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I Like to Be Both Sexually Dominant and Submissive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 198 People


    My husband and I have always had a great sex life. Recently, he has vocalized that he wants me to dominate him sexually. I am naturally submissive, so the dominating is a bit out of my relm of experience, so I am not sure how exactly to go about initiating this type of role. Any...
    jmrod jmrod
    26-30, F
    Jul 12, 2012

    Yin And Yang

    Life is about balance. I love tying her up. I love instructing her. I love making her beg for it. I love to tease. But I also enjoy being tied up (something I don't get all that often). I love when she pushes me onto my back and has her way with me. Hell yeah!
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Apr 26, 2012

    Change Is Good

     I grew up wanting to be a playboy man.  Which meant to me I would be sauve and confident.  The reality was I was taught most of my sexual technique from more experienced women.  But when I wasn't being taught, I was the one doing the teaching.  After I...
    rw5453 rw5453
    56-60, M
    1 Response May 25, 2009

    Brand New

    My wife and i have talked about D/s for a while but never done it. My job takes me away from her all summer. Two weeks from now I get home and we're starting to talk about everything we're going to do. I wanted to get some direction as I imagine comfort and confidence are...
    dtploki dtploki
    1 Response Jul 28, 2009

    First Online Mistress

    I was doing a random cam on Chatroulette when i met a black woman from UK. I didn't asked her age, seemed about 40, looking nice and with a warm sexy voice, we were both dressed. She told me that she is a mistress and loves submissive boys, she dominates them with ******* etc...
    simbian simbian
    31-35, M
    Jul 17, 2012

    Taking My Birthday Present

    It was my birthday. My friend Michelle invited me over for lunch. She mentioned she had a present for me and just wanted to say hi on my birthday. As she was close to my work I figured I would take her up on her offer. A free meal and a present. How could I pass up. We...
    Dakota74 Dakota74
    36-40, M
    Apr 25, 2012


    i don't know - You tell me. :)
    jismlicious jismlicious
    51-55, M
    Nov 25, 2009

    Flexible Talents

    I'm a switch so i find it satisfying either side of the coin, i think for me it's easier to learn more the other role if you've experienced it yourself. 
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2010

    Love Both

    I can intensly enjoy the power I have over a blindfolded girl, tied up and left to my devices. To know that with every sound and touch she is trying to regroup her senses to grasp what is happening to her. to drive her mad, slowly. But perhaps even more I love being the one out...
    raevenwhisperer1985 raevenwhisperer1985
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2011
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