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I Lost An Ep Friend

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    It appears that another EP friend,

    with whom I communicated a lot recently, has vanished, leaving no word. Oh well.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 11

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    Yup....Her name was Anna.

    She really helped me out through some pretty tough times during 2014, but she was also a real joy to talk to. Sucks I won't ever hear from her again. She was one of my first friends I made on EP, she left so unexpectingly. I mean, we were close to an extent. Not too close, of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 20

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Well

    The truth is how do I have any friends to begin with...I am a lunatic but still now and then some one comes along and friends me. I meant it stop it now. I can't deal with people but I can't turn them away either. They might have seen one of my post and thing oh that was...
    solarregeneration solarregeneration 41-45, T Jul 23, 2010

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Dear Manyregrets - No idea

    why you'd leave EP/ delete your acct without a word, but good luck.
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M Oct 23

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    I Wish I Didn't Have to Join This Group ...

    A lot of thinking going on here today.  I am shocked and upset at the revelation that my good friend Eaudoux is leaving EP.  I understand that he wants to respect his wife's feelings about the time he spends and the material he looks at on here.  I guess that's...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    I lost many EP friends

    when I shut down my account. I need to find a few of them again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 20

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Shed

    As the majority of my 'older' EP friendships erode and dissolve, I can't help but wonder was the fault mine in having questionable standards? I shall explain: a true real friendship can survive with or without terabytes, gigabytes and megabytes. The bonds are strong enough to...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    Yeah she left a while back.

    If she came back she obviously had a different username and doesn't remember mine. Oh well...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    He vanished. No trace.

    Could be just a product of my imagination. Please hand me the Kleenex. He was such a good person.
    EruIluvatar EruIluvatar 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Two Friends Lost

    Two very pleasant ladies, Ayne and DianeofSherwood, have disappeared from EP. I miss them. I guess I have to accept the risk that they weren't whom they presented as, but I tend to doubt that.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Another

    Another EP friend has completely vanished. I recognize that EP requires the suspension of disbelief to work. Like a film or a play, one pretends that the people here really are what they say they are and one plays along. Nonetheless, when someone completely disappears...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    I lost a couple of close friends

    that meant a lot to me... I miss you all and you'll always be in my mind and my heart... Cerydwen, Taylor, Kay and Kitty I wish you all the best for your future wherever you are... I'm going to delete my old profile as it brings too many bad memories of the past... I want a...
    RazorVixen RazorVixen 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    This time, I lost a very dear

    and long-standing EP friend. She had said that she was likely to leave as she had other things going on in her life. I understand. Still, I will miss her very much.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 26

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    Very unfortunately, another female EP friend

    has vanished from EP. This one I will really miss. I don't think it was anything which I said or did, but how can I really know that? This one hurts.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jun 4

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    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly she disappeared in here, actually  I know she can't get on EP much and I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It started last year when I lost a friend because he got a girlfriend. Now I've lost nearly all of my "brothers" to chicks. I'm starting to think I deserve it somehow.
    zeusandwich zeusandwich 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    I lost about 5 friends , but I have 2 real friends that ive known since i was 6 there not even friends anymore to me there Sisters lol
    Strange143 Strange143 16-17, F Nov 29

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    I used to have many close friends but during the summer I lost all my so called "brothers" but one turns out they weren't who they made themselves out to be :(
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I feel like I hardly know her anymore we were so close and I miss that I had someone to tell things to and now I have nobody and I'm someone that wishes to have just one person...
    digglett digglett 16-17, F Dec 11

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    for no reason. People that I have relied on and trusted suddenly disappear from me. I never know why, but it's like they just drop off the face of the Earth! It hurts because I...
    SilverSerphant SilverSerphant 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    I had an awesome online friend and he posted his last message on June 16th, 2010 and then he just vanished. I keep sifting through his posts and emails and I try to find him online...
    SRayne SRayne 41-45 1 Response 2 days ago

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    They just fade away, Online and in person.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 11

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    This was early 2012 and I met my lost best friend at a party where we talked about personal things and exchanged things. We became best friends after that. I don't think she...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Nov 21

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    I remember when it happened at my school few years ago. A young boy who attended school with me suffered greatly. His name was Luciano Toscane. The story behind his suffering was...
    Barefoot1999 Barefoot1999 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    My depression has been getting worse and worse these days... So bad that I actually don't want to be friends with my best friend right now.. It's hard because my friend is there...
    dee283 dee283 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    My best friend Louise died last year of an epileptic fit in her sleep. We saw each other every day for the six cherished years we were friends for. Alcohol would render her...
    ArtLifeTaylor ArtLifeTaylor 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I lost both my parents this year due to health complications. First my step father than my mother a few months after. I did lose my biological father a few years ago too due to...
    Charles8628 Charles8628 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    i feel like the more i am growing up and becoming self aware, i am losing myself bit by bit. i have always been really weird, i have never really fit in, i have always been shy and...
    msr1122 msr1122 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Why do we feel so completely alone at times? Even the people who appear to have a perfect life are struggling. Let us all come together and not hide the fact that we all feel at a...
    wonderlust3 wonderlust3 18-21, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Holidays are upon us, but happiness can't be found. Two days before Thanksgiving, I lost my sister. The day of her burial, my nephew (brother's son ) had a blood clot in his lungs...
    RedXSue RedXSue 51-55, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Year ago, I met possibly the best friend I ever had online on a gaming website. We spent months and months supporting each other, having laughs and knowing how good we are as...
    DearAgony13 DearAgony13 18-21, M Dec 12

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    Note that this.... is an entirely different story and not the same or a repeat of the story i wrote about my racist best friend who i lost. She came after the couple of girls i'm...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey, my name is Daniel Michael R, I have hypopituitarism and this is the story of my best friend, the only girl that ever loved me. Her name is Samantha J. McClain, she was born on...
    DanielMR DanielMR 18-21 1 Response Nov 26

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    a month ago i lost my best friend after 10/5 years of being attatched to eachother. unfortunely my baby girl took her life after a number of things she was experiencing and didnt...
    lilmiss02 lilmiss02 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I lost a friend today. I had been friends with her for about 2 year. I did somewhat see this coming though but that doesn't change how much it hurts. She was also easy to deal with...
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M Dec 2

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    Warning, this is long, but I feel as though I have to tell the full details of the story. Even if no one responds, I just need the catharsis of letting it all out for once...
    sketchit sketchit 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    I was told from a very young age that my mother would die young due to her server MS, however it was not MS that took her away, it was cancer. I was 15 when she passed away and I...
    risaroo22 risaroo22 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I just feel lost and hopeless. I lost the love of my life, my career and my bestest friend. Even though i have a new life now. I can't seem to enjoy it. I can't seem to find...
    ivory0510 ivory0510 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Lost in a song, missing you. Each strike of the lyrics singing in a harmony making me reminisce about each friendship I've held and lost. Though I can't reach out and contact, I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 8