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I Live In a Sexful Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 271 People

    My Beloved And Adored Husband

    My beloved and adored husband has always filled our marriage with glorious sex, of all sorts. From the very beginning, even before we were married, when I was just a schoolgirl, he began sharing me with other men, and there was never any question that ours would be a very open...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    My wife as well. If she's not up

    for play (tired, period, etc.) - she always take care of me with a bj,hj or combo and she loves to swallow. I'm a lucky husband...
    ststeve ststeve 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    new Live In A Sexful Marriage

    i  live in my sister's house .her husband has bad thinking in his mind.he want's me .but i have no interest in him nor i can think about him for even once .i have more friend in my circle. i am a teacher in collage .i have parties in week ends .old students visits offer .i enjoy...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 4 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Even When I'm Sick...

    I've been sick this past week.  Not bad sick, but a cold, just not feeling like myself, or looking all that great.  A red chapped nose makes that a little difficult to pull off. Our daughter was invited to a sleepover last night, which for us, means a crazy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    Satiasfied

    i went with my best friend on date .he was with his friend.three of us went at beach hotel .my friend's parents were there .he left me with his friend .we have 3 days stay .i ask his friend to have a fun .he refused me . i show him my naked body  and tried to expose myself but...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Full of Sex

    We have always enjoyed a great sex life that was very satisfying for both of us.  About 5 years ago we expanded into sharing sex with another couple and have now added a total of 3 couples to our group.  This has been great for us in that no one's needs go unfulfilled...
    btonnc btonnc 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    The More Guys the Better!!!

    I live with two guys.  We have been together for many years, and they often bring home other guys to share me with.  I LOVE IT!!! Check out my personal story (#L104) at my free web site: http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/Joans_True_3-some_Stories/ Joan  
    2GuysForMe 2GuysForMe 36-40 4 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Well If Not In a Sexful Marriage...

    ...then at least in a sexful life.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    LOL!!

    I was talking to my husband about this. Seems like no one will come out and say they have a good sex live. Guess people want to only talk about their sex life if there is nothing going on or it's just bad.
    mrspink2007 mrspink2007 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Yes We Do

    We are married, and we attend to one another each and every morning - This level of frequency was my Wife's idea - and when she decided that this was what we were to do - I was at first concerned - I did not know if I could keep up the pace - but I can and we do. We had used a...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M Mar 30, 2013

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    And It Thrills Me Too

    I love knowing that my baby and me are as active as we ever were. we are just as adventuresome as we have ever been and we will stay that way forever. We have never denied one another because we were arguining or being silly. We have used making love as a way to keep us close and...
    AlwaysSmiling AlwaysSmiling 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    My Wife Is Good To Me.

    She has always been good to me and very much so when it comes to the marriage bed.
    Snigglefluffy Snigglefluffy 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 15, 2013

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    Walled In With No Where To Go

    My wife and I have been married for 23 years. When we started dating she first made a confession (it was very difficult for her) to me that she had herpies. She contracted it when she was in college from a local guy she had been seeing. But we worked through it. When we dated...
    jfriedri jfriedri 46-50, M Jul 12, 2012

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    How I Wish.........

    If it happens ... it's a dream come true! LOL  
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 14

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    Moving on: I am packing up my office and my home this week. I am moving out of state and starting a new job. ( I have posted part of this update a little earlier.) But a posting...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 7

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    Marriage is not always easy. Nothing is always easy. However, when you say those marriage vows, you are making a promise to God and to the one you are marrying that you will be...
    chellekaye chellekaye 46-50 Aug 10

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    I just came to EP, looking for solace as a OW. I found myself looking at "I live in a sexless marriage" stories. Made me think, 49k people have something to say. Maybe, just maybe...
    greeneyes41 greeneyes41 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband Johnny and I have been together for 2 years, married for a year and a half. We met through his older brother 2 1/2 years ago and started talking as friends. Neither one...
    ashleymarcia ashleymarcia 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Here goes...I found EP doing a search about sexless marriages so here I am, my first story. I've been married 15 years to a man who in the beginning had me believing he could not...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 14 Responses Aug 15

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    Through my failed marriage, I've concluded that, despite the already recognized different classification of personalities, humans fall into two main person types: Selfless and...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 17

