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I Live In a Sexless Non-marriage

Why should married people have all the fun? 24 People

    Sure Beats The Counterpart Experience.

    If you disagree, I'd just like to take a moment to say.... NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG. Now I'm going to play some video games and eat junk food and ignore the pile of dishes in my sink. Because I can.
    monsterdog81 monsterdog81 31-35, M Nov 14, 2011

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    Remember When?

    I don't.  I live in a sexless non-marriage as well.  The funny thing is all the married people think us single folks have it so great.  My attached friends are constantly talking about how lucky I am to be single, care free and able to have crazy, passionate sex anytime I...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Sexless Non Marriage

    have done since elton john concert four years ago at darlington football stadium. never going to see him again!!!
    trachiedave trachiedave 51-55 Sep 7, 2012

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    But Doing Something About It.......

    For a number of years I was going through the motions...mom...wife....but realised that not only was my marriage sexless but pretty much loveleess too. When the last of my kids moved out a couple of years ago it made me think about my future. Was I happy to continue with things...
    SexySue4u SexySue4u 51-55, F 25 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    The Group Credo

    As I'm sure you'll understand The best sex is never planned      But as it is known,      Sometimes we're left alone And we must take our matters in hand.
    failedexperiment failedexperiment 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    Ok..., so he haven't made love to me

    since April. Ok I been in his phone like 4 times now.., he doesn't think I don't the password but I do., I be confronting him about stuff and he gets all mad and says I'm sorry I won't do it again and he does it again.., like he got ***** pics in his phone.., picture of girls he...
    Moco1991 Moco1991 22-25, F Jun 19

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    I'm Not Married and Don't Have Any Sex.

    You definitely don't have to be married to be sexless!  I have been sexless two years almost.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    Under 5,800 Strong

    There seem to be a lot of people here in sexless marriages.  While I don't envy that situation, I'd like to take a stand for those of us in sexless non-marriages. I know there are a few similar groups out there, but none had wording I felt in sync with.  So, if anyone...
    failedexperiment failedexperiment 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 1, 2009

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    I was a great pretender.

    Playing the role that everything was okay. Prostate cancer has been in our relationship our whole life. Then another. That's not the worst part. The worst part is feeling I failed him & being completely alone when I was so depressed. I want to throw up. I was so sick of cancer...
    Joylessandalone Joylessandalone 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Viva La Vida

    I used to rule the world Seas would rise when I gave the word Now in the morning I sleep alone Sweep the streets I used to own I used to roll the dice Feel the fear in my enemy's eyes Listen as the crowd would sing "Now the old king is dead! Long live the king!" One minute I...
    Soambitious Soambitious 18-21, M Apr 3, 2012

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    I am trying to come to terms with everything. My husband wants a sexless marriage. Why? Because he feels sex interferes with his spiritual progress. I have tried talking to him...
    mairia mairia 26-30, F 15 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hi good morning. I can sympathize with your feelings. In my own marriage after 25 years. There was no more sex. For two years. It began to build the wall in between us. My wife at...
    sunney55 sunney55 46-50, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    being in a sexless marriage is so frustrating. I shouldn't have to beg my husband for sex it's so sad
    sexyingrey sexyingrey 36-40, F 1 Response 27 mins ago

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    37 female in a sexless marriage. I feel too young to be going through this
    sexyingrey sexyingrey 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 7 Responses Oct 17

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    Rewiring Needed! I was wondering today how many people have gone from one poor relationship partner to the next? It seems to me that a lot of us in this group have been with an...
    Artvg Artvg 41-45, F 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am in a sexless marriage and have been for years. I don’t mean a sex reduced marriage I mean non-existent. It is because she has medical issues and I won’t go into that. I...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 6 Responses Oct 14

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    THE TRUTH BEHIND THESE KINDS OF MARRIAGES.Last week, I wrote an article for my blog titled: Six Reasons That Your Marriage Will Fail. One of the areas that I highlighted was...
    MarredMind MarredMind 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 15

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    heard this line from a Ryan Adams song and felt like it really summed up my life right now " pictures hanging on the wall of when we used to smile " wow ... that pretty much...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 10 Responses Oct 13

