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I Lose Myself For Their Own Expectations

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    I want to befriend that's why I try to like themAt first, I feel I belong but I see their real characters and true colors which makes me feel "TURN OFF"I know, it's normal because they say teenagers are wild and hotblooded.I don't understand why they urged to find a guy for me...
    doggieschoice doggieschoice 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    It's like as a kid if a rule is broken there is punishments and that child has to take responsibility for their own actions it's just the way life works so I'm going with the flow
    kenzie111Hall kenzie111Hall 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    i accept responsibility for my own actions, but something i find kinda ironic in my life sometimes, is that some of the people who preach to you to accept responsibility for your...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 9

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    I accept responsibilities for my own actions, I really do. My problem is the extreme guilt I feel for doing something "wrong." I feel guilty if I drink too much and wake up with a...
    lilHuman lilHuman 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    You must be true to yourself. So accepting the responsibility for your actions is an essential aspect of this, honesty. You can only be responsible for your own actions, not his...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He has been in my life for 12 years. We've been married for 5 years. Then he just stopped talking to me. Just ... stopped. 45 days later he asked me when I was going to finally see...
    e78celia e78celia 36-40, F 9 hrs ago

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    I set pretty high goals for myself and when I don't fulfill them I tend to go through self hate periods that are not exactly healthy for me. I wish I could change this but I was...
    RozzebellConta RozzebellConta 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I have been SPIED on by a Media Man. A Real Estate Mogul. Owner of Delaware Mortgage & Financial Inc. Maintain by a High Profile Pakistani Attorney, who is a well known Christian...
    FATTISSUNSHINE FATTISSUNSHINE 70+, T 1 Response Aug 21

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    "You don't have to be Great to Start... But you Have to Start to be Great" Have you ever felt like you were meant for more that you are doing? People see the talent in me that I...
    DorothyWheresOz DorothyWheresOz 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Seriously melting away to the best music right now. The amity affliction and bullet for my valentine. Absolutely superb!
    Mzwalker Mzwalker 22-25, F Aug 25

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    You scatter in the wind just like a dandelion. Reminding me again that you ain't ever mine for long.
    kurioussubmissive kurioussubmissive 18-21, F Aug 26

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    I always wonder why people can't think before they speak. They hurt other's feelings because of their poor choice of words and even though they don't meant it it deeply lingers...
    Saya0414 Saya0414 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I often blame myself hard, if I don't match the expectation set by myself, when it comes to fulfilling daily mental deadlines at work. So hard that if I start late, I can no...
    qcreator qcreator 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    I decide for myself and I realise so fundamental truth about this fact. My decisions are my responsibilities, I will not hold some third party responsible for something I have...
    Amipa91 Amipa91 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I take full responsibility for the people I have hurt! Guilt and shame have cluttered my mind and heart. I'm slowly re-learning to love myself again and it feels great :-)
    gypsybelle gypsybelle 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 5

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    My mom thinks I'm going to hell. She's legitimately terrified that if I don't accept Jesus as my Lord and Savior, she will not see me in heaven. Do you know how much...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I admit that I've done some stupid things in my life, but I accept them as a part of myself and move on with life. Hopefully I can offer others some advice along the way based on...
    thr080766 thr080766 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm an adult, I pick what I want to do so no one else is responsible. If I do something wrong or bad it's all my own fault.
    Doufy62 Doufy62 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    When I was younger I would blame my parents for a lot of things that I went through and I still hold them responsible for some conditions because at the the time I was a kid I...
    Artiste92 Artiste92 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Everything is my fault. I drive people away because I automatically assume they're pissed off at me or that they hate me. I get terrified of anger towards me and actually by...
    ChantelSurvived ChantelSurvived 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have been selling sex after I dropped out of college to support my family & myself I use to sell my body on backpage then they start arresting girl so I quit and then became a...
    BadGirl0312 BadGirl0312 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    well i am a daddy so i know how young people feel, the problems they face in general life, in school, at home, how they suffer beacuse of how their friends and family treat them...
    mrnut mrnut 36-40, M Sep 3

