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I Long For Someone to Really Know Me

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    the whole me and not just some snapshots of me.

    No one person really knows every aspect of me. Some people know me better than others; but when it really comes down to the complete me.....I am very much alone.
    Chrissy1961 Chrissy1961 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I'm rather afraid of this,

    yet I want it. I jokingly say that people wouldn't want to know what is going on in my head because it is scary. What is really scary is not being accepted for who I am. I'm not a serial killer or anything. I am probably not really all that abnormal (whatever that really is). I...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Truly

    I long for someone to truly know me. Trust understand me, truly get where I am coming from, and what I have been through, and still want to be around me. I just wish there was someone out there like that for me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    It'S Really Me

    I have written several stories on this site and they have all been of a sexual nature. Were they true? Yes. They came straight from within and all the things I have written, I have experienced. Would anybody have read my stories if they weren't about sex? I don't know because I...
    pupluv66 pupluv66 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    I don't care if its a friend

    or something more, I want someone to know me, really know me. To understand where I would go of there was no place else, what my favorite time of day is, and notice the scars inside and out that will never go away
    DefineMe7 DefineMe7 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I can't wait for the day I can open up to

    someone, that they could know everything about me and still love me. That's really special. One day soon I hope to have this.
    Ascbl Ascbl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I feel as though I learn more about myself

    when I'm around the right person. They always seem to be able to pick up on weird quirks , habits or characteristics about myself that I myself may not of realised I had or I had done.
    llemihce llemihce 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    So I just came back from a cruise yesterday

    morning and it was honestly the greatest spring break vacation I've ever had. The highlight was meeting this boy and getting to know him. The second to last night we were on the boat we danced, talked, made each other laugh, and just had an amazing time. He leaned in to kiss me...
    sabzz7 sabzz7 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    - When a girl is quiet,

    millions of things are running in her mind. - When a girl is not arguing, she is thinking deeply. She wondering how long you will be around. - When a girl answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds, she is not at all fine. - When a girl stares at you, she wondering why you are lying...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't ask for much in my life

    as just whoever know me for real, can tell that i never let me get attached with anything or anyone. I don't think that anyone know me or even know how much i am always hurt as have no one there to hang with. I don't ask for anything as just if i find someone who don't lie in...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    I either am or I am not.

    I'm either cold or I am hot. I am never lukewarm. What is it to just sit and simmer? I Like it Raw... Uncooked.
    iDyAlx iDyAlx 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Those times where you feel

    so alone and have nobody to talk to who's a true friend:/
    lostgirl299 lostgirl299 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I just want a friend

    that can tell when I say I'm fine I'm lying.
    vintagewood vintagewood 18-21, F Feb 13

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    I wish people would actually love me

    and wana get to know the real me. I know I'm hard to handle, but I just want someone to want to listen to the important and unimportant things I want to say and comfort me when I need it.
    BeautifullyBroken2639 BeautifullyBroken2639 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    I wish i could let people in.

    No one really knows me, i'm sort of glad about that in a way, but in other ways its a bad thing. I'm a loner, i like it...mostly.
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 11

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    I don't know if this would sound weird,

    but I just want a friend. A real tight friend who, even if they're older than me, I can share a laugh with. Like, someone I can be so casual around, and someone who knows what I'm thinking. Just... That. A friend.
    LemStark LemStark 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 20

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    My darkness is dangerous.

    I just want someone to care enough to shed their light on me. I don't need a superhero, just a genuine friend.
    polylovhers polylovhers 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    I have a boyfriend, but he only knows what I

    want him to know about my life. He certainly doesn't know the real me. He's a great guy, but he's not for me and I know it in my heart. I stay because I lost someone I truly thought was the one for me last year, and I don't want to be alone to think about it everyday.
    iamtaylor iamtaylor 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    I don't want someone

    who tries to change me. I want someone who will accept me for me. Even if he does tried to change me, change me to become a better person. Change me to become a better me.
    lachee lachee 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm just done. I just got on this site

    and I know that's a horrible way to introduce myself, so I apologize. I'm Tonya, I'm 40 years old and I've been a care giver all of my life, but I'm not respected for it. I'm just at the end of my rope and i wondering if anyone knows of an ingenious tribe somewhere that would...
    tonya9134 tonya9134 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    I want someone to know me

    for who I am and what I am.. I want someone to actually know me .. To be curious about me.. To want to know me more than what they already know..
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    There's a fulfilling deep seeded feeling

    when the person your with knows you. It's grounded and firm and you both know it. It becomes all that matter when that's all there is that matters.
    17MadMax1976 17MadMax1976 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I never really get to close with anyone,

    I think I might have social anxiety but I only have 2 friends that I can say I trust
    Emilycatherine2 Emilycatherine2 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    He Should Want To.

    He should want to know me. He should WANT to know me becos he thinks, BELIEVES, that i am worth knowing. And even when i'm being shy or reluctant, he should persist cos THAT is how much he wants to know me. But the catch is, once he gets to know me, will he stick around or...
    peacenik peacenik 16-18, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2007

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    I feel like I don't have any good friends.

