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I Live In a Sexful Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 268 People

    My Wife Is Good To Me.

    She has always been good to me and very much so when it comes to the marriage bed.
    Snigglefluffy Snigglefluffy 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Satiasfied

    i went with my best friend on date .he was with his friend.three of us went at beach hotel .my friend's parents were there .he left me with his friend .we have 3 days stay .i ask his friend to have a fun .he refused me . i show him my naked body  and tried to expose myself but...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Well If Not In a Sexful Marriage...

    ...then at least in a sexful life.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    new Live In A Sexful Marriage

    i  live in my sister's house .her husband has bad thinking in his mind.he want's me .but i have no interest in him nor i can think about him for even once .i have more friend in my circle. i am a teacher in collage .i have parties in week ends .old students visits offer .i enjoy...
    bujjikala bujjikala 26-30, F 3 Responses May 25, 2012

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    How I Wish.........

    If it happens ... it's a dream come true! LOL  
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Walled In With No Where To Go

    My wife and I have been married for 23 years. When we started dating she first made a confession (it was very difficult for her) to me that she had herpies. She contracted it when she was in college from a local guy she had been seeing. But we worked through it. When we dated...
    jfriedri jfriedri 46-50, M Jul 12, 2012

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    Full of Sex

    We have always enjoyed a great sex life that was very satisfying for both of us.  About 5 years ago we expanded into sharing sex with another couple and have now added a total of 3 couples to our group.  This has been great for us in that no one's needs go unfulfilled...
    btonnc btonnc 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2009

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    Yes We Do

    We are married, and we attend to one another each and every morning - This level of frequency was my Wife's idea - and when she decided that this was what we were to do - I was at first concerned - I did not know if I could keep up the pace - but I can and we do. We had used a...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M Mar 30, 2013

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    My Beloved And Adored Husband

    My beloved and adored husband has always filled our marriage with glorious sex, of all sorts. From the very beginning, even before we were married, when I was just a schoolgirl, he began sharing me with other men, and there was never any question that ours would be a very open...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Even When I'm Sick...

    I've been sick this past week.  Not bad sick, but a cold, just not feeling like myself, or looking all that great.  A red chapped nose makes that a little difficult to pull off. Our daughter was invited to a sleepover last night, which for us, means a crazy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    Marriage Glue :-) A Wifes Point Of View...

    My husband and I have sex almost every day and quite often several times in a day. I am super lucky. I think many married people underestimate the value of sex in a relationship. When my husband "comes on" to me, it makes me feel beautiful, desired, sexy and best of all -loved...
    hannah24 hannah24 22-25, F 8 Responses May 17, 2011

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    And It Thrills Me Too

    I love knowing that my baby and me are as active as we ever were. we are just as adventuresome as we have ever been and we will stay that way forever. We have never denied one another because we were arguining or being silly. We have used making love as a way to keep us close and...
    AlwaysSmiling AlwaysSmiling 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    The More Guys the Better!!!

    I live with two guys.  We have been together for many years, and they often bring home other guys to share me with.  I LOVE IT!!! Check out my personal story (#L104) at my free web site: http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/Joans_True_3-some_Stories/ Joan  
    2GuysForMe 2GuysForMe 36-40 4 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    LOL!!

    I was talking to my husband about this. Seems like no one will come out and say they have a good sex live. Guess people want to only talk about their sex life if there is nothing going on or it's just bad.
    mrspink2007 mrspink2007 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    Psychology Today has a couple of recent articles regarding "Does Sexless marriage justify adultery". The articles are reasonable and informed and the comments worthwhile. They...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Do you everything about all the foreign places that you've ever wanted to go and how there are people just like you living in walking distance of that attraction and it holds no...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 10

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    I finally lined up both a marriage counselor (to help us sort out whether or not our marriage is toast) and an individual therapist (to help me get my **** together) and now the...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 29 Responses 2 days ago

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    You think you have all the time in the world. You don’t. I live in a sexless marriage. I made major decisions and made many choices to live alongside a man who found it...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 26 Responses Mar 20

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    I had an incredible night. I have to share my experience. I was raised by my Grandmother, who lived in a sexless marriage. My Grandfather was a mean, cold, loveless husband. He...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 25

