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I Like to Feel Safe and Secure

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 342 People

    With You

      I know I am safe when you are there. I know that I just have to tell you I am feeling insecure and you will do everything within your power to make me feel better. I know you love me and that I am safe and secure in your love.  
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 24, 2010

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    I didn't always feel safe growing up.

    My sister was a bully to the point where her abuse threatened my life. I also dealt with bullies in school. This has left me pretty damaged. I have a lot of fear in my life. I have trust issues (and some other general issues). So I love feeling safe. I love my friends that make...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    He Makes Me Feel This Way

    I never realized how important this is to me until recently.  I ALWAYS have trouble sleeping in the last months.  Sometime I would stay awake for days but for some reason whenever this one person in my life is around I sleep like a baby.  Honestly I sleep too well...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 18, 2008

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    The Places I Feel Safe Are:

    With my stuffed animals, while communicating with God, hugging my mum, in the bathroom, in my bed, when I sleep, when I daydream, with my imaginary friend (I know, I know), when I am indoors, when my parents stop fighting, When people aren't mad at me, when people aren't staring...
    MysteriousMiracle MysteriousMiracle 13-15, F Nov 6, 2009

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    This Is What I Want!

        Within His Arms Within his arms where his strength lies This is what I see through my eyes Within his arms there is warmth of love as soft as a white winged dove Within his arms there is a sweet embrace When I look up I see a smile on his face...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    I Need To Feel It (Story 98)

    I feel safe with my dad. I used to feel safe and secure with my mother's boyfriend, but never got close to him again after he did what he did to me. It became hard to trust anyone after that. I don't feel safe and secure with my husband very often. I want to feel, secure...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Dad

     My dad makes me feel this way. I guess because, if there was an actual emergency, he would know what to do. I feel safe in that knowledge. Also, so many times I have been *so close* to getting hurt, and he has come to my rescue. So many situations would have turned out...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Oct 3, 2008

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    I'm Not So Adventurous

    Well, maybe I was more so when I was younger but these days I value safety, comfort, and security more than anything. Being with my family and knowing all is well with them, being able to hold them and hug and be close...that is my happiness. I worry a lot about the terrible...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Doernbecher Children's Hospital...

    The place I feel safe and secure at is Doernbecher Children's Hospital. There are many reasons I feel so safe at Doernbecher Children's Hospital. Is it is the place I went when I was first newly diagnosed with leukemia. This hospital has become my comfort zone. I know all of the...
    challege challege 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    Most of my life has been a complete mess. I had a terrible childhood, I was bullied, my dad has drinking problems, my mother has psychiatric problems, etc. And now, that my parents...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    What a lovely young man ! It's nice to get a message like that when your in secure for attempted suicide , just proves most men think with there ****
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    I like hugs (: I like cuddling and resting my head against the persons chest. I feel warm and secure and I like the being hugged!! (Especially from my sissy) 😘😝 love you...
    skylerGrace skylerGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    'Kinder, Kirche,Kuche (Children, Church,Kitchen) Part Three - Chapter One Hundred Forty-Nine I waited for Bobby to call me instead of me calling Indiana. It was a matter of being...
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    I enjoy stroking and groping my own bum when I am wearing a particular pair of trousers. It completely relaxes me and makes me feel secure.
    mjt84 mjt84 26-30 Jul 9

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    I enjoy stroking and groping my own bum when I am wearing a particular pair of trousers. It completely relaxes me and makes me feel secure.
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    "He treats me with respect, he says he loves me all the time, he calls me fifteen times a day, he likes to make sure that I'm fine. You know I've never met a man, whose made me...
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    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I long to be secured away some place, whether prison or asylum, just so the outside matches the inside. I am not here willingly.
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    "the pettyjean" her tender thoughts meant to ease my mind only obscured what was already hard to see but her kindness was not lost on me an angel of the mercy she held back the...
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    At times I feel like I could take on the world! I last felt like that when I was on top of my weight loss. Then, I got on this plateau. I hung on for months. At the last weight...
    kipu52 kipu52 56-60 7 hrs ago

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    Ur the reason it didn't work out with anyone else, I always have and always will have feelings for u, u believe I deserve better and that u are not good for me but u are wrong my...
    Danosaurphilion Danosaurphilion 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    'Through Their Eyes.' Everyone is scared tonight. I can feel it. We're not saying anything but we don't have too. It takes one person to be brave for the rest of us to follow...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F Jun 25

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    My husband works way too much! He is gone an average of 14 hours a day. I have two small children who I take care of and I love them more than life itself, but I am more stressed...
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    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Feeling like I don't want to be here at all.
    Smiles1997 Smiles1997 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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