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I Lost Contact With a Friend

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    Worried

    Around April time of this year, two friends of mine moved over to Australia, which is a long way from the Uk. I've completely lost contact with them now. It's a shame, they were really groovy people and always made me laugh. Another friend I've lost contact with actually...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Nov 26, 2007

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    Dominique

    Our parents were friends, and we went round to hers. I was attracted to her, from a very young age - 5yo? I remember these feelings distinctly. We went to Cinema City in Norwich together, and it was the best. There was a sandpit in her garden I think, and a slide. Then we lost...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M Jul 25, 2009

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    Nostalgic Dreams

    We were friends as little girls. We went to the same kinder, and lived just down the road from one another. She claims we had a dirt pile that we played on at her house. I don't remember it. I do, however, have countless other memories with her in them. Of us dressing up in the...
    FateCantDecide FateCantDecide 22-25, F Mar 10, 2009

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    My Biggest Regret

    B.A.J. if only I had known how to deal with my feelings.. how to talk about what was going on inside my head.. If only I had been a real friend to you...... I cared so much about you but I couldn't be there for you.. I was so wrapped-up in my self.. What a fool I was. I never...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2009

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    Well I lost contact with someone on here she

    was a really special person to me if anyone knows a girl with the username Winner69 tell her to contact me please
    GGTSS2014 GGTSS2014 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 3

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    It Was a Decision

    I had to make the decision to keep certain friends or to keep my boyfriend. I made the decision to keep my boyfriend, but I still miss my friends.
    ameeker ameeker 21-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2007

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    I Lost Contact With Him..

    I just lost an EP friend.. His name is palecowboy (real name is James).. I think he deleted his account because everyone doesn't replied his stories.. Anyone know him? If you know him, can you tell me his e-mail?
    SHIKARASU SHIKARASU 16-17, M 2 Responses May 24, 2008

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    I Like To Think I Try

    I am not that social and have always had trouble balancing wanting to be in the company of others and wanting attention versus wanting to avoid negative attention and wanting time to myself. Even when I was little, I'd invite a friend to sleep over and then get annoyed when they...
    RakTalBu RakTalBu 18-21, M Nov 4, 2011

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    Starrose

    We became fast friends, only to lose her cuz I creeped her out. After 2.5 months, I got her back, only to have her block me again. Amanda, if you're out there, please respond to my story. As for her friends, if anyone's spreading bad stuff about me, shut up.
    Longislanderman Longislanderman 16-17, M Jan 13, 2012

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    A Friendship Lost

    Cassie* and I grew up together. Our moms were close friends; we were neighbors; and even though she was a year ahead of me in school, we went to school together.     Then things changed when Cassie went to live with her dad permanently, when he gained custody of...
    BookPrincess08 BookPrincess08 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2008

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    She Used To Be My Best Friend.

         We were best friends for years and years.  From about kindergarten to 5th grade.  We'd hang out every single day, except maybe some days on the weekend.  All day at school, and then after that, all day at one of our houses.  We'd have...
    dancelaughlove dancelaughlove 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2010

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    I Wish I Could Get In Contact Again.

    When I was little I met a great friend called Holly, we happened to be in the same hospital in the same ward and she was around about my age and had some of the same problems as me.  She had come all the way from sydney because of some emergency crisis wth her glass eye...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 9, 2008

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    Where Art Thou..?

    Listening to this song by LeAnn Womack called I hope you dance takes me back to the summer when i was on the Coast of Washington in various small towns..... the song makes me think of a boy named Kevin Teske.. I really do believe he was my first sort of summer fling/love... I...
    AuThEnTiC AuThEnTiC 19-21, F Dec 24, 2007

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    pjline pjline 41-45, M Mar 19

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    Friend Dumped

    Feeling sad, angry, humiliated, and heartbroken. Friend who was like a mother to me for 27 years just stopped saying anything to me. i asked what was wrong six months ago, she lied to me and said she was lost. Had no idea. Then she iced me out. Now I'm questioning myself all the...
    Hettybelle Hettybelle 31-35, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I Saw Her But Now A Stranger

    Yesterday, I went to the mall and saw her walking towards my path. It across to my mind that she remembers me and assuming that she walking towards me  to say hello.  I was also anxious to approach her and asked how she was doing. But when I was walking towards her...
    Dumstey Dumstey 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    Very Sad....

    I've had quite a few frineds that I've just quit talking to all together. It's sad really, all of them were great people but for some strange reason we all grew apart. It's really that I don't get to talk to any of them as much as before....
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2008

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    Though You Are Gone, The Memory Will Remain

    It was a long time ago...about 16 years ago now...I may never hear from or see her again, and if our paths cross I may never know it, nor may she. I will always remember the friendship we had though.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Jan 29, 2012

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    Get Over It...i Am Trying

    Today I discovered that I am a really big loser. By saying loser I don’t mean being ugly or not popular or any of these stupid stuff. Being a loser means losing the real you. I am 20 now. Let’s start from the beginning. When I was very young,  I didn’t have a nice...
    GoOdGiRLgOnEtOobAd GoOdGiRLgOnEtOobAd 18-21, F Dec 30, 2010

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    Why Do I Care So Much About A Friend I Don't Like?

