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I Listen to What Others Have to Say

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    Whether I listen or not depends on who's talking and what they're saying.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 14, 2011

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    Your Thoughts and Opinions Matter to Me

    If there's ever a situation going down I like to know what everyone or that person has to think or say, I want to listen. I seem to be very good listener.. or reader and want to help.
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F Jan 5, 2009

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    I'm A Great Listener...

    I was never a talkative person. I'm always better at listening to what people have to say. I take what they say, think about it, and try and help them with whatever their talking about. I just don't like listening to boring people.
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 7, 2010

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    It's One Way to Learn

     That way, you don't have to repeat their mistakes and suffer their consequences.  You learn a hot pan burns the hard way but how much easier it is to learn it without suffering the burn?  Sometimes, in life there is no other teacher than direct experience.  ...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Mar 3, 2009

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    Wisdom

    you can find great wisdom just by closing your mouth and listening.to the stories of the old,the games little ones play.or just what a freind needs to say.lend them your ears and you will find a whole new perspective on life.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Mar 14, 2009

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    Out Of Respect

    When I began to practice my principle of listening to others' stories it was because I felt in hopes that someone would some day listen to my stories just as intentfully. But the world is doomed and no such things happen. I still listen out of habit and general respect.  I find...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F Dec 23, 2012

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    Fall Asleep?!

    I've heard people tell me to "pretend to fall asleep" when people start going off on longer stories. Seriously? You can't give up those few minutes of your life to make a person feel accepted... and you pretend they bored you to SLEEP to get out of it?! LAME. Everyone has a...
    pickledcookie pickledcookie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    If you have people you can talk to who honestly listen and care about what you have to say, be thankful. I'd give up all my material possessions for one person who genuinely tried...
    Goodbadladywoman Goodbadladywoman 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I just don't care any more, I am exhausted in caring what other people think if me.... I have spent calf my life pleasing people...they want me to be this way and not that way...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    The majority of us spend most of our lives trying to satisfy other people. I don't think you should care what others think of you, because you don't live for them. If they don't...
    InLoveWithDarkness InLoveWithDarkness 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really don't care what others think about me. I'm a truly caring person who doesn't believe in being rude or spreading hatred. There is enough of it in the world so why would I...
    hugsandkisses26 hugsandkisses26 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    I hate myself for all the lies and deception I inflicted on my current boyfriend. I blame my family particularly. I am a cheater and this means I have broken my own value system. I...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    One of the secrets to happiness is to be content with what you have been blessed with. There will always be someone with more. I am happy for my friends with blessed lives. I...
    kwarner kwarner 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    once somebody asked me, what did i want and i told him that i want everything..... the issue is, that we are always thinking about what we dont hae and never pay attention to what...
    mrnut mrnut 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    My friend today said she envies me "you have the husband, 4 happy kids, the house even the dog and you work" Appearances can be deceiving as she assumes I'm happy
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    For the first time today I really decided to gain weight. I've always wanted to do it myself but never had the confidence to do it. Instead I was a feeder and helped others gain...
    goofyg54 goofyg54 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    My mother and grandmother always raised me to believe that your looks were everything. If you weren't skinny,then to them you weren't pretty. You couldn't be "fat","ugly",have no...
    Danibugg262 Danibugg262 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    - Music is the cheapest and simplest cure to loneliness - Wherever I go, the word's worst drivers follow me - You can love someone dearly and don't know how to show it...
    izzypie izzypie 36-40, F Aug 26

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    Why the hell should I care about what other people have, it doesn't mean that they're actually happy with it. I used to envy people who's had their father in their lives but then I...
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato 13-15, F Sep 2

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    I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months now and I know that you mind find it stupid that I'm being so serious about her, since I am only 15, but I really love her and I...
    Geonite Geonite 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I hate myself for what has happened in the past. I have hurt my family with secrets.. But I don't know how to say anything... I was raped for a year by a guy who was obsessed...
    YoungLovee15 YoungLovee15 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    My socks tell me they love me because they get to see the world since I often tuck my sweatpants in them while cyckling or hiking. I also wear shorts a lot meaning nothing obscures...
    greencell greencell 31-35, M Sep 9

