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I Lost An Ep Friend

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Very unfortunately, another female EP friend

    has vanished from EP. This one I will really miss. I don't think it was anything which I said or did, but how can I really know that? This one hurts.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jun 4

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    Well

    The truth is how do I have any friends to begin with...I am a lunatic but still now and then some one comes along and friends me. I meant it stop it now. I can't deal with people but I can't turn them away either. They might have seen one of my post and thing oh that was...
    solarregeneration solarregeneration 41-45, T Jul 23, 2010

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    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly she disappeared in here, actually  I know she can't get on EP much and I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Shed

    As the majority of my 'older' EP friendships erode and dissolve, I can't help but wonder was the fault mine in having questionable standards? I shall explain: a true real friendship can survive with or without terabytes, gigabytes and megabytes. The bonds are strong enough to...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I lost many EP friends

    when I shut down my account. I need to find a few of them again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I just came back today

    after putting my account on vacation for 4 weeks as I was living in a remote place with no internet, to find that one of my most valued friends on EP has deleted her account. We were so close, and I promised to contact her on my return, and I am heartbroken to find all our...
    princessalison princessalison 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    I Wish I Didn't Have to Join This Group ...

    A lot of thinking going on here today.  I am shocked and upset at the revelation that my good friend Eaudoux is leaving EP.  I understand that he wants to respect his wife's feelings about the time he spends and the material he looks at on here.  I guess that's...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Yup....Her name was Anna.

    She really helped me out through some pretty tough times during 2014, but she was also a real joy to talk to. Sucks I won't ever hear from her again. She was one of my first friends I made on EP, she left so unexpectingly. I mean, we were close to an extent. Not too close, of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Didn't mean to offend her ,

    now I miss talking to her.
    girlyboy42 girlyboy42 41-45, T 2 Responses Jun 20

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    Two Friends Lost

    Two very pleasant ladies, Ayne and DianeofSherwood, have disappeared from EP. I miss them. I guess I have to accept the risk that they weren't whom they presented as, but I tend to doubt that.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Another

    Another EP friend has completely vanished. I recognize that EP requires the suspension of disbelief to work. Like a film or a play, one pretends that the people here really are what they say they are and one plays along. Nonetheless, when someone completely disappears...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I had this group of friends whom i was very close to. One day i had an argument with one of them over something very stupid. And we stopped talking. Over a couple of weeks i...
    AreebaHussain AreebaHussain 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I feel like I've lost all my friends again. I wonder why I keep losing contact with all these people? If you are one of my friends and you ended up talking to me in the past couple...
    e3drummer e3drummer 22-25, M Jul 31

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    I have never felt more alone. I don't know why, but all of my friends have just seemed go have given up on me. It's wrecked my confidence and I'm having trouble feeling any kind of...
    waterechoes waterechoes 22-25, F Aug 5

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    I declined the birthday invitations, from the only two people I really talk to. I noticed that the older I get the more I need to put afford into my relationships. Both are less...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    A close friend of mine doesn't talk to me much. He keeps me at a distance these days. Even when I call him, he is always in a rush to finish n hang up. He takes days to respond to...
    stuckinlife247 stuckinlife247 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's not the character that changes, it's the masks that falls off😱
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Jul 30

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    As soon as I saw her, i felt butterflies in my stomach as I approached the girl I haven't seen in years. We talked and caught up on things. That was until I woke up and realized...
    Codeman320 Codeman320 22-25, M Aug 6

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    They come and go for a reason, but you know sometimes it hurts to be strangers again
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Heey, guys! How are you doing? I hope you're doing fine. I found this ask.fm that seems to help people with advice. I just thought I should tell people. www.ask.fm/StepIntoMyOffice...
    Maoli Maoli 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I do believe that it is easy to find friends online. I also feel that it's totally okay if you start dating or fall in love with each other. I have found many lost friends through...
    devomkar devomkar 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I do and I dont. I've always had the desires of gaining weight, but I currently sit in between right now. I probably outweigh most of my friends cause they're skinny, and I'm both...
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               • Use easy paver patterns in tiny regions and save ornate models for much larger expansesLimestone is also particularly strong and will stand up to...
    Trenton3 Trenton3 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've focused a lot on my fetish, but let me add a little depth to my personality. This is about the greatest friendship I ever had and lost. I'm an army brat, so I moved around a...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M Aug 6

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Despite my friendly and nice guy image I show to people, I have always kept myself private that is why I'm actually misunderstood as an outgoing person. I'm actually shy and I don...
    luigigreene luigigreene 18-21, M Jul 23

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    I lost my little brother to a heroin overdose two years ago. He was nineteen, only a year younger than me. I had no memory of a life without him. He was my best friend and we were...
    MonetChere MonetChere 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am deeply in love with my husband. We have been friends since we were 12 years old. We lost contact after high school. We both married other people. My first husband passed away...
    newlife01 newlife01 51-55, F Aug 4

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    My EP friends mean everything to me , it's true , i would be heart broken if i lost one of them , especially one who has always been there for me who i thought i would get to talk...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 13-15, F Jul 24

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    They didn't pass away but we fell out over something I think wasn't worth falling out over. A message I didnt complete because I got distracted whilst texting and never got to...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Hello, I just joined here and this is my first post and I am not sure how all this works. Honestly, I joined here because I need a place I can let my emotions out after losing my...
    lonelyislandgirl lonelyislandgirl 22-25, F a week ago

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    A letter a a Friend First a little background. I moved from my hometown to Massachusetts cause my dad got transferred then we had to move back down. I made a friend (not gonna...
    Piglover102 Piglover102 22-25, M Aug 13

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    My best friend. We were best friends ever since we were three years old. She did not wish to be my best friend anymore about a month ago. She questioned our friendship, lost the...
    DestinyChance DestinyChance 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yesterday I posted some things about how a friend of mine was mad at me and and ignoring me because he sent me a message and I didn't see it until 2 hours later. He was mad that I...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So ever since i got back from the clinic ive had no interest in life. i just lost about everything. and dont tell me i still have people because i dont have friends and i havent...
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 16-17, M Jul 22

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    I love someone and would give the world to have her, but..... I'm in such deep love with someone, and I cannot shut her out of my mind, not even for a second. I wake up several...
    aldream221 aldream221 31-35, M Jul 23

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    Hello EP users! I honestly allways wanted to know where i can find people who had it tough in life. For example women who never had a good and pretty boyfriend , so like in my case...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Jul 23

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    What was I thinking? I lost my wallet in the supermarket. I reported it to the lost and found counter and waited 2 hours but no one has turned it in. I reported it to the police...
    Sugaray0212 Sugaray0212 31-35 2 Responses Aug 1

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    My bestfriend and I were closer than close. We had an unbreakable bond. We did almost everything together. We talked/texted every day basically all the time. I met her in Junior...
    justkeepgoingfoward justkeepgoingfoward 16-17, F Aug 1

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    So my ex best friend prank called me at 1am telling me to go burn in hell and die well **** him I might just go do that live with that guilt you c*nt I just don't get what...
    Lolbeansarefun Lolbeansarefun 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 25

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