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I Lost An Ep Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 60 People

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    As the majority of my 'older' EP friendships erode and dissolve, I can't help but wonder was the fault mine in having questionable standards? I shall explain: a true real friendship can survive with or without terabytes, gigabytes and megabytes. The bonds are strong enough to...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly she disappeared in here, actually  I know she can't get on EP much and I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Heeey, guys!How are you guys? I hope you guys are doing fine. Well, I'm not here to post a story about me needing advice. Instead, I'm here because I want you guys to know that if...
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    I got to see my best friend that I havnt seen in 4 years today... I was so happy I almost cried and was shaking! I missed her so much and I miss her already
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    This is my third time on EP . I am looking for some of my friends. Saltyorsweet. Messeduppoet,darktippedrose.
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    Who wants to be my friend.... Message me :)
    angelrodriguez123 angelrodriguez123 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hey! I'm new here at EP and I really need someone to talk to, good advice, experiences and such.. I don't know what to do! My boyfriend did do drugs and tried to take his own life...
    lilcarey lilcarey 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I lost my father to cancer on February 8, 2014 . I was just shy of turning 16 . He's missed so much in these past 2 1/2 months . I think it gets harder everyday . He should be...
    awkwardprincess98 awkwardprincess98 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Okay so lets say my name is "Peter" and her name is "Anna" and my friends name is "Chris". Chris and i were really good friends. He was my first friend when i moved to Chicago. His...
    new29 new29 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    If I had friends! 😫😭 I mean I have friends, socially, but nobody asks to hang out with me or asks me to join them on something, unless its my sister and her friends. Maybe...
    ashalew ashalew 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I literally have no friends. I suck at making friends and never really leave the house.
    Sniffly Sniffly 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Now in college, I've tried talking to a couple of girls so far. I don't think the majority of them even seemed interested in me, but the last one did. She was awesome. But this...
    MovingOnWithTaintedHands MovingOnWithTaintedHands 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    i have not lost just one person i have lost a few people in my life who have meant alot to me. (And its a long post) Whilst some people think that i "lie" when i talk about whos...
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    He walked into the room and my heart immediately started beating quickly. I knew of him and his reputation, but it was the first time I ever seen him up close. That all sounds...
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    Hello. My name is Kaitlynn. I'm 18 years old, and have lost my parents to addiction. I was born illegitimate to a young couple in their mid-twenties. My dad was in a band he was...
    Erealia Erealia 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just want to say that I love my best friend. He's the best thing that's happened to me since I moved to this dead old town and I love him so much I get the urge to hug him just...
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm not actually dumb, I'm pretty smart. I've learnt to do this because if I don't, I come off as a know it all or something. I don't mean to, but I do. Because I'm so shy and...
    AliasTaylor AliasTaylor 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I lost my mom to pancreatic cancer in May 2012. The summer after I graduated from high school is when my mom got diagnosed. I had a boyfriend at the time but he became frustrated...
    kristyd713 kristyd713 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    It took me a while to realize that somewhere along my path of life I actually managed to lose myself in reality. I lost old friends and gained new ones and realized I had changed...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Okay so long story short, my boyfriend and I broke up because his best friend decided to tell him 6 months into out relationship that she had feeling for him. Prior to us dating he...
    snm2407 snm2407 18-21, F Mar 20

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    My mom recently kicked me out of her life and I'm exiting her life completely. She didn't like the fact I was different or was interested in women and when confronted about what...
    AikaMelodia AikaMelodia 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I am 27, I lost my father to lung cancer 3 weeks ago he was 67, i feel so sad and alone and i feel that there's nothing to live for anymore. what breaks my heart more is that i...
    DadysGirl DadysGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Falling for my best friend actually fell, really hard. Was there for her when she told me she was abused n broken...told her I was gay(I'm a girl) n that I needed a friend ...we...
    Rhythmnblues9 Rhythmnblues9 26-30, F Apr 5

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    This week, I lost a very important person in my life. I met Mike a few years ago on this amazing site. He loved me, and accepted me right away. He was always so loving, caring...
    AlyAngel AlyAngel 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    This day feels strange. I lost another friend only for being a jerk. Well, isn't exactly so bad. That friend used to come to my house and invade my personal space, it was pretty...
    aestheticisms aestheticisms 18-21, F Apr 9

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    It all started in elementary school, each year I'd have a new "best friend", and each year I would completely stop being friends with my previous "best friend". I guess its because...
    zoella12 zoella12 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    January 29th 2014....my best friend who I have known for 12 years...committed suicide. She was only 19. She left behind a 3 year old son, her husband and everyone who loved her...
    kristencameryn kristencameryn 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I am in my mid-twenties. Did not finish college. I am adopted and don't know my biological family. My adopted parents got divorced-the father commited suicide four years ago and...
    layla99 layla99 22-25 1 Response Mar 25

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    LOST AND LONELY I'm so lost and lonely I'm scared I'm so sad and upset all the time I'm too trusting and kind And get left behind I just don't know what to do!!!! I can't live...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    ok went I was 16 I went to a senior year party and I was with my best friends the night was going great til the beers came out to play -_- my best friends got really drunk that...
    mydepressions mydepressions 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    Hi everyone. My boyfriend broke up with me for the second (and last time) two months ago five days before my birthday. He broke up with me for my "best friend". So now they are...
    daydreamer125 daydreamer125 16-17, F Apr 1

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    Her phone always far away from me. Calling me down when I take her to restaurants. No sex. Avoiding her x when with me. Avoiding her friends when with me. Forgetting my birthdays...
    mkdurrant mkdurrant 26-30, M Apr 8

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    Hey everyone.I am 15 years old.Last year I lost my best friend last year.And by lost I mean that she stopped talking to me.We had been best friends since kindergarten and it was...
    inecrazyandhypersensitive inecrazyandhypersensitive 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    On December 1st, 2013, I lost one of the most important people in my life. The person I looked up too. My first friend, my brother. I was sitting in my brothers bed waiting for my...
    FMRT FMRT 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    slver slver 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    starrysky7 starrysky7 36-40, F Mar 27

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    I am 36 years old and am in a loving relationship, have 3 children (one of whom is actually my niece) but have lost the rest of my family to death in the last 10yrs and was primary...
    renoakahelen renoakahelen 36-40, F Mar 29