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I Like to Feel Safe and Secure

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    Dad

     My dad makes me feel this way. I guess because, if there was an actual emergency, he would know what to do. I feel safe in that knowledge. Also, so many times I have been *so close* to getting hurt, and he has come to my rescue. So many situations would have turned out...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Oct 3, 2008

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    He Makes Me Feel This Way

    I never realized how important this is to me until recently.  I ALWAYS have trouble sleeping in the last months.  Sometime I would stay awake for days but for some reason whenever this one person in my life is around I sleep like a baby.  Honestly I sleep too well...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 18, 2008

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    I'm Not So Adventurous

    Well, maybe I was more so when I was younger but these days I value safety, comfort, and security more than anything. Being with my family and knowing all is well with them, being able to hold them and hug and be close...that is my happiness. I worry a lot about the terrible...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Oct 12, 2013

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    I don't know who is gona be angry with me next.

    Who is monitoring me in the background in the dark. Who would judge me for what I did. Who would tell me I'm pathetic unworthy. I d give up anything to stay away from those people.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2014

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    I didn't always feel safe growing up.

    My sister was a bully to the point where her abuse threatened my life. I also dealt with bullies in school. This has left me pretty damaged. I have a lot of fear in my life. I have trust issues (and some other general issues). So I love feeling safe. I love my friends that make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    This Is What I Want!

        Within His Arms Within his arms where his strength lies This is what I see through my eyes Within his arms there is warmth of love as soft as a white winged dove Within his arms there is a sweet embrace When I look up I see a smile on his face...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    With You

      I know I am safe when you are there. I know that I just have to tell you I am feeling insecure and you will do everything within your power to make me feel better. I know you love me and that I am safe and secure in your love.  
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Apr 24, 2010

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    Doernbecher Children's Hospital...

    The place I feel safe and secure at is Doernbecher Children's Hospital. There are many reasons I feel so safe at Doernbecher Children's Hospital. Is it is the place I went when I was first newly diagnosed with leukemia. This hospital has become my comfort zone. I know all of the...
    challege challege 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    The Places I Feel Safe Are:

    With my stuffed animals, while communicating with God, hugging my mum, in the bathroom, in my bed, when I sleep, when I daydream, with my imaginary friend (I know, I know), when I am indoors, when my parents stop fighting, When people aren't mad at me, when people aren't staring...
    MysteriousMiracle MysteriousMiracle 13-15, F Nov 6, 2009

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    it seems that I feel safe when for sex with a guy older or the same age, feel that the person is more relaxed and warmer, Do you feel the same way?
    fuzzynutsone fuzzynutsone 66-70 4 Responses May 15

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    I am a 20 year old from London who studies Performance at University, which is about to end in a week. After that ill be off to America for five months working and experiencing new...
    Amyflorence Amyflorence 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    I came here to make friends, to be myself: respectful, caring, helpful, straightforward, confident. Now I feel rejected, scared, betrayed, and unwanted. I never hurt anybody, nor...
    biggerbro biggerbro 22-25, M 2 Responses May 11

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    i always feel like someone is going to come into my room and try to kill me so i always have a fixed blade under my pillow and a spring assisted blade on my nightstand
    ZuckerOaksPilgrim ZuckerOaksPilgrim 18-21, M May 24

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    I just wish I could have more
    thelittlekidindiapers thelittlekidindiapers 13-15, M 3 Responses May 17

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    I love nappies Im not in them (yet) but they make me feel safe and gives me more convenient and they make me feel happy
    thelittlekidindiapers thelittlekidindiapers 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    I think it is that fatherly figure that when I am being held by an older man, I feel safe an secure. not to mention they are great at lovemaking
    barefootjamie barefootjamie 18-21 1 Response May 14

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    But since when does anyone love me? I don't feel safe in my own home and I just want to hug my real father, I only feel safe with him and my brother... It's just so intense, the...
    AmnesiaWolf AmnesiaWolf 16-17, F 1 Response May 17

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    I love men. Severely. They are strong, make me feel beautiful, and have a little "somethin'-somethin'" that makes me yearn for them entirely too much. I feel safe and comfortable...
    SunshineMel SunshineMel 26-30, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Its werid but I have always thought this way ever since I was little. I feel like it makes me feel safe having someone like that, older and stronger but still gentle
    Lauragaze Lauragaze 13-15, F 3 Responses May 6

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    She runs when she starts to love, it scares her. She runs when he's coming close. She runs when he says sweet things. She runs to run but also to see if he would stop her. She...
    PaintSplatteredJeans PaintSplatteredJeans 13-15, F 1 Response May 9

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    Hugs make me feel safe. Especially when I get lifted off of the ground and they look me in the eye. I feel loved.
    quietbunny quietbunny 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6

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    I , somehow, have good instinct when bad thing is about to happen , but instead of making me feel safe , it destroys me because somehow im aware about everything. i somehow can...
    Gina1993 Gina1993 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    we are told to live in unconditional love at least in my world of healing and spiritual practices unconditional meaning i give without judgement and expectations and I give myself...
    livingtruthfully livingtruthfully 36-40, F 3 Responses May 7

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    I like being a unicorn, being w a couple has always been my number one fantasy. I always make sure to stay w in set boundaries, so everyone feels safe and has fun. I love teasing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 7

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    My husband started a new medication. I was never into "medication". In fact the entire "medical model" is something I really resist. I would sooner try to ease my pain through...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    what turns a guy on? It seems that little things can turn me on, am bi and love both, but feel safer with men.Enjoy looking and playing in quiet and at home..Any one one else gets...
    fuzzynutsone fuzzynutsone 66-70 4 Responses May 5

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    I've felt this way for a while now, but especially the last three days. I keep trying to be happy, to act happy to hope for happiness but I just can't. I think about things like...
    Christinamarie3095 Christinamarie3095 41-45, T 1 Response May 21

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    I am feeling lost so two days ago I decided to cut myself. I always thought that people who cut themselves are a bit crazy but when I did it the first time I felt relief. It's a...
    jennygranger jennygranger 16-17, F 5 Responses May 25

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    i dont feel what i thought it felt like, all i feel is jealousy and unloved and its affecting my heart and my head and i dont like feeling this way.....how can i trust anyone if i...
    ReachingNirvana ReachingNirvana 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don't like feeling numb of emotion. I self harm to feel something rather than just numbness.
    RecklessMistake RecklessMistake 13-15, M May 16

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    Why am I submissive? Why do I crave this lifestyle? Why have I always been drawn to it? Why do I like feeling helpless? Is something wrong with me? Is it because I was molested...
    emileenicole31 emileenicole31 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why am I submissive? Why do I crave this lifestyle? Why have I always been drawn to it? Why do I like feeling helpless? Is something wrong with me? Is it because I was molested...
    emileenicole31 emileenicole31 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I like feeling as if I can do anything without consequences.
    lovleyroses lovleyroses 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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