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I Like to Feel Safe and Secure

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 359 People

    I'm Not So Adventurous

    Well, maybe I was more so when I was younger but these days I value safety, comfort, and security more than anything. Being with my family and knowing all is well with them, being able to hold them and hug and be close...that is my happiness. I worry a lot about the terrible...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Doernbecher Children's Hospital...

    The place I feel safe and secure at is Doernbecher Children's Hospital. There are many reasons I feel so safe at Doernbecher Children's Hospital. Is it is the place I went when I was first newly diagnosed with leukemia. This hospital has become my comfort zone. I know all of the...
    challege challege 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    I Need To Feel It (Story 98)

    I feel safe with my dad. I used to feel safe and secure with my mother's boyfriend, but never got close to him again after he did what he did to me. It became hard to trust anyone after that. I don't feel safe and secure with my husband very often. I want to feel, secure...
    shimmeringrose shimmeringrose 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Dad

     My dad makes me feel this way. I guess because, if there was an actual emergency, he would know what to do. I feel safe in that knowledge. Also, so many times I have been *so close* to getting hurt, and he has come to my rescue. So many situations would have turned out...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Oct 3, 2008

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    This Is What I Want!

        Within His Arms Within his arms where his strength lies This is what I see through my eyes Within his arms there is warmth of love as soft as a white winged dove Within his arms there is a sweet embrace When I look up I see a smile on his face...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    The Places I Feel Safe Are:

    With my stuffed animals, while communicating with God, hugging my mum, in the bathroom, in my bed, when I sleep, when I daydream, with my imaginary friend (I know, I know), when I am indoors, when my parents stop fighting, When people aren't mad at me, when people aren't staring...
    MysteriousMiracle MysteriousMiracle 13-15, F Nov 6, 2009

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    I didn't always feel safe growing up.

    My sister was a bully to the point where her abuse threatened my life. I also dealt with bullies in school. This has left me pretty damaged. I have a lot of fear in my life. I have trust issues (and some other general issues). So I love feeling safe. I love my friends that make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    I don't know who is gona be angry with me next.

    Who is monitoring me in the background in the dark. Who would judge me for what I did. Who would tell me I'm pathetic unworthy. I d give up anything to stay away from those people.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2014

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    He Makes Me Feel This Way

    I never realized how important this is to me until recently.  I ALWAYS have trouble sleeping in the last months.  Sometime I would stay awake for days but for some reason whenever this one person in my life is around I sleep like a baby.  Honestly I sleep too well...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 18, 2008

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    With You

      I know I am safe when you are there. I know that I just have to tell you I am feeling insecure and you will do everything within your power to make me feel better. I know you love me and that I am safe and secure in your love.  
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 24, 2010

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    queenofhearts15 queenofhearts15 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 21

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    He is like a good friend to me. I feel safe when I am with him, and to an extent, cared for. I've never had a friend like him, and I hope we stay friends for the rest of our lives...
    andrew24601 andrew24601 18-21, M Feb 12

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    They have to be clean and well manicured though. Dirty hands are gross. Strong hands are a big turn on for me. I like how they can be forceful and controlling at times and at other...
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F Feb 7

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    As if I'm not already a promotional model, I am also a song writer guitarist poet, I tell obviously hilarious jokes when I hear people cracking up all the time and that's OK it...
    LastofmyPeople LastofmyPeople 31-35, F Feb 22

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    -i feel alone.- and that's okay...for a while. talking with someone laughing with someone pretending to be nice and fine 'coz people want us so. we end up alone please makes me...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    i love holding my hubby's hand...actually i m addicted to it...i m so used to this one thing that i hold his hands even when i m asleep...its like, i want to be connected to him...
    Loveforeternity Loveforeternity 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I am a guy and I want someone who would treat me like a girl. Someone who would bring me flowers or a teddy bear. Hold my hand when we walk and to cuddle. Someone who will hug me...
    4everuby 4everuby 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I must be a freak. I know I’m pretty, but no one really talks to me – at least no one that I would want to talk to. I could have just about any boy, but really want a man...
    familygurl familygurl 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 21

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    I must be a freak. I know I’m pretty, but no one really talks to me – at least no one that I would want to talk to. I could have just about any boy, but really want a man...
    familygurl familygurl 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 21

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    I always stay up late to avoid sleeping. Sleeping gives me bad dreams that I constantly wake up from. I hate waking up at 3 am afraid and alone. I go back to sleep and it's just...
    acorn288 acorn288 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    When my husband holds my hand, I always feel safe, important and loved. It doesn't matter if we are sitting on the couch watching tv, driving, walking around in public or even...
    Casaundra612 Casaundra612 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 7

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    Not because I'm "kinky" or anything but it's when I feel safest
    AnonClair AnonClair 18-21, T 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    When ever I sit in a guy's lap I feel safe ,warm, protected . I love to wrap my arms around his neck and inhale his glorious smell and try to kiss him. I eventually just close my...
    Whateveryousayk Whateveryousayk 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It has been happening a lot lately. I don't like feeling like this. I'm not worried about my actions because of it, I'm worried about my health.
    GreenPanda2015 GreenPanda2015 22-25, F Feb 8

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    (By the way, I wrote this to try and express my feelings. I didn't write it as an open invitation for guys to send me flirtatious messages. I'm not interested. I'm here at EP to...
    HonorTheTrickster HonorTheTrickster 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 9

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    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Doriatong Doriatong 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    here are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    here are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kristiniacc11 kristiniacc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    finickygrump9688 finickygrump9688 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    When Tomorrow Comes Part Seven - Chapter Fourteen When we got back to the house,Mother and Dada were outside enjoying the sun and waiting for us. Jock pulled Gabrielle up, tied...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I feel like I'm in a one way relationship. I have been feeling very down, and might as well be alone, because when I voice how u feel it's hardly acknowledged. I'm sad. I'm scared...
    SecretAngel6 SecretAngel6 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 17

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F Feb 7

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    I'm not exactly sure when the first major fracture hit me with such force that I looked at the world in a much darker way. The people who tell you they love you, only to find out...
    BethKristin BethKristin 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    My heart is restless My spirit is troubled I am afraid I ask for peace that I may be able to put my difficulties into perspective and come to terms with my doubts. With peace in...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have such an incredible life at first glance; I'm educated, recently lost 30 kilos, stay healthy, I have a roof over my head, travel the world and have some extraordinary...
    hnmad hnmad 31-35, M 3 days ago

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