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    Falling... - Everything that used to be me is gone has fallen into an empty pit of sorrow. I have been so crushed and broken that now everything I used to be is gone. I look at...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Oct 20, 2013

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    Do You Hear Me?... - Do you hear me every night? I tell you I love you both every night. Do you feel how much I miss you yet? Do you see the tears I shed every time I think of you...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Feb 17, 2013

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    The Life Cycle - I'm not fearful of dying or of death. I never have been. But I am fearful of one day getting that call regarding my parents or other family members. I try and...
    encamino67 encamino67 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Careful To Those You Love ! - We need be careful how we deal with those around us, when every death carries to some small circles of survivors, thoughts of so much omitted, and so...
    DoMaT DoMaT 31-35, M Jun 27, 2013

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    I Miss This - Most of my days are spent thinking bout you. The way you laughed those jokes the way you never gave up. You are and will always be a huge part of my life even if now...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Jan 5, 2013

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    Broken... - Broken heart if you think realistically it's nothing more than an organ there to keep you breathing and pump your blood somehow this connects to your feelings and is...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Oct 2, 2013

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    I’ve never really been a person with strong faith. A little over a year ago, my Auntie went in cardiac arrest. I was extremely close to her. She was a second mother to me. So...
    Mebemolly Mebemolly 22-25, F Jan 4

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    Why Did You Leave? - I know that you are both gone and I understand that but why did you have to leave so fast? I miss you guys so much all I think is that someday I will see you...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Mar 13, 2013

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    Memories Fade - No matter how much I think of you how I spend everyday trying to talk to you I find myself forgetting you more and more. I cant remember your voice, your laugh. Its...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Jan 7, 2013

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    I Cant Love You Back - I have tried my best these last months to just pull myself together for everyone and my family. For everyone who needs me I have lost My grandma my whole...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Jul 2, 2013

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    Simply Sad - How do you get this lonely? How do you become this sad? Why have I continued this far? Do they still love me? How much will I cry today? Will someone help me? I...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Jul 9, 2013

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    Alone... - All I feel is alone...trapped in my own thoughts going on with the days even though its not the same girl. Growing up was amazing happy life never worried if I was going...
    Jan 31, 2013

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    The Worst Kind Of Changes - Everyone has fights right? Everyone wants to give up at one point in their lives right? Everyone looses the person that means the most to them right...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Jan 4, 2013

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    Losing A Loved One - This has been a hard year for me. I never experienced great lost until this last year. I have wondered how people feel inside when they lose a loved one. Well...
    lizardlips82 lizardlips82 31-35, F Apr 19, 2013

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    What Do You Do? - What do you do when you loose your hope, love and care for family and friends? What do you do when you finally break down and accept the fact that your not good...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Aug 3, 2013

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    Helping People Grieve - W hat Grieving People Want You to Know   By Virginia A. Simpson, Ph.D   1. I am not strong. I'm just numb. When you tell me I am strong, I...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 14 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Letting Go - As a Health Professional, I thought that I had a reasonably good handle on dealing with death and dying. Well with other people's death and dying anyway. It always...
    associatedbears associatedbears 41-45 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Broken Sadness - There comes days where all I feel is sad. No matter what anyone says, does, or even tries to make me laugh the smile is forced. Its hard when all of your aunts...
    BeckR22 BeckR22 16-17 Jun 22, 2013

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    Need Help Dealing - I am 57 yrs old. My father passed in 2001. I was for the most part ok in dealing with it. Then my mother for years was suffering with alzhimers and was I guess...
    suzz456 suzz456 56-60, F Aug 17, 2013

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    My Grandma - Well 2 months and 10 days ago I lost my Grandmother to cancer. Pancreatic Cancer. One of the worst cancers out there. One of the cancers you can barely save someone...
    GirlWithManyThoughts GirlWithManyThoughts 18-21, F Mar 24, 2013

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    He's My Bear. Enough Said - If you have not lost a dog this is not for you... I lost my first dog when I was 18. A beautiful and loving female samoyed. I was very busy with my...
    rebelliousnoble rebelliousnoble 22-25 Jul 19, 2013

