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    Anyone near 85260?! Looking for friends male/female for fun in and outside. 😉
    sexyteacher4anr sexyteacher4anr 36-40, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Into the AbyssSo, I arrive for the third counseling session.  The building is a bit run-down with a 70’s sort of vibe.  The parking situation is an odd combination...
    mistery2me mistery2me 46-50, M 7 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Spring is here...warm nights and clear sky are so attractive, love to be outside and just watch at the stars up there so brilliant...would love to know they are winking at me...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    This is one of my favorite things to do. Sometimes when I sit outside and I cant sleep I stare off into those little specs of shining wishes and I just think of all the good things...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 10 hrs ago

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    I actually felt fear one day. The mask slipped....his mask slipped. Or does he wear a mask? He said he feels that life is like a stage and he's an actor, so my guess is he wears...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 29

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    Well, I don't live in a SM anymore. I left him 1-year ago today. I'm still sexless (not for the whole year) but that's now my choice as opposed to a symptom. Choice feels way...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel like this experience us turning me into an emotional Jekyll and Hide... In the morning, when domestic life goes on as it must, I feel inclined to be patient, more forgiving...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Hi all...so update #2: after the wife had her first hip surgery at the beginning of the month things were understandably a little chaotic, her surgery took a lot longer than...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 6 Responses Sep 29

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    So my wife is asexual. Wasn't always that way. She was sexual when she was young and hormones raged, when we first got together and it was fresh and when she wanted to get pregnant...
    RandomPrecision RandomPrecision 46-50, M 12 Responses Sep 29

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    I wear socks outside because it's fun. I'm just making up for fun I didn't have when I was a kid. When I was a kid my parents had a rule that I couldn't go outside in socks...
    Calcetines Calcetines 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    This is the worst day yet. I don't know how to go on. It hasn't gotten better, and it's not going to get better. I've gone to many therapeutic things, some making me feel better...
    NastasyaFilippovna NastasyaFilippovna 22-25, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    My idea of normal anyway. A partnership. A man who enjoys us and is grateful for us. We would do things together because he'd actually want to be there. He'd be brave enough to...
    niklb niklb 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I condemn those that consider themselves "Normal" over other disabled people. I condemn you for all the abuse, past and present, you have committed against MY people. I do not...
    CrippledAvenger CrippledAvenger 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I was 12-13 I lived with my aunt and cousin for about a year. Anytime I had visited them before, I always felt uncomfortable in the house, so when I moved in I immediately...
    bonesxposed bonesxposed 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Things have been much better on most other fronts ( we have other problems not just SM). He has a great job now! Awesome job and he is happy! It's an adjustment that I have been...
    jmx46578 jmx46578 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 1

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    I spent my childhood outside, literally only coming in for food and sleepz. Now I live in a smelly city and I stay indoors all day instead! :(
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    so I came home from a night out once with my girlfriend and happened to look up, before walking through the door. I'd been doing some astrophotography the previous day as there...
    jahosijhs jahosijhs 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    So last nite we went to bed at the same time (rare) and she said her back hurt a little bit so I walked over to her side of the bed and gave her a back rub. She asked me to use...
    MrRubberDuck MrRubberDuck 61-65, M 16 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everything goes according to plan. Just the other day, I collected the papers and met the lawyer once again. It was necessary to have this second meeting to align better the exit...
    TheFieryWoman TheFieryWoman 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 26

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    One day of success! Not only one round of multiple ******* for her but later at night a second. Took changing things up on my side instead of both of us wanting the other to...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 7 Responses Oct 7

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    My solicitor wants to phone me to find out what's happening with a certain, case. I've no idea and I hate talking about it on the phone. Not only that, they can't find the culprit...
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    ## REAL DEBT CRISIS ## plus Addendum.......... Australian Household Debt Level vs Business Debt Level- Historical Comparison and Implications...... Last night (30-9-2014), on ABC...
    jiaberg jiaberg 51-55, M Sep 30

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    Too good at suffering: Really nice article here: "http://www.sarahiatt.com/blog/too-good-at-suffering/" Some people are good at suffering. Too good. A person can have a lot of...
    elkclan elkclan 41-45, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    What a lot of you don't know about me is that, in addition to a degree in journalism, I also have a degree in counseling. (I haven't used it - although I was a probation officer...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 29 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Anyone else on here play on Xbox Live? My gamer tag is M1N3R CHM
    xCaleb13 xCaleb13 13-15, M 13 hrs ago

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    Just an Update As my husband deleted my prior account, EinEngel, thinking Experience Project was an affair website (laughable but sad), I will summarize my past for the newbies: 1...
    peaceseeker09 peaceseeker09 46-50, F 9 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Good-bye EP Friends! Hello to all members of this forum, but especially those whom I have come to know over the past two years. I am here to say goodbye. I am very grateful to...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 14 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Anyone live in Somerset? Or anywhere near there in the south west?
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    My long-time best friend, who happens to be gay, came for a visit last week. 'Haven't seen each other for months. He lives in the city, while I live in the country side. During...
    samemay54 samemay54 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 27

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    So, a question I've always hidden my inner Dom and it important to stress Dom not MASTER or TOP. I live in a sexless relationship because she will never initiate and I hate the...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 5

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    and not to mention destructive to society. he number one unspoken rule of socialization wtih peole that is utterly lame that as someone with aspergers is not a social norm I...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Oct 9

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    I just love tiny homes. If you are alone and don't need a lot of people around you I think they are a smart way to live. Everything in a small space means you get rid of a lot of...
    kathouse68 kathouse68 66-70, F Oct 16

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    I feel as though I live a double life. I go to school & I hangout with my friends & they know how I am personality wise & what I do but there's also another side of me that no one...
    kaitybobaityxo kaitybobaityxo 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel as though the only way for me to be happy is to leave everyone and everything I have ever known behind. I have a loving family, good friends, a girlfriend who loves me, and...
    ofasgard ofasgard 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 28

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    NO WAY Normal is boring A normal life would be boring I could not go for normal
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good. When in doubt, just take the next small step. Life is too short – enjoy it. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your...
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25

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    So yesterday I get a text message from my wife. Everything was proceeding as 'normal' in our world, meaning no physical contact, no hugs, the standard cursory 'good night' as she...
    OzDiver OzDiver 51-55, M 42 Responses Sep 25

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    Yep, this is me - Outsider looking in. Even in highschool - I really didn't fit anywhere - I wasn't a jock, or a nerd or misfit or preppy. I guess I was more like a butterfly just...
    SukYoung SukYoung 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I am curious what you guys do to handle the SM blues? Lately hes not home even more than normal and I have no respite care for my kidz, as she quit. I'm more stressed and...
    darktippedrose darktippedrose 26-30, F 36 Responses Sep 26

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    In case you're wondering whether your spouse is asexual, here's some info. "(CNN) -- It's not just a phase. They're not frigid, sick, repressed or broken. Meeting the so-called...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 7 Responses Sep 29

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    Hi, not been active on here for a while but been reading again recently. Not a lot new to add to my situation but just feel like I need to write a bit more about it. During the...
    copperdoodle copperdoodle 41-45, F 11 Responses Sep 30

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    There’s little doubt that our military today is in need of lots of yoga.Many returning vets suffer from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), a condition that can cripple a...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    My new neighbor leaves sticky notes on my door every day. Note #1 toddlers nape time and all the things all neighbors should not do during this time! #2 we should all decide on a...
    Bela21 Bela21 41-45, F Oct 1

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