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I Look At Situations From Everybody's Point of View

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    One of the characteristics of a science guy I

    suppose. You learn that there's always the possibility of an unaccounted for variable. In always searching for the variables, we learn to account for multiple views and interpretations. Sometimes seen as wishy washy on certain topics, the truth is we aren't wishy washy at all...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 7, 2015

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    and it kinda screws me over

    because I forget what my point of view is, trying to feed into their baloney! I may say alpha, but you re telling me omega, therefore we cannot see eye to eye! Far and behold, I get caught in a Catch 22, where the loophole of events causes me to Believe your confusing...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Aug 1, 2015

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    The Only Way to Be Fair

     It's important to me to look at situation from everybody's point of view. That way i'd be fair and wouldn't pick sides and the situation would be solve easier and faster. I can't be so self-centered to trust to my point of view, it wouldn't be fair and selfish and DumB...
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2008

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    The Result of Depression

     Before I became depressed, I had very strong opinions on things and didn't care much for the views that I disliked. But now I have been depressed for a couple of years, I have learned a lot about myself, other people, and the world.  I have become more tolerant and...
    reset reset 18-21, F Jun 11, 2009

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    I try not to be too self centered.

    These days it's not easy. My "one and only" is no longer only mine. Long story. So I get on here and I'm blown away. So many people have helped me through a very lonely period. I want to thank each and everyone of them. There is one gal who really captured my attention. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 23, 2015

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    The Whole Story

    I've always had a habit of looking at all possible outcomes to situations, all sides and all input. My mother made fun of me because every time I came in to argue with her she could tell that I already had a battle plan and was ready for everything she could throw at me. As I got...
    IWishIUnderstood IWishIUnderstood 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    Life At All Angles

    i try to put myself in other peoples shoes. I didnt do this my whole life but, it puts things into a better perspective. Arguments dont start as easily as they used to. I dont lose my temper half as much and when you look at other peoples point of view...it changes your own...
    gallyg5 gallyg5 41-45, F Dec 1, 2012

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    My Philosopy

    Existential Phenomenology I first heard this term in a philosophy class back in college.  If I remember the definition correctly it means that your interpretation of something would depend on your view of that object.  But that whatever your view was, it didn't make it...
    rw5453 rw5453 56-60, M Jun 15, 2009

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    When I can ride my bike to Saturday Market. I keep smiling each time I smell and look at the flowers, veggies, fruits, and the books that I buy from market. I put them in my bike's...
    Soossie Soossie 51-55, F 2 Responses 26 mins ago

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    Watching the excellent movie Carol has made me remind of how much I love 1950s esthetics and way of thinking. Everything I know from the 50s is from books, music and movies. My...
    Cierzo Cierzo 41-45, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    well walking home alone at midnight I guess that's kinda dangerous
    NubianQueen1738 NubianQueen1738 16-17, F 14 hrs ago

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    And there I was, in that place, attending a convention, where it was 2pm, I was listening to speakers. I WAS TORN. My introversion wanted to withdraw into my room, draw a hot bath...
    Solegne Solegne 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think I want to quit life. I'm kind of sucking at it, I'm really unhappy, and I doubt anyone would care anyway. My parents would pretend to care because it wouldn't be...
    sting0611 sting0611 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    In the older albums I've deleted 18 photo's, and an entire album, with less then 10 comments. I've got a circle of 190 people who all look at my photo's. If it's too much trouble...
    AdBlue AdBlue 46-50, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    As a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women (especially mothers) who adopt this...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    They are so erotic, not just the explicit imagery but the mood he manages to create. One of my favorites is back view of a woman squatting on the floor of a bare room in front of...
    pat8709 pat8709 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    What is C24/7? C24/7 is the new breakthrough in food supplements; a unique and patented formulation that delivers the highest amount of anti-oxidants and phytonutrients. C24/7...
    cwelechi02 cwelechi02 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F a week ago

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    I worked in construction for fifty years. Worked in wood houses and concrete and steel buildings. Have done things just to get it done now instead of waiting for all kinds of...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 28

