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I Like to Spoon

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    So Warm and Cozy

    To be wrapped up wtih someone else like that, so close and warm. It's the perfect way to fall asleep, or just relax with someone maybe watching a movie. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside, lol.
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Mar 15, 2008

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    It's an acquired thing.

    I never learned to love spooning until I fell in love with the woman that I will marry this year. At first, it was just to please her, now when we must be apart at night, I need to have a pillow, or pillows, to snuggle up to because I feel so awkward without her pressed tight...
    Doviov Doviov 41-45 Jan 16

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    Arms and Legs Everywhere

    I know it's not technically spooning but I love to sleep with my arm under by mans head and his face on my shoulder, my head resting on top of his and my legs swung over this legs so my body is twisted to the side and snuggled in this nice groove of pure comfort.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Bed is the best place to be

    when it's dark, windy and rainy outside ☺️ all cozy and warm ><
    L4UR3N L4UR3N 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    Love To Spoon

    I love to spoon with the right person. I have a girl I met andshe just loves to spoon in daddys arms. We may be layingon the sofa watching a movie. I hold her tight kiss her neckand head and she just relaxes in my arms. Other times wecould just be laying there having a discussion...
    ducky627 ducky627 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2012

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    Feels So Close

    when together with someone you really care about, it feels really protecting, makes me feel all warm and fuzzy when i think about it, i love going to sleep like this against your lovers body
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Mar 26, 2008

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    Too me and me only I desire n prefer over sex.

    I love holding a woman as we drift to sleep. Granted it's been years. But still a like want desire
    MichaelS41074 MichaelS41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I Want To Become A Spoonstar

    Yeah, when the subject of Spooning came up, I like it and jumped in. Now given that there is the oversexed **** industry out there that is fueled buy lust, alcohol, drugs and perversion. I thought Maybe I should break the mold, do something opposite, and go out and become the...
    Gman7 Gman7 36-40, M May 31, 2012

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    I've never spooned because my past partners

    weren't into all that but it seems like I'm missing out. -__- I want to feel cozy and safe too!!!
    JessicaTacos JessicaTacos 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Is Great.

      Spooning to me shows love and affection. When a couple has chemistry this is one side effect. Spooning is great for when your partner is cold. Spooning when you want your partner to feel safe and secure.   Gosh I love spooning !!!
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 18 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Especially with smaller girls curling up to me.

    Embracing her body with my arms.
    PeterDr PeterDr 31-35 4 Responses Jan 16

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    Looove It!

    Nothing like sweet spooning..especially after a good fork! :)
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    To Spoon Or Not To Spoon?

    To me Spooning is really good, and does not require anything else.
    u141461 u141461 51-55, M Aug 11, 2012

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    I'm The Big Spoon

    My wife is the little spoon.  I love spooning with her. I also love it when we flip and she's the big spoon and I'm the little spoon.  So much fun happens when she's the big spoon. **wink**
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M Oct 24, 2011

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    Big Spoon..

    i hate being the big spoon =/
    beckahboo beckahboo 18-21, F Nov 17, 2009

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    Of Course!

    i love spooning.. it makes me feel so safe and loved. =]
    musicality musicality 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2008

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    Spooning

    I love spooning! Always have :D
    VickyBu VickyBu 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    It'S The Best

    I love to spoon. It can bring on different feelings. Spooning is great when you want to be held. It makes you feel safe. The feel of a lovers body folded against yours and his arms around you. It's one of the best feelings. It also brings out sexy feelings. I love having my lover...
    Forfriends1976 Forfriends1976 31-35, F May 3, 2013

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    It's a Dream of Mine.......

    I remember spooning with ex #1 once. Ex #2 didn't seem to be that in to it. Never really wanted me near him when he was sleepin'. So I just learned to live without the cuddles, snuggles, & spooning. It wasn't a really hard thing to get use too.....It was just another lonely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28, 2009

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    And even though I'm the guy.

    .. I like to be the little spoon. :-)
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M Jun 9, 2014

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    Well, This Is Partially True.

    Actually, as a general rule, I don't like it, but recently, I've come to love it.  I sleep so much better this way.  It's still a shock to me, because I've always liked my space in the past, but now, it's like his arms can't hold me tight enough.  It's just weird.
    FabulousGrrl FabulousGrrl 31-35, F Nov 29, 2008

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    Of Course, One of the Best ...

    Of course, One of the best feelings in the world is having my wife falling asleep in my arms.
    tamkeen tamkeen 18-21 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    Spooning

    I'm not the sort of person that likes PDA or overly affectionate pet names, and people dont' usually see me as the "cuddly" type. but if I'm with someone I care about, there's no better feeling than holding them close and keeping each other warm.
    tuevi tuevi 18-21, M Dec 3, 2008

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    All the Time

    That is how my husband and I sleep all the time.  If I am not laying against his back he is laying against mine.  Even when we go to sleep mad at each other we always wake up in that position. 
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2009

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    I'm the Little Spoon.

