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I Live With a Person With Personality Disorder

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14 People

    Bewildered

    I  married a man with a personility disorder and I think probely many other things. I use to think I was responsible for his rages and that if I loved him enough he would not be suspeciouse and he would settle down and trust me. He is ( although he hids it better...
    oldandtired oldandtired 61-65 1 Response Aug 17, 2008

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    My Ex-Boyfriend Who Has Been Diagnosed With Borderline And Narcissist Traits Refuses To Move Out

    The first time I asked him to leave was in March. Now it's October. Since I am the one renting the flat, I threw him out a couple of times already. I even called the police once because he did not want to leave, threw things and damaged my floor. The other time I called the...
    AScannerDarkly AScannerDarkly 31-35, F Oct 4, 2013

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    My husband has AvPD. Everyday is like walking

    on eggshells. The littlest thing will set him off, it could just be forgetting yo turn a light off and he explodes. He thinks everyone is out to get him including me. Sex and intimacy are on his terms, which most of the time there is no sex or intimacy. When he is really angry...
    Lmm14 Lmm14 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I Am a Person With Borderline Personality Disorder

    I also have ADHD ,  Bi-Polar as well as D.I.D. These things came out of the horrific abuse I suffered as a small child. I sometimes suffer from extreme bouts of paranoia and suspicion/mistrust of others. I sometimes overspend to such an extreme degree that I have had to...
    btrflysfound btrflysfound 41-45 Aug 18, 2008

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    My Husband Has a Personality Disorder

    My husband has schizoid personality disorder.  We have been married 12 1/2 years and I am at my wits end.  We just recently found out that he has this disorder and, after reading about it, it fits him perfectly.  My only problem is -- what now?  How am I to...
    kelly2mauve kelly2mauve 41-45 6 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Beyala Beyala 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Yep, I live with my mum....I'm unemployed and it's so difficult to find a job. I'm on welfare and buy my own food and when I have spare money I give that to my mum as a bit of rent...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F Sep 2

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    I'm surprised there are not more posts here. I don't STILL live with my parents. I've been living on my own for 10 years and a life crisis has forced me to move in with my father...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I have lived with a disability since birth (1980) in one form or another (Hydrocephalus, Hemiplegia (single side semi paralysis) which falls under the Cerebral Palsy umbrella...
    PoeticMute PoeticMute 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 13

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    My dad wants to live with me and my family even tough he cheated on my mom but I know he only came back like always for sex because his girlfriend always kicks him out of his house...
    imsohotbitches imsohotbitches 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    I'm on this site as a last resort and reaching out to others for help. Thank you for taking the time to read. I myself have PTSD and major depression disorder. I married a man that...
    Neverfirstforeverlast Neverfirstforeverlast 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    i dont know what to say i guess im numb and messed aup im so overweight i dont know how to live myself im am tired of life everyone is living life i feel like a freak i dont know...
    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F Sep 2

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    I've started speaking out about my abusive wife. The experience project and many people have inspired me to start a blog to help men who face the same things I have with an abusive...
    bwDVOWRD bwDVOWRD 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If you don't think they cheat, they do!!! don't fool yourself, they couldn't give a dam about you.......although they will manipulate you every now and then to make you feel loved...
    theywillmakeyouthinkyournuts theywillmakeyouthinkyournuts 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    Hey I just found this site. It sounds cliche but I thought I was alone. My man has 5 discs out had surgery and was paralyzed for three months after. We have only been together for...
    Onlythelonelt Onlythelonelt 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I think my friend and room mate is a Sociopath. I have known her at a distance for roughly 4 years, and we (my boyfriend included) have lived together for about 6 months. So lets...
    allyjayx allyjayx 18-21, F Sep 14

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    I am so lucky that she is my best friend. We met just by luck, as she moved into the same area I moved into at the same time (it's still a ten min car ride to her house though) we...
    unicornbeliever123 unicornbeliever123 18-21, F Sep 9

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    It's been little over a year now since I unwillingly dropped everything because of my anxiety. I stopped doing the things I truly loved and I stopped going to my favorite places...
    Anonymousgirl8 Anonymousgirl8 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    so, my boyfriend and i have known each other for years, like about 12 years. we dated back in middle school in 6th grade and were on and off forever. one day we fell out of touch...
    ym15 ym15 18-21, F Sep 11

