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I 'll Never Understand Men

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    A Little Help Understanding Men - Obviously the two (m/f) were created for living as a couple. They each compliment the other and are complete only when that special one is found...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Ill Never Understand Men!!!!!!! - old men young men thin men fat men they all share a few  things in common. They are unpredictable, insensitive, irrrational, immature and...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 12 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    The Honeymoon Period - This story is written in good humour - and just a musing of a bemused woman! You meet the man of your dreams, he's kind, sensitive considerate and...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Shouldn't It Be The Other Way Around? -  My man works in the music industry.  He's a producer and that means he's in the studio all the time.  When he's there and I...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    Switched Roles Still Confused - Yup my man and I have a swap of roles. He's the first to cry, the first to beg usually while I am always saying hurtful things or brushing things...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Feb 16, 2011

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    Missing....basic Information? -  A recent survey concluded that a startling number of men don't know basic information about their partners. The results were definitely...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    First Dates -  Dating Guide for Men   This three rule guide is intended to help you out on first dates, it could save you a lot of time, energy and unreturned phone...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 19 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    The worst part about this is I have experience as one...
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    The Modern Man -  Another little tale written with humour in mind! Is there really such a thing as the modern man? I’ve been researching this the only way I know how...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    that is apart from them being selfish self centred in control dorkish demanding lazy oafish unhygenic need i go on?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 5 Responses Jan 24

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    Very Angry!! So he waits until the divorce is over to send me a mile long email, attacking everything about me. Fine... it hurt and I know 90% of what he said was not true, and HE...
    MizzyH MizzyH 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I don't know if any of you have seen this before but I have a couple of times and think it's funny. So here goes: INSTALLING HUSBAND !!! A woman writes to IT Technical support...
    summerbloom summerbloom 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Best Not... - to try - just enjoy them or not as the case may be.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Ok, I want you to understand us so here's what you need to know. These are the basics and won't apply to every man or situation but I think these general rules can be applied...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Martians! - I'm a Venusian! Yes, because I'm a woman! Men are sometimes very black and white in their attitudes. This can be frustrating, when reason isn't pursued. I like men, I...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Sucks how ironic it is that I'm a hopeless romantic looking for "the one" and never found him. How I've always planned my dream wedding from the dresses to the music, even the...
    OPenderghast007 OPenderghast007 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Never GIVE UP NEEEVVEEEEER
    gresto12 gresto12 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    i have few secrets which i think i should never share with anyone.Because if i do then it will be a lot problem and i hate to get involved in any kind of problem and the other...
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    I've been feeling low and helpless these past days coz I was put into a situation that left me broke and embarrassed by someone I loved and trusted. Today though I have decided to...
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    Life has knocked me down a few times. It showed me things i never wanted to see. I experienced sadness and failures. But one thing for sure. I ALWAYS GET UP..
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This morning I got up with my baby, did our morning routine and tuned into the news. The main story for my area was about a 12 year old girl who committed suicide last month most...
    Caseymae Caseymae 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I have cp and am in a wheelchair and live at a rehab facility for people with disabilities and I go to college to be a teacher. It's not easy to get up early but I do because I'd...
    me0883 me0883 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 17

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    "Have you ever longed for someone so much, so deeply that you thought you would die? That your heart would just stop beating? I am longing now, but for whom I don't know. My whole...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F Mar 21

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    “I have outlasted all desire, My dreams and I have grown apart; My grief alone is left entire, The gleamings of an empty heart. I live in lonely desolation And wonder when my end...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I've been through alot. Even though I am only a young teenager. I was badly depressed and I struggled through the depression alone. I told no one about it. It was hard to act like...
    xSmileYah xSmileYah 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    You insist to ignore me, do you actually know how much that hurts? All I want is explanations to see what I feel was real or not. I just need to know please, was what we had just...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm so tired of life but I still try and smile.
    pardz pardz 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    I don't know if this is normal but I'm kind of afraid of men. Not that I have a bad experience with them, but, still, they scare me. No man has treated me badly in my entire life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 2

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    A Dog Has Died My dog has died. I buried him in the garden next to a rusted old machine. Some day I'll join him right there, but now he's gone with his shaggy coat, his bad...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    The problem with me is that I forgive far too easy. I may not let go of the hurt but I let them back into my life. I used to hold grudges, I'd hold them for long periods of time...
    SuicidalChick SuicidalChick 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I think you won't get this... but I miss your smile. Even though I've never seen it in person, I'll miss it. I think you won't hear this... but I miss your voice. Every time I...
    SimplyL SimplyL 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My father had been a violent husband for all the 15 years he shared with my mother. He would hit her, throw her down the stairs, kick her, and throw her glass on her face, pulled...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    Why don't you like someone like me?? I just don't understand. You said all your ex girlfriends were all preppy and flirted with a whole bunch of other guys. I don't do that, I'm...
    blondiechic blondiechic 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Most people don't understand mental health and what's it's like living with a mental illness. The day to day battle you have a go through just to do the smallest of tasks. People...
    leon789 leon789 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am definitely a different person than anyone. I feel like I'll never have a true connection with another human being or have someone understand me. It sucks some days. But it...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    I know some of you will never understand my lifestyle and fear me, but I am not that much different from you. I think once you set a side your fears, you'll find we have many...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 19 hrs ago

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    Story of my life. I miss her everyday, I love her so much and hope that she's okay, But she doesn't know just how much i care, what i feel with her when we talk is rare, I guess...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    One of my best friends in the entire world was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder, among some other things. She felt different after knowing she was bipolar like something...
    PenandMind PenandMind 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    So I just dropped my college course. I'm devastated and feel like a failure but I couldn't go on any longer with the way I feel mentally. I was missing too much time and studying...
    Yummylicious4ev Yummylicious4ev 18-21 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I tripped over a child safety gate last year, I fractured and partially dislocated my elbow. In this case, the top of my arm jumped out of the elbow socket and jammed. I was sent...
    Stargasm Stargasm 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    You have ruined my childhood and for that I'll never forgive you.
    nottobevelealed nottobevelealed 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Never good enough For myself I honestly try so hard And kick myself back down I can't impress myself Too much imperfection in my way Too many scars and pain All these memories...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    moments in time pass so slow when you drive the mind the time apart wrapped in sorrow when space comes between one together suppose to be but not on this day conversations...
    fwatson0506 fwatson0506 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    In high school I had bad depression. I had no idea what to do with myself or how i really felt. There were 2 guys. Guy 1: i ended up dating for a couple weeks and i knew it...
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F Apr 3

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    I will never understand how people judge others!!! It shouldn't matter what u look like how u walk or talk the colour of ur skin or the figure on the scales!!! Everyone is unique...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F Mar 18

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    I've been pushing away. I do like some guys, but when they actually take on the urge to ask me out. I get scared, afraid. So i reject them on the spot regardless if i hurt them or...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm here if anyone is afraid of telling someone else their secrets. I'll never tell anyone's secrets, I'll carry them to my grave.
    TheBlazingRedAugust TheBlazingRedAugust 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Trust me I ll never break Ur trust or Ur believe
    usman1engnieer usman1engnieer 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 31

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