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    Another EP friend has completely vanished. I recognize that EP requires the suspension of disbelief to work. Like a film or a play, one pretends that the people here really are what they say they are and one plays along. Nonetheless, when someone completely disappears...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    This time, I lost a very dear

    and long-standing EP friend. She had said that she was likely to leave as she had other things going on in her life. I understand. Still, I will miss her very much.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 26, 2014

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    I Wish I Didn't Have to Join This Group ...

    A lot of thinking going on here today.  I am shocked and upset at the revelation that my good friend Eaudoux is leaving EP.  I understand that he wants to respect his wife's feelings about the time he spends and the material he looks at on here.  I guess that's...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    Well

    The truth is how do I have any friends to begin with...I am a lunatic but still now and then some one comes along and friends me. I meant it stop it now. I can't deal with people but I can't turn them away either. They might have seen one of my post and thing oh that was...
    solarregeneration solarregeneration 41-45, T Jul 23, 2010

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Dear Manyregrets - No idea

    why you'd leave EP/ delete your acct without a word, but good luck.
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M Oct 23, 2014

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    He vanished. No trace.

    Could be just a product of my imagination. Please hand me the Kleenex. He was such a good person.
    EruIluvatar EruIluvatar 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I lost many EP friends

    when I shut down my account. I need to find a few of them again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    Yup....Her name was Anna.

    She really helped me out through some pretty tough times during 2014, but she was also a real joy to talk to. Sucks I won't ever hear from her again. She was one of my first friends I made on EP, she left so unexpectingly. I mean, we were close to an extent. Not too close, of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    It appears that another EP friend,

    with whom I communicated a lot recently, has vanished, leaving no word. Oh well.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Ok.....just realised a really good friend

    disappeared completely from EP.... Anyone in contact with Tomorrowsday?? Well...that's social media for you I guess. People come and go. Good luck and all the best, my friend. šŸ˜”
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly sheĀ disappeared in here, actually Ā I know she can't get on EP much andĀ I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Very unfortunately, another female EP friend

    has vanished from EP. This one I will really miss. I don't think it was anything which I said or did, but how can I really know that? This one hurts.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jun 4, 2014

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    Yeah she left a while back.

    If she came back she obviously had a different username and doesn't remember mine. Oh well...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    Two Friends Lost

    Two very pleasant ladies, Ayne and DianeofSherwood, have disappeared from EP. I miss them. I guess I have to accept the risk that they weren't whom they presented as, but I tend to doubt that.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I lost a friend again, today. This wasn't the first time happened to me but it hurts knowing that I am poor at keeping things close. It wasn't easy for me to find a person who...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F Mar 8

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    Don't want to keep counting anymore how many friends I've lost due to growing up, different interests, and stupid arguments etc. I no longer give a **** if people walk out of my...
    TwingleLittleStar TwingleLittleStar 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    This guy X, an old friend of mine, has stopped talking to me on Facebook, stopped exchange snapchats and generally seems rather cold towards me since I started a relationship with...
    ChaoticAdvection ChaoticAdvection 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Adding one more to that list today :(
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I can't blame them for staying away from me. It was all my fault. I just can hope the best for you guys :-)
    supernerd22 supernerd22 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Theres a point in everyones life when they feel that they have no purpose to be here anymore, cause i myself have those feelings often, life is far from easy but the only thing...
    QueenQB QueenQB 16-17, F Mar 9

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    When I say friend, I mean friend as in: Actual conversing with each other, not just adding someone for the sake of self-enjoyment. On the internet, that's basically all I get, just...
    Lunakicker Lunakicker 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    I am passing out of high school this year. I'll be in college soon. I'm sure my grades won't be that great for I'm not the same me now. Since my very childhood I have been very...
    25mayni97 25mayni97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    I lost my account and I thought I just lost everything here. I cannot remember how I started over here. I just remember I talked to many friends that night and they're all very...
    mocliamA mocliamA 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I love the Internet, so many good things can happen. But also many bad things could happen. When I was super into Facebook, I met some of my best friends. And I actually got in a...
    universegirl101 universegirl101 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Today I found out that someone that I had once been close to had passed away. And while I may have lost this friend a long time ago because of a falling out, it just makes it hurt...
    jhnn0356 jhnn0356 18-21, F Mar 1

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    did you know you could lose everything? everything that gave you joy in your life? one year that happened to me . I had several best friends but when I moved schools I lost a lot...
    brookebam brookebam 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I really am going to be completely honest here and throw it all out there, I don't really have any friends at the moment. I lost all of my friends because of an emotionally and...
    allthatglitters101 allthatglitters101 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 16

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    So about a month ago I had lost my two best friends. What had happened was that one of my friends was falling on hard times and asked if she could move in with me for a month. I...
    madhatter93 madhatter93 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I dont know why i lost her whether it was he hating me or simply because she went off EP but even so knowing i cant speak to her anymore still hurts this isnt the first time ive...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    People on here don't get how hard it is to lose a 10 yr 17 yr friendship. I've known chris since birth and nate since the second grade. We did everything together, we went...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    They are very real, I have a friend in Kansas and England that I met on POGO, our friendships are very real. My friend in Kansas lost her husband last April and I just lost mine in...
    Grannygoosie Grannygoosie 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I can't help but compare myself to others. My friends are more than just full time students. Here I am at home, still living with my parents, gaming, hardly a social life and no...
    ikg00 ikg00 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I will dearly missed "Dan". He was a lot like me and I could talk to him about my problems because he shared a lot of the same. I never met him, except for here, on EP and then...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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