    Like I do have friends and they're lovely. But there's not one of them I trust or could have a proper conversation with. I wouldn't even want to try, because anything personal would just be passed on to someone else. I feel left out and think that they would always have a better...
    girlgirlgirl0123 girlgirlgirl0123 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    I need someone to know me better then I know

    myself sometimes. Someone to know my intensions in life & someone who wants to support me instead of bringing me down
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I'm So Tired..

    of explaining.. i just want to talk without really having to worry whether this person will think less of me.. i want someone who would understand.. that i'm just thinking out loud... i dont always believe everything i say!! sometimes i say things that i don't really mean or...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2010

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    A Prayer for my Friends: Dear Father God in

    Heaven, I come before You today knowing that all power is in Your hands. I know that You are God and there is no other besides thee. I know that You care for Your people but most of all You love them. Right now, many of my friends are facing loneliness, illness, brokenness...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 28

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    I think this is an unattainable human desire.

    To feel as if someone really knows you and gets you and yet there is none of us that shares all of ourselves at all times. A catch-22....
    littlecatjoe littlecatjoe 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I am not a good boyfriend.

    I am too selfish. I am not a great lover. I haven't loved for many years. I am not a soul mate. My soul doesn't play well with others. But I do miss not putting my arms around someone. To reassure them. To run my fingers through their hair and kiss them. I am not a good...
    MyShaddow MyShaddow 31-35, M Apr 24

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    I think this would be amazing.

    For someone to know your darkest and lightest ways.
    haileyb77 haileyb77 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    If anyone wants to get to know me lets talk,

    I'm looking for a relationship...which I don't think I'm any good at. Well I have to try right.
    HadesConstantine HadesConstantine 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 6

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    Time

    Time, Time is something I can not have. Something no one wants to give. No one seems to have time to give time. Its a funny thing time, its what we run by and its what every one wants, but should we run on what we want? What did I do? Did I do something as a baby or when I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 18, 2012

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    Looking To Make Some Friends (:

    Hey guys! Anyone else feel like everyone has a best friend except you? Yeah that's my situation, wish I had a really great friend /:
    audreyy24 audreyy24 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I seriously have issues.

    I am very conscious about everything I do. I am afraid of getting my friends angry, I am conscious about how people view me and desire to be looked as a nice person to everyone. But I notice my flaws even more obviously when I am with people or friends who are talented. I...
    Farzilicious Farzilicious 18-21, F Feb 11

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    It's difficult to meet someone

    who knows how to be close without being clingy and gives you space being without being distant! Best friend needed (even if it's clingy lol)
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    I honestly do!!! I wish

    that one of my days i would get to meet that someone who is nice, good listener easy-going down to earth without judging person!! That would be sooo awseome!! :) I hope to find one
    Wezah Wezah 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    yeah i do...difficult thing to happen

    as i am not open to strangers and i have lost trust on people to get them know me now
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    & not just look at my appearance

    but actually listen to what I have to say. Get to know me.
    jbliss29 jbliss29 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    My BFF of 18 years is the only one

    who truly knows me. She can simply tell by the expressions on my face, the way I act or the mood I'm in. It would however be nice to have a male partner that I can be in a relationship with to really know me. I'm not a complicated person or woman. I'm pretty simple and ask for...
    SexyRed33 SexyRed33 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 25

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    I want that someone to handle my past

    and who I am at the present and accept me for who I am with no judgement. I mean we all make mistakes and learn differently so I want to meet someone who can bear the outrageous things that I do to help myself grow as a person
    greenlilacs greenlilacs 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    That's really all want.

    Because then I feel like it would be easier to talk to each other about everything. They even know things about you that no one else may know and don't use them against you. Actually make you feel comfortable instead of awkward the whole time. Just someone.
    infinitedreamer90210 infinitedreamer90210 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 9

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    Just want to find a friend

    that will actually listen and be there for me. Tired of being out down and blamed for my feelings and emotions.. Tired of feeling like I am completely alone in this world.. There as so to be at least one person out there who will care right?...
    justbreath7 justbreath7 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    The people closest to me don't really know me

    at all. Not sure if anyone does.
    jj0901 jj0901 26-30, M Feb 19

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    Take Me Or Leave Me

    "There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like...
    lovelywings lovelywings 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    "You have been shaped by society

    and you're not the sweet little girl you used to be"this is what somebody I used to really care about told me after 4 years of not seeing or talking to me ! He judged my Instagram pictures which are not dirty or inappropriate by any means and it made me so angry ! Society hasn...
    Brit2014 Brit2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Secrets

    What if a large part of your life is built on secrets. Finding someone who accepts you as is, even with all the figurative "warts", is probably the most uplifting thing that can happen.
    DoneWEP DoneWEP 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I wish people really knew me.

    People see the positive, happy me on the outside but I've got a lot of history. I'm not all together ^.^
    babykaykez babykaykez 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    lynn1497 lynn1497 16-17, F Feb 18

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    Finally Someone Does

    all this time i have been hoping and wanting someone who could really understand me. no one ever knew how i felt, really knew. no one i knew had ever had the same feelings and thoughts that i had. i was strange and i was weird thats what everyone thinks. now finally i have one...
    rageandhate rageandhate 18-21 4 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    CrisstalClear CrisstalClear 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    Nobody at school or in my home really know's me.

    I have this stupid happy facade at school and they all eat it up. I want just one friend who doesn't see me as the class clown. Not even my family members know that much about me. I want to be accepted for who i am or at least tell people who i am.
    KIRa53 KIRa53 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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