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I 'll Never Understand Men

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    But I'm making it a life's mission to learn to!

    Know thy self, know thy enemy ;-) For lack of a better analogy, I'm quoting Sun Tzu's The Art of War :-P ********** UPDATE July 5th*********** Definitely not getting any closer.... And definitely becoming more cynical in the process... Not good. Not good at all...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 25

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    Ok, I want you to understand us

    so here's what you need to know. These are the basics and won't apply to every man or situation but I think these general rules can be applied affectively. Since the beginning of time we men have been cast in the role of provider and protector. In terms of human evolution this...
    Pathfinder108 Pathfinder108 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    I don't think I will ever understand anyone.

    Really what drives a persona regardless of gender to do the things they do. Sometimes I don't even understand myself. I guess some self reflected is needed. Maybe we are not meant to understand each other, for if we understood everything where would the amazement and...
    fireyes fireyes 22-25, F Apr 25

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    (I am not saying all men are like this,

    but the general amount which is about 90%) Whats more to say but them?. They girls are hard to understand but i think overall it more difficult to understand men. I have a list but i think people already know it.
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 12

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    Actually I Think I Do ...

    I do understand men.  I understand that there are differences between us.  We don't always see things the same way.  We are wired differently.  This is natural. I also understand that there are more similarities than there are differences.  This is...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 17 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    Very Angry!! So he waits

    until the divorce is over to send me a mile long email, attacking everything about me. Fine... it hurt and I know 90% of what he said was not true, and HE knows it too. Whatever. I got over it and chose to just let it slide. Just like the material things that he kept of mine in...
    MizzyH MizzyH 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    The Honeymoon Period

    This story is written in good humour - and just a musing of a bemused woman! You meet the man of your dreams, he's kind, sensitive considerate and thoughtful. Your sex life is amazing and you can't believe your luck. He's paying you lovely compliments and you've never felt so...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    A Little Help Understanding Men

    Obviously the two (m/f) were created for living as a couple. They each compliment the other and are complete only when that special one is found and marry. No one is complete by themself. The woman's mind is like a pot of spaghetti noodles and quite busy multi tasking and...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    can they stop asking

    for pics? the more they ask the less I want. If they want to see naked women, they can go to a **** site.
    jo455 jo455 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 12

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    The Modern Man

     Another little tale written with humour in mind! Is there really such a thing as the modern man? I’ve been researching this the only way I know how, asking all my girlfriends if a) he exists, b) do they have one, c) or have they met one? The resounding answer is no...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    kisscougar kisscougar 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Ill Never Understand Men!!!!!!!

    old men young men thin men fat men they all share a few  things in common. They are unpredictable, insensitive, irrrational, immature and bigheaded. Especially bigheaded and immature - why don't they grow up like the rest of us???? why is ironing there own shirt or washing...
    blondiesindy blondiesindy 36-40, F 13 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    They Say The Same Thing About Us

    If we understood each other there would be less talking and fighting so it would be both good and bad
    jewess jewess 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    Missing....basic Information?

     A recent survey concluded that a startling number of men don't know basic information about their partners. The results were definitely surprising, and if I'm honest I felt for these long suffering women whose husbands didn't know things such as their eye colour or date...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    probably because as I've discovered already,

    understanding men begins by understanding myself... Who would have thought this would be the most challenging part...!
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 9 Responses Jun 4

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    that is apart from them being selfish self

    centred in control dorkish demanding lazy oafish unhygenic need i go on?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 5 Responses Jan 24

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    Martians!

    I'm a Venusian! Yes, because I'm a woman! Men are sometimes very black and white in their attitudes. This can be frustrating, when reason isn't pursued. I like men, I like what they do to my body. I'll always need a man! I'll always live my father!
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    First Dates

     Dating Guide for Men   This three rule guide is intended to help you out on first dates, it could save you a lot of time, energy and unreturned phone calls.   1 Don't meet a lady on a first date (or any date for that matter) drunk. We won't be impressed by...
    writingbug78 writingbug78 31-35, F 19 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    I don't know if any of you have seen this before

    but I have a couple of times and think it's funny. So here goes: INSTALLING HUSBAND !!! A woman writes to IT Technical support... Dear Tech Support, Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and I noticed a distinct slowdown in the overall system performance...
    summerbloom summerbloom 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Best Not...

    to try - just enjoy them or not as the case may be.....
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Switched Roles Still Confused

    Yup my man and I have a swap of roles. He's the first to cry, the first to beg usually while I am always saying hurtful things or brushing things off without so much as a thought but since I've been pregnant I have become the girl and he the guy- I thought this would make things...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Feb 16, 2011

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    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Shouldn't It Be The Other Way Around?

     My man works in the music industry.  He's a producer and that means he's in the studio all the time.  When he's there and I'm home and at my laptop, he'll get on Skype and we'll video chat while he takes little minute breaks or whatever while he's working.  ...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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