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    My aunt took pills, and was alone when it happened. She wasn't found until the day after, where my cousin visited her. He found her laying on the bathroom floor, and broke down. He...
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    i was twelve, and was coming up to my first year in high school. i was absolutely dreading my first day at a new school, because i had never been the new girl before. the only...
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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    My other half is a drug addict I didn't know she was when we started dating now it's two years later and she's worse I feel like she lies and has a secret life on the side for her...
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I got a text message from a friend telling me that one of my best friends had killed himself. I was in total denial due to him not showing any signs or symptoms of being unhappy...
    kiara95 kiara95 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    My best friend. She started acting rude to everyone and bulling me. I made excuses until I had enough. I told her how I felt and she hugged me for the last time before we walked...
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Love cooking for my family especially my hard working mom 💕
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F Mar 23

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    Danny I still miss you. You were so loving and caring. I can see you making goofy faces in class trying to make me laugh. It makes me want to cry now. Why didn't I go with you...
    courtneyblue courtneyblue 18-21, F Mar 26

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    My best friends sister committed suicide about three years ago... I can still remember the day it happened. It was June 21. We had just gotten done with our play practice and I...
    sarahjade123 sarahjade123 13-15, F Mar 26

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    and they are miles away. I cannot hold her..
    saltydog74 saltydog74 22-25, M Mar 27

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    Hey! I'm new here at EP and I really need someone to talk to, good advice, experiences and such.. I don't know what to do! My boyfriend did do drugs and tried to take his own life...
    lilcarey lilcarey 22-25, F Mar 27

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    It is not so much that I love cooking ... but it is that I love the people I cook for and their response. I love how they devour everything. I love when they ask for seconds and...
    chocomint chocomint 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Yesterday was a 3 year anniversary of my biological grandfather'a passing Only knew him for only 5 years. I miss him so much.
    smilesx36 smilesx36 22-25, F Mar 30

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    My grandmother passed away early this morning, and her last words to me were, "I love you too, sweetie." Nana, I love you so much, and though it hurts so badly that you've passed...
    iCaii iCaii 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    So, my grandma isnt in the best shape. She sits in her chair all day and can never really leave her house. She gets pretty bored and unhappy sitting there all of the time. Im a...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F Apr 2

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    "I bleed for you Forever I will lie awake I would Die For You I see the truth I've given you my heart to break I would Die For You"
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Apr 5

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    "the problem is not so much dying for a friend. it is finding a friend worth dying for"
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I fell for someone I simply could not have because of this persons parents and religion. We are both girls. Um, I love her. A lot. And now I have to let her go. I even just found...
    GiambonaB GiambonaB 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    It's been almost an hour since I received the news of my grandma about her health. My family and I have known few months ago her health has gotten worst and the doctor said she has...
    raldy raldy 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Last night, i dreamt my mom died. But its strange cuz she said goodbye first before she ride a car and go. Me and my dad were really sad. I've dreamt my mom died 3 times now. Some...
    MelodyInMyHead MelodyInMyHead 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Hi, i dont really know where to start or what to do so i figured id join this forum, maybe it could help ease my mind. i have been seeing this guy on and off for a year. We would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 8

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    Three people now actually.... When i was 7, i lost my Grampy to suicide. He hung himself while intoxicated... November of 2011, My eldest brother, James, ended his life with me...
    TeganLynne TeganLynne 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    If there is one thing I'm truly scared of inside, it's losing the people I truly love and care about. And losing the ones that truly love and care about me...
    ajl04 ajl04 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    She was my dearest friend and I loved her like I love all my close friends. We did everything together. She was like a sister to me. It still hurts me to know that while I'd have...
    engarde12 engarde12 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    oh dang. I'm looking at this picture of that person. I realized I hecka loved him. I don't think I do anymore because my emotions seem to have calmed down but there's a part of me...
    wackywoman wackywoman 26-30 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I <3 Them: I always have, I have loved them since they came out, I`m not only a fan, I`m a Directioner, so if anybody body else likes them and wants to talk to me about them...
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am just starting high school, and I am the only one who is going to this particular school. All my old friends are going to a different school, and I am not hanging out with them...
    HCL19 HCL19 16-17, M Apr 7

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    I've had ear problems and hearing problems pretty much my whole life, but lately they seem to be escalating more and more. Before someone tells me to go see an ENT/doctor- I...
    NaturallyPeculiar NaturallyPeculiar 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I am a 20 year old girl, struggling, with so may aspects of my life. The one person I used to confine in left me, that was the first person I have ever loved, my now, ex...
    cupcakerose cupcakerose 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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