    This person is someone I have known for about three years. I first met him when I was a freshman at college, we used to hang out quite often, but it often resulted in an unpleasant experience. Right now we are both seniors. He was my closest and pretty much only real friend I had...
    DG64 DG64 18-21 Nov 23, 2009

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    ~~school~~

    I always knew that school would rip some very important friends away from me... But I never knew that I would grow so fond of my friends this dearly. A girl that I met way back in 5th grade, who I'll call Bea* (fake name), was that special someone. She would always invite me to...
    MattyJunior MattyJunior 13-15, F Aug 22, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    yeah !one allways feels such things happen to others not to u but when u do come to know u are loosin one early in life u just feel numb ,,shattered..devastated..lost..and keep...
    romell romell 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I lost my best friend of 18 years, After a long and devastating battle with bone cancer. If you look at my age you will realise that's pretty much as far back as I can remember. It...
    HarrietsRevenge HarrietsRevenge 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Have Lost My Best Friend Well it's been 4 years today since you were taken away from Mr Jamie my best friend my gay soul mate you made me laugh always you made me smile when I was...
    leahlovesyou leahlovesyou 18-21, F Sep 6

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    We had a great day with friends while drinking beer and eating grilled chicken.One of my best true friend got drunked and went to my neighboors room.Sorry for her coz the person...
    meagsss meagsss 26-30, F Aug 22

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    I don't drink regularly, but I LOVE a chill night out with friends.
    Liaannmarie Liaannmarie 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not to death. She just left. That's it. she didn't say anything. I didn't do anything. I didn't get an explanation. One day we loved each, the next she doesn't want anything to do...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    So, I have a unique story. I have been diagnosed with panic attacks and being bipolar just this past year. I thought of suicide but never went through with it. I got locked up in a...
    shmaves shmaves 26-30, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    In August 7th - the day before going on vacation with my family , I got a phone call from me best friends mother , saying that hey got into a car crash - later on I was told that a...
    xMusixForeverx xMusixForeverx 16-17, F Sep 6

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    he's now 17 & we haven't talked in a long time. we were best friends & I just can't stop thinking about him now. over the summer my friend and I went swimming her pond and he and...
    chelsey1214 chelsey1214 13-15, F Sep 3

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    My best friend just died (an hour or so ago) and I still don't know how to handle it 😭 her and her twin had the same heart surgery (the first twin a year ago) and my friends...
    cloneofthecastaways cloneofthecastaways 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Her brothers baby mama hates me and doesn't believe me. She doesn't see how rude she is to me and how she's manipulating their entire family. She doesn't see that it hurts me to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    Well it's been 4 years today since you were taken away from Mr Jamie my best friend my gay soul mate you made me laugh always you made me smile when I was sad you had ny back like...
    leahlovesyou leahlovesyou 18-21, F Sep 6

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    Her name was Meghan I have known her since kindergarten we were just always friends if also met my right hand man Riley but what happened to Meghan was most of her family lives in...
    Rustablerock Rustablerock 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    It appears that another EP friend, with whom I communicated a lot recently, has vanished, leaving no word. Oh well.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M a week ago

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    I told one of my friends something really personal about me. Something I never really told anyone. I told him I may be transgender FTM and I'm thinking of taking hormones. At this...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    losing somebody you care about is hard when you know there better off with out u..
    azcat28 azcat28 41-45, M Aug 24

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    15 months of my life were completely wasted. I put all of my heart and dedication for my ex-boyfriend into our relationship. and poof, it just ended. I don't understand it though...
    KaityLove99 KaityLove99 13-15, F Sep 4

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    I have been NC with my NPD mom and the rest of her codependent herd for almost 2 years now....
    bellisk bellisk 41-45, F Sep 5

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    this is the drawing she said i copy her, but i didn'tI was repeating the year, when he entered a new student whose name, I'm not here, will be X because she does not deserve to...
    lovingCuteSmartGirl lovingCuteSmartGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    All the time :) but you gotta make sure they're ya friend first
    ciciyoshi ciciyoshi 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I am moving and they dont seem to care. Even my best friend...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I have done it in the past but not with current friends.
    JustmeinSeattle JustmeinSeattle 61-65, M Aug 21

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    So I need some ideas. This guy and I are new friends and we want to hang out and get to know each other better. Usually everyone picks what we are doing and I go along with plans...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Several times at hot springs, skinnydipping in a lake once, taking sponge baths with a couple we were backpacking with...
    JustmeinSeattle JustmeinSeattle 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    His name was Chad. He was the nicest guy ever. He joked about rude things. That was just to hide his sadness though. It's my fault he's gone. I pulled that trigger. I called him an...
    RichardEmoBoy RichardEmoBoy 18-21, M Sep 10

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    She totally screwed me over and I've been acting so tough about it but it really hurts.
    hopeandlovex hopeandlovex 16-17, F Sep 10

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    If aliens exist why don't they invade us already???? I mean, I wanna see one before I die!!!! Hurry up already =_=
    BoredBread2 BoredBread2 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hey, so long as they don't just outright destroy us for being the planet killing, constantly warring, self indulged race that we unfortunately are, by all means, I'd love to see...
    scrtasnman13 scrtasnman13 18-21, M 6 days ago

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