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I Lost An Ep Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 100 People

    Gettinby and Leafwindblown

    this is just so sad.. their accounts were already deleted.  i've never really noticed it till now. i know that they may have a reason for leaving EP.  there is no permanent thing in this world anyway, but it pains me to think that i've yet again lost two of my...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I lost many EP friends

    when I shut down my account. I need to find a few of them again.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I Wonder Who Left!!

    Last night I got a new friend,that made my friends count 60 even.Today I'm back down to 59,I checked my list to see if it was the guy who became my friend last night but he's still there.I checked my list to try to figure out who left but I can't figure it out.I think I'm going...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F Nov 27, 2008

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    I Wish I Didn't Have to Join This Group ...

    A lot of thinking going on here today.  I am shocked and upset at the revelation that my good friend Eaudoux is leaving EP.  I understand that he wants to respect his wife's feelings about the time he spends and the material he looks at on here.  I guess that's...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    This time, I lost a very dear

    and long-standing EP friend. She had said that she was likely to leave as she had other things going on in her life. I understand. Still, I will miss her very much.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 26, 2014

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    Ok.....just realised a really good friend

    disappeared completely from EP.... Anyone in contact with Tomorrowsday?? Well...that's social media for you I guess. People come and go. Good luck and all the best, my friend. šŸ˜”
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Where Art Thou, Jing?

    Well I made a very good friend called Jing. I uused to mostly just talk to people on the chat part of EP but Jing was never on the chat part so I could only mail her. She added me and I sent her a mail saying hi, and asking her where she was from etc. I felt like I really got...
    SDuWarriorInf SDuWarriorInf 31-35, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Several Actually

    I guess ppl come and go. Some I still keep in contact with while others are never heard of again. It happens and that's part of life. Not a happy feeling but we move on I guess.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Mar 1, 2008

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    He vanished. No trace.

    Could be just a product of my imagination. Please hand me the Kleenex. He was such a good person.
    EruIluvatar EruIluvatar 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    From Jlt To Iol

    It was the best of times and it was the worst of times when arguably the most storied friendships of mine on EP came vividly to life. We met by chance through shared stories and what seemed like shared values. It progressed and evolved to the realm of daily life, sensuality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1, 2011

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    Oh Ep!

    We used to message everyday exchanging very very long messages! :)) Talking about everything and even pretty personal stuff, and when we are not on EP, we would message on FB, but suddenly sheĀ disappeared in here, actually Ā I know she can't get on EP much andĀ I also know she...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Another

    Another EP friend has completely vanished. I recognize that EP requires the suspension of disbelief to work. Like a film or a play, one pretends that the people here really are what they say they are and one plays along. Nonetheless, when someone completely disappears...
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    Two Friends Lost

    Two very pleasant ladies, Ayne and DianeofSherwood, have disappeared from EP. I miss them. I guess I have to accept the risk that they weren't whom they presented as, but I tend to doubt that.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Not Sure What Happened

     I have been on EP in less then a week.  During my time here someone became very special to me and I alway looked forward to talking with her.  She was the kind that I felt I could share anything with.  She told me she had strong feelings...
    denverguy denverguy 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Yup....Her name was Anna.

    She really helped me out through some pretty tough times during 2014, but she was also a real joy to talk to. Sucks I won't ever hear from her again. She was one of my first friends I made on EP, she left so unexpectingly. I mean, we were close to an extent. Not too close, of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Shed

    As the majority of my 'older' EP friendships erode and dissolve, I can't help but wonder was the fault mine in having questionable standards? I shall explain: a true real friendship can survive with or without terabytes, gigabytes and megabytes. The bonds are strong enough to...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I Lost Some

    I lost some ep friends; I do miss them. I wish some will come back. I am starting to get immune to friends who leave ep; it doesn't hurt that much anymore but it still makes me sad.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    It appears that another EP friend,

    with whom I communicated a lot recently, has vanished, leaving no word. Oh well.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Sep 11, 2014

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    He Deleted His Account....

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M May 24, 2008

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    Very unfortunately, another female EP friend

    has vanished from EP. This one I will really miss. I don't think it was anything which I said or did, but how can I really know that? This one hurts.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jun 4, 2014

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    Yeah she left a while back.