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    My life has always been a complete rollercoaster. I am a 19 year old freshman in college, who wants to major in graphic arts. I have Asperger syndrome, Bipolar, ADHD, and...
    Triomatix Triomatix 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    this might be slightly offensive ... I'm known by many people in person and also online (if you exclude this site) as a nice guy. One that doesn't judge a person for who they are...
    Ichki Ichki 22-25, M Jan 28

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    Gloomy Wednesday here;all aches and feeling my age.It is my rain songPerhaps I should call.It has been a little timebetween then and now.My mind is blank hereall syllables and...
    puck61 puck61 51-55, M 4 Responses Jan 27

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    "Does that swimsuit make you look fat? Yes it does make you fat. Do you really want people to see your skin hanging out of your bathing suit? They don't want to see that? It's too...
    ChubbyChick411 ChubbyChick411 22-25, F Jan 26

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    I went out to play a game of pool last night with my cousin had a pitcher of beer.Went outside for air and when I came back in and sat down at the machines to watch my cousin play...
    theunknown1985 theunknown1985 26-30, M Jan 26

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    So... I'm just going to write truthfully about my experience because I've never told anyone. This is going to be long. I suffer from MDD, obviously. I've had this about three...
    d1sc0rdant d1sc0rdant 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    My husband and I have been married for 3 years now. We love each other dearly. There is some behavior I'm worried about though. He has always been a little on the antisocial side...
    scruffynerf scruffynerf 22-25, F Jan 26

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    Even on here it's really hard to post stuff lol. I prefer to listen. It makes me anxious to put out my own opinion, and most of the time it doesn't feel like it's worth it. Tbh I'd...
    mistdrop mistdrop 16-17, T 1 Response Jan 25

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    I went into my parents' bathroom just minutes ago to get some mouthwash, and right by the bottles of mouthwash was a note (obviously written by my mom, judging from the handwriting...
    CaitlinElizabeth815 CaitlinElizabeth815 16-17, F Jan 25

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    Never realized I have social anxiety until last year... I want to be social and make friends I have never been one to have a lot of friends, at the moment I have none. Since high...
    VanitySinnn VanitySinnn 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I've made it a new hobby of mine to go out for a long walk once a day, completely alone, just listening to my music on full volume. I started a few days ago and have only walked...
    longdarkhair longdarkhair 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    There's a party going on in here It's been happening for many years You weren't invited and don't want to stay But keep partying anyway DJ's playing that familiar tune Got...
    Bircos Bircos 18-21, M Jan 25

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    Hi there, I'm glad I found this forum. I was actually surprised to read all the shared stories, for a while I was thinking that I was the only one suffering from "Vaginismus". I'm...
    bjoum bjoum 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I think the best person to give you honest on who you are and what you look like if the mirror ..looking at my reflection in the mirror tell me a lot about who I'm and how other...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Trust me, you only think you do. What's on my mind may surprise you. Probably just like what's on your mind may surprise me. I hate it when people do this. When women think men are...
    davidschild37 davidschild37 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    Hey...don't ignore this,just give me a chance to explain Don't grab your "tools" whenever you feel bad.Remind yourself what will happen if you give up.How are you going to deal...
    ghostdolly ghostdolly 13-15, F Jan 24

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    Hello. This is for those who are thinking about attempting suicide. At some point in my life, many points actually, I didn't see a point in living either. But I'm sure you've heard...
    TenderTonic TenderTonic 26-30, F Jan 23

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    I was quite young when I first learned about pierced ears. I remember my older sisters coming home with new studs in their ears and being curious and scared by the idea of having...
    Michelleinside Michelleinside 31-35, M Jan 23

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    Place your hand over your heart. You feel that? That is called purpose. You’re alive for a reason, so don’t ever give up.The person who completes suicide, dies once...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F Jan 23

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    anyone out there, who needs somebody so deaperatky, and feel like you can't do it anymore, nothing will satisfy you, make you happy or fill the whole inside your soul I tell you...
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 4 Responses Jan 23

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    Everything is fine as so it seems like it. Im that typical person you see on the streets who's decent looking( not even sure) who simply living a okay life or however you like to...
    Krchan2 Krchan2 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Basically I think for a relationship to deepen and last through all the challenges that will eventually face a couple, one must love the personality, character, and heart of a...
    MoonWanderer MoonWanderer 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 21