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I Like to Feel Safe and Secure

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    I'm Not So Adventurous

    Well, maybe I was more so when I was younger but these days I value safety, comfort, and security more than anything. Being with my family and knowing all is well with them, being able to hold them and hug and be close...that is my happiness. I worry a lot about the terrible...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Doernbecher Children's Hospital...

    The place I feel safe and secure at is Doernbecher Children's Hospital. There are many reasons I feel so safe at Doernbecher Children's Hospital. Is it is the place I went when I was first newly diagnosed with leukemia. This hospital has become my comfort zone. I know all of the...
    challege challege 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    The Places I Feel Safe Are:

    With my stuffed animals, while communicating with God, hugging my mum, in the bathroom, in my bed, when I sleep, when I daydream, with my imaginary friend (I know, I know), when I am indoors, when my parents stop fighting, When people aren't mad at me, when people aren't staring...
    MysteriousMiracle MysteriousMiracle 13-15, F Nov 6, 2009

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    I don't know who is gona be angry with me next.

    Who is monitoring me in the background in the dark. Who would judge me for what I did. Who would tell me I'm pathetic unworthy. I d give up anything to stay away from those people.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2014

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    With You

      I know I am safe when you are there. I know that I just have to tell you I am feeling insecure and you will do everything within your power to make me feel better. I know you love me and that I am safe and secure in your love.  
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 24, 2010

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    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    He Makes Me Feel This Way

    I never realized how important this is to me until recently.  I ALWAYS have trouble sleeping in the last months.  Sometime I would stay awake for days but for some reason whenever this one person in my life is around I sleep like a baby.  Honestly I sleep too well...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 18, 2008

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    This Is What I Want!

        Within His Arms Within his arms where his strength lies This is what I see through my eyes Within his arms there is warmth of love as soft as a white winged dove Within his arms there is a sweet embrace When I look up I see a smile on his face...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    I didn't always feel safe growing up.

    My sister was a bully to the point where her abuse threatened my life. I also dealt with bullies in school. This has left me pretty damaged. I have a lot of fear in my life. I have trust issues (and some other general issues). So I love feeling safe. I love my friends that make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Dad

     My dad makes me feel this way. I guess because, if there was an actual emergency, he would know what to do. I feel safe in that knowledge. Also, so many times I have been *so close* to getting hurt, and he has come to my rescue. So many situations would have turned out...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Oct 3, 2008

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    When I was 16, my also 16 year old step cousin started flirting with me very openly. Playing footsy with me, trying to get me to touch her butt, and saying things like "I'm gonna...
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    There's a place that's here to lift you up But it can make you feel boxed right in It can make you feel trapped and stuck You're not allowed to be safe in your own skin Maybe it...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have trouble trusting people. It seems that life requires that I act in a way that is contrary to my nature. I tend to believe what I am told. This seems to be a mistake many...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Because I need to feel safe. I need to learn that I don't always have to be. I need to learn to trust, Whilst pretending I'm pretending. Just in case.
    Listening80 Listening80 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    As a girl, we may think that we should always have his attention but as a lady, we know that that is not always the case. As a boy, he could always give you the attention you want...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I was twenty years old on my own in a city for the first time. I was fresh out of a break up and excited about what could happen. I was happy to be me. I was secure in not having...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Not sure what to say... Feel like we took a step backwards not where I want to be... Not at all... When I say things... I truly mean them I need to see if I'm worth the effort...
    HisBeautifulDisaster HisBeautifulDisaster 36-40, F Aug 24

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    "What if the movement of love never feels safe? What if it isn't safety that you're ultimately after, ... but wholeness, and a transforming, reordering, burning aliveness? If you...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Kiss Me Settle down with me Cover me up Cuddle me in Lie down with me And hold me in your arms And my heart's against your chest, my lips pressed in your neck I'm falling for your...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I would like to have someone to who I could exchange (online) letters with (because snail mail where I live is a problem). Someone I could freely and safely talk with and for this...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Aug 16

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    Personally, I am 5'3". I prefer a guy that is taller than I am. It's just a weird safety feeling, y'know? Like, I feel safer if a guy is taller than me, even by an inch.
    AttackOnPinkie AttackOnPinkie 13-15, F Aug 14

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