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I 'll Never Understand Men

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    A Little Help Understanding Men

    Obviously the two (m/f) were created for living as a couple. They each compliment the other and are complete only when that special one is found and marry. No one is complete by themself. The woman's mind is like a pot of spaghetti noodles and quite busy multi tasking and...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    I'm reading back the stories I wrote on this

    topic... "I'll Never Understand Men..." I recall, I was frustrated about it... And I felt like such a failure... How wrong had I been the entire time! And I can only see it now! Why on earth should I try to understand ALL Men? What was I even thinking? When all I need...
    TheFieryWoman TheFieryWoman 36-40, F 12 Responses Nov 23

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    Martians!

    I'm a Venusian! Yes, because I'm a woman! Men are sometimes very black and white in their attitudes. This can be frustrating, when reason isn't pursued. I like men, I like what they do to my body. I'll always need a man! I'll always live my father!
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I was born with a male body

    and even I don't understand them. Don't really want to, either.
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 3 Responses Sep 22

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    Ok, I want you to understand us

    so here's what you need to know. These are the basics and won't apply to every man or situation but I think these general rules can be applied affectively. Since the beginning of time we men have been cast in the role of provider and protector. In terms of human evolution this...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    Shouldn't It Be The Other Way Around?

     My man works in the music industry.  He's a producer and that means he's in the studio all the time.  When he's there and I'm home and at my laptop, he'll get on Skype and we'll video chat while he takes little minute breaks or whatever while he's working.  ...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Switched Roles Still Confused

    Yup my man and I have a swap of roles. He's the first to cry, the first to beg usually while I am always saying hurtful things or brushing things off without so much as a thought but since I've been pregnant I have become the girl and he the guy- I thought this would make things...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Feb 16, 2011

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    Best Not...

    to try - just enjoy them or not as the case may be.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Very Angry!! So he waits

    until the divorce is over to send me a mile long email, attacking everything about me. Fine... it hurt and I know 90% of what he said was not true, and HE knows it too. Whatever. I got over it and chose to just let it slide. Just like the material things that he kept of mine in...
    MizzyH MizzyH 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Why can't you just be honest ?

    Don't lie to me . I don't like that and I can and will call you out on your Bs if possible
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 13

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    (I am not saying all men are like this,

    but the general amount which is about 90%) Whats more to say but them?. They girls are hard to understand but i think overall it more difficult to understand men. I have a list but i think people already know it.
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    Ill Never Understand Men!!!!!!!

    old men young men thin men fat men they all share a few  things in common. They are unpredictable, insensitive, irrrational, immature and bigheaded. Especially bigheaded and immature - why don't they grow up like the rest of us???? why is ironing there own shirt or washing...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 13 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    can they stop asking

    for pics? the more they ask the less I want. If they want to see naked women, they can go to a **** site.
    jo455 jo455 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    They want this so you give in.

    Then they want another so you give in again. And if you give everything they like, they'll get bored of you. Wtf!
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    that is apart from them being selfish self

    centred in control dorkish demanding lazy oafish unhygenic need i go on?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 5 Responses Jan 24

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    The Modern Man

     Another little tale written with humour in mind! Is there really such a thing as the modern man? I’ve been researching this the only way I know how, asking all my girlfriends if a) he exists, b) do they have one, c) or have they met one? The resounding answer is no...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    But I'm making it a life's mission to learn to!

    Know thy self, know thy enemy ;-) For lack of a better analogy, I'm quoting Sun Tzu's The Art of War :-P ********** UPDATE July 5th*********** Definitely not getting any closer.... And definitely becoming more cynical in the process... Not good. Not good at all...
    TheFieryWoman TheFieryWoman 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 25

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    i joined this group a

    while ago..and i felt it was a great group, to join but as of right now i feel it with every bone in my body......smh...this may not be the best time to write because i'm truly i'm my feelings...and i really don't understand the things men say and what they do.....just all ways...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 20

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    Missing....basic Information?

     A recent survey concluded that a startling number of men don't know basic information about their partners. The results were definitely surprising, and if I'm honest I felt for these long suffering women whose husbands didn't know things such as their eye colour or date...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    kisscougar kisscougar 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    probably because as I've discovered already,

    understanding men begins by understanding myself... Who would have thought this would be the most challenging part...!
    TheFieryWoman TheFieryWoman 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 4

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 12

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    I think I understand them then I'm like .

    .. Wtf the next minute .... I doubt I will fully understand men...
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    The Honeymoon Period

    This story is written in good humour - and just a musing of a bemused woman! You meet the man of your dreams, he's kind, sensitive considerate and thoughtful. Your sex life is amazing and you can't believe your luck. He's paying you lovely compliments and you've never felt so...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    They Say The Same Thing About Us

    If we understood each other there would be less talking and fighting so it would be both good and bad
    jewess jewess 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2009

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    First Dates

     Dating Guide for Men   This three rule guide is intended to help you out on first dates, it could save you a lot of time, energy and unreturned phone calls.   1 Don't meet a lady on a first date (or any date for that matter) drunk. We won't be impressed by...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 20 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    Actually I Think I Do ...

    I do understand men.  I understand that there are differences between us.  We don't always see things the same way.  We are wired differently.  This is natural. I also understand that there are more similarities than there are differences.  This is...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 17 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    XavierR02 XavierR02 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    I will never give up because I have faith that no matter what comes my way, God will give me the strength to deal with it and come out of the situation a survivor. He has always...
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    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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