Well I recently broke up with a long term boyfriend. Well when we dated he never wanted to play music while we had sex, he said it annoyed him. I always tried to put on some smooth jams, maybe throwbacks like Marvin Gaye but he would just turn it off.
I have an IPOD player in my bedroom with a seperate IPOD that is just for making love music. haha
Right now I am on a kick of listening to Delerium. They have tons of albums and they are all tranquil and not intrusive. I also have Depeche Mode and the Cure.
Although, I think I offended a partner once. I kinda, sat up in the middle of everything and said "Oooh, hold on! I love this part!" Then proceeded to sing along.
It's fairly safe to say I wasn't exactly into it, or him. Eh, oh well.