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I Look At Situations From Everybody's Point of View

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 137 People

    My Philosopy

    Existential Phenomenology I first heard this term in a philosophy class back in college.  If I remember the definition correctly it means that your interpretation of something would depend on your view of that object.  But that whatever your view was, it didn't make it...
    rw5453 rw5453 56-60, M Jun 15, 2009

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    The Only Way to Be Fair

     It's important to me to look at situation from everybody's point of view. That way i'd be fair and wouldn't pick sides and the situation would be solve easier and faster. I can't be so self-centered to trust to my point of view, it wouldn't be fair and selfish and DumB...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2008

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    The Result of Depression

     Before I became depressed, I had very strong opinions on things and didn't care much for the views that I disliked. But now I have been depressed for a couple of years, I have learned a lot about myself, other people, and the world.  I have become more tolerant and...
    reset reset 18-21, F Jun 11, 2009

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    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Life At All Angles

    i try to put myself in other peoples shoes. I didnt do this my whole life but, it puts things into a better perspective. Arguments dont start as easily as they used to. I dont lose my temper half as much and when you look at other peoples point of view...it changes your own...
    gallyg5 gallyg5 41-45, F Dec 1, 2012

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    The Whole Story

    I've always had a habit of looking at all possible outcomes to situations, all sides and all input. My mother made fun of me because every time I came in to argue with her she could tell that I already had a battle plan and was ready for everything she could throw at me. As I got...
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    and it kinda screws me over

    because I forget what my point of view is, trying to feed into their baloney! I may say alpha, but you re telling me omega, therefore we cannot see eye to eye! Far and behold, I get caught in a Catch 22, where the loophole of events causes me to Believe your confusing...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Related Experiences

    i suffer from nocturnal/ diurnal enursis nocturnal day time whenever I fall asleep tried all kind of things to help me stop nothing has worked having this problem for most of my...
    masterLLL masterLLL 56-60, M 1 hr ago

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    Sex, sex, and sex again! There it goes running rampant through my mind. From everything else I have ever obsessed with over the years, I've begged for a break, but the pleasantry...
    BuckeyeBill48 BuckeyeBill48 66-70, M 6 hrs ago

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    It is impossible for everyone to like you. That's the nice thing about opinions. You will have your opinion and there will be people that agree with you, Disagree with you, and...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    People presume you think and perceive the world in the same way they do. People automatically seek their own kind or socioeconomic status. They find comfort in what's familiar to...
    Sofiamafia Sofiamafia 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I just find women's bikini panties cooler and provide more support for "my boys." Quite honestly, back when they were more fashionable I bought men's bikini bottoms.They don't...
    nozupr4u nozupr4u 56-60, M 10 hrs ago

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    Question for people living in Austin Texas, I was wondering if there's a restaurant called " Ma's Restaurant" ?
    quixqui3 quixqui3 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    According to an Inc. magazine survey, most executives hate hearing this statement: "It's not my job." The same survey found most employees hate it when they are pulled off to do...
    robinhood03 robinhood03 22-25, M 17 hrs ago

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    Right, I`m a bit of an odd ball, I don`t know if this is something that`s in my head and I`m subconsciously stopping myself from letting things happen.It`s impossible not to sound...
    Sleinad Sleinad 22-25, M 20 hrs ago

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    A dual personality -- not "split" (as in crazy), but a bourgeois Dr. Jekyll type and an animal-like Mr. Hyde type (though I don't go running down little girls in the street...
    mrHdrJ mrHdrJ 61-65, M 21 hrs ago

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    WATCH THE VIDEO AFTER YOU HAVE READ!i have bee sitting in my own temptations and pleasures talking to people who are only making me more gay and as i have noticed this i seem to...
    idkwhatiam idkwhatiam 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel like this will be really long. So basically my story is I started to daydream due to being bullied in middle school and basically known as the outcast. It helped me escape...
    imskyhiii imskyhiii 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Yeah so, I washed my blender in a previous story to wash off the maggots from the interior. I did not know that the blender itself had holes that allow the mechanisms to propel...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It was 4 years back when i wanted to conquer the world. I started drawing as a kid and at 12 discovered my artistic abilities when i would create something and be appreciated for...
    Bllahblah Bllahblah 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Altair, Connor, Edward, Ezio, Arno... they're just so perfect. No other game series has as many attractive male characters.
    Buccaniir Buccaniir 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I am 21 and people still think I look 15. I am a waitress and people ask me all the time if I am even old enough to work there. I get stares when I'm with my husband cause they...
    arossi2 arossi2 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    "Your words are always so soothing." She says... Ahh, my dear, if only you knew. No, no, not my words, not always, but yes... I understand the sentiment... And I accept the...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I have never felt like I belonged. People always looked at me like I was strange. My experience still seems strange to me. I was bit by a wolf when I was 13. That night I had a...
    CrimsonDeathLord CrimsonDeathLord 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Yes, I'm a pessimist, I have a negative view of the world. But it's a realistic view from my perspective. But I'm also very optimistic, if I wasn't 'complaining' or lamenting my...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I had this feeling a couple of days ago,just for a moment i thought about how freeing it would be to leave it all behind.All the stress from people and certain situations,just...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I really do try to see your point of view. So please stop stopping me from trying to place my head on the inside of your intestines
    Slavedriv Slavedriv 36-40 5 days ago

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    The majority of dangerous situations that I have been in were either a product of my environment, or inevitable outcomes to repeated juvenile choices I wittingly made. Being in...
    bronzeeyedblonette bronzeeyedblonette 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Well here's the deal. I have a relatively new friend that I've been hanging out with for a couple months now and he's a heroine addict. Now I knew this going in, and believe me in...
    goatonicon goatonicon 36-40, M a week ago

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    I think it's been a bit over 5 years, but that depends on when I should count that it started. It esentially started with a semi-trauma. Maybe a bit before that but holy damn did...
    bluecupcakes bluecupcakes 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Both for oneself and others. Some are so into positive thinking that it extends to others. When it becomes forbidden.. A replacement feeling. When positive thinkers wish that...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    This world Is ****! Why is it that all mankind seems to care about is material things, having sex, and cutting down others? We are supposed to be intelligent beings yet every...
    onlyhuman1 onlyhuman1 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    i wish i could say i care. i wish i could say i have faith in this little planet. but i don't. this world is full of killers. the people who care are too far apart to make a...
    danielfrost1995 danielfrost1995 18-21, M Jul 25

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    I'm new to this but I want some feed back on twin flames I have a story through remember I didn't about twin flames its Long but interesting because is over a 7 year period Hello...
    june2009 june2009 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I've been searching for a job for 7 months now, none of them called me back yet. I'm frustrated of course, but I was fine with that since my family was still supportive. Then, last...
    DixonMasterson DixonMasterson 18-21, F Jul 25

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    So I'm still cooling off after something I witnessed at a supermarket the other day. I was walking down the clothes aisle when I saw a guy using unnecessary force on his maybe 4...
    JaySmith9999 JaySmith9999 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    FOOD FOR THOUGHT & LOST LOVE: Over 27 years ago I met the love of my life. I was visiting Spain with a friend at the time and for two weeks I got to know this beautiful German...
    Clarkkentallday Clarkkentallday 46-50, M Jul 23

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    It seems as I get older I get way more insecure. I look like an ugly 12 year old and then there's actual 12 year olds that are got and look 17 and it's not fair. I have no idea...
    laurenzerbe laurenzerbe 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    Yes I have really let myself go. I have given my body an absolute beating by past substance abuse, I am skinny as a rake, I used to be fat, I have been all shapes and sizes, and...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Hi! It hasn't been that long :D Anywho, I'm supposed to be doing homework, but you know, procrastination. This may be why I am literally getting 50's% on my tests... Oh well. I...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Hi I am Madison, I am 16 years old and developed Darier’s disease when I was 2. The condition started with just a few bumps around my mouth, and by the time I was about eight I...
    Maddie314 Maddie314 16-17, F Jul 21

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    I'm honestly glad with the people I've gotten to meet on here but I've opened up and gotten to see things clear. It's hard sometimes to express yourself and your feelings with the...
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