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I Look At Situations From Everybody's Point of View

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 93 People

    Life At All Angles

    i try to put myself in other peoples shoes. I didnt do this my whole life but, it puts things into a better perspective. Arguments dont start as easily as they used to. I dont lose my temper half as much and when you look at other peoples point of view...it changes your own...
    gallyg5 gallyg5 41-45, F Dec 1, 2012

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    My Philosopy

    Existential Phenomenology I first heard this term in a philosophy class back in college.  If I remember the definition correctly it means that your interpretation of something would depend on your view of that object.  But that whatever your view was, it didn't make it...
    rw5453 rw5453 56-60, M Jun 15, 2009

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    The Only Way to Be Fair

     It's important to me to look at situation from everybody's point of view. That way i'd be fair and wouldn't pick sides and the situation would be solve easier and faster. I can't be so self-centered to trust to my point of view, it wouldn't be fair and selfish and DumB...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2008

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    The Whole Story

    I've always had a habit of looking at all possible outcomes to situations, all sides and all input. My mother made fun of me because every time I came in to argue with her she could tell that I already had a battle plan and was ready for everything she could throw at me. As I got...
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    The Result of Depression

     Before I became depressed, I had very strong opinions on things and didn't care much for the views that I disliked. But now I have been depressed for a couple of years, I have learned a lot about myself, other people, and the world.  I have become more tolerant and...
    reset reset 18-21, F Jun 11, 2009

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    I'm writing this after the phone conversation last night the one where we ended our 18 month ....... I'd like to say relationship but we both know it was never that for you it was...
    Iamafreaklmao Iamafreaklmao 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    FOR A SPECIAL OCCASION.........!!!!!!!! A man opened his wife's closet of clothes. It was lined with dresses that she had worn just once, may be twice. There were others that had...
    Truestoriesonly Truestoriesonly 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    Been single all my life but up until recently it has never bothered me. This past year (or maybe years) I've felt this emptiness. That someone is missing from my life, that's...
    SmoraHazzn SmoraHazzn 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I hate leaving the house without my makeup looking nice and my hair brushed etc, at least. I don't always go to huge amounts of effort unless it's a special occasion, but I always...
    Kakakarotcake Kakakarotcake 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    ISTP/INFJ - I answered the quiz, it was not monitored or judged by a professional, so it shouldn't really count and really there is no real reason to make mention of it except to...
    SoberingBabySteps SoberingBabySteps 31-35, M 6 hrs ago

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    All I can say is thank God for the theatre. My parents signed me up for an amateur theatre group when I was 11; in hindsight, they may have done it because of my Asperger's (I was...
    heyitsgarrett heyitsgarrett 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    At around the age of 5 or 6, I joined a group of friends in chasing girls and lifting up their skirts during break times. Of course, I was completely sexually inactive - self...
    ukmarriedman ukmarriedman 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    Caning was the regular form of discipline in the grammar school I attended between the ages of 11 and 13. It was undertaken not just by the headmaster, but by the head prefect as...
    Baggsy65 Baggsy65 66-70, M 8 hrs ago

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    I was diagnosed with Dariers Disease when I was 27, and 5 years later I still can't come to terms with it. I'm the first in my family and I have the linear disorder - it affects...
    Sglodion Sglodion 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    A predator and his prey: Ladies and Gents, please beware or be aware that there are SOME men/women on this website and all over the world who try and prey upon females or males...
    MarieLucie MarieLucie 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Because sometimes, we feel more connected to stars than people. We find the night sky so wide it embraces us with a moon at its core. A night sky so quiet it only took a small...
    kalocaiii kalocaiii 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    If you really think about it -legitimately sit and think about it- the idea that this unconquered misery of yours is born of deficient chemicals is quite ridiculous- and...
    LittleWhiteRoom LittleWhiteRoom 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    This is just a story I wanna share. The "I am Fat and Sexy - that's what I tell myself" line is not about me, but about my younger sister. My sister is three years younger than I...
    talkinginstringcups talkinginstringcups 18-21, F a week ago

