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I Look At Situations From Everybody's Point of View

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    My Philosopy

    Existential Phenomenology I first heard this term in a philosophy class back in college.  If I remember the definition correctly it means that your interpretation of something would depend on your view of that object.  But that whatever your view was, it didn't make it...
    rw5453 rw5453 56-60, M Jun 15, 2009

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    The Whole Story

    I've always had a habit of looking at all possible outcomes to situations, all sides and all input. My mother made fun of me because every time I came in to argue with her she could tell that I already had a battle plan and was ready for everything she could throw at me. As I got...
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Life At All Angles

    i try to put myself in other peoples shoes. I didnt do this my whole life but, it puts things into a better perspective. Arguments dont start as easily as they used to. I dont lose my temper half as much and when you look at other peoples point of view...it changes your own...
    gallyg5 gallyg5 41-45, F Dec 1, 2012

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    The Only Way to Be Fair

     It's important to me to look at situation from everybody's point of view. That way i'd be fair and wouldn't pick sides and the situation would be solve easier and faster. I can't be so self-centered to trust to my point of view, it wouldn't be fair and selfish and DumB...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2008

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    The Result of Depression

     Before I became depressed, I had very strong opinions on things and didn't care much for the views that I disliked. But now I have been depressed for a couple of years, I have learned a lot about myself, other people, and the world.  I have become more tolerant and...
    reset reset 18-21, F Jun 11, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    My family had always been very close but things started to Change . My cousin and I were very close since the beginning, we were like sisters . As we grew our bodies are started...
    michal16 michal16 18-21, F Jul 1

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    What's the point? I think we have to apply meaning to our lives. The famous adage: 10% is what happens to you in your life and 90% is how you react to life. In the grand scheme of...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F Jun 27

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    Oh my, I better prepare for a sh*tstorm when this has been posted. I just really don't give a crap. Heck, all of the girls in my class always wear makeup, crop tops and shorts...
    Revii Revii 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I'm young, average looking teen but sometimes people come up and say wow your worse than butt ugly and honestly I get pissed and want to kick the guy in the nuts and beat his...
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M Jul 1

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    This is more of rant than a question. Genetically, I am predisposed to looking really young. I am korean/30male/173cm. My mother (which I think I got it from) is 67 and she looks...
    anonnam anonnam 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    There's a full moon tonight!!!!! Well from where I'm from. It's so pretty!!! I wonder who's staring at the full moon tonight as me
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I don't agree with the you can look but don't touch. My husband likes to look a lot. Especially on chive and walking down the street. It makes me so upset an he doesn't care...
    RebeccaReynolds RebeccaReynolds 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Ugh. I worked at a carnival for a living when I just had turned 19. I always cleaned up puke and it was gross. But I'll tell you one story that was pretty bad. I was working for...
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't care about what you look like. In my opinion, nobody should judge people because of the way they look. I think that's one of the worse things that any human can do. Do we...
    ChaoticCaroline ChaoticCaroline 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Looks can change, someone's personality not so much. Good looks can get you though a few nights a good personality will get you though a few years.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M a week ago

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    I'm tall and thin. I'm looking for new gf & some of 1st lesbian experience. I love peace more than drama, I'm shy & open minded person, looking for someone who's will guide me more...
    frenkies frenkies 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I've done it way too much. It's the worst habit I've ever had with other people, is that depending on the situation, I'll literally disappear from someone's life. I've probably...
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 2

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    I remember Phil Collins music from disney's 'Tarzan', then hearing him again in disney's 'brother bear.' A lot of love and nostalgia whenever I hear his songs or when I watch those...
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 1 Response Jun 27

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    My Morton's neuroma is now gone... When I went on a ski trip with my family about eight years ago, I ended up in the ski shop because my foot hurt too much to ski. I thought that...
    mark7722 mark7722 46-50, M Jul 10

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    I would loveee to have ice cream from McDonald's right now. Maybe just a vanilla cone. Any kind would do! :)
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm not sure how I feel about this group and the people in it. My father was definitely a BTP sorta guy and he did a lot of damage in his life. Not only would he tell Lori the...
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    A friend of mine says I have a gift when comes to treat people nice and connect...she gets amazed coz I always get what I want/need and I often receive gifts at stores.Last time...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    For some time now, my imagination has been so vivid that I could step into another world for some time and leave this one as if though I was living in another body. I could spend...
    Anima69Para Anima69Para 18-21 6 days ago

