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I Live In a Sexless Marriage With Autism Aspergers Spouse

This is an offshoot group from the I live in a sexless marriage group. This is for those living in a sexless marriage or relationship whose spouse or SO is on the autism spectrum. 99 People

    I Need Someone To Talk To About This, I Am Very Depressed Over My Husband's Lack Of Emotion Towards Me.

    I've been married to my husband for 36 years.   When I met him, I knew he was the kind of guy I wanted to marry. I knew he was responsible and would never cheat on me or hurt me. He was very stable.  I did not complain that...
    sfjbmom sfjbmom
    66-70, F
    20 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    I'm soooo sick and tired of people critising

    autism I have asp burgers and you don't know what is like so why don't you accept the fact people have autism and cope with it instead of being big ******** and criticizing people about there disability that's so selfish of everyone here to do that to people who can't fend for...
    Fartnuts Fartnuts
    26-30, M
    Oct 21, 2014

    Any Advice!

    im new to this forum but i feel like im ready my own story through all of you. I have been with my husband for almost 10 years and just last year he came to me expressing he thinks he might have a form of Aspergers. We have been having some serious marital problems for a few...
    MMT2012 MMT2012
    31-35
    May 23, 2013

    Is It Me?

    I searched for Aspergers syndrome, and found this group. I never knew that this was the way I acted toward my partner, I understand that perhaps I'm not romantic, perhaps I'm not spontaneous.. But I never thought that it would make her feel unloved. I love my partner with all...
    Bestbefore Bestbefore
    22-25
    8 Responses Sep 10, 2012

    Living In A Sexless Marriage With An Asperger's Spouse

    Where to begin? I married my husband almost 6 years ago. Neither of us knew at that time that he had Aspergers. He charmed me with his goofy, boyish qualities, and I ignored multiple red flags and passed off his bizarre behaviour as simply "quirky". Sex was infrequent and awkward...
    cadillac73 cadillac73
    36-40, F
    16 Responses Sep 1, 2011

    It Is So Frustrating

    I have been in a relationship with an Aspie for two years. Initially, it was sexually satisfying, but by degrees that faded for the following reasons. There was no passion. Just mechanical fumbling. There were no appreciative noises. It was all carried out in silence. He thought...
    felicita felicita
    66-70, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2012

    This Past Year

    I have been married for 14 years and knew before we married that he is an Aspie. In the beginning our sex life was passionate and fulfilling. I have a very low libido and was concerned that I would not be able to meet his needs. We talked about the possibility of having a...
    ASDandHim ASDandHim
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2013

    Looking To Reach Out

    I have been with my wife dating/married for a total of 8 years. When we first started dating, she had been diagnosed with ADHD for a few years and I had just been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. She was "experienced" and I was saving myself for marriage. As we grew closer and we...
    JervisTetch JervisTetch
    31-35
    Jun 21, 2013

    I'm a f u c king cry baby.

    I'm doing counseling with him. What a waste. It has opened me up emotionally to the point of making me a basket case. Now every time he rejects me sexually I cry like a blubbering idiot. When I'm not crying I'm so pissed off I could rip his head off and shove it up his a ss...
    blondbombshellXXX blondbombshellXXX
    36-40, F
    Dec 10, 2013

    Going Nuts

    Beyond Exasperated By: Me Written on May 15th, 2013 Dont know how long I can hang in there. Met my husband 6 years ago. parents eccentric as they come.. His little boy charm won me over at first and he pursued me like crazy. Now he pursues his computer and the field of finance...
    kkmmy kkmmy
    51-55, F
    May 15, 2013

    I Need Out.

    Following the reading of other two stories in this group I decided to join. I've been married to an Aspie for almost 17 years now. We've been separated this past 8 years but continue to live in the same house with our 3 children. I can't do it anymore. I'm running on empty. I've...
    Rua001 Rua001
    31-35
    9 Responses Aug 3, 2011

    I Too Live In A Sexless Marriage W/aspergers

    I can identify with all of what you have written so much. I am going to quote part of sadfrustrated's story, because she put it so concisely: ""We have had sex once in probably the last year or so. He is very awkward and is very regimented in the "routine" of it. Its not that...
    speedoflight speedoflight
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 13, 2011

    Now What?

    Over the past few weeks the posts I have found have elicited feelings of despair, hope, compassion, anger and most important, of not being alone. I have been married almost 24 years. These years have been very difficult and our lack of understanding how aspergers added a...
    Ntwifetrying24 Ntwifetrying24
    46-50, F
    Feb 19, 2013

    I Thought I Was The Only One Who Was Dealing With This!

    I know it means someone else is as miserable as I am, but it is somehow also very comforting to know that I am not alone right now in how I am feeling. I have been married to my husband for just over 8 years, together for 9 yrs. I did NOT know he was an aspie before we married...
    DanSaulKnight DanSaulKnight
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Dec 16, 2010

    I Possibly have an Aspergers Spouse.

    I have been reading about different personality disorders. My husband fits so many descriptions of Aspergers but then he will do other things that make me think he is a narcissist. The biggest issue is that he is always in direct conflict with himself. . . There are a lot of...
    MrsQwerty MrsQwerty
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2014
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