    His arms are longer, so he gets to be the big spoon. It's one of the best ways to get all snuggled up, because there's less of the 'awkward arm' problem. And of course, it feels extra good. =)
    spektor spektor 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2008

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    I dont just like it I ******* love it! spooning, a good movie and thats it
    Njord85 Njord85 26-30, M Jan 9

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    With temps in the single digits, I really need a cuddle mate, and a spooning partner at bed time. Bodies pressed together, conserving heat. My arm under your neck, my other hand...
    BlueSkiesNoVa BlueSkiesNoVa 51-55, M 11 Responses Jan 9

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    I like to wrap my arms around her after we make love, pull her close so our bodies fit as one so she feels adored and safe as she falls asleep in my embrace.
    padraig17325 padraig17325 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    When Tomorrow Comes Part Five - Chapter Five Mother was a very careful house-proud woman. She kept her house clean and neat, and husbanded her food supplies as well as she could...
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    I joined a sports team after my best friend 'a' suggested it. The girl, who all these feelings are about is the female captain of said sport. Our team is 9 girls with 'a' on the...
    Arebwonders Arebwonders 18-21, F Jan 21

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    Just You and I no one awake, just you and I, you looking at me, kinda sly; let's snuggle up to keep warm, it can't do any harm. you know I'm not like other guys. my word of honor...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M a week ago

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    I was in my room sitting with my bestfriend enjoying a bowl and watching Netflix. My phone rang and my friend Lacey calls ,saying she was kicked out and she needed a place to crash...
    SimplyLovingYou SimplyLovingYou 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Seriously. As people get older, I guess your tolerance for being cold is less and less. At least mine is. Thankful for electric blankets that are the size that make me and my wife...
    pittdaddy pittdaddy 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Unrequited love is like one of the worst things in life for anyone. I knew a guy named Hernan for a year now since January. I remember when I first met him in class, I was afraid...
    AziaLee AziaLee 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Unrequited love is like one of the worst things in life for anyone. I knew a guy named Hernan for a year now since January. I remember when I first met him in class, I was afraid...
    AziaLee AziaLee 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    When asked how he would like to die, one man said: "I would like to die like my grandfather did, peacefully in his sleep, not screaming and yelling like the passengers in the car...
    iwanttodieRB iwanttodieRB 18-21, F 6 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Living in the Deep South way in the country part living a country life where blue jeans and boots are a must, I'm wondering if I live a sheltered life. These ppl in the city, like...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 9 hrs ago

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    Right now I'm feeling like the epitome of a loser. I'm 23, have little to no friends, no boyfriend, unemployed, no car, no one to talk to or hang out with, pretty much no life. I'm...
    ConfessionsOfALostGurl ConfessionsOfALostGurl 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm not really picky on the type of music I like or listen to. Like I recently told my teacher I listen to country and she was surprised
    Gamer0808 Gamer0808 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    I like staying up all night its more peaceful at night when no one is around, i like going out at night when there isn't anything about as there isn't anyone around and everything...
    scottishlostsoul scottishlostsoul 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    I read so often of members attempting to meet with other members only to be put off with tons of excuses. Are people really so fearful here? Isn't this supposed to be a melting pot...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    When Tomorrow Comes Part Six - Chapter Fifteen After Jock had left, Dada turned to Mother. I tried not to look too enthusiastic, but I belatedly and guiltily realized that...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 8 hrs ago

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    I did something terribly stupid. I fell in love with my best friend and I jumped the gun. She digs me in some sort of way I just know it but I should have given her and myself...
    krickets krickets 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    i never really grew up with a paternal figure.my dad was a drug addict and he lived in another country,he and my mom divorced before i was even born.my stepfather lived in another...
    izzy66 izzy66 16-17, M 44 mins ago

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    A babysitter would have more authority than me over his kids in our home. I'm sick of being asked to take her to the store and watching her while he goes out. It would be fine if...
    morrginme morrginme 31-35, F 18 hrs ago

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    I'm not a winter lover; I usually run for cover, and, like a bear, I stay right there until the winter is over. (Jan.28, 2015)
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 18 hrs ago

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    what makes you think I'm nice? why would you want my advice? I'm just like you, got problems, too, that I don't even think about twice. (Jan.29, 2015)
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 17 hrs ago

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    OVER HERE once again, Ma, here am I, crouched beneath foreign sky, fighting for...I don't know, it's a politician's show. in a place I don't want to die. in moments of distress...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 17 hrs ago

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