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I Live In a Sexful Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 271 People

    And It Thrills Me Too

    I love knowing that my baby and me are as active as we ever were. we are just as adventuresome as we have ever been and we will stay that way forever. We have never denied one another because we were arguining or being silly. We have used making love as a way to keep us close and...
    AlwaysSmiling AlwaysSmiling 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    Walled In With No Where To Go

    My wife and I have been married for 23 years. When we started dating she first made a confession (it was very difficult for her) to me that she had herpies. She contracted it when she was in college from a local guy she had been seeing. But we worked through it. When we dated...
    jfriedri jfriedri 46-50, M Jul 12, 2012

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    My wife as well. If she's not up

    for play (tired, period, etc.) - she always take care of me with a bj,hj or combo and she loves to swallow. I'm a lucky husband...
    ststeve ststeve 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    Yes We Do

    We are married, and we attend to one another each and every morning - This level of frequency was my Wife's idea - and when she decided that this was what we were to do - I was at first concerned - I did not know if I could keep up the pace - but I can and we do. We had used a...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M Mar 30, 2013

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    My Wife Is Good To Me.

    She has always been good to me and very much so when it comes to the marriage bed.
    Snigglefluffy Snigglefluffy 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    new Live In A Sexful Marriage

    i  live in my sister's house .her husband has bad thinking in his mind.he want's me .but i have no interest in him nor i can think about him for even once .i have more friend in my circle. i am a teacher in collage .i have parties in week ends .old students visits offer .i enjoy...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 6 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Full of Sex

    We have always enjoyed a great sex life that was very satisfying for both of us.  About 5 years ago we expanded into sharing sex with another couple and have now added a total of 3 couples to our group.  This has been great for us in that no one's needs go unfulfilled...
    btonnc btonnc 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Well If Not In a Sexful Marriage...

    ...then at least in a sexful life.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    The More Guys the Better!!!

    I live with two guys.  We have been together for many years, and they often bring home other guys to share me with.  I LOVE IT!!! Check out my personal story (#L104) at my free web site: http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/Joans_True_3-some_Stories/ Joan  
    2GuysForMe 2GuysForMe 36-40 4 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Satiasfied

    i went with my best friend on date .he was with his friend.three of us went at beach hotel .my friend's parents were there .he left me with his friend .we have 3 days stay .i ask his friend to have a fun .he refused me . i show him my naked body  and tried to expose myself but...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    LOL!!

    I was talking to my husband about this. Seems like no one will come out and say they have a good sex live. Guess people want to only talk about their sex life if there is nothing going on or it's just bad.
    mrspink2007 mrspink2007 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Even When I'm Sick...

    I've been sick this past week.  Not bad sick, but a cold, just not feeling like myself, or looking all that great.  A red chapped nose makes that a little difficult to pull off. Our daughter was invited to a sleepover last night, which for us, means a crazy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    My Beloved And Adored Husband

    My beloved and adored husband has always filled our marriage with glorious sex, of all sorts. From the very beginning, even before we were married, when I was just a schoolgirl, he began sharing me with other men, and there was never any question that ours would be a very open...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    How I Wish.........

    If it happens ... it's a dream come true! LOL  
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I lived in a nearly sexless relationship for almost a decade. At first, of course, it was great, but it faded so very quickly, and became routine and VERY infrequent, like, four...
    incorporealist incorporealist 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am going to tell how trying to keep my husband in a sexless marriage turned into a terror. When my husband came back from the military his father and other wanted me to assist in...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    My husband Johnny and I have been together for 2 years, married for a year and a half. We met through his older brother 2 1/2 years ago and started talking as friends. Neither one...
    ashleymarcia ashleymarcia 22-25, F Aug 28

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    Through my failed marriage, I've concluded that, despite the already recognized different classification of personalities, humans fall into two main person types: Selfless and...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 17

