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I Lost An Ep Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 98 People

    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly she disappeared in here, actually  I know she can't get on EP much and I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Yup....Her name was Anna.

    She really helped me out through some pretty tough times during 2014, but she was also a real joy to talk to. Sucks I won't ever hear from her again. She was one of my first friends I made on EP, she left so unexpectingly. I mean, we were close to an extent. Not too close, of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Ok.....just realised a really good friend

    disappeared completely from EP.... Anyone in contact with Tomorrowsday?? Well...that's social media for you I guess. People come and go. Good luck and all the best, my friend. 😔
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Yeah she left a while back.

    If she came back she obviously had a different username and doesn't remember mine. Oh well...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    Dear Manyregrets - No idea

    why you'd leave EP/ delete your acct without a word, but good luck.
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M Oct 23, 2014

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Two Friends Lost

    Two very pleasant ladies, Ayne and DianeofSherwood, have disappeared from EP. I miss them. I guess I have to accept the risk that they weren't whom they presented as, but I tend to doubt that.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Very unfortunately, another female EP friend

    has vanished from EP. This one I will really miss. I don't think it was anything which I said or did, but how can I really know that? This one hurts.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jun 4, 2014

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    He vanished. No trace.

    Could be just a product of my imagination. Please hand me the Kleenex. He was such a good person.
    EruIluvatar EruIluvatar 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    Another

    Another EP friend has completely vanished. I recognize that EP requires the suspension of disbelief to work. Like a film or a play, one pretends that the people here really are what they say they are and one plays along. Nonetheless, when someone completely disappears...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    This time, I lost a very dear

    and long-standing EP friend. She had said that she was likely to leave as she had other things going on in her life. I understand. Still, I will miss her very much.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 26, 2014

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    Well

    The truth is how do I have any friends to begin with...I am a lunatic but still now and then some one comes along and friends me. I meant it stop it now. I can't deal with people but I can't turn them away either. They might have seen one of my post and thing oh that was...
    solarregeneration solarregeneration 41-45, T Jul 23, 2010

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    I Wish I Didn't Have to Join This Group ...

    A lot of thinking going on here today.  I am shocked and upset at the revelation that my good friend Eaudoux is leaving EP.  I understand that he wants to respect his wife's feelings about the time he spends and the material he looks at on here.  I guess that's...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    It appears that another EP friend,

    with whom I communicated a lot recently, has vanished, leaving no word. Oh well.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    I lost many EP friends

    when I shut down my account. I need to find a few of them again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I have no idea what to do with my life. I'm completely lost. I never had "goals" or "dream jobs". I just got my Bachelor's degree in something I'm not even remotely interested and...
    mtea mtea 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    There's a want and there's a hate. There's things ppl can't meet in the middle and get along. I for one will always remember a friend that I lost. I want to be friends with him...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    i would only be heartbroken if I lost one of my close ep friends! there is a small handful of you guys that if any one of you ever left... then tears would be shed... XD SO DON'T...
    Slothislife Slothislife 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    We met at work in 2011. He was charming, funny, and handsome. He had a crooked smile that could make anyone fall in love. He was the cool guy, the one people warned me about. "I...
    followthesea followthesea 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F Feb 20

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    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    I just want to know it's over. I ruined it, which means I'm not the one who wants to step away from it. It started with them shutting and not talking to me or anyone I knew. I...
    davegvon davegvon 26-30, M Feb 14

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    I had lost just one friend. May you rest in peace gentle soul. I hope I don't lost others. I had knocked on wood.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Ever since 1st grade I met a guy who's been my bestest friend all my life. A few years after we've never been closer than before and I started to have a crush on him. I soon told...
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    One day I was living in peace and joy, everything seem to be going great, i was happy, i had friends, sure i was sick and in pain, i had few places to go. but then something happen...
    flyingangel7 flyingangel7 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    Yeah, I lost him. I've lost my love, my heart, my soul, and my everything. He just told me that he's changed and that his old self won't be back. Its partly for something I said a...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I dont know why i lost her whether it was he hating me or simply because she went off EP but even so knowing i cant speak to her anymore still hurts this isnt the first time ive...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 13-15, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Well basically I lost my best friend over a racist comment Honestly I'm not even sad I believe that best friends shouldn't care about what u say or do But only if ur there for...
    Aroura666 Aroura666 16-17, F Feb 14

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