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I Lost a Friend

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    I dont know why but recently this friend of

    mine started to avoid me and last time we usually eat dinner together and now i am eating dinner alone ....... again
    fatdude123 fatdude123 18-21, M 2 Responses May 29

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    W

    i'm so confused because i dont understand why this had to happen. out of all the people in the world why did this happen to one of the worlds most genuine, most admirable, most pure souls. i admired you for so many reasons. i'm sorry that we never did play that tennis match that...
    Phasmid Phasmid 18-21, F Jul 28, 2010

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    I Haven T Lost A Friend But I Lost My Soul

    Why i am writing now it s been really a while since my friend suicide ...she left but we meet always in my dreams...we lived our childhood we were 10 years as a friend her name is Ahlam means dreams she is the opposite of me she is really dreaming girl she like to be free...we...
    primadona primadona 31-35, F Nov 4, 2013

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    About a week or so ago,

    I found out that a friend of my dad's family passed away after a long fight with lung cancer. I'd been praying for her to be healed and live. As sad as it is for me and my relatives and friends, my friend Debby is no longer in pain from the disease or from the harsh treatments...
    Mags2588 Mags2588 26-30, F May 16

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    Problem Child

    “How dare you disrupt my class?” Mrs. Burrows screamed, bending down right in my face as she grabbed the binder I was writing in and tore the top page from it. “Where’s your homework?  Where’s your damned book?” She continued, getting louder and angrier. Great; the...
    Steffi97 Steffi97 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Hannah

    five years today you left us i still cant believe your gone you where sweet kind never had a bad word to say about anybody the day you left is still fills  my head you where standing there talking to hoshi then you just collapsed  hit  the floor i jumped to your side screaming...
    TheDevilsOwn TheDevilsOwn 22-25, M 10 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    Many.

    I had a friend here when I first started... her name was Camille.... I was all but a kid then... 19 years old... a whole year ago... Lol... she was 50 but great I don't have many friends that are girls and I really liked her.... She deleted her account. She never even told me she...
    abritishgirl abritishgirl 18-21, F May 20, 2013

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    My friend had a friend named Drew.

    He moved so they talked online. Then me and Drew started talking and we became great friends. A few days after talking online, I noticed his account had gotten deleted. Two months later I found out from his cousin that he had committed suicide.
    OldSouledHippie OldSouledHippie 16-17, F Jan 21

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    No Consolation

    I lost a friend to suicide, she had been very low for quite a while and had a morbid outlook on life, i didn't take her too seriously but on a warm sunny day she walked in front of a train. I miss her very much, i made many mistakes, i didn't believe how ill she was, i never...
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    Best Friend - Gone :( - Updated -

    I am so, so sad. It must be my fault - something I said, something I wrote - but I don't know exactly what. I am a stupid idiot for ruining the most special, valuable thing in my life. Loosing the friendship that was sustaining my motivation to move forward in life. Carelessly...
    MAXwho MAXwho 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    So me and my friend recently stopped talking.

    We've been friends for three years and i've always been there for her. She came to me for relationship advice and i gave her advice then she would get mad. We got into an agruement and now we aren't talking. Should i reach out to her or move on?
    NajlahS NajlahS 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    My Friend Died The Other Day

    I don't know how to react. It all seemed so wrong. It couldn't happen. She wasn't very close with me but I knew her enough to know that she's one of those people you need to cherish. Today, days after her death, I finally broke. I cried for hours. I just can't imagine what her...
    xxLizRockszz xxLizRockszz 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Closing The Door, Leaving A Hole In My Heart

    My friend did not die or move away, but at times, I wish she had. That would ease the pain that's been eating me away for almost a year now. I have  a hard time trusting people, partly due to my childhood friends being very unreliable, and I truly believe that I deserve...
    Nettle Nettle 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15, 2010

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    It was last year, he was 16

    or 17, his name was Matt. It didn't even have to happen...it all happened because of some dumb **** who was high and decided to try and jump the train tracks with a car full of people, and because if that two kids died, Matt and his friend Brandon... Please don't ever drive...
    alexnewsom alexnewsom 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    We All Lost

    It started in the early 90's, I put together a volleyball net with wood poles and a cheap net with broken poles. My friend C and I decided to gather a few others and go to a City park to play Friday after school. We had no idea what we started with that net. Soon the crowd grew...
    thykermit thykermit 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    She stopped talking to me.

