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I Lost My Children to Parental Alienation

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    I extend my hands to reach out to my lovely children, but my ex-husband continues to cut off my fingers. Every day, I grieve the loss of motherhood. I am a good mommy and I am...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    To Love And Lost Is Better Than To Never Loved At All , A Mothers Story - I am a Mum who loves her 2 Daughters with all my heart but one person ( my ex partner of 22 years ) has...
    suewilson1 suewilson1 36-40 6 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    Extreme Parental Alienation - My name is Joe and I am having a huge problem that consumes me and I don’t know what to do. I have two daughters, Kelly and Leanne whom I have not...
    nayshune nayshune 46-50, M 6 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    I have been out of my house for almost a year because of my abusive wife and living with the fighting and arguments was all I could take and it wasn't healthy for my children. I...
    DesperateFather1591 DesperateFather1591 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Broken Angels - Is it not so sad that if you search for Parental Alienation you come across so many sites dedicated to those who lost their children during divorce. Why does the...
    Skulpie Skulpie 31-35, F Jun 16, 2010

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    Getting Stronger Slowly - Each day is different. Some days I'm fine others I'm not. When I step back and look at it as months I'm getting better each month. I cut all contact and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    I Miss Them A Little.. A Little Too Much, A Little Too Often, A Little More Everyday... - Two beautiful girls, age 14 & 16 just up and one day decided they didn't need a mother...
    srealtor srealtor 36-40 7 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I have not seen or spoken to my daughter since December 15 2012. I miss her everyday. I just hope that one day she knows how much I love her and how hard I'm fighting to keep her...
    pumkin4 pumkin4 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    My Son - His mom started off small in alienating me and I did not see it until it was to late.  She started with saying negative things about me to him and saying she was...
    ImOver00 ImOver00 36-40, M 11 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Shattered Heart Empty Life - I held them in my arms the moment they entered this world after months of feeling them grow and thrive in my body but now my arms are empty because of...
    hmngbrd67 hmngbrd67 41-45, F Oct 14, 2013

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    Today Is My Daughter's Birthday... - Today is my daughter's birthday.I can remember, almost as if it were yesterday, this day, nearly two decades ago, when I was blessed to witness...
    lookin4ward lookin4ward 51-55, M 5 Responses Sep 18, 2011

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    I Haven't Seen My Son Or Daughter In A Year - I always had a great relationship with my kids.  Growing up, I wanted to be a father.  One who took the kids camping...
    Ianand Ianand 46-50, M 23 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    Unfinished - My daughter, fawn-frail bright eyes beseeching My son, runaway-train a smile like God's own blessing Each night I see them standing at my knee Forever...
    hettieh hettieh 46-50 1 Response Jul 31, 2012

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    My ex used to say things like "you're lucky I put up with you, no one else would want you" & "I don't want to be anywhere YOU are." He'd refuse to participate with the family for...
    Chanrhu Chanrhu 51-55, F Dec 6, 2013

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    A Poem For All The Victims In This Group And Beyond, It'S Called....I Am...
    Dadleftdevastated Dadleftdevastated 46-50 4 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Missing My Son - It has been over 2 yrs since I have had contact with my son. He is 19 now. I missed high school graduation and prom but mostly the everyday things. His mother...
    liedaboutanddemonized liedaboutanddemonized 46-50 Jun 23, 2013

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    Siblings Of Parental Alienation - I lost my (half) siblings to parental alienation, after suffering it myself. Can anyone sympathize? Is there an EP page for people like me? I've...
    ijustneedafriend ijustneedafriend 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    From Divorce To Parental Alienation - After 27 years of marriage my wife wanted her "freedom" from me. I didn't see it coming. I can think of a few things I could've handled...
    FrancisCS FrancisCS 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2013

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    I got the divorce to save myself. I could not live with the endless verbal emotional abuse that went on for 20 years. I stopped breathing at home and I knew it was only a matter...
    NoDavid NoDavid 46-50 2 Responses Feb 17

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    My ex used to say things like "you're lucky I put up with you, no one else would want you" & "I don't want to be anywhere YOU are." He'd refuse to participate with the family for...
    Chanrhu Chanrhu 51-55, F Dec 6, 2013

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    My girlfriend suffers from severe depression and I feel completely helpless. I have known her for 19 months now and we have been dating the last 6 months. I love her with all of...
    ACaringPartner ACaringPartner 22-25, M Jan 28

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    It Is What It Is...A Legal Kidnapping - "It Is What It Is"--- printed on a wooden sign in my barn---used to refer to the "cowboy way"...horses, acceptance of our limitations, and...
    momtana momtana 41-45 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Holding On To Hope - As I watch my children walk away, to spend the weeks apart from me, I ask myself, how can this be… These are the children that once clung to me. Oh Lord, how...
    fav5 fav5 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    This is my situation. I had my son when I was 20 (I already had a baby 1 year prior from a rape) I met my son's father who was physically abusive and I was coerced into going out...
    lizhogin lizhogin 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I left my wife and home on Aug 5th 2013. I have yet to physically see my daughters ever since. My youngest is 12 and oldest is now 18. The 12 yr old is my biological and the 18yr...
    jrstone55 jrstone55 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Looking For William - This is William George Albert Carr born In London, Ontario , my son.  This picture dated Feb. 2006 is the last time we had any contact with each other.Since...
    lookingforwill lookingforwill 51-55, M 4 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    The New Wife Of My X Has Turned My Kids Against Me. - For the last 8 years my ex has done all he can to turn my kids against me. he's been working with his new wife who he cheated...
    4crumbs 4crumbs 31-35 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    My Daughter Died A Second Time - After sixteen years of a hellish marriages, I left in 2005.  We have four children, currently ages 18, 16, 8, and 6.  For the first 30...
    minustwo minustwo 41-45 7 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    call it what you want ..but have lost her the guilt is indescribable ......i tried with her dad for years sat there covering up for him ....in his darkest hour cleaning up his...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 1 Response Apr 7