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    ... who has multiple sclerosis (remittant/relapsing). She's a wonderful person and has helped me so much. Now she's starting to relapse for the first time in a couple of years. I...
    JulieAnn13 JulieAnn13 41-45, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Is there a family out there in EP Land that could take in a 53-year-old woman with mental illness? I have a bad back and spend a lot of time in bed. A non-smoker, no drugs, just...
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F Sep 20

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    I am 19 and I am desperate to live on my own but I have to wait till I complete my schooling so I can work. Im thankful for my parents support but I hate depending on them for...
    DanielleJW DanielleJW 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Yes I feel sometimes I have not lived upto my principles.With integrity, you have nothing to fear, since you have nothing to hide. With integrity, you will do the right thing, so...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I love you my ****. I dont want to say your name, as I want to protect you still even though you have abandoned me. Just let me know you are happy and I will be ok to know that...
    dreamingdarkness dreamingdarkness 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Back living with my parents after 5 years away.... Divorced and debts to pay. I love their help so I can pay off my debts and move on with my life but I really miss my independence...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    where r u m there..... u can't see me..... u can't listen my voice.... u can't understand my feelings..... but i m incomplet without u....
    NivyaSurani NivyaSurani 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    “One-pointed intention means holding your attention to the intended outcome with such unbending purpose that you absolutely refuse to allow obstacles to consume and dissipate the...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 1 Response Sep 9

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    I have a mild form called "Dyspraxia" which mainly affects the coordination and that I develop skills later than most my peers would. I have some troubles with speaking, I don't...
    cyanidemaxwell cyanidemaxwell 16-17, F Sep 11

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    For all of you fighting this, I'm one of you, I write a blog, on how I fight my everyday life.. How I cope with being a full time student and at the same time fighting depression...
    Lily449 Lily449 18-21, F Sep 12

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    Stabbed right through the chest, empty and bitter.. Swollen, yet with little absorbtion of any blood flow. Deathly broken, so badly, never to be replaced or revived. Purely and...
    EstherKay EstherKay 22-25 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Hello and so grateful to know I'm not alone. My husband had a hernia surgery about two and a half years ago and was diagnosed with chronic pain last year. The stories on this site...
    pressingon314 pressingon314 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    Have you ever fed a lover with just your hands? Closed your eyes and trusted, just trusted? Have you ever thrown a fistful of glitter in the air? Have you ever looked fear in the...
    ringster73 ringster73 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    I have kids how could I go without I have to have it
    kenzie111Hall kenzie111Hall 26-30, F Sep 20

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    If you don't think they cheat, they do!!! don't fool yourself, they couldn't give a dam about you.......although they will manipulate you every now and then to make you feel loved...
    theywillmakeyouthinkyournuts theywillmakeyouthinkyournuts 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In the past I would've said that. I found on the radio a college station that played classical music by day, but at night (late night around 11 or midnight) played alternative rock...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    needing to vent im feeling so fricken angry i wont open up im tired of the pain i cant cry desperate for love i keep looking for a home who knowmaybe i nned attention i feel illi...
    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F Sep 4

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    I've always had anxiety. Recently exactly 2 weeks ago I was hit by a car and my anxiety has completely gotten out of control.
    Hitzel Hitzel 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This was me 12 months ago. So glad I left.
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F Sep 2

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    RUBYJUTT RUBYJUTT 18-21, F Sep 3

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    Hello, this is my first ever post. I found this site as I was researching what to do about the chaos in my marriage and the excruciatingly quick turn of events that I have caused...
    strugglinglove strugglinglove 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Chopinsivories Chopinsivories 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    What should we do tonight? Go to the bar and stare at our phones or get food and stare at our phones or watch a movie and state at out phones.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 11

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    So at the first day of school I placed my phone in my mother's car because I'm not allowed to bring my phone to school so I had to wait 7 hours to get my phone back I was dying LOL...
    agent268 agent268 16-17, M Sep 12

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    Day by day keeps my therapist paid
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Sep 12

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    My boyfriend Luis...so here's the story I dreamed (day dreamed) about a boyfriend (my dream boyfriend/husband)and I was like okay well you know I want things I a man and I do t...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F Sep 13

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    Mother, haven't you noticed the missing food in the wooden cabinets? Mother, haven't you seen my bloodshot eyes or my bloody knuckles? Mother haven't you smelled my stale breath or...
    smileluveli smileluveli 13-15, F Sep 13

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    Music is my therapy and medication. I listen to music everyday.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Sep 16

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