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I Live With a Person With Personality Disorder

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    I Am a Person With Borderline Personality Disorder

    I also have ADHD ,  Bi-Polar as well as D.I.D. These things came out of the horrific abuse I suffered as a small child. I sometimes suffer from extreme bouts of paranoia and suspicion/mistrust of others. I sometimes overspend to such an extreme degree that I have had to...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Aug 18, 2008

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    My Husband Has a Personality Disorder

    My husband has schizoid personality disorder.  We have been married 12 1/2 years and I am at my wits end.  We just recently found out that he has this disorder and, after reading about it, it fits him perfectly.  My only problem is -- what now?  How am I to...
    kelly2mauve kelly2mauve 41-45 6 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    My husband has AvPD. Everyday is like walking

    on eggshells. The littlest thing will set him off, it could just be forgetting yo turn a light off and he explodes. He thinks everyone is out to get him including me. Sex and intimacy are on his terms, which most of the time there is no sex or intimacy. When he is really angry...
    Lmm14 Lmm14 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Bewildered

    I  married a man with a personility disorder and I think probely many other things. I use to think I was responsible for his rages and that if I loved him enough he would not be suspeciouse and he would settle down and trust me. He is ( although he hids it better...
    oldandtired oldandtired 61-65 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    My Ex-Boyfriend Who Has Been Diagnosed With Borderline And Narcissist Traits Refuses To Move Out

    The first time I asked him to leave was in March. Now it's October. Since I am the one renting the flat, I threw him out a couple of times already. I even called the police once because he did not want to leave, threw things and damaged my floor. The other time I called the...
    AScannerDarkly AScannerDarkly 31-35, F Oct 4, 2013

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    The pain of seeing loving husband drink himself to death is unbearable, how do I live with it
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    No I haven't married a women with bpd. I am writing to defend people who have bpd. I think it's grossly unfair how people on this site have written about people with bpd. We are...
    Gothicbabe Gothicbabe 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    Indigo29 Indigo29 26-30 Jul 3

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