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    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I know this is very sad to say but I don't believe in true love or marriages anymore. It is because of the kind of marriage I'm in currently. I used to think when I get married it...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hmm this week I've been adding stories to the experiences I've chosen since being a member on here. I've been adding each story one at a time.And so far it's been pretty straight...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    The compromise promise. I ran into a former colleague yesterday. When I worked with him I got to know his wife and kids, and the couple seemed happily married, but got divorced a...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why Did We Get Married? - My STBX continues to struggle with my decision to divorce him, yet my conviction to break free grows stronger everyday since I triggered our divorce...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 18 Responses Aug 17

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    You can cry all day long and pray, but that's not going to move God to work on your situation. He does hear your cry and undertand your needs, but that's not faith and faith is...
    Brandnue Brandnue 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    The Finish Line … I left my marriage of 13 years a year ago this month. Legally, I am separated and in the process of finalizing the divorce. Emotionally, the last 12 months...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 18

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    I live in a sexless marriage have been for the last 6 years... Just didn't realize I was until recently. In my situation i never married for love, didn't even find him attractive...
    Sobeit06 Sobeit06 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 28

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    I don't just live in a sexless so-called marriage. I live in a dead and humiliating marriage. It's never been any more than what it is now. I need to learn to see my spouse as he...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 10 Responses Sep 1

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    I had to choose a section, so I chose "I Live In a Sexless Marriage." Call it what it is. I denied it. True. If you do live in a sexless marriage, please tell me and if anyone...
    Avek Avek 61-65, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    There are truths behind these funny quotes....To the singles, would you still wanna take the plunge on marriage? ***I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    As part of my core belief of continuous improvement and growth, I want to improve my marriage and relationship with my wife. Like most marriages I assume, we have our ups and...
    spiritnow spiritnow 41-45, M 13 hrs ago

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    A couple more signs of marital recovery. I keep telling the betrayed wives who message me, focus on actions, not words. My husband said all the right words when he cheated. But...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 17

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    Broken Home - I'm intrigued by a recent post from LaoTzu about the definition of a "broken home". Many of us have stayed in our dysfunctional marriages and opted not to divorce...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 12 Responses Aug 18

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    At risk of being hated, I admit I know the refuser's side. I was a virgin when I married the first time, ignorant of what the marriage bed entailed. I was young and scared and dumb...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    "For Better or For Worse" I have been thinking about this particular vow. As someone who was brought up from birth in the church, I was always taught that divorce is not optional...
    EmbraceableMe EmbraceableMe 41-45 9 Responses Sep 2

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    Being Perfect - One commonality I've discerned among our Refusers is their firm belief that there is nothing wrong with them ("them" being people who avoid having sex with their...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 22 Responses Sep 8

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been putting off this update for a while. I cannot do so any longer. It's long and winding, so if you choose to dive in, prepare yourself. Curious things are happening in...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 19 Responses 1 day ago

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    Short comings, short sex drive, short of expressing love are all part of Sexless Marriage. Denial and refusal are very familiar. Pay attention to your spouse's messages. My s/m...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 7 Responses Aug 19

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    Hi all. I've been doing a lot of self reflection lately, and I know that my dysfunctional family and longing to be loved (and the bs from my life long refusers) has led me to...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 41-45, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    I need some support. I checked on the status of divorce proceedings today. Had to leave a message. I am shaking. It doesn't help that there's a THIRD paralegal change since I...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 25

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    Neglect - One of the most important things I've learned from my decision to end my sexless marriage is that I will never again tolerate being neglected by my partner. We all...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 11 Responses Aug 30

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    Everything is ok but sex. Yes, I know; those are the most unpopular words here. Those who dare to utter them are frequently treated with …….. But I just wanted to give some...
    largehopes largehopes 36-40 8 Responses Sep 2

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    As is the case with many ILIASM folks in OppositeLand, my regret about my marriage is that I waited so long to divorce. "HuffPost Divorce readers share the biggest regret they...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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