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I Like to See the Good In Everyone

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    Your Just 1% Nice

    Well just awhile ago, what I call my "B***H" cousin, was a total pain in the neck.  I was a laughing stock because of the embarassing story she shared when I was still young. She would often humiliate my sister and I based on our flaws our physique, attitude and behavior...
    Dumstey Dumstey 18-21, F Mar 30, 2010

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    One Day Though

    It's gonna slap me hard in the face, and I'll end up like my dad.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2010

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    Sometimes We Gotta Look Hard

    For years I've been doing this , even for those that didn't have any . Sometimes I thought I saw good but it was confused with something else . I keep trying , though . We all have good in us , but we let the bad out too often and all the good we can do gets lost .
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M Feb 14, 2010

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    Everyone Needs Someone To Look At Them Positively.

    If you don't give them a chance you never know. People don't always seem like you think.
    Greenlander Greenlander 16-17, F Sep 6, 2010

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    It Helps To Reassure Me, And Those I Encounter, That We're Striving For The Same Happiness And Well-being

    I don't think it's naive to assume that most of us who live in the normal, everyday, human world are decent, honest, kind, and caring. We want to be treated with kindness and dignity and will treat those around us the same way. A lifetime of working in customer service, and now...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M Sep 9, 2012

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    I went to a party, one of

    so many. Anyway the place was full to the roof of hot people all wanting what i was wanting, and it didnt take long when this guy came on to me doing his usual guy thing make small talk so i jumped in and said im only here for sex are you interested. He had this goofy look on...
    fcukmegood fcukmegood 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    Benefit

    I always give the benefit of the doubt.  I'm not someone who automatically assumes that someone is being underhand or mean in some way or that they intend any harm. It gets me into hot water sometimes.  Not everyone agrees with me of course and I will often find myself...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    It Is Up to Us

    Sometimes it is harder to see the good in some people than others, but we all have good in us.  It is up to each of us to find that good. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 10 Responses Apr 11, 2009

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    Things Aren't Always What You Think They Are

    I meet new people at my work. although angry and bitter, once I talk to them one on one, they do seem so much more human.  From all the experiences I have had, I try to find something good about them, even if its just having good hair.
    polysexminoh polysexminoh 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2009

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    It Is Possible...

      Finding the good in others just takes patience and a positive attitude.   Seeing the good in everyone is very rewarding....
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 9 Responses May 8, 2009

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    WHEN It's Obvious

    I NO LONGER LOOK BELOW THE SURFACE. IF IT'S THAT HARD TO FIND IT'S FAKE ANYWAYS. BOY OH BOY HAVE I LEARNED MY LESSON ABOUT THE FAKE HEARTED. EVIL MIMICS THINGS QUITE WELL. IT'S CALLED 'GAME' I BELIEVE.
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2009

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    "People want you to be happy, don't keep serving them your pain!If you untie your wings and free your soul of jealousy, you and everyone around you would fly up like doves!"by...
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    Everyone deserves a second chance but not for the same mistake
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    curiousgirl38 curiousgirl38 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    In life you will realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet: Some will test you. Some will use you. Some will love you. Some will teach you. But the ones who are...
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    Always tell the people you love how much you care because everyone needs to know they're loved, no matter what.
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    You are too busy being there for everyone that you forgot to be there for you.
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    Everyone you'll ever meet knows something you don't. (Bill Nye)
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    Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light. Though wise men at their end know dark is right...
    TheRose202 TheRose202 18-21, F Nov 25

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    "Why do these people hate? Truly look objectively at why there is so much hate. Hate is brought out by people in pain, people who are suffering and not aware that they can deal...
    Babymetal Babymetal 22-25 4 Responses Dec 3

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    when to me they will happen ever? I do not remember any good things from many, many years.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 1 Response Nov 25

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    Butterflies don't know the color of their Wings, but Human Eyes know how beautiful it is. Likewise, you don't know how Good you are, but others can see that you are SPECIAL.
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    "For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child...
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    "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all of the barriers within yourself that you have built against it" *A course in Miracles
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    Surround yourself with those who see greatness in you, even when you don't see it in yourself.
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    Climb the mountain so you can see the world, not so the world can see you.
    MrRubberDuck MrRubberDuck 61-65, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You may look into a mirror and see flaws but someone else looks at you and sees beauty.
    MrRubberDuck MrRubberDuck 61-65, M 3 days ago

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