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I Lost An Ep Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 101 People

    This time, I lost a very dear

    and long-standing EP friend. She had said that she was likely to leave as she had other things going on in her life. I understand. Still, I will miss her very much.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 26, 2014

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    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Logged in,checked up on her

    and the account was gone.. she did say goodbye but she was a dear for such a long time.. and just like that, all the things we shared, now are just memories.. oh how i miss her.. Dear MzP, wherever you are, i hope you're happy.. you are missed,always..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Dear Manyregrets - No idea

    why you'd leave EP/ delete your acct without a word, but good luck.
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M Oct 23, 2014

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    Two Friends Lost

    Two very pleasant ladies, Ayne and DianeofSherwood, have disappeared from EP. I miss them. I guess I have to accept the risk that they weren't whom they presented as, but I tend to doubt that.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Yup....Her name was Anna.

    She really helped me out through some pretty tough times during 2014, but she was also a real joy to talk to. Sucks I won't ever hear from her again. She was one of my first friends I made on EP, she left so unexpectingly. I mean, we were close to an extent. Not too close, of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Another one bites the dust.

    Best of luck. I hope you find what you're looking for : )
    1gr8guy 1gr8guy 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Very unfortunately, another female EP friend

    has vanished from EP. This one I will really miss. I don't think it was anything which I said or did, but how can I really know that? This one hurts.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jun 4, 2014

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    I lost many EP friends

    when I shut down my account. I need to find a few of them again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    He vanished. No trace.

    Could be just a product of my imagination. Please hand me the Kleenex. He was such a good person.
    VinylEyes VinylEyes 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly she disappeared in here, actually  I know she can't get on EP much and I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    I've only been on here 2 weeks,

    but there was a lady I got along with real well, we always had answers 4 each other's questions that were appropriate (serious, funny, sarcastic etc...). We had a couple of chats (no not dirty), I was able 2 pick up on that she was rebuilding her life after divorce, working a...
    Rocknroller1262 Rocknroller1262 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    Ok.....just realised a really good friend

    disappeared completely from EP.... Anyone in contact with Tomorrowsday?? Well...that's social media for you I guess. People come and go. Good luck and all the best, my friend. 😔
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I Wish I Didn't Have to Join This Group ...

    A lot of thinking going on here today.  I am shocked and upset at the revelation that my good friend Eaudoux is leaving EP.  I understand that he wants to respect his wife's feelings about the time he spends and the material he looks at on here.  I guess that's...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Well

    The truth is how do I have any friends to begin with...I am a lunatic but still now and then some one comes along and friends me. I meant it stop it now. I can't deal with people but I can't turn them away either. They might have seen one of my post and thing oh that was...
    solarregeneration solarregeneration 41-45, T Jul 23, 2010

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    It appears that another EP friend,

    with whom I communicated a lot recently, has vanished, leaving no word. Oh well.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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    Another

    Another EP friend has completely vanished. I recognize that EP requires the suspension of disbelief to work. Like a film or a play, one pretends that the people here really are what they say they are and one plays along. Nonetheless, when someone completely disappears...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Thanks to my northern New Jersey influence, I always flip out & act a complete a**hole towards a lot of really good friends & have lost them online & in person. It sucks :(
    kingholden19 kingholden19 16-17, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I've had a tough ride through friendships and this account that I have made for myself is going to be mainly about friendships!.. In year 6 I lost two amZing friends of mine...
    D1AnGraB D1AnGraB 13-15, T Apr 9

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    I lost a friend today and it might take some time to get over, but I'll be fine without them. I guess we were just two very different people.
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I met my best friend right here on EP in 2008. He and I had a lot in common and we were extremely supportive of each other. At the time, we were both in sexless marriages, but I...
    WiltedTulip WiltedTulip 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Life has so many twists and turns, for the life of me I don't know where to go or what to do. I am struggling with my faith in God, my belief that my life is on the right path, the...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Back in 07, i was 7. I didn't really lose a friendship, he moved from the city. We always hung out with each other because we only lived two houses down. We played xbox , went bike...
    WeGonBeAlright WeGonBeAlright 13-15, M 34 mins ago

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    I said like three times I miss you, how we talked on here forever, both had nothing to do, A crazy chinese friend A crazy british friend A crazy wolf friend I was in a wolfclub...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    This is long and I'm sorry, but writing this was really cathartic. His name was Raymond, but we always called him Ray. Like a Ray of sunshine. He had trouble walking. He needed...
    scsoccer scsoccer 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My husband & I have been married for the 4.5 yrs now. We havent had our wedding yet because his mother is overseas and we couldnt get her to come for a visit somehow. We got...
    itsmeyi itsmeyi 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    Training to be a chef . not 100% sure its what i want to do any more . lonely . cut to feel something . starve because ive lost my appetite . no idea what to do any more or how to...
    devilgirl123zombie devilgirl123zombie 16-17, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Soooo..... I lost 182 lbs total. Now I'm 163. It feels awesome, but I hate having a bunch of loose skin. People are definitely nicer to me now, which is unfortunate when you think...
    danteflorz danteflorz 31-35, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I was 12 when I lost my virginity with my now ex-boyfriend who was 14. We were home alone at his house for a few hours and we decided it was the perfect time. I thought I was "in...
    Mistakes12 Mistakes12 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I have lost my dad, mum and little sister all in a span of less than 3 years. My only remaining remaining blood relative (brother) isn't talking to me anymore. Sometimes i feel so...
    kenyanlady27 kenyanlady27 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    So here's a story about what my life was like after I lost Abby. At first I thought nothing would have changed within myself I thought that Abby had changed me forever(in a bad...
    FriendshipQ FriendshipQ 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    For my dear friend CrystalBeen going through some "hard" times. Just know your beautiful and appreciated. A "beacon" of love. ::::Big bear hugs Love!:::..... Prince Bob...
    ApacheKuruk ApacheKuruk 46-50, M a week ago

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    How do I find myself again? My head is in the clouds. I don't know what I am meant to do and I don't know what I want anymore. I am confused with what my purpose is or whether I...
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel like I never want to have friends again. I've lost all 5 of my friends in my life and I just lost the best friend I ever had, and it hurts the worst because it was so...
    Anais92 Anais92 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I understand all of the comments on this page...I am 50yrs old and my best friend is my husband...as far as a GF well, the one or 2 that live near me are not really friends, and I...
    deroH deroH 46-50, F 5 hrs ago

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    I want friends in real-life. REAL friends. I have a girlfriend who is perpetually cranky, and one "mom friend" who doesn't act so much like a mom, more like a teenager, and who I...
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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