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I Live In a Sexful Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 276 People

    The More Guys the Better!!!

    I live with two guys.  We have been together for many years, and they often bring home other guys to share me with.  I LOVE IT!!! Check out my personal story (#L104) at my free web site: http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/Joans_True_3-some_Stories/ Joan  
    2GuysForMe 2GuysForMe 36-40 4 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Yes We Do

    We are married, and we attend to one another each and every morning - This level of frequency was my Wife's idea - and when she decided that this was what we were to do - I was at first concerned - I did not know if I could keep up the pace - but I can and we do. We had used a...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M Mar 30, 2013

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    Walled In With No Where To Go

    My wife and I have been married for 23 years. When we started dating she first made a confession (it was very difficult for her) to me that she had herpies. She contracted it when she was in college from a local guy she had been seeing. But we worked through it. When we dated...
    jfriedri jfriedri 46-50, M Jul 12, 2012

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    And It Thrills Me Too

    I love knowing that my baby and me are as active as we ever were. we are just as adventuresome as we have ever been and we will stay that way forever. We have never denied one another because we were arguining or being silly. We have used making love as a way to keep us close and...
    AlwaysSmiling AlwaysSmiling 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    new Live In A Sexful Marriage

    i  live in my sister's house .her husband has bad thinking in his mind.he want's me .but i have no interest in him nor i can think about him for even once .i have more friend in my circle. i am a teacher in collage .i have parties in week ends .old students visits offer .i enjoy...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 8 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Satiasfied

    i went with my best friend on date .he was with his friend.three of us went at beach hotel .my friend's parents were there .he left me with his friend .we have 3 days stay .i ask his friend to have a fun .he refused me . i show him my naked body  and tried to expose myself but...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Well If Not In a Sexful Marriage...

    ...then at least in a sexful life.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    LOL!!

    I was talking to my husband about this. Seems like no one will come out and say they have a good sex live. Guess people want to only talk about their sex life if there is nothing going on or it's just bad.
    mrspink2007 mrspink2007 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Even When I'm Sick...

    I've been sick this past week.  Not bad sick, but a cold, just not feeling like myself, or looking all that great.  A red chapped nose makes that a little difficult to pull off. Our daughter was invited to a sleepover last night, which for us, means a crazy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    My Wife Is Good To Me.

    She has always been good to me and very much so when it comes to the marriage bed.
    Snigglefluffy Snigglefluffy 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    My Beloved And Adored Husband

    My beloved and adored husband has always filled our marriage with glorious sex, of all sorts. From the very beginning, even before we were married, when I was just a schoolgirl, he began sharing me with other men, and there was never any question that ours would be a very open...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    My wife as well. If she's not up

    for play (tired, period, etc.) - she always take care of me with a bj,hj or combo and she loves to swallow. I'm a lucky husband...
    ststeve ststeve 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    Full of Sex

    We have always enjoyed a great sex life that was very satisfying for both of us.  About 5 years ago we expanded into sharing sex with another couple and have now added a total of 3 couples to our group.  This has been great for us in that no one's needs go unfulfilled...
    btonnc btonnc 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    How I Wish.........

    If it happens ... it's a dream come true! LOL  
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Exactly two weeks from today, I have the first obligatory court hearing. Last week, I was away and in the meantime he had been talking to my sisters, my brother in law, and my son...
    TheFieryWoman TheFieryWoman 36-40, F 12 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    A marriage without sex and intimacy is the hardest thing in the world to deal with. It's like torture. Sleeping alone night after night... Sometimes I think marriage is a waste of...
    Truelove4me Truelove4me 36-40, M 9 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Well, not yet I'm not, but hopefully all the issues can be worked out, so that I will be. When I posed the question to him about an open marriage, at first he was mad as hell. I...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 8 Responses Oct 17

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    Revised for offensive content: Last night I set the stage for an argument this weekend. Yesterday I came home from work in a good mood and hugged my wife when she came through...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 3

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless marriage, I am experiencing...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 11

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    I think I just discovered why I ended up in an emotionally abusive controlling marriage. I always thought you had to look at your parent of the opposite sex. For me I think it...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    If you knew you were going to live another 20-30 or so years would you be willing to remain in a sexless marriage or would you divorce? According to this quiz, I will live...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 16 Responses Oct 13

