on 01:12PM at Feb 16th, 2013
Just emailed a lawyer.. Wish me luck! Going to go have a glass of wine now.
on 06:24PM at Feb 16th, 2013
Make it a merlot.
Swirl it around in the glass, smell it, and a sip. Sense that piquainte flavour and revel in it.
Practice appreciating sensual tasty things. The practice will do you good for your life post shithole marriage, after the temporary pain and disruption abates.
Tread your own path.
on 07:44AM at Feb 17th, 2013
I hope all goes well. Visiting a lawyer was a big scary step, and I was terrified. However, it was not so bad, and she gave me great information and I felt on a more solid footing to move forward with divorce. I think it was such a big deal for me because it was a step in acknowledging that the marriage was truly finished and in acknowledging that fact.
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on 01:56PM at Feb 17th, 2013
I imagine it being much like the "first day of school" feeling.... Horrible, anxious anticipation followed by calm.
on 06:46PM at Feb 17th, 2013
Good luck to you -- one step at a time.
on 02:28PM at Feb 18th, 2013
Ha! I was getting all anxious b/c they haven't responded yet.... Today's a holiday, duh. Sigh, I need to cut back on the caffeine big time. More chamomile!! ;)
on 11:18AM at Feb 20th, 2013
Add your favorite food to that celebratory wine too. It's time for you to treat yourself. Good luck on you're new journey of rediscovering you. Hmmmm, I supsect there a goddess waiting to be unleashed.
on 08:44PM at Feb 25th, 2013
Well, first lawyer never got back with me (boooo, messing with my momentum!). However, my sister is wonderful and got me a contact (a paralegal) who I spoke with today, emailed my info to them just now, and hope to be passed along to a lawyer shortly! Here at home DOCUMENT is the word of the day... And oh, what documenting I have done.