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    My Girl! - shes gone ! i came to this town eight years ago after being in my home town for thirty years, my daughter was then 2.5 years old , it got really hard i could not cope...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 6 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Change - Fclu.org is an organization actively pursuing change in the court system for custody battles in high conflict divorce.
    Sundaysara Sundaysara 31-35 1 Response Jan 22, 2013

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    I Want To Murder Parental Alienation - I created a group called I Want to Murder Parental Alienation. I encourage all in this group to join. In my profession, day after day, I...
    Jennifurby Jennifurby 41-45 10 Responses May 1, 2012

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    My Life As An Alienated Mom. - I can remember as a kid all I ever wanted to be was a mom. I remember crying the night i married because i knew deeply I had married the wrong person...
    vincaflowersss vincaflowersss 41-45 2 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    my children have not spoken to me or any one in my family for almost 18 years. It is beyond heartbreaking.
    ruthrking ruthrking 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    I have 14 teen years son and he doesn't want to see me. He tells me nasty things that I heard from his mother before. She blocked me from his phone. She told me in front of him...
    chris0202 chris0202 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Dear All Of You In Pain - Dear friends that I have never met, I shall share with you my true experience. It has been 23 years since I divorced the mother of our four children. I...
    IUSEDTOBEDAD IUSEDTOBEDAD 46-50 4 Responses May 7, 2013

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    My 12 year old daughter has been living with her dad for 3 years. She moved in with him a few months after my partner moved in. She did not like it because it had just been me and...
    MrsBubble MrsBubble 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    Easter In Pain - Again, another holiday and my ex again took my kids . He took them on my Christmas, my Labor Day weekend, and has for as long as we have been divorced...
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2013

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    I divorced him when my daughter was 3 & my son was 18 mo. I couldn't let them grow up like that. When he was 5, the courts sent him to the ***, & the conditioning started....he had...
    wamw wamw 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    9 Years After Divorce - Nine years after my divorce, my ex husband and his new girlfriend started the process of alienation.  At the time my children were 10 and 13.  I...
    esgypsy esgypsy 41-45 20 Responses Jun 22, 2010

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    How To Let Go.. - After a solution-focused evaluation back in February where the alienation and remedies were discussed and agreed upon, I was finally able to see my 11-year-old...
    J396 J396 31-35 3 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Broken Shattered Life - 3 years time doesn't heal everything my kids my world my ex a naraccistic animal my life ruined and I would give it to hear my kids fighting calling out mum...
    Hurtslikehellinoz Hurtslikehellinoz 41-45 6 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    10 Years Without My Babies! - After a long drawn out game filled divorce,on both of our parts my children were slowy alienated from me.  The children at ages 10 and 12 said they...
    Lostwithoutthem Lostwithoutthem 41-45 14 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    Losing My Will To Live - I am a mom who stayed at home to raise the children while my ex husband was always travelling first class to amazing places- sure it was work. But I was on...
    GeorgiaNotonmymind GeorgiaNotonmymind 46-50 5 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    they have turned their back on me. my son and daughter. they say they hate me. they say they wished i would die. they say if i died they wouldnt come to the funeral. i have raised...
    brokeninmilllionpeices brokeninmilllionpeices 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Please help me fight my appeal with a PAS attorney, I cant lose my little girl make a donation forward it to friends. Also sign the petition that will pass the bill that children...
    LenaCastronova LenaCastronova 41-45 Mar 3

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    I Will Never Forgive Or Forget. - When I divorced my first wife after 12 years of mostly unhappy marriage I made the mistake of underestimating what a psychotic vengeful ***** she...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 4 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    My two daughters have died in the last 13 months. one daughter at age 52 and my last born child at age 40 on February 7, 2014. Both daughters died with a history of alcohol and...
    wise4no1 wise4no1 66-70 1 Response Mar 14

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    A Plea For Help (Devante Charles) ~Ongoing Situation~ - Hello, my name is Devante Charles and I am fourteen years old. I was born on February 4th, 1999 in Hoboken, New Jersey. I...
    RJCDSC RJCDSC 13-15, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    My Daughters Birthday - It was my youngest daughters birthday yesterday. She turned 11. Last year I sent her a present, balloons, chocolates and flowers which were delivered by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    Worst Mother's Day Ever - Yesterday was an all time low. I've been dealing with the effects of PAS for years, but yesterday, Mother's Day, it reached a breaking point. My 17 and 14...
    draebear draebear 46-50, F 15 Responses May 14, 2012

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    Watching It Happen - What to do when you're the gf watching it happen? The mother if the child has custody so a lot of power. The child is so defiant and nasty and for 10 quite...
    Urskow Urskow 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013