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    Used to think i was going to meet a perfect girl, someone i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Used to think i'd get married and everything will be just fine, but that...
    jafetgx jafetgx 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    “Why should I, as a gay man, be denied the same right to file a joint tax return with my potential husband that a straight couple has?” Very helpful answer by Ryan T. Anderson...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Hmm this week I've been adding stories to the experiences I've chosen since being a member on here. I've been adding each story one at a time.And so far it's been pretty straight...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Hi Pretty bold of me to do this huh? Well I know what I want and I know what I'm ready for... and perhaps you are in the same boat? I'm 35 I've spent several years in long term...
    lakewood45 lakewood45 31-35 Aug 3

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    I live in a sexless marriage because I don't even have a husband and I'm not even married ._. ...... I live in a sexless marriage -crys
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 4

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    It's been a few years since I've posted. Only once has H come to me for reset sex (two years ago), no kissing, no hugging, just manual stimulation. That's more than I've had in...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 15 Responses Aug 5

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    Why Did We Get Married? - My STBX continues to struggle with my decision to divorce him, yet my conviction to break free grows stronger everyday since I triggered our divorce...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 18 Responses Aug 17

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    You can cry all day long and pray, but that's not going to move God to work on your situation. He does hear your cry and undertand your needs, but that's not faith and faith is...
    Brandnue Brandnue 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    The Finish Line … I left my marriage of 13 years a year ago this month. Legally, I am separated and in the process of finalizing the divorce. Emotionally, the last 12 months...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 18

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    I live in a sexless marriage have been for the last 6 years... Just didn't realize I was until recently. In my situation i never married for love, didn't even find him attractive...
    Sobeit06 Sobeit06 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    A couple more signs of marital recovery. I keep telling the betrayed wives who message me, focus on actions, not words. My husband said all the right words when he cheated. But...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 17

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    Broken Home - I'm intrigued by a recent post from LaoTzu about the definition of a "broken home". Many of us have stayed in our dysfunctional marriages and opted not to divorce...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 12 Responses Aug 18

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    At risk of being hated, I admit I know the refuser's side. I was a virgin when I married the first time, ignorant of what the marriage bed entailed. I was young and scared and dumb...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    My Story Part 3 I was not in love,but liked my future husband... It seemed that we perfectly suitable- two mature people, both have been hurt in the past... yes,some reddish...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F Aug 1

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    Dancing Skeletons - I spoke with my STBX tonight about the visitation schedule I had in mind for our teenage daughter, and he immediately launched into another tirade about how I...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 31 Responses Aug 12

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    Some thoughts on forgiveness. When I first posted here 3 years ago, I was struggling with forgiveness. My situation is very unusual for this place, in being a "success" story...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 10 Responses Aug 13

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 15 Responses Aug 13

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    DONE as opposed to done. It kind of went like this. On holiday I was putting my stuff into 'my' room, we have not shared beds in years due to the SM and her crazy crap, that's...
    Endthegame Endthegame 41-45, M 28 Responses Aug 15

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    Oh well my secret is out and as much as I hate to say it I live in a sexless marriage. My story does not quite start like a fairytale as when we met we were both recovering from...
    mysteryjourney mysteryjourney 36-40, M 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I have an idea that will solve all of our sexless marriage problems. Let's start a sexless marriage group meeting next door to the sexaholics anonymous meeting. If were lucky it...
    hoss350 hoss350 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 16

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    Short comings, short sex drive, short of expressing love are all part of Sexless Marriage. Denial and refusal are very familiar. Pay attention to your spouse's messages. My s/m...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 7 Responses Aug 19

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    Hi all. I've been doing a lot of self reflection lately, and I know that my dysfunctional family and longing to be loved (and the bs from my life long refusers) has led me to...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 41-45, F 12 Responses Aug 21

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    I need some support. I checked on the status of divorce proceedings today. Had to leave a message. I am shaking. It doesn't help that there's a THIRD paralegal change since I...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    Neglect - One of the most important things I've learned from my decision to end my sexless marriage is that I will never again tolerate being neglected by my partner. We all...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been married for 15 years. The crossdressing came out about 8 years ago. I was really supportive and loving about it. Felt sorry for Husband that he had had to hide it all...
    LadyLana39 LadyLana39 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 1

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