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    As of late, my life hasn't been what I would consider to be optimal; I distanced myself from the only person that I have had any inkling of romantic attraction to, bickered with my...
    woahwoahpotato woahwoahpotato 13-15 Jul 5

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    I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk to as I try to find my way through this. To get some of...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk to as I try to find my way through this. To get some of...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F a week ago

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    DATE WITH A WOMAN...... Pls read. After 21 years of Marriage,my Wife wanted me to take...
    teachocolate teachocolate 41-45, F 9 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Recently someone has come into my life who means a lot to me. We live near each other and have almost everything in common. God has helped me and my family through very hard times...
    collinwh collinwh 16-17, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I was diagnosed with Asperger's when I was 16, because the school nurse recommended that I get tested for AS. My teachers thought I was [pause] different. When somebody says you...
    RazorKenny RazorKenny 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I am now "that one." The one in the family that no one talks to. Part of me feels a certain freedom because I know that I have broken away from a pack of selfish liars. But I...
    goldilks goldilks 46-50, F a week ago

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    I always try to live up to others' expectation of me. It has now come to the point where I want to breathe and live for myself. Still, 22 years of habit is not that easy to break...
    northsky northsky 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Livre sac à main est une connexion de pandora soldes côté sur l'emballage conserve qui donne echt et sacs à main. Ces types depandora soldes ont été créés par diverses cuir...
    gdsrjhtkky gdsrjhtkky 22-25 Jul 6

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    (turned 46) "you've always had an original point of view, son. you're willing to take on challenges and not one to settle for something just because it's easy or popular. you're a...
    berrypicker berrypicker 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Hi everyone. I'm Irish, born and raised in Dublin. Did you ever have a conflict about moving back home after travelling and living abroad? I'm 22 now, and have travelled and lived...
    jollygoat jollygoat 22-25, M Jun 30

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    "everybody is a genius.but if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree,it will live its whole life ,believing that it is stupid."
    happinesslieswithin happinesslieswithin 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    A year after separating from my wife of 14 years and living alone I am ready to restart life again and eager to find my soulmate and partner to build a new life with. I have 4 kids...
    Ready2StartOver Ready2StartOver 41-45, M Jul 9

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    I've been down with my vision loss lately and I came on line to eventually discover someone who was recently my very special male friend (nothing sexual, but special and I was...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 4 hrs ago

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    I've been down with my vision loss lately and I came on line to eventually discover someone who was recently my very special male friend (nothing sexual, but special and I was...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a 20-year-old Sydneysider who's quiet and introverted but deep, quirky, loyal, loving, trustworthy and always a shoulder. Message me if you're interested in D&M's and...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    (SORRY IF ITS LONG. I KINDA WROTE A NOVEL HERE LOL) So i rather not go by my first name i'll go by my middle name which is Kayla. I'm 14 and a half and ever since I was in the 6th...
    kaylaa1 kaylaa1 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    On Jan 3, 2013 I had shared a story on EP and it was simply about how it is so hard for some to find that right connection and be part of someones life, and be together either...
    Shinesaathlove Shinesaathlove 46-50, M Jul 14

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    i am sophie I'm 17 but act a lot younger and looking for a daddy who can be strict and tough but still wants to please his little princess!!! i like cuddles, princesses, pretty...
    sophieprincess sophieprincess 16-17, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Any daddy's out there looking for a son? Inbox me.
    xmyzer xmyzer 13-15, M 8 hrs ago

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    I have been diagnosed with clinical depression from the age of 15. I guess what got me started was the constant bullying I endured through my school years. At the age of 14, I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I fell in love with a beautiful girl and what made it worse was that we became such close friends with each other in such a short space of time, because normally with me it takes...
    dstarbuck dstarbuck 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Dark Storm evoked by me and a new found friend of EP. July 13. 2014 me and Kaylabear252 was woking on harnessing our abilities by absorb the energy from out side in order to evoke...
    icey1 icey1 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Maybe it is because nobody is my age, or maybe it's because I don't act my age. You see, at school, I'm kinda the glue between my two, three friend groups. But in my small...
    lilinhershy lilinhershy 13-15, F 6 days ago

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