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I Live Outside The Norm

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    I will live here for as long as possible because there are more snakes outside of England and ain't nobody got time for that
    MrHindle MrHindle 13-15, M 27 mins ago

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    Love Addiction - OBSESSIVE LOVE & DEPENDENCY IN RELATIONSHIPS Love Addiction (some call it relationship addiction) is a compulsive, detrimental dependency in relationships that...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    i have lived in the uk for all of the 23 (almost 24) years of my life, but would love to live abroad someday lol
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    so i guess my marriage is going to come to an end , my wife and i had a huge fight this morning , it was the first time in 13 years that ive yelled at her , to be honest i dont...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 10 Responses 47 mins ago

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    I'm sitting at my laptop, just chillin when a huge waterbug, aka papa roach, appears and is attempting to crawl up the mirror in front of my desk. Of course, I jump back and almost...
    HerBadHabit HerBadHabit 22-25 1 day ago

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    SIX SIGNS OF A LOVE AVOIDANT (This is a Good read) 1. Evades Intimate and Emotional Connection In romantic relationships evading intimacy and getting too close emotionally is...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 12 Responses Jul 18

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    I have been a member of this forum for nearly two years now. During this time, I have gone through the most challenging experience of my life –a divorce from my wife of nearly 3...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    I have been a member of this forum for nearly two years now. During this time, I have gone through the most challenging experience of my life –a divorce from my wife of nearly 3...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 21 Responses 1 day ago

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    I lived in Santa Barbara for 6 months which was amazing, could hear seals at night when I laid in bed. It got too expensive though :/
    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I have lived with my parents basically since was eight years old. Actually, let me back up. My biological parents have been divorced since I was only three. After that, I lived...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Demoralizing---We're about to go spend a day with a pair of relatives (h's side) that have very healthy sex lives. They exude the vibe. The men casually talk about appreciation of...
    pachad pachad 56-60 8 Responses Jul 5

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 20

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    I remember the phrases, "Don't Mess With Texas", "Everything is bigger in Texas." I'm not originally from Texas, but was raised here. I've lived here since 1984 since my dad was in...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm 14 years old and I live in a small village in England and by small I mean there is one village post office and a tiny primary school. It's very isolated, but the rest of my...
    Jessicat29 Jessicat29 13-15, F Jul 2

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    Maybe ladies and gents if your partner doesn't want to have sex often or ever maybe it's cause their self esteem is low, try complimenting them by saying as often as you can how...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11

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    I feel like an outsider to everyone in my neighborhood. What is wrong with people. They just want to break me down until I feel like the dirt under their feet. When I sit outside...
    va40scott va40scott 41-45, F Jul 19

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    Telling the Kids Yesterday, we told the kids we were getting a divorce. Five of our six kids (who range in age from 15 to 27) gathered at home for a “family meeting”, and my...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 35 Responses Jul 21

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    This is the first time I am sharing my story. Exactly as I said before, I feel like I live in Hell. Hell on Earth, that is. Now, let me tell you why. First of all, I have a large...
    Mymin Mymin 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    And after spending so much time alone you can go a little crazy. I've always been a loner type but deep down I crave any kind of social interaction. After having a difficult time...
    RMMANIME RMMANIME 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Afraid of change? It appears I shouldn’t have to be... As the journey in my head has begun...I’m contemplating what are the things that normally change after a separation...
    TheWeepingWoman TheWeepingWoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 10

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    the perfect way to describe my wife is a line from a Police song Synchronicity part II , "mother chants her litany of boredom and frustration , but we know all her suicides are...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 13 Responses Jul 15

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    I have been with the same guy since high school, how cliché. We had our problems from the start of growing up together. He is completely different person around others. fun /happy...
    flgirlmichelle flgirlmichelle 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    i love the rain, everything about it. i would have to say it symbolizes a lot to me. many aspects of my life. i want to live where it rains. since i was little, every time that...
    uuftk uuftk 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Is there even such thing as a normal family?
    haileyknight11 haileyknight11 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Almost a month out post divorce. I didn't realize how much you could cram into one month. So overall I would say I am feeling stagnant, however the outside world may see progress...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 10 Responses Jul 7

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    I live in a suburb outside of Fort Worth.
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I have days I sit there looking at nothing ,,looking at everything ..wondering when my life will change..when ur young it is alive u have a gf one day then nothing maybe u work...
    azcat2828 azcat2828 41-45, M Jul 16

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    I find this quite difficult because we are conditioned to always reflect and think ahead... Studying for a test, making money, achieving goals, work tasks etc... Whilst all this is...
    dafunkofamadhatter dafunkofamadhatter 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Tomorrow is T -1... so to speak. I have finally set up an appointment with my first attorney. Then Monday I have an appointment with a divorce mediator (who knows, maybe it can...
    inmytime inmytime 31-35, M 9 Responses a week ago

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    Im in illinois right now abd ive always wanted to live somewhere like california or florida. Outside the Usa probably somewhere like the uk
    L00kas L00kas 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I feel that things happen quickly. And that they happen for a reason. Two weeks, wow! A lot has been packed into these last two weeks. First of all, my sister is a lot...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 65 and my wife is 62. We have been together for over twenty years and married for six. I love my wife very much and tell her so frequently. We are compatible and agreeable in...
    worksforme2 worksforme2 61-65, M 16 Responses 2 days ago

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    Right so alongside my female teacher obsessions, I'm also crazy in the sense that, I believe in this fantasy world that I thought up in primary school and god dammit I believed it...
    Darkcloud777 Darkcloud777 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I have lived in what can be called a sexless marriage for over 10 years. My wife lost her libido after our oldest son was born. Then we lost our youngest son to cancer 6 years...
    Carboholic Carboholic 36-40 10 Responses Jul 8

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    The Best of Days; The Worst of Days (Or, Long-Winded Update) I haven't posted much in here in a while, so here's the general update: For those who don't know, I separated from...
    MeNotWe MeNotWe 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 17

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    So I have been married for eight years to a smart, good looking, caring man who loves me dearly. And I do live him. But we haven't had sex in 8 1/2 years. I've tried to initiate...
    Candymaker Candymaker 41-45, F 24 Responses a week ago

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    This is to true ... iv dealt with at lease two of these PA types of people before, iv never thought about it, that it could manifest in a male, lol. All i can add at this point to...
    Batiya Batiya 61-65 5 days ago

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    As they say: He on the inside is blind to what he on the outside can see clearly. This is, of course, relative and not applicable in all situations, especially those involving...
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T Jul 12

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    I am not normal, but what is normalcy? Doesn't it differ to everyone? For example, you go to a state and you found someone doing something that they didn't do at yours, it's...
    AnEverWonderer AnEverWonderer 16-17, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Chuck Norris thinks outside the box,then roundhouse kicks the box into oblivion.
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Let me begin by saying how grateful I am for finding this group. I have been in a sexless marriage for 5.5 years now. I have 3 kids (1 from a previous marriageand 2 with my...
    StrongForMyKids StrongForMyKids 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Every morning, to wake up and feel the one I loved sleeping behind me, their warm bare body on mine. To get up out of bed and wrap a wool blanket around me as I go outside and sit...
    MentoPiano MentoPiano 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    It's just a crazy making situation but it takes years to realize. It was very revealing when my wife admitted she was like "el perro del hortelano": she doesn't eat, she doesn't...
    tazx tazx 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Sitting outside enjoying this weather! Absolutely love Cali ☺️ ☀️🌊🏄🌇🌆
    KristianNathan KristianNathan 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 11

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