    I don't know why. We use to talk all the time. I guess she has other friends and doesn't need my friendship. Pretty sad if you ask me. I am hurt, very hurt  yes.I don't know what I ever did to push her away. I wish she would tell me. I thought she would be happy for me that i...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    It's very rare, to find a friend

    and talk endless and stay all night and sharing all your darkest dreams. And all, and then my internet got cut off and fell out of touch with her. And going to her account, she was gone... Probably somewhere with a different account and I miss her. So that's my experience and i...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    If you wanna know about my friend I lost

    that I was really close to you can message me.. I was gonna post it here but it said it was spam or something so idk
    SmilesHideSecrets SmilesHideSecrets 13-15, F Apr 24

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    Sometimes i still miss

    that Italian lady, Alexandra. A very dear friend of mine who wanted me to take her out for hot chocolate mocha before she went for her surgery for cancer. But i am so unfortunate that i could never make that date and she left us all with tears in eyes and memories in heart. God...
    chetu2411 chetu2411 26-30, M May 25

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                          How to lose a friend in 16 months.First I am going to say a little about me. I am a middle aged single guy who never had serious realations with a woman...
    ninerzoon ninerzoon 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    Lesson learned: be careful of your actions

    and words.. you never know how it will affect people-_- might regret it later
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F Jun 26

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    Well I'm writing this a little late.

    It's technically march 3 but it's still your birthday in my opinion :P i still can't believe your gone...I regret that I didn't keep in touch with you. I'm sorry for that...Your the first friend I've lost and it's been rough. I should've been there for you more. I hope that you...
    aBlackRoseBurial aBlackRoseBurial 22-25, M Mar 2

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    Just great. Finally find a true friend

    and you lose them. I've been crying all night.
    Madi1000 Madi1000 13-15, F Jun 26

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    Well, my best friend EVER I met on steam.

    We talked and talked and then S/He started fighting and then we blocked and Defriended. Feel really bad tho. Just dead to them, always skyped too.
    louisrcac louisrcac 13-15, M Mar 13

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    Lost To Malaria

    My good friend James aged 12 was traveling across southern Africa in April this year but after 3 weeks of traveling he and his family traveled to the country of Mozambique to stay on the beautiful beaches on the eastern coast but after 3 days after arriving James became very...
    Smeeg2911 Smeeg2911 22-25, M Oct 24, 2013

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    Lost & Alone

    I've been told that talking about it helps so maybe it will so here gos. Her name was amber and It's been 14 years sence she was killed, but feels like it just happened yesterday. Still I see her in my dreams Im overwelmed with happness at the site of her. I run to hold her but...
    Simiyes Simiyes 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    It was in 2013. And his name was Harry Johnatan

    Smith. Someday me, ACTennisAC (YouTuber), and Harry were just talking about stuff. When suddenly Harry said "My computer's broken. Need to replace motherboard mate," and so me and ACTennis said Ok. Sure. Then ACTennis went on a holiday. And I were just staying home waiting for...
    Minecrafted Minecrafted 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Christopher I Miss You

    on april first this year i got a phone call from my mom and she was trying not to cry. i thought some thing bad happend but not anything that would really effect me. she had drove to the gas station and passed chris's house and tons of cops and medics were there. so she went to...
    sonjajw sonjajw 22-25, F Aug 22, 2008

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    I just lost a friend,

    who like my bestest friend EVER like I knew it was gonna happen but for once I wish I was wrong but as always I was right, I did prepare myself the moment we met, but to be honest it's hurt as always when you lose someone you care about part of you dies and it so sad, but that's...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jun 7

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    Unexpected

    A friend of mine killed himself a week ago. We're all not sure why. He didn't seem upset at all. People need to talk more.
    skyISfalling skyISfalling 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 2, 2008

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    My Lost Friend

    I lost a friend today her name was sam she was killed by a demon named alisaf some may laugh at this story believing it to be fake others may know the truth but this is my last story before I venture into hell to find the demon and kill him
    vergildante vergildante 18-21, M Nov 26, 2013

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    thought he and i were good friends,

    i guess not so I'm looking to find a male best friend
    deedeebear deedeebear 18-21, F May 22

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    lovee40313 lovee40313 13-15, F Mar 2

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    "Friends" actually. :/ I don't know what to do.