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 27

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    If you knew you were going to live another 20-30 or so years would you be willing to remain in a sexless marriage or would you divorce? According to this quiz, I will live...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 16 Responses Oct 13

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    Funny situation I'd like some input on. So anyway, Lucy has facebook, I've left her to her privacy and not snooped. It's often left open on our shared computer , for whatever...
    1RedKing 1RedKing 41-45, M 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 27

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless marriage, I am experiencing...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 11

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    Well, I don't live in a SM anymore. I left him 1-year ago today. I'm still sexless (not for the whole year) but that's now my choice as opposed to a symptom. Choice feels way...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am 37 years old and have been in a relationship with my current bf for 13 years. We aren't legally married, but we have lived together for 12 years and we have one child together...
    lyssak lyssak 36-40, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    Our belated 20th Anniversary trip to New England was exactly what we needed to help us reconnect. Despite having a Nor'easter begin hitting the area on second full day, we had a...
    lonelyguy375 lonelyguy375 46-50, M 9 hrs ago

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    I MUST learn how to live celibate. It is difficult at best. This is something that I never expected out of life. I gave more than my share to my sexless marriage. We had been...
    HAR1978 HAR1978 46-50, F 17 Responses Oct 11

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    Update. I have been officially divorced since July 30th, 2014. We divorced amicably and are still friends. I moved out of state and currently live with my parents (during the...
    frustratedndc frustratedndc 36-40, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    If you are in the should I stay or should I go mode, it will go on forever. The only way to get off the fence is if you leave or a major shift happens in your marriage. The shift...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    hi, im indonesian (28yo) and i married with a japanese man (28yo) 2 months ago. we have been together 11 months then he finally marry me. but i already facing a sexless marriage. i...
    yn12986 yn12986 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    My husband is overweight, but is kind, considerate, even handsome. We have two kids together and have a wonderful family life. Since we've been married (4 years now), the sex...
    mzansigirl mzansigirl 36-40, F 23 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been married for 34 years and the past 23 years of them have also been sexless. I had decided last March to end my sexless and selfish loveless marriage. I wish I had opened...
    Spicedpecan0617 Spicedpecan0617 61-65, F 14 Responses Oct 4

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    Its easy to justify ourselves for not leaving an unhappy marriage. "I dont want to leave the kids", "We are going to therapy", "I cant afford it", and "He said he would change" are...
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 13 Responses Oct 9

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    Undeniable Truths of the Sexless Marriage:The following is a short list of the postulates and theorems posited by the ILIASM gurus that I believe answer the queries folks post here...
    CreelUnion CreelUnion 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 14

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    No Regrets - "Nothing is certain, except death and taxes." - Benjamin Franklin - We all know when our taxes are due, but none of us know when we will die. We could live to the...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 14 Responses Oct 16

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    OMG ... He's driving me crazy with his nonstop nonsense today. I want to throttle him. I woke up with Al Green's Put a Little Love in Your Heart running thru my brain. Right now, I...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 9 Responses Sep 25

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    I have been married for 34 years. We stopped having sex around 5 years ago. I am the husband. My wife tells me she just isn't interested in sex anymore. She knows I am not the kind...
    Leo502K Leo502K 61-65, M 20 Responses Sep 27

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    Well, today is officially the last day I can say that I live in a Sexless Marriage. At 9am PST, my attorney will appear in front of a judge to have the divorce approved & signed...
    4hopefloats 4hopefloats 41-45, F 21 Responses Oct 1

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    I'm new here and hope my post makes it to the right place. I've been with my H for 17 years. He's 10 years older than I am, I'm 55. from the beginning he had ED problems, but I...
    Sarita22 Sarita22 46-50, F 20 Responses Oct 14

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    Last night H fell asleep in the recliner while watching TV. Before that, I had gone to bed, when the noise of the TV got to be too much for me. He was kind enough to carry Angus...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 9 Responses Oct 15

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    Update from yesterday Got up on the morning, only task planned was getting our blood tests together. She fasted having been told she had to and I didn't for the same reason...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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