I Loneliness

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    I can write about loneliness because that's how I choose to live for several reasons. 1. Loneliness and being alone are not the same. I hate being lonely but I love being alone. 2. I admit that I have a drinking problem. When you drink for fun (in my 20's that's how it was...
    2ashamed2share 2ashamed2share
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2012
    pturn74 pturn74
    Dec 6, 2013

    Christmas time always reminds me of

    when my family was happy, and the times when my dad was actually there on Christmas morning to share the moment with me, my mom, and my brother. Now its just me and my mom, 11 years later and I'm just trying to figure out why I'm even here anymore. It makes it hard to enjoy the...
    lostinthoughtt lostinthoughtt
    22-25, M
    Dec 24, 2013

    Pulsar Heart

    There is an ache just to the right of my heart So profound that it glows ice cold And it grows till it fills my chest and burns Oh, how it burns, till it consumes my every breath Then in silence, empty silence with a vacuum whoosh, The darkness sucks back to pierce like an arrow...
    KTbeautifulKT KTbeautifulKT
    46-50, F
    Jul 20, 2013

    I feel so alone. I used to live in California,

    and had an amazing life there. Tons of friends and hung out with them every day. Then I moved to Washington. Where everything went down hill. I started high school in 10th grade. Hated it, no one really hung out with me. Id spend lunch alone down a hill and just cry and wish I...
    untilmydeath untilmydeath
    18-21, F
    Jan 5, 2014

    Life, Really?

    I'm just gonna jump right in. You know that crushing feeling that comes with being alone for a very long period? Imagine having that daily, despite being surrounded by people. That alienated feeling that can't be cured simply by keeping company. That feeling that stays with you...
    BlackSage BlackSage
    Aug 10, 2013

    I am so sad and lonely,

    my phone doesn't ring at the weekend , and I spent NYE alone, I never imagined my life to turn this way, I have always been surrounded by friends but they all disappeared or got busy, I isolated my self for more than a year in a relationship with my ex GF , we called each other...
    sum1outthere sum1outthere
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2014

    A Journey Between Me And Myself

    Have you ever saw a movie and thought to yourself " man , I wish I could be cool as that guy " .. When will I find my real " ME " ? I'm not sure i want to meet this guy , because up until know its seems like is a good friend but a very lame lover - am I ugly ? Am I blind ? Don...
    Dorak12 Dorak12
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2013

    No Money No Frndz... Left Alone...

    Hi frndz, m boy from India who wants to b happy al d Tim... N this my frst tim m sharing sumthng to an unknown frndz... Il start my story ... Guyz in my frndz circle I ws d one who ws earning a lot of money, s I use to work and also I believe n njyng my life... So whenever...
    rockyi rockyi
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 31, 2012

    I think loneliness is a part of a human's

    nature. One can experience more adventures going through his/her loneliness
    Halle2015 Halle2015
    36-40, F
    Sep 25, 2014

    How Do I Get My Life Back?

    I can feel for the 27 year old who is wondering what happened to his life. I am 64 and was diagnosed with Aspergers about a year ago. All my life I gave myself stories about why I was 'antisocial' and why I always ended up on my own. I had a good job and this and its...
    ericianbrown1948 ericianbrown1948
    1 Response Jun 18, 2013

    I Don'T Know Enough People.

    I feel like there are loads of people wandering the planet that I could know whether or not I'm meant to. Or it's possible that nothing is meant to be and whatever happens, happens; if I miss out of meeting someone fantastic, oh well, that's life, must move on, not the end of the...
    LilacEyez LilacEyez
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 26, 2013
    Aldub19 Aldub19
    18-21, M
    Feb 2

    Is there anyone out there

    that is indian or lives in the UK. I really want someone to talk to right now. I feel the need for a good n nice supportive friend. Please. I'm 18 by the way. I just feel a little down and need cheering up. Someone that will bring a smile on my face. :)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 29, 2013

    Wish List. (not a Story)

    I wish I had someone to talk to. I wish someone would ask me how was my day and actually mean it. I wish I was better looking. I wish I got invited to places with other people. I wish my life was better. I wish that...........blah blah blah blah. who cares.  
    gummybears92 gummybears92
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 26, 2008

    Feeling there's no one completely the same

    Did you ever feel that you're full of people around you but no one fully understands you? That there's no one you can relate to, no one you can talk about all your worries because the fear of judgement, because the fear of being misunderstood and being called a freak? Did you...
    lifetwist lifetwist
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 13, 2013

    No Money No Frndz...

