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I Like to Feel Safe and Secure

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    Dad

     My dad makes me feel this way. I guess because, if there was an actual emergency, he would know what to do. I feel safe in that knowledge. Also, so many times I have been *so close* to getting hurt, and he has come to my rescue. So many situations would have turned out...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Oct 3, 2008

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    I don't know who is gona be angry with me next.

    Who is monitoring me in the background in the dark. Who would judge me for what I did. Who would tell me I'm pathetic unworthy. I d give up anything to stay away from those people.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2014

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    The side of the bed I sleep on depends on the

    question 'if a murder comes in the room which one of us would he kill first?'
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    I'm Not So Adventurous

    Well, maybe I was more so when I was younger but these days I value safety, comfort, and security more than anything. Being with my family and knowing all is well with them, being able to hold them and hug and be close...that is my happiness. I worry a lot about the terrible...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Oct 12, 2013

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    This Is What I Want!

        Within His Arms Within his arms where his strength lies This is what I see through my eyes Within his arms there is warmth of love as soft as a white winged dove Within his arms there is a sweet embrace When I look up I see a smile on his face...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    I didn't always feel safe growing up.

    My sister was a bully to the point where her abuse threatened my life. I also dealt with bullies in school. This has left me pretty damaged. I have a lot of fear in my life. I have trust issues (and some other general issues). So I love feeling safe. I love my friends that make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    With You

      I know I am safe when you are there. I know that I just have to tell you I am feeling insecure and you will do everything within your power to make me feel better. I know you love me and that I am safe and secure in your love.  
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 24, 2010

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    The Places I Feel Safe Are:

    With my stuffed animals, while communicating with God, hugging my mum, in the bathroom, in my bed, when I sleep, when I daydream, with my imaginary friend (I know, I know), when I am indoors, when my parents stop fighting, When people aren't mad at me, when people aren't staring...
    MysteriousMiracle MysteriousMiracle 13-15, F Nov 6, 2009

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    Doernbecher Children's Hospital...

    The place I feel safe and secure at is Doernbecher Children's Hospital. There are many reasons I feel so safe at Doernbecher Children's Hospital. Is it is the place I went when I was first newly diagnosed with leukemia. This hospital has become my comfort zone. I know all of the...
    challege challege 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    He Makes Me Feel This Way

    I never realized how important this is to me until recently.  I ALWAYS have trouble sleeping in the last months.  Sometime I would stay awake for days but for some reason whenever this one person in my life is around I sleep like a baby.  Honestly I sleep too well...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 18, 2008

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    sometimes I just feel like I'm an alien to everyone. I feel like I'm a different creature, maybe not human enough.
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    i like feeling his man juice inside me xx
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    I will tell my what my disability is.. I have a learning disability with a TMI.. Witch is traumatic brain injury and PST chronic PST and depression and anxiety.. People like me...
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    Every girl or Lets say All of us (Girls) is so sensitive and we admit it. We want to feel loved and appreciated the way we expect. We have a lots of expectations in our mind. We...
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    I like wearing nappies, I don't need them, but I find them comfy, and I don't know why I kinda also feel more secure in them, even if I dents my dignity.
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    The gawking, mocking, mean spirited spite of slaves. Disguised as capitalism, **** talking to their graves. What do all humans want, deep down, to feel safe and belong? Competitive...
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    I just helped somebody. Uhm.. actually not people. They're cats. Stray cats in my dorm area. I just came back from the canteen bought a chicken dish and sardines for my lunch and...
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    I am an observer. I watch what people do and how they do it. I "collect" and catalog their body language and facial expression images that I try to synthesize into my own...
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    I am always safe it comes first no matter what..
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    I feel safer in black, and I've always preferred to be a bit of a wallflower.
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    So I've always like older men , the way they look at you , treat you <3 it's completely different then someone who's in the same age group as you , but when I look at him , it's...
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    Iv never felt protected, iv never felt safe. I was beaten up by my father at a younger age, and in my adulthood my other half is abusive and aggressive. Iv never felt protected. I...
    Forever786 Forever786 26-30, F Jan 24

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    “In the hands of the right man, a woman is a hundred different women, limited only by imagination and his willingness to make her feel safe and lead her.”
    Unsatisfiedstace2 Unsatisfiedstace2 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I like bigger men, men who know how to cut wood, and fix cars, and drive heavy equipment...someone at least 225 lbins. Men who make me feel safe in their arms. However, I dated...
    zMayden zMayden 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I'm 5'7, but with heels I"m like 5'11. I've always been attracted to much taller men. The tallest guys I've ever met were 6'4 and they were both good looking. Guys my own height or...
    CaliTexan37 CaliTexan37 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    It was a long day and now Im just snuggled up listening to the rain. I love the sound of it hitting the ground and gurgling through the gutters. Its relaxing and makes me feel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 21

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    If you're going out with someone new I'm going out with someone too I won't feel sorry for me, I'm getting drunk But I'd much rather be somewhere with you Laughing loud on a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 20

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    I remember tears streaming down your face When I said, "I'll never let you go" When all those shadows almost killed your light I remember you said, "Don't leave me here alone" But...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 20

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    a meaningful hug means everything to me. I feel protected, secure and loved. it becomes even more special when it's from someone you care about and love.
    flyBird87 flyBird87 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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