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I Live With a Person With Personality Disorder

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    My husband has AvPD. Everyday is like walking

    on eggshells. The littlest thing will set him off, it could just be forgetting yo turn a light off and he explodes. He thinks everyone is out to get him including me. Sex and intimacy are on his terms, which most of the time there is no sex or intimacy. When he is really angry...
    Lmm14 Lmm14 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    My Husband Has a Personality Disorder

    My husband has schizoid personality disorder.  We have been married 12 1/2 years and I am at my wits end.  We just recently found out that he has this disorder and, after reading about it, it fits him perfectly.  My only problem is -- what now?  How am I to...
    kelly2mauve kelly2mauve 41-45 5 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    I Am a Person With Borderline Personality Disorder

    I also have ADHD ,  Bi-Polar as well as D.I.D. These things came out of the horrific abuse I suffered as a small child. I sometimes suffer from extreme bouts of paranoia and suspicion/mistrust of others. I sometimes overspend to such an extreme degree that I have had to...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Aug 18, 2008

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    My Ex-Boyfriend Who Has Been Diagnosed With Borderline And Narcissist Traits Refuses To Move Out

    The first time I asked him to leave was in March. Now it's October. Since I am the one renting the flat, I threw him out a couple of times already. I even called the police once because he did not want to leave, threw things and damaged my floor. The other time I called the...
    AScannerDarkly AScannerDarkly 31-35, F Oct 4, 2013

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    Bewildered

    I  married a man with a personility disorder and I think probely many other things. I use to think I was responsible for his rages and that if I loved him enough he would not be suspeciouse and he would settle down and trust me. He is ( although he hids it better...
    oldandtired oldandtired 61-65 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    My life has been a constant battle in so many ways and i feel i will always have to battle to keep as stable as i can and to stay away from toxic people. I don't hate people that...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Caged. Heavy; light; pounding; relaxing; broken; glued. This is what goes on inside her head, because this is who she is; a girl diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. She...
    danielle18 danielle18 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    My adult son has binge eating disorder. We have four children, all living at home, and this problem puts a gigantic shadow over the whole family. My son is totally obsessed with...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    recently diagnosed with binge eating disorder and going to start CBT group in May. does anyone have experience with this treatment
    troyabout troyabout 51-55, M Mar 27

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    Has OCD... My mom started dating my now stepfather Neal when I was 5. He's always had a horrible temper, is easily annoyed, and complains about everything. I remember when I was...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F Apr 2

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    The Things I Cant Live Without: I cant live without my cell phone, or my laptop, because I like to stay in touch with my family and friends. I cant live without music, because...
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    hello i want to tell life story.She is from Azerbaijan former soviet republic .This country belongs neither europe nor asia the culture and people mixed.She married man.This man...
    1kewa 1kewa 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Don't do it! No really...i decided to live with a few friends couple years back we all live separately and hate each other now. My experience.
    BillytheKid217 BillytheKid217 22-25, M Mar 29

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    I used to live with my boyfriend :( I recently had to move out after living there for over a year. His father was low on money and needed more room in the house to rent out the...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    The XX. I can't live without listening to them. I need some new songs to come out. I've played the heck out of the older ones.
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well I use to live with one if these creatures that's because he iSync father but my parents split up and I have a step dad. My dad is passive aggressive with me. So I cut him off...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I cannot live without my best friend But I have no choice My best friend my wife my love of my life my soulmate passed away on January23/14 And I am left here without you I feel so...
    IlovetitsToo IlovetitsToo 31-35, M Mar 27

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    I meet this girl who I got so close to I began to breath the air she breathed. I wanted to be so close to her all the time and when she went out with her friends I use to get so...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I left my wife in August and immediatly went to speak to a lawyer to file for divorce. I'm still not divorced. She and I have signed papers twice all ready, and we will have to...
    VeloAficionado VeloAficionado 26-30, M Apr 10

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    I left my wife in August and immediatly went to speak to a lawyer to file for divorce. I'm still not divorced. She and I have signed papers twice all ready, and we will have to...
    VeloAficionado VeloAficionado 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I would like to create an open chat with people with the same or similar problem. Anonymity will b highly respected. Ill commence by saying that i suffer from BPD n it is difficult...
    barceloner barceloner 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    He managed to fool me, my family, and most of his family FOR YEARS. I have been trapped in this relationship, as we have a 13 year old special needs child, who has required me to...
    sterlingrose sterlingrose 46-50, F Mar 20