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    Of course I'm going to blame myself, its pretty much down to me that stuff goes wrong most times anyway, not going to blame anyone else for my unending screw ups and causing just...
    Waywardsilence Waywardsilence 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I am a Muslim. I believe I have 2 angel on my each shoulders. They keep the tally of my actions. And the one in Above, He keeps action of my heart, Intention. Where is I even have...
    FATTISSUNSHINE FATTISSUNSHINE 70+, T 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I challenge everyone to the bucket full of boiling water challenge to raise awareness and money for the Burn Center.
    LoneRider72 LoneRider72 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Everyone said I'd regret having tattoos done on my body. I don't! I have a lot of them now, including 'For better or worse' tattooed across my upper chest lower neck area. I have...
    DearbhalC95 DearbhalC95 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    A word A single word A single word uttered In err Broke two hearts Beyond repair In my mind I replay That horrible error I made that day My heart is broken In shambles it stays I...
    RoughRed RoughRed 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Three Small Words finally, barriers have been broken, three special words, have been spoken, A mending of hearts once broken, Words of relief, have been spoken, The chains of hurt...
    RoughRed RoughRed 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I couldn't wait for greatness so I went on without it.
    LiveInUtah456 LiveInUtah456 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I have gone over board again...I had forgot how a lot of people may of be agro at me because of my words...I really did try to tone my spirit down...I am sorry Ep I mean no...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Hello, I'm a male 23, I'm looking for someone to feminize me. I would like them to take away my masculinity and force me to be a sissy/slave for them.
    andymike andymike 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    What I do is what I do nobody is responsible for me!
    g13mo g13mo 22-25, M Sep 5

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    And those reasons are personal. Thank you for not asking.
    KatanaKatastrafea KatanaKatastrafea 26-30, F Sep 9

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    So the guy I was dating for a year is going through some personal issues that I have been aware of and I care for him deeply . He has been kind and loving to me . And recently he...
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    If my female friend always wanted to live out of town would it be best to wait another 16 years for her toddler child to grow up or should she give her divorced husband legal...
    knowledgeanew knowledgeanew 31-35, M 6 Responses Sep 13

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    I was gone for several days for work. I got a text complaining about my kid and taking her to soccer one day while gone Then maybe I would get a text at night before bed. Basically...
    NotSoPerfect777 NotSoPerfect777 36-40, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    It took me almost my entire life to understand this concept. I use to run around blaming everyone else for what was happening to me. If they didn't d this, then I wouldn't have...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sooner anyone realizes this, better his life and life of people surrounding him/her would be. I have always been one who takes decisions and also bears responsibility for the...
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    Today in class, we talked about how most people in this culture unknowingly practice "The Trance of Unworthiness". Its basically our radical self criticism that plays on default...
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    How do you feel when your boss decides to pray before a staff meeting and the other 2 people you work with are Christian and have no problem with it and yet it just seems forced...
    AmandaHugandKiss2014 AmandaHugandKiss2014 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just the other day there was a guy in my college's plaza talking about his views on Christianity and Jesus. It happens frequently so I tend not to pay attention but this guy was an...
    firework05 firework05 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Yes!!! "like every day..."
    quietbeauty quietbeauty 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    When I'm that focuses on something I tend to shut the world out and very few things bring me back if I don't want to. I try not to run from life but sometimes I can't relax like I...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F Aug 31

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    Clean bandit - rather be I love this kind of music
    agent268 agent268 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    So if you're pet is a DillWeed maybe you should think about that haha.
    learntoswim learntoswim 22-25, F Sep 10

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    Apparently not "too" smart if you spell it that way. Good lord.
    BzzLghtyr BzzLghtyr 26-30, M Aug 22

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    I was told that I'd regret getting tattoos. I don't! I was told I'd regret going out in just my panties (effectively) because of the type of person I'd attract. I don't! I...
    Dkfscom95 Dkfscom95 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24