guy at school and he's tall, dark and funny and seems so sweet to me. I always think about him but for some reason I don't feel sexually attracted to him yet. I get butterflies in my stomach when I...
    eleanorxx eleanorxx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2014

    It's hard Negl it just puts me down especially

    when they lead you on to thinking that you have a chance but then boom nah you don't that grips my **** .
    itsamyy itsamyy
    18-21, F
    Apr 9, 2014

    Have you ever liked someone,

    but you know you shouldn't because they aren't a good person for you ? Well that's happened to me...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014

    I just have deep passion

    for multiple people but the one person I always end up having the deepest emotions for is someone I can't be with. It's an inappropriate bond that I can't act on. It's wrong and I know it is on so many levels and I'm not sure if he just cares for me or feels the same way I do...
    SnoopDoggsGrama SnoopDoggsGrama
    18-21, F
    May 16, 2015

    I am starting to catch feelings

    for my friend and she has a boyfriend (long distance) and I'm the type of friend who's really touchy feely and like i like to share emotion ig is the way to say it and well we are kind of really close and i try to keep my distance at times but we always end up coming back to...
    Frankie1duhh Frankie1duhh
    22-25, F
    May 16, 2015

    I like this girl in my tech school

    but I can't tell her because she wouldn't care. She talks to a lot of guys and craziest part is we have a snapchat and we had a great convo on there the other day. But in school she doesn't know I exist. She talks to this guy and she is friends with him that sits next to her...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 18, 2016

    When you have a friend

    that you sorta like, but they're an online friend, you don't know if they like you too and you do/don't want a long distance relationship....it's so confusing
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015
    WheatleyC0re WheatleyC0re
    70+, M
    Nov 22, 2014

    I Almost Feel Like I Don't Have a Heart

    I like plenty of people. I can't be with any of them. I am a coward. They won't like me for me. I fear commitment. I don't have the resources. It is simply impossible. I have been scared by previous experiences. These are all the escuses I use on a daily basis. Truth...
    QuincyArcher QuincyArcher
    1 Response Jun 18, 2009

    I made a friend on august 26th 2014 He meant

    the world to me. We got to know each other better started to love him. We were (still consider) best friends but talked like bf/gf. October 4th 2014 I was on a day out with my family. He had asked me out but it had surprised me. From then we had a great relationship. Side info...
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    There is a guy who is two years older

    than me. I met him while hanging out with my brother (who is 3 years older than me) and we started hanging out by ourselves. He isn't really attractive but I'm starting to like him. My brother and his ex told me to stay away from him and, I don't know about anyone else, but when...
    BandGeek741 BandGeek741
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    Very True.......

    He's in another country & neither one of us has the money or ability to get together at this time. It doesn't mean we've given up hope......... We just have to wait longer is all. I still like him (love him bunches actually) but we are always going to be good friends...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 8, 2009

    I have a crush on this guy,

    he is my old long lost friend. We've never met for three years so i don't really know exactly what he is doing, what he is up to, etc... Recently i just contact him through chat but it seems like there is no hope cause i was the one who started all conversation, questions.. It...
    jsmnsu jsmnsu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2014


    I like my brothers friend. my brother is 2 years older than me, but his friend is 3 years older. the reason i can never be with him is because my brother made it very clear to his friends that he would never be ok with any of his friends even hitting on me.
    em4040 em4040
    18-21, F
    Dec 31, 2007

    I like a couple of guys.

    They don't want to be with me :(
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2014

    Is unfair that the person I like is in the year

    below me at school, then we make eye contact and they brushed themselves against me sometimes but that's it :( I don't even know if he likes me
    eleanorxx eleanorxx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    I Can't Find My Own Advice

    Me? I am the advice person of my friends and collegues. I have a vault "this big" and its always expanding and I search and love knowledge. My advising is something that I love to share. But I've run into a roadblock. I ended up liking a guy I just can't have. I think...
    imstuckinhere imstuckinhere
    3 Responses Nov 13, 2008

    Why do I think about a guy

    that doesn't even want to date me...
    learningtobeatruechristian learningtobeatruechristian
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2015
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