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I Like to Be Controlled

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 956 People

    Not In All Ways, And Not By Just Anyone

    I spent five years basically being a Mommy Domme type (though I had no idea that's what was actually going on) to a man who, though chronologically 17 years my senior, was a mostly submissive sexual little with different ages (about 6 and 16). He rarely wanted to exercise any...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 2, 2011


    Because to me if My Man is a controlling that just shows me that he cares & cares a bout what I do :) & it really turns Me on too idk y ? I would eve dress how my bf wanted me too just because I think that as a gf it is my job to b a good listener & do what Iam told :) & I really...
    wolfspider wolfspider
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Ok, Yeah I'm In.

    Maybe a little too much.  How so? Well, the Mistress i have submitted to shot down an idea of mine a little while ago. i wanted to set up a live webcam stream that She could check in on to make sure i was behaving. She said that was just feeding my fetish for exhibitionism. And...
    johnnybliss johnnybliss
    41-45, M
    Mar 1, 2011

    Dominant But Loving Woman

    I love it when I meet a dominant but loving woman, I have been with more than one Lesbian or Bisexual woman. sometimes just as friends sometimes more. I just love it. There was one Lady I knew and we were just friends but we became close friends. She got a kick out of seeing me...
    missytiger missytiger
    61-65, T
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    I have started my own personal harem.

    I am looking for women who want to join a bdsm harem. Any women who are serious in serving a master in a harem setting contact me.
    tsastini83 tsastini83
    31-35, M
    Nov 23, 2015

    I wish I could be a puppet.

    I would love someone to tie strings to me and turn me into their very own human marionette. They could make me dance for them and move around at their will for their own amusement. I like being told what to do. I like being led. I like someone to make my decisions for me...
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    1 Response Mar 1, 2014

    How It Started

    I was 18.left home.headed for California.I had a hard time making a living,things were expensive,jobs limited.I was life guard at the beach of a big hotel and club with a private beach. I met a very attractive couple,they flirted with me,I was handsome,well built,and...
    new2biway new2biway
    61-65, M
    Feb 22, 2010

    Controlled by blackmail,

    made to do unspeakable things, forced to submit to you & your friends, perhaps naked around only clothed men...humiliated as much as possible. Hmmmm(;
    emileenicole31 emileenicole31
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 13, 2016


    I discovered that I like boundaries and edges in my life, not because I like being obedient and safe -- in fact, I prefer the opposite. But the boundaries show me where "safe" ends, so I can tear through it with purpose and calculation. In fact, the icon for this group is right...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2011

    Having Control Imposed

    I would love to meet a really strict, dominant and ultra controlling man who would train me to serve as his personal servant/slave.  He would quickly bring me under his total control and authority in an extremely aggressive manner using physical and mental...
    silkysarah silkysarah
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Oct 24, 2009

    Last Friday Night

    I guess the appropriate word to describe it would be INCREDIBLE! My fiancée knows that I like things a little rough but it's only on rare occasions that he accommodates it. He must have been feeling a little feisty. I had my back to him and he was rubbing my body, my ****, my...
    Mel520 Mel520
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2011

    Young Slutty CD

    hey im a young CD thats willing to meet for fun, swap pictures and have cam, or just a chat! i am bi- sexual, so females or males welcome, and of course other cross drssers/ transvestites! i also enjoy bondage and wearing tights. im willing to do anything and to be made your...
    Millie17 Millie17
    18-21, M
    Feb 13, 2013

    The Freedom In Being Controlled.

    There is something primal within me about the need to be controlled, especially sexually controlled by someone who i feel very emotional connected to. To be told after being allowed to speak, my words heard, that i have no choice but to do as i am told. to know the Dominant has...
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    1 Response Oct 30, 2011

    I'm A Novice Submissive. Looking For A Man To Dominate Me Online. I Want To Be A Good Girl.

    My name is Mary and I'm a submissive. In day to day life I think of myself as a strong and independent woman. When it comes to the erotic, to sexual things though, I find myself feeling - wanting to be - submissive to a man, to be a good little girl who does as she's told. I want...
    Mary26 Mary26
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2011


    In my earlier teens I had started cross dressing for reasons unknown and enjoyed it for several years but I hadn't done much for the last two years.I had discovered girls and all the fun they could be and cross dressing had fallen by the wayside.  When I was seventeen I had a...
    amandatrane amandatrane
    Apr 17, 2012

    Obedient To Child Killer

    My name is Matt, I am being controlled by a woman who killed a small child, and not doing a thing about it. In the process many victims are being hurt. I am sinner what can I say. I am obedient to a lady who beat a boy to death with a spoon. I have misused blessings given to me...
    controlledmatt controlledmatt
    70+, M
    Dec 23, 2011

    Told What To Do.

    I don't know why but I love being Controlled. All my friends tell me what to do and I do it. I need a man or a woman to make me her Sissy and take Control.
    SissyTony SissyTony
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2013


    phillstarz phillstarz
    Jun 2, 2010

    Someone want to control my bladder?

    I don't have to too bad right now but maybe you could fix that. I'm up for almost anything. Message me if your interested.
    Yourfallenangel15 Yourfallenangel15
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    I am a follower. I need rules.

    I need to be guided. I need to feel controlled and owned.
    rickie53 rickie53
    46-50, M
    Apr 9, 2014

    Having Control Imposed

    I would love to meet a really strict, dominant and ultra controlling man who would train me to serve as his personal servant/slave.  He would quickly bring me under his total control and authority in an extremely aggressive manner using physical and mental...
    silkysarah silkysarah
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 24, 2009

    Not always and not constantly

    but at times and for varying amounts of time I do enjoy being controlled and told how to dress, when to dress, what to wear and so on. It has helped me to stretch my limits, explore my desires and fantasies, and become a much less inhibited about my transvestism.
    amandatrane1 amandatrane1
    51-55, T
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    I have to laugh a little

    when I see posts that say things like "I will let you" or "you can" when it's a sub referring to her daddy, dom, master etc. To me there is no "let" or "can" He doesn't need me to tell him those things, he already knows, lol. It's not mine to give or decide what he can or...
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    1 Response Feb 10, 2016

    I'm looking for a sub ,

    preferably long term, who is willing to be obedient. In return you will be taken care of and kept safe. I understand submission comes after respect and that Dosent happen in a day , but I'm patient. If you are interested, pm me or ki-k me at 1785702
    deleted deleted
    May 24, 2015

    He controls me with a simple look.

    It's insane how intense his power over me is.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 9, 2016


    I can't really explain this about myself. i was reading another story in this group to try understand in what context being controlled mean't...i kinda related to the descriptions that person gave until they made it sound like a fetish thing lol and that's not how it relates to...
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2010

    Security, Stability, Structure

    I am almost hesitant to admit this here... but I swore I would be honest on EP, so here goes.I do like to be controlled.I grew up in a chaotic household, raised by a chaotic and very lenient mother. She was never home, and when she was, she never cared whether I was or not. There...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Aug 17, 2011
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