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I Lost My Husband

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    September 3rd, 2013. I'll never forget

    that day. Typical Tuesday after a holiday. Going on about with normal life. I had joined a gym and my husband opted to stay home and ride his bicycle around the neighborhood for his exercise. I kissed him goodbye. Told him I'd see him in an hour. Once I left the gym...
    lirvie lirvie 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Im Lost

    The loss of my husband left me empty. I was on depression medicine but after a year i quit taking them, i dont think it did any good. Im so tired of feeling this was. Thats why I joined this. Something has to snap me out of this, and i dont know how.
    hjoyce hjoyce 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    The Pain Is So Deep.....

    well i lost my hubby on 12-6-11 on his way to work crossing the street he got hit by a car,,and we were ..are married for eleven years,so how do i go on when part of me is dead,,why him why us,,i keep thinking its cuz i was a bad person ,,i just need him ,im nothing without him...
    rstacy7769 rstacy7769 31-35 2 Responses Jan 8, 2012

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    Taken Too Soon.....

    My husband of over 10 years was only 36 when he passed in his sleep.....the conditions of our relationship make it even harder. The one year anniversary is quickly