I Lonely and Gay

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 95 People

    Anyone There ?

    I am gay and lonely, anyone there who can listen to me ?
    gmmflink gmmflink
    7 Responses Aug 13, 2008

    Hardworking Sucessful Gay Young And Good Looking Yet Lonely.

    No one thinks I don't have friends or that I could be lonely. I'm successful at work and school and have many relationships and friends, but they all stop when I go home. I don't feel like people understand, they tell me to be comfortable with myself... but I am I am just so sick...
    derrick2013 derrick2013
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2013

    Im Gay And Lonely

    im gay and lonely i havent any friends gay or straight and im still not out i dont feel i need to especially as its not relevent since i have no one i tiered of been alone and would like to befreind other people especially gay folk 
    NightGambit NightGambit
    31-35, M
    13 Responses Nov 17, 2009

    I'M Bi And Lonely And Would Like To Have A Boyfriend

    Hello, i live in Texas, name is isaac, am 15 and bi, looking for a boyfriend but would like a gf too if no bfs are availalbe lol, anyways my kik is bears101 and email is isaacholloway@yahoo.com message or kik me if u would like to chat!
    bears101 bears101
    18-21, M
    Jan 26, 2013

    My dad is ill and this issue makes me feel

    super sad, cause he is the only important relative I have. He is a great dad and I just love him. I am afraid for him. It´s these kind of moments when your life goes this bad, that you realize your friends are not there for you at all. So sometimes when I am at home, I just...
    facuarg facuarg
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2015


    im gay  and 14 im a boy im lonley  my parets dont understand me and i have no friends 
    gaytrevor gaytrevor
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2011

    They say they have given me all i ever needed,

    but that's not true they have only given me what i wanted and part of what i needed, they don't understand that although they have given a roof to live under, food to eat, and a bed to sleep on; what i needed was real love and acceptance.... acceptance....acceptance...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 23, 2015

    Ready To Just Give Up

    Lonely person here. Feel like crap because i do have friends but i feel like I can't really completely relate to them because they're straight. Haven't found any gay friends the past year I've been living here. How do you think i should go about finding gay friends My age?
    flippyflapjack flippyflapjack
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2013

    Still looking for that special someone wgo will

    take my loneliness and turn it into everlasting happiness. The only thing is that sometimes i get tired of trying, and inside im dying.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 30, 2015

    I just wanted to post this

    as I really have no one in the real world to tell to this too. I just turned 31 this year. I'm gay and asian and have never been in a relationship. I also don't have any friends outside work. I don't think I'm very attractive at all plus I am also overweight. I'm starting to...
    jay4nyc jay4nyc
    31-35, M
    Jul 11, 2015

    Any daddies want a son?

    ;) I got an open mind and butt;)
    Notjomama Notjomama
    16-17, M
    Sep 30, 2015

    Just Wanted To Share

    I have struggled with accepting myself for a long time and this was largely due to the fact that i could not reconcile my beliefs with sexuality especially living where I do. Its something I think that becomes a rite of passage for people like me but such is life i guess. Added...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 31, 2013

    Any daddies want a son?

    I got an open mind and butt
    Notjomama Notjomama
    16-17, M
    Sep 30, 2015

    Oh, boy - where should I begin?

    I guess I should try to confine this story to the context of my "I'm Lonely and Gay" experience. First of all, I'll tell you where I'm located. I live in a suburb of Cleveland, Ohio, United States. I figured out I was gay during my adolescence. I'm not "out" to any of my family...
    TrafficKook TrafficKook
    26-30, M
    Jul 12, 2015

    I'M Jam

    hi im jam17 yrs old , discreet gay from the Philippines. I dont normally do this but im really desperate of finding someone to talk too .... I've been lonely for 10 yrs now ... I never had real friends nor parents. People hate me here cause im not really that good looking and...
    iamjam30 iamjam30
    1 Response May 20, 2013

    Gay And Lonely

    I am gay and feel very lonely, I was with a guy for just over 7 years, he meet someone else and since then I have been on my own, which is nearly six years now. I dont have any gay friends where I live as I moved here to be with my partner and the friends I have are those I work...
    boroscott boroscott
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 23, 2012

    Trying To Be Positive

    I'm almost turning 25 this year, and its been an interesting life so far. One that I sometimes struggle to deal with. Being gay, has always been a neutral subject for me, I don't hate it all the time, but I don't like how hard it makes things. I want to be able to open up to...
    Nowaki Nowaki
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jul 19, 2013

    Just Another Story Of Gay Loneliness

    Hi guys, I'm a new member and this is my second story. The first one was about being lonely and separated from my friends after outing myself and telling one of them that I loved him. Then I found this group and thought I'd write a bit over here as well. So I'm twenty-five and I...
    Ainvar Ainvar
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2013

    I'm 19 years old. But I'm always

    so lonely, perhaps I'm very romantic but I believed in true love, and wait for someone who can share my life, my sadness, someone who tell me that everything is going to be ok and be there to me, and me for him. Is love an ilussion, why love doesn't come to me If I need it so...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Hi i Am lonely here !

    No married No body care to me ! No job ! retired now. I bored this situation !I wanna job in other country. I Have experience in banking industry. Do you want to help me !
    Nandank Nandank
    56-60, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    I live in the smallest southern town with no

    one to talk to. I just want to talk to other gay men, but moving isn't an option.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 7, 2014

    My friend and I are going to the movies

    Saturday night, but some other of his friends( that i don't know) are coming too. I can't stop myself from thinking the worst that could happen... im naturally awkward.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 2, 2015
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