    v.v I lost 3 good friends so far. One to Suicide, One to a drowning because his boat capsized while he was working, and another last night because he got into the middle of a fight (he was trying to break it up) and got shot in the head. I feel sort of numb and depressed...
    JessieTheGreekGoddess JessieTheGreekGoddess 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 22

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    I Feel Horrible

    August 2008- I was on Facebook after breakfast Saturday morning when I got a phone call. A weird time for me to get one, for me. Caller ID showed a number I didn't recognize. Even weirder. I picked up. "Hey, it's Daniel," the voice cracked out, "I don't know if...
    DaPuff DaPuff 18-21 2 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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    I Learned Yesterday That My Friend Died

    In the mail yesterday, I received a thank you card from my friend.  Her first words in the card were "Well, I've gone now!"I spoke to her one week before Christmas, and I knew that her time to leave this physical life was near.  We discussed that it...
    sweetmix sweetmix 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    For about a week ago me

    and my 4 best friends had formed an unbreakable bond.. Until now.. She suddenly turned all 2cool4u and just posted hate and complained about us being dramaqueens and butthurt smartypants.. We all really loved her dearly but now shes impossible to speak to.. I need help, quick
    Bananabonzana Bananabonzana 13-15, M Mar 19

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    Today one of my closest friends on here killed

    himself... Or at least he told me he was going to (now he won't reply and is to online so I'm assuming) he was the most depressing person I have ever met, and I loved it ! He was nice and a great guy, he was just very lonely... :( he made me realize that I shouldn't be...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    So a close friend just told me to never speak

    to her again, I tried apologizing a little afterward cuz I thought maybe I over reacted and she wouldn't even listen, I feel bad but i don't know and I don't know what to do so kind of a bummer :(
    Anotherrose96 Anotherrose96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    To Religion..

    I used to have a close friendship with a girl I had known for several years, since school. We were both a bit ****** up and enjoyed a drink. We drifted apart when she went to to University but kept in touch when we were both in town. She had a lot of issues to do with her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 4, 2011

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    First I trusted an *******.

    .. And for that I lost my crush as a friend... And now my best guy friend is dead.... Guys don't talk to me I'm bad news for you :'(
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Not To Death, Though...

    I had you first.My best friend - for when you have only one of something, that one is inevitably the best. But love steals one friend from another.You said you loved me. But you just had to push it...had to try to make it something else, something further.And I, in my loneliness...
    EarthboundEagle EarthboundEagle 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Her Flame Went Out, She Didn't Die.

    I believe seeing death from, the last few minutes before the body gives way, are life-changing for many who witness it. In Hinduism, the body is put on a funeral pyre and it slowly reduces to ash. I find it a very violent way of the last rites taking place, so electric...
    Awani Awani 18-21, F Aug 13, 2010

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    Tomorrow, June 21, it will be a year

    since you left us. One whole year. I still to this day haven't wrapped my head around all of this. I'll never forget the day. I wish I could have seen your goofy self graduate with everyone in our class this year.. Everyone misses you so, so much.. rest easy, Sloan. 💕👼
    Biersack Biersack 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    She Was Murdered - Sweet Sweet Sweet Sixteen

        I went back to the city I used to live in. My best friend's sister's wedding. 500 guests and an abundance of cake and champagne. I even got to ride the limo with the bride. We were all thrilled. I danced Assyrian folkdance all night long. We went to bed 6 AM...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F Jul 7, 2008

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    Loss

    A few months back I lost a very close friend to me. She had a seizure at home and was unresponsive. Her husband found her and attempted to revive her. She had epilepsy. He did get her breathing again....but she was placed on life support. She was on life support for several days...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 13, 2008

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    Goodbye Suzy! I received some news today that,

    from the moment I heard it this morning, has me barely holding back tears, and often failing to hold them back at all. Someone I was very close to in high school, my wonderful friend Suzzanne, died this past week. Though we haven't been close in a very long time this news has...
    dandydan1999 dandydan1999 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 3

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    It's all my fault. We used to chat

    for 5 months, every day. He was my best friend. When I saw him the last time, we didnt even say hello. Bullshit. Forget friendships. It wont last anyways. All my fault. Every little ******* thing is my fault.
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    You left me. One day you were there making me

    happy and the other you were gone. Was it something that i did? Im sorry if it was. But it hurt. I send you an email after months of not talking just to feel closer to you and now im refreshing the page every couple of minutes to see if you answered. I just want you to answer...
    herrkorbes herrkorbes 18-21, F Feb 11

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