    If she came back she obviously had a different username and doesn't remember mine. Oh well...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    Well

    The truth is how do I have any friends to begin with...I am a lunatic but still now and then some one comes along and friends me. I meant it stop it now. I can't deal with people but I can't turn them away either. They might have seen one of my post and thing oh that was...
    solarregeneration solarregeneration 41-45, T Jul 23, 2010

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    Dear Manyregrets - No idea

    why you'd leave EP/ delete your acct without a word, but good luck.
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M Oct 23, 2014

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    Perhaps I Was Naive. . .

    At least that is the impression I get from some. Is it really so unreasonable to expect that someone you've been close with online for years wouldn't just disappear with a click?In a way, I feel foolish for being so hurt by it. But another part of me feels like--Hey! We were...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    It seems I keep saying the wrong thing to people. Even though I just read the experience and asked about it. Guess I'm just a bad person.
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I thought they would be here when my life was getting bad and things turned sour, not turn and leave without a word.
    Harper101 Harper101 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I didn't think I needed to write this. I don't hide that I'm married. But recently I had a friend that got attached and thought maybe we could be more than friends. Said he couldn...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 12

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    i have lost friends idk how or why but all the sudden even my best friends have abandoned me and for what? i haven't done anything its like everyone hates me like one day this girl...
    NagaTheForgottenOne NagaTheForgottenOne 16-17 Jan 5

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    I was supposed to be the maid of honor on Halloween. Maybe I still will be just to spite her. After all, now that I'm not going to the wedding, I can dress up however I want. That...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 36 mins ago

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    Before I begin positing about my experiences, I'd like the world to know where I am at and where I have been. After my father passed away in 1994 (I was 2 and my sister turned 1...
    SamRoberts3 SamRoberts3 22-25, M Jan 14

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    I haven't written a thing in a month. I have had no words to say, just dealing with myfeelings. Yes, my feelings, are all over the place like an abandoned animal left to fendon its...
    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 56-60, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    About two years ago I met a most wonderful guy at school who everyone avoided. No one would talk to him, maybe because during the summer he went to a mental hospital. I was new to...
    jasperbites jasperbites 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I met Noah and his brother in 2013. We were both in a dark place in our lives and pretty lost. His brother simon was the most beautiful person in the world and kept us both...
    MindlessMatters MindlessMatters 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    I've lost quite a few close friends.. I had a girl that I first met in sixth grade. At first, her and I were enemies. We would argue, and we thought that she lied, but I decided to...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I haven't had a girl best friend since I lost my 5 best friends gradually throughout middle school and high school. I lost the last one towards the end of 10th grade. I haven't had...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Social media has been no cure. Granted I am young and some may view me as having "my whole life left to make friends", but let me tell you why this is not the case. 1. It is...
    Vicereine Vicereine 70+, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a clique, filled with 6 besties I had acknowledged. Right now, all of them are gone. Although we still keep in touch, but the bond and friendship that we had had been...
    Dlyz Dlyz 16-17, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I was young when I lost the love of my life, to young, I thought I didn't even know what love was. But its been almost 3 years now (in a couple weeks) that I lost him. I am now...
    livingwithlife livingwithlife 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    My experience started the end of summer starting my sophomore year. My family moved as we just lost our house. The house my parents rented had a guy living next door that was a bit...
    princesskimber princesskimber 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    i lost my friend i lost my gf i lost my happiness i lost my confidence i lost my heart i didnt lose anything else bcuz i dont have anything else
    ImALoner13 ImALoner13 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I am craving something deep. In my past relationships I have been lied too and brought down. In ways I never expected. I allowed myself to go down very dark paths with men I...
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    hi, i am chrysa and i lost someone really important to me... I lost my best friend. I feel so alone cause we were so close and know i have no one
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 3

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    Well, there are some things I can't say here, due to the fact that it would give some people my name or the name of my friend, but this is what happened. First of all...
    Alvinus Alvinus 16-17, M Jan 7

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    Many years ago when when I was in college, there was this guy who was a guidance counselor. Basically, it was his job to help students who wanted to transfer out of the two year...
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    i've just lost my fave online friend. i've already wrote about her on another post,tho. and i was pretty shocked that she mentioned i was like selfish. anyway..i found this. i just...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Well my grandfather passed away on New Year's Eve and I told my best friend. When school started she didn't even come to see if I was ok. Instead one of my friends that lost her...
    alice123422 alice123422 13-15, F Jan 15

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