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    I personally care more about how people act and how their personality is than how they look, like honestly people's looks doesn't define who they are. For example, I wear all black...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been 17 for sometime now but I look 14 and it's a struggle.
    Morgypoo16 Morgypoo16 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Hello, my name is Laurentiu and I'll be 18 next mounth on the 16 of july. My father abandoned me and my mom since my birth, so I grew up without the leading of a father. Since I...
    b16laurentiu b16laurentiu 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Beginning in 1981, all domestic suppliers adopted a uniform, 17-digit VIN. The tenth digit Along with the VIN implies the item year additionally the eighth digit signifies the...
    Michael0962opo3 Michael0962opo3 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    Hi. I am 27 , well-settled and well traveled Indian living in PUNJAB. My family is living in abroad. I am Self Employed. I am looking for a DECENT , good-looking, closet girl who's...
    decentlife decentlife 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    About 10 years back a friend of mine's brother was in Prison was looking for someone equally stimulating to write to him for penthouse pass this time and we root for good 2 years...
    Sharime Sharime 41-45, F Jun 26

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    I just want to sit there and bask in my glory.
    CaptainHoof CaptainHoof 18-21, M Jun 25

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    I was 14. my mother had been using petticoat discipline on me for almost two years. A girl named Gail lived around the corner. She was something of a tomboy. She got a big kick out...
    prissypanties prissypanties 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I think I suffer from maladaptive daydreaming. but, I don't know really. I Just graduated from high school actually, but seldom was there a day that I didn't daydream in class...
    Lucario89 Lucario89 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Working on my behavior has been a great journey: I overcame thinking about people and situations who don't exist because If I'm not around not them they shouldn't be thought of...
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M Jun 23

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    I look in the mirror and see the ugly abomination that ruins everybody's life...
    crystal234 crystal234 13-15, F Jun 22

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    I've been watchin' you from afar, for as long as I can remember You are all a real man can need and ever ask for this is love this is more than a crush It was Harlem at the Rucker...
    TheScorpio1966 TheScorpio1966 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    SAD BUT TRUE AND THE EXISTENCE OF YES MEN When I joined Ep, a year ago, I noticed the minimum age allowed to join this site was 16, so I told myself : "Great, this is not...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    CRISIS IN GAZA !!!!! I think what is going on right now is a Genocide. Just because it is being perpetrated by Israel, it doesnt make it less horrific. It was horrific when...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I like loudspeaker's, especially how they are linked to how human's can make sound with their own voice just like loudspeaker's can make sound with their voice coils. Babies cry...
    Delphi111 Delphi111 13-15, M Jun 22

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    to myself im very too outspoken easy to talk to always comes off pleasant, talks hella a lot, very childlike ( only close friends see that side) serious when needed...what id wanna...
    apperentlyicanthavemynameagain apperentlyicanthavemynameagain 18-21, F Jun 22

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    August 4 What a title. I am too tired to think of a cute , interesting one. However, looking back on it, August 4th was a good day, after all. Following my dear friend Nic´s...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F Jun 21

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    I've always wanted to see myself from a different point of veiw. When we look at ourselves we always see the imperfections. Do people see an akward girl? A dumb blond? What do they...
    Lalaloopsiebabe Lalaloopsiebabe 13-15, F Jun 21

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    My image of myself is not as others tell me I am. Intensely flawed, broken and worthless is often what I see when I look at my reflection. I struggle with the compliments that...
    Superficialsaint Superficialsaint 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    My idea of great looks is a long way from society's supposed ideal.If you're a (very)overweight redhead witha good heart and brains,I'd do anything for you.
    jjb6560 jjb6560 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    Yes..i would love to have someone in my life who would know me, understand me much more than i know my own self to tell me about the flaws i have, the good as well as the bad...
    Elaina12 Elaina12 18-21, F Jun 21

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    More like to see how i look and act... and if I'm attractive 😂 but yeah
    DQcountry DQcountry 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    This I think would be interesting. Then I could see what I need to fix about myself. And what I'm really like.
    kRypt0lite kRypt0lite 22-25 Jun 21

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    Or do I? What if met me and thought I was a *****? That would be awkward!