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    You are Energetic and Bright You view people with optimism. You have many meaningful relationships in your life. You had more conflict with your father than your mother. Your...
    SunnyDayze SunnyDayze 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    yeah ..in this world of copy cats wanna be truely one master piece to be acknowledged...
    romell romell 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    You begin to see people true colors when you are down in life , not when all is good and all good looking on your behalf , but only the envious ones may show themselves when you...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M Aug 30

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    Liarrrs! everybody care about it
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Sep 10

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    Nope. Not anymore. I'm done with that
    daisymarie12 daisymarie12 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Heyo its Kato and im back to listen to anyone in need of a chat for adivce or a hug or anything i can help with ^^ remember i got too large ears to listen what you have to say no...
    KatoKangaroo KatoKangaroo 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    You have enemies? Good. That means you have stood up for something, sometime in your life. ~ Winston Churchill And so what if I am random? Who cares if I wear vintage clothes and a...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F Aug 30

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    Ghostly Impressions By Paul Dale Roberts, HPI Esoteric Detective Halo Paranormal Investigations - HPI International https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/HPIinternational/ Paranormal...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M 35 mins ago

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    I need to express this. I feel so alone and feel that I am going through all of the emotions at once dealing with this. I sometimes don't even know where to begin. But I pray that...
    FromJWtoJEW FromJWtoJEW 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    DSPS probably began for me in my teenage years. I didn't know what it was and had no name for it. Like many other people's experience with DSPS, it was assumed that I was lazy or...
    softgreenhourglass softgreenhourglass 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    When my wife left, I wanted to make sure that it was not me that ended the relationship. I went on to study psychology and have two certifications in life coaching and I completed...
    FrankK70 FrankK70 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    i always have my music going. headphones on lost in the world of music. it gets on others nerves sometimes cause they try and talk to me but i cant hear them. lol ohh well. what...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    i always listen to others and help them out ;) yet i don't share my personal stuff with them
    regnez regnez 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    ...It is easier to fake happiness than it is to feel it. For years I have dedicated myself to upholding the narrative expected of me: feminine girl, smart student, bubbly and sweet...
    learningtoheal learningtoheal 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Spend time with people who makes you happy while also not depending on other people for your own happiness. And be honest with yourself and others by saying what you mean and...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F Aug 30

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    So since i was little i have had depression problems,i didn't actually noticed until it got really bad in high school.I can't tell anyone in my family cause they won't actually get...
    flproblems flproblems 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Sorry in advance if this post doesn't fit guidelines or whatever, this is the first time I've ever used this site. For the last 7 weeks I've been constantly in and out of the...
    polyglotparrot polyglotparrot 13-15, F Aug 21

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    message me if you need someone to talk to. i promise i'll listen and agree to whatever you have to say ☺️
    liamtwerksforme liamtwerksforme 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11

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    I was meditating a while ago...meditation should calm the mind right but the second I close my eyes. A tear drop one after another constantly for so long I tried to stop it...I...
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 9 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Two ears.... One mouth.... Need I say anymore, or d'you not quite get what I'm saying here?
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Sometimes I feel like no one listens to anything I say...surrounded by humans....but I go unnoticed.... Sigh
    Albrma061011 Albrma061011 26-30, F Aug 25

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    I started daydreaming when I was really young, I was about four maybe five. My best friend and I used to watch a show together and we'd act it out, and make up our own scenarios...
    MaladaptiveDayDreamer MaladaptiveDayDreamer 13-15, F Aug 28

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    The headline on this would be the beginning of me saying something well, not something good. Now, the challenge is to say something lacking in substance but stated well enough to...
    SammySamps SammySamps 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 2

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    After a couple of paralyzed dreams, I sort of got used to it and didn't freak out as much. However, I dreamt like that again during that month, except this one time in particular...
    rednu3 rednu3 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 8

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