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I Like to Feel Safe and Secure

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    The Places I Feel Safe Are:

    With my stuffed animals, while communicating with God, hugging my mum, in the bathroom, in my bed, when I sleep, when I daydream, with my imaginary friend (I know, I know), when I am indoors, when my parents stop fighting, When people aren't mad at me, when people aren't staring...
    MysteriousMiracle MysteriousMiracle 13-15, F Nov 6, 2009

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    I Need To Feel It (Story 98)

    I feel safe with my dad. I used to feel safe and secure with my mother's boyfriend, but never got close to him again after he did what he did to me. It became hard to trust anyone after that. I don't feel safe and secure with my husband very often. I want to feel, secure...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Dad

     My dad makes me feel this way. I guess because, if there was an actual emergency, he would know what to do. I feel safe in that knowledge. Also, so many times I have been *so close* to getting hurt, and he has come to my rescue. So many situations would have turned out...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Oct 3, 2008

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    Doernbecher Children's Hospital...

    The place I feel safe and secure at is Doernbecher Children's Hospital. There are many reasons I feel so safe at Doernbecher Children's Hospital. Is it is the place I went when I was first newly diagnosed with leukemia. This hospital has become my comfort zone. I know all of the...
    challege challege 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    This Is What I Want!

        Within His Arms Within his arms where his strength lies This is what I see through my eyes Within his arms there is warmth of love as soft as a white winged dove Within his arms there is a sweet embrace When I look up I see a smile on his face...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    I don't know who is gona be angry with me next.

    Who is monitoring me in the background in the dark. Who would judge me for what I did. Who would tell me I'm pathetic unworthy. I d give up anything to stay away from those people.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    He Makes Me Feel This Way

    I never realized how important this is to me until recently.  I ALWAYS have trouble sleeping in the last months.  Sometime I would stay awake for days but for some reason whenever this one person in my life is around I sleep like a baby.  Honestly I sleep too well...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 18, 2008

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    With You

      I know I am safe when you are there. I know that I just have to tell you I am feeling insecure and you will do everything within your power to make me feel better. I know you love me and that I am safe and secure in your love.  
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 24, 2010

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    I'm Not So Adventurous

    Well, maybe I was more so when I was younger but these days I value safety, comfort, and security more than anything. Being with my family and knowing all is well with them, being able to hold them and hug and be close...that is my happiness. I worry a lot about the terrible...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Oct 12, 2013

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    I didn't always feel safe growing up.

    My sister was a bully to the point where her abuse threatened my life. I also dealt with bullies in school. This has left me pretty damaged. I have a lot of fear in my life. I have trust issues (and some other general issues). So I love feeling safe. I love my friends that make...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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