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 4 days ago

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    So, I had to go home today to do some chores at the parent's. Hubs normally helps out but he's gone so it was up to me to cover. (wtf weird dynamic) I felt like being nice so I...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    hello i want to tell life story.She is from Azerbaijan former soviet republic .This country belongs neither europe nor asia the culture and people mixed.She married man.This man...
    1kewa 1kewa 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I'm on my way out. We filed the papers to end our marriage yesterday, so in thirty to ninety days I will be single. It's a little sad. He and I both have said we never in a...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    This is a little scary, posting about such private matters to people I've never met, but here goes. I googled sexless marriage for the first time today. What triggered it was the...
    TCKat TCKat 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 10

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    I am new here. I haven't participated in online discussions in years so this is quite awkward but I like the anonymity an could really use an ear. I will be married for five years...
    gardinel gardinel 36-40, F 12 Responses Apr 10

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    Talking Points - To get agreement to separate Now I have to solicit advice from those here on ILIASM that have successfully left their marriages with no fight, no rancor, but...
    EinEngel EinEngel 46-50, F 17 Responses Apr 11

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    In case you think that Opposite Land is perfect, it isn't. No tax refund for me this year. Instead, a $6,500 tax bill due to how things worked out for me in the divorce settlement...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I lived in a sexless marriage for 9 years. About 14 months ago I left finally and an starting over. I tried everything I could to revive our marriage. From candle light...
    Leavinstevin Leavinstevin 41-45, M 21 Responses 3 days ago

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    Born and raised here.. don't know if I want to live anywhere else in the world but I do love this place.
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Every time I run into someone cool, fun, and interesting online they always live hundreds of miles away from me. What's up with that? Are their no sane folks left in New York City...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    The XX. I can't live without listening to them. I need some new songs to come out. I've played the heck out of the older ones.
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Hi all After reading many posts here it looks like that most of the people who live in a sexless marriage do in the end separate. Are there anybody here who have gone trough the...
    easylistener easylistener 36-40, M 8 Responses Mar 19

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    I had a meeting with stbx yesterday. At first I was scaredto go. Scared bbecause I had just sorted through my feelings on why I felt so empty and why I felt like I had wanted to...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 23

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    My mother passed away peacefully on Monday, March 24, 2014. She had battled long and hard against the ravaging effects of years of smoking cigarettes. The last thing my mother...
    rosieapparition rosieapparition 51-55, F 28 Responses Mar 27

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    Update: I was active on this site about 2 years ago. I read all the posts and despite the enormous body of experience laid out I still somehow thought I would be different. I...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 30

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    A Discovery of Self....When I first started coming to this website I had a typical everything was okay bar the sex attitude. I still wanted to divorce but I didn't want to hurt my...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    I guess "troubled" is the best way to describe it. I used to think nothing could come between us. My husband's been in and out of part-time, dead-end jobs for ten years. Most...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have been together with my wife for 18 years and been married for 8 years soon. And the past 8 years there have been less and less sex. For now, no sex at all. All these years i...
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 15 Responses Apr 9

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Apr 10

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    What would you consider sexless marriage? no sex in 1 month? 1 year? 5 yrs? How can anyone survive a sexless marriage without cheating? Just curious as I didn't know so many people...
    wiredwolf wiredwolf 31-35, M 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 36 years old. I shock many when they find out about my inexperience and lack of knowledge of most things romantic. I am still waiting for my first real kiss. I am still...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am curious, if a person is not Christian then where do the guidelines for what to do in marriage come from? This isn't meant to be antagonistic at all, it is a question I have...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 16 Responses Mar 20

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    I've been in a marriage for quite some time, but fell away from sex within my marriage about one year ago. I had been the one attempting to encourage my wife to have relations with...
    AVisionary AVisionary 36-40, M 11 Responses Mar 20

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    Another thing missing from this sexless marriage, besides intimacy, love and respect is fun and laughter. (Jeez, what exactly do I get from this marriage) I thought that I had...
    Gingersnapped Gingersnapped 51-55, F 13 Responses Mar 25

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    There are 2 whys in the sexless marriage. The first is: why does my spouse not want sex? This leads to a huge cycle of reason-chasing, smokescreening from the refuser, magical...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses Mar 26

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