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    THE TRUTH BEHIND THESE KINDS OF MARRIAGES.Last week, I wrote an article for my blog titled: Six Reasons That Your Marriage Will Fail. One of the areas that I highlighted was...
    LadyMarredMind LadyMarredMind 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 15

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    Well, I don't live in a SM anymore. I left him 1-year ago today. I'm still sexless (not for the whole year) but that's now my choice as opposed to a symptom. Choice feels way...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 20

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    Update. I have been officially divorced since July 30th, 2014. We divorced amicably and are still friends. I moved out of state and currently live with my parents (during the...
    frustratedndc frustratedndc 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 21

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    Hi good morning. I can sympathize with your feelings. In my own marriage after 25 years. There was no more sex. For two years. It began to build the wall in between us. My wife at...
    sunney55 sunney55 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    Well, after a four year hiatus, I'm back in this group. I was on EP years ago when I was at the 3 year mark of no intimacy in my marriage. After about two years of trying to make...
    caminova caminova 36-40 9 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    My dad sent me this months ago when I told him I want to marry my boyfriend. I think this is fabulous advice and something refusing spouses have either forgotten or never learned...
    papaya6 papaya6 22-25, F 15 Responses Oct 3

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    If you are in the should I stay or should I go mode, it will go on forever. The only way to get off the fence is if you leave or a major shift happens in your marriage. The shift...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    hi, im indonesian (28yo) and i married with a japanese man (28yo) 2 months ago. we have been together 11 months then he finally marry me. but i already facing a sexless marriage. i...
    yn12986 yn12986 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 11

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    heard this line from a Ryan Adams song and felt like it really summed up my life right now " pictures hanging on the wall of when we used to smile " wow ... that pretty much...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 10 Responses Oct 13

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    Who complains about an hour long back massage ? .... who complains about a dozen roses for no reason ? .... who complains about texts about how beautiful she is and how special...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 21

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    My husband is overweight, but is kind, considerate, even handsome. We have two kids together and have a wonderful family life. Since we've been married (4 years now), the sex...
    mzansigirl mzansigirl 36-40, F 24 Responses Oct 22

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    I am a doctor and went through some of the experiences on this site.... Felt like i should also share some of my experiences which i faced in my life.... Yes Doctors are not immune...
    saiprasadbhavsar saiprasadbhavsar 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    No Regrets - "Nothing is certain, except death and taxes." - Benjamin Franklin - We all know when our taxes are due, but none of us know when we will die. We could live to the...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 14 Responses Oct 16

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    So, after my last post about my crappy week last week, I read and re-read HusbandOfOne's comment, the one about spending the next 20 years feeling the way I do in my marriage...
    driftingtiger driftingtiger 51-55, F 23 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, today is officially the last day I can say that I live in a Sexless Marriage. At 9am PST, my attorney will appear in front of a judge to have the divorce approved & signed...
    4hopefloats 4hopefloats 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 1

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    I found this on the Christian Broadcast Network. I think it highlights the fundamental failures of Refusers in Marriage and how not honoring the vows ultimately will destroy the...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 10

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    I MUST learn how to live celibate. It is difficult at best. This is something that I never expected out of life. I gave more than my share to my sexless marriage. We had been...
    HAR1978 HAR1978 46-50, F 16 Responses Oct 11

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    I'm new here and hope my post makes it to the right place. I've been with my H for 17 years. He's 10 years older than I am, I'm 55. from the beginning he had ED problems, but I...
    Sarita22 Sarita22 46-50, F 20 Responses Oct 14

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    An Ask Amy column that may be relevant when it comes to what some here are or have experienced in their marriages. "Dear Amy: My wife and I have been happily married for over 20...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    I am 37 years old and have been in a relationship with my current bf for 13 years. We aren't legally married, but we have lived together for 12 years and we have one child together...
    lyssak lyssak 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 21

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    We have known each other for 9 years: 1st year long distance, lived together for another 3 years and on/off long distance for the next 5, and then recently got married. Marriage...
    mewmy mewmy 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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