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I Live Missing My Incarcerated Husband

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    A Beautiful Tragedy

    I fell in love with my husband almost 10 years ago at the young age of sixteen. It was love at first sight for the both of us. It was if I had known him all my life. Such a familiar face that I had never seen. He received my heart the second we made eye contact whether he knew it...
    WildLovers WildLovers 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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