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I Live Missing My Incarcerated Husband

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    A Beautiful Tragedy

    I fell in love with my husband almost 10 years ago at the young age of sixteen. It was love at first sight for the both of us. It was if I had known him all my life. Such a familiar face that I had never seen. He received my heart the second we made eye contact whether he knew it...
    WildLovers WildLovers 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    I'm so tired of having to deal with my husbands alcoholism and him blaming it on any little stressor. I was an alcoholic but haven't had a drink in ten months. I can't stand this...
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    Why Did We Get Married? - My STBX continues to struggle with my decision to divorce him, yet my conviction to break free grows stronger everyday since I triggered our divorce...
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    Times like these is when you understood me the most, I miss those days with you ..I had you as my diary, anything I want to say I'd come to you.. you had me the same way too.. we...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    My Story Part 4 (Final) Then I had some operation, after which I should not have sex for about 2 months... My husband asked when I am allowed to be back on track... I told, he...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    Moving on: I am packing up my office and my home this week. I am moving out of state and starting a new job. ( I have posted part of this update a little earlier.) But a posting...
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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 9 Responses Jul 27

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    My Story Part 3 I was not in love,but liked my future husband... It seemed that we perfectly suitable- two mature people, both have been hurt in the past... yes,some reddish...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F Aug 1

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    nikkib3809 nikkib3809 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 10 Responses Aug 11

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    inmytime inmytime 31-35, M 9 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29

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    December 2012, both my husband and I were questioned for child abuse after we took our child in for a check up and petechiae and bruises were found, but the Department of Family...
    minilule minilule 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Observations from amazing night of passionate sex last night. Aftermath. I only post this because i use to spend a lot of time wondering weather or not I could go through w...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 28 Responses Jul 22

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    Interesting article on obesity and its effect on people's sex lives. "Readers first encounter Englehardt at her heaviest, 265 pounds, strapped to a CPAP machine for sleep apnea...
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    I'm trying to do the right thing not only for myself, but for my family, especially for my beautiful baby daughter, to whom I might never apologize enough for not choosing well her...
    mery81 mery81 31-35, F Jul 22

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    Because we are going on vacation he has been working way more than usual and tonight he doesn't get off until way late. So now I'm stuck missing him :-(
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I really can't explain how it feels to miss someone. I wouldn't explain it as a "hole in your chest" or a "a place missing from your heart" because it is not something you feel all...
    MRLittonPalmer MRLittonPalmer 13-15, F Jul 26

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    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm back my life has be super crazy! I haven't had sex with my husband in almost a year because he choices alcohol over having sex . We are renting out a room out to his brother...
    8711twilla 8711twilla 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    AuntieShani AuntieShani 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 22

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    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    My Story Part 1 I joined the group shortly after I decided what I do about my sexless marriage. I did not need to vent but just wanted some communication and the only one...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Haha ... All the things we want to say & don't. I sent my sis a copy of a text message my husband sent me this morning...this was her reply... Ugh.... I would be compelled to...
    BytheBy BytheBy 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    My husband is a sex addict. I discovered this about a month ago, although I had been ignoring the clues for years. Throughout our marriage of 14 years (and before we met) he has...
    WestSiderWoman WestSiderWoman 46-50, F 14 Responses Aug 12

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 16 Responses Aug 13

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    We have shared over two thirds of our lives together. Our intention is to share all the eternities together. Like most people in love we never seriously considered being separated...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    We have shared over two thirds of our lives together. Our intention is to share all the eternities together. Like most people in love we never seriously considered being separated...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 3 Responses a week ago