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    My father and I both had eating disorders. I'm a girl though. someone once told me that a girl said eating disorders are for girls. That probably didn't help them, it just puts...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Bob doesn't have a screaming disorder I meant to say screen
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I have never truly came out about my eating disorder. I have been on and off with anorexia for a while. I recently became bulimic and I also binge eat a lot. I'm 17 and gay and...
    rchris96 rchris96 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    My favorite quotes from "The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brene Brown....these quotes are quotes that I want to say to myself over and over and over again. I want to live every day...
    mistletoe41 mistletoe41 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    My apologies but I am going to skip past all the intro bits. I am really struggling tonight. I have a part that i have pushed away for years. I have ignored her and squashed her...
    dreshany dreshany 36-40, F Apr 12

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    I've been on this site now for a little while and am trying to create a support group for people who are working to cope with chronic pain in their spouse. This site would help...
    JustKeepSinging JustKeepSinging 26-30 Mar 31

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    I am 72 years old and am on my 2nd bout of breast cancer. Had years of depression and a breakdown. Took overdoses etc.etc. Had a son who died from Muscular dystrophy at 17 years...
    veganjo veganjo 70+ 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I believe that inside every smoker lives a "fiend". Like in Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, sometimes the smoker is in control and sometimes the "fiend" is in control. When you haven't...
    CarthAnne CarthAnne 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    ... And our relationship has definitely turned for the worst ! Sometimes it can be the best feeling of living together , but most of the time , I cannot think of him as other than...
    beautenaturelle beautenaturelle 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I want to do things. I want to take action. I want to be brave and stop feeling like I am confined by these expectations that I know people hold me too. I want to be brave and take...
    dreamoftomorrow dreamoftomorrow 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    There are many people that think about cutting themselves and hurting themselves and even suicide.... Listen to me when I say it's not worth it. If you don't think your loved your...
    Cuteiful08 Cuteiful08 13-15, F Mar 22

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    being without music makes me loco!!
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I rarely watch tv as it is. I always get the feeling that "nothing good is on". I like shows that are a little educational but also interest me. But not many things fit my...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    If music didn't exist or music was to be gone the next day....... Life not just for me but for everyone else.,,,,,. Would just end.....,.. My life would definitely end without...
    ecoglitcher ecoglitcher 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I see stars in the city. Oh they shine so bright and pretty, making the black sky not seem so bland. I cry because I've never seen the sky look so muse worthy. My head is hanging...
    inonon inonon 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I am more than ready, willing and able to enjoy sex with my husband but he seems to prefer ridiculous amounts internet ****... Now I'm not saying he shouldn't or can't do that...
    Treenz Treenz 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Literally. She has saved my life more times than I can count. She means the world to me. I've struggled with depression for almost ten years and ever since I met her, she's been my...
    BelleofApril BelleofApril 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    If anyone on here needs someone to talk to about anything, or if you need a friend, I'm here to help. I won't judge you at all. Please message me and I will do my best to help you...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I miss the old me. The hyper me, go out and have fun me! I'm so tired of looking at four walls. There are days it takes all I have to get out of the bed. Feeling like my legs are...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    One night a guy & a girl were driving home from the movies. The boy sensed there was something wrong because of the painful silence they shared between them that night. The girl...
    cecevictoria cecevictoria 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    My best friend. She is truly amazing. I honestly don't know what I would do without her. She is always here for me, and I am always here for her. I love my best friend <3 (in a...
    01sparkly 01sparkly 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I Love It: My phone is one of the things that help me communicate with my friends and family online. So without it, I wouldnt be able to keep in touch with my High school...
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Love It: My Laptop is another one of the things that help me communicate with my friends and family online. So without it, I wouldnt be able to keep in touch with my High school...
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Cant Since I have bipolar, music is one of the two things that calm me down when im upset or mad. I also listen to music before I fall asleep, so without it I wouldnt be able to...
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I just started recovery a few weeks ago and i feel miserable!😒 I've b/p'd even more than usual, and I can feel how much I've gained. I know I shouldnt, but i want so badly to be...
    discoveringisabel discoveringisabel 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I was overweight from the time I was 9 to the time I was 14. I hated the way I looked. A few months ago a started losing weight. I became obsessed. I would make myself throw up...
    goodvibesman goodvibesman 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I just had my phone taken away for like a month. That upsets me. And all the people that have tried contacting me on here are going to think I'm a jerk because I didn't answer them...
    JayyPsythe JayyPsythe 13-15, M Mar 22

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    Hello. I'm roshana . Last night i went to aarsham's house(my brother) he was going out he kissed me andhe showed his beautiful smile to me i saw in his eyes that he is so sad...
    aarsham aarsham 18-21, M Mar 23

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