    Hi frndz, m boy from India who wants to b happy al d Tim... N this my frst tim m sharing sumthng to an unknown frndz... Il start my story ... Guyz in my frndz circle I ws d one who ws earning a lot of money, s I use to work and also I believe n njyng my life... So whenever...
    rockyi rockyi
    22-25, M
    Dec 31, 2012

    When Loneliness Consumes You.

    As a young mother, I am blessed with one of the most wonderful gifts in life - life itself. I do not take this for granted. I have this one little person that keeps me going, motivating me to keep pushing - but it gets hard. I was raised by very strict and overprotective parents...
    Avalinerose Avalinerose
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

    Why Me

     What did i do to deserve this? What makes it ok for someone else to blame me for giving my mum cancer? how was it my fault? WHen my mum died i became the outcast im my so called family and now expect to just call me and pretend that they care i hate being in a room full or...
    unwrittensuicide unwrittensuicide
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2009

    Loneliness My Ugly Friend

    There you are my ugly friend, again!!!!  I can be surrounded by 1000 people and still feel you are very close to me, accompany me. You came with me and didn´t notice it today because I was lost in my dreams and you weren´t there. So I discovered how I can run away from you for...
    nnatalia76 nnatalia76
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2012

    I Feel Very Lonely..

    I don t know why I have to feel this way. All my problems starts at highschool. Every morning I wake up thinking that I hate my life. Everyone considers me a weird girl just because I am not like them. Everyone just ignores me and what I hate the most is that the bad girls are...
    Adriana00320 Adriana00320
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    Do You Think Iam Weird ??

    I am friendly with everyone, easy to talk too, a good listner and can make people laugh. But as soon as i start getting close i back off . Maybe I just don't trust people enough maybe i dont want people so see the crazy that is me . Do you think iam weird I like skulls i have 3...
    PiperZ PiperZ
    22-25, F
    Jul 3, 2013

    A Life Of Loneliness

    hi I know my story aint so terrible like some persons but its still friend warming im 15 years old n I live with my siblings my father die n my mother travels a lot to make a better living for my siblings n I but little do she know her daughter is suffering I've been through hell...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 11, 2013

    I Don't Do Anything

    Throughout the past few years as I've become less confident and more shy, my life has been going downhill. I lost touch with a lot of people and refuse to reach out to new people because of my social anxiety. I tell myself that I'd rather be alone than risk being rejected. I'm...
    julieannalw julieannalw
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2013

    Alone And Aimless

    I seem to find it impossible to make friends. I've been lonely for the space of my entire short life. Ever since I started school (and until the age of 16), I had been overweight. The first experience I ever had with people my age was negative. I was ostracized and suffered only...
    TheImpetus TheImpetus
    18-21, M
    Aug 6, 2013

    How Loneliness Tricks People Into Staying

    Lonely Recent and shocking discoveries about the dangers of chronic loneliness have led to an increase in research aimed at better understanding this debilitating psychological condition. Indeed, loneliness not only causes terrible psychological suffering, it also presents a...
    ChrisErizo1 ChrisErizo1
    31-35, M
    Aug 12, 2015

    Here I am at 64 years old

    and alone ! Never thought i would be this way in my senior years !! I am partially retired and work part-time. I had a heart attack in september 2103 and also was diagnosed with bladder cancer ! Those 2 things just made me feel more depressed and more alone . I haven't been with...
    misterteee misterteee
    66-70, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2014


    Loneliness has alwayz been my friend, Walking along side by side apparently till the end, smiles are just memories of the past where every moment lives so hard. I try my best and yet nothing is left sorrow pain is alll i gain… what else is left… what else is there...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 22, 2013

    Depressed And Lonely

    I know you've probably heard it before, but I'm depressed and lonely. I do want to talk to people sometimes but I'm afraid they will end up saying something that would hurt me. I am afraid I will become attached to them and they will leave. I tried to love but I can't. I've had...
    Shyglass92 Shyglass92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2013


    Usually, while talking, people say 'I know' or 'I can understand' but, I wonder if they really do. Can anyone feel and understand something they may have never experienced in their lives till then? Something as simple as being lonely. Does everybody really understand it...
    OneAlphaWoman OneAlphaWoman
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2013
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