I Look At Situations From Everybody's Point of View

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    The Only Way to Be Fair

     It's important to me to look at situation from everybody's point of view. That way i'd be fair and wouldn't pick sides and the situation would be solve easier and faster. I can't be so self-centered to trust to my point of view, it wouldn't be fair and selfish and DumB...
    andreinac13 andreinac13
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2008

    My Philosopy

    Existential Phenomenology I first heard this term in a philosophy class back in college.  If I remember the definition correctly it means that your interpretation of something would depend on your view of that object.  But that whatever your view was, it didn't make it...
    rw5453 rw5453
    56-60, M
    Jun 15, 2009

    The Whole Story

    I've always had a habit of looking at all possible outcomes to situations, all sides and all input. My mother made fun of me because every time I came in to argue with her she could tell that I already had a battle plan and was ready for everything she could throw at me. As I got...
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2010

    Life At All Angles

    i try to put myself in other peoples shoes. I didnt do this my whole life but, it puts things into a better perspective. Arguments dont start as easily as they used to. I dont lose my temper half as much and when you look at other peoples point of view...it changes your own...
    gallyg5 gallyg5
    41-45, F
    Dec 1, 2012

    I try not to be too self centered.

    These days it's not easy. My "one and only" is no longer only mine. Long story. So I get on here and I'm blown away. So many people have helped me through a very lonely period. I want to thank each and everyone of them. There is one gal who really captured my attention. She...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

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    Hey, So I'm posting this because I'm really struggling and contemplating ending everything because I can't see a way out. Any advice, past experience, hope, people in the same boat...
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    I am pleased to add my support to keep EP from closing down. It is a valuable resource that from my viewpoint has respected privacy and confidentiality.
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    Well everybody. Experience Project seems do be closing down real soon. If you want to keep in touch with me, contact me from here. buttcracktoucher@gmail.com
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    Apr 15
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    almondeyes14 almondeyes14
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    1 Response Apr 15
    Yes ! Everyone needs to be respect...regardless what ! " I respect you , you respect me ! " That's how the world goes....
    Tsgirl86 Tsgirl86
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    DyanWerewolf DyanWerewolf
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    1 Response Apr 14
    With EP shutting down in a matter of days, we're running out of time and options for the community. So I'd like to offer one. I've made a website. It isn't done, but it's decently...
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    I want to kill myself but I feel like I'll miss out on something. Idk. Not looking for attention just wondering about your suicidal experiences?
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    Man life can be a ***** and I'm surprised haven't killed myself yet because of it and the reason is because my mother cheated on my dad and she left so I went with him and with my...
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    Yeah .. We've all wanted to just f..c..k off at some point .. How many actually do it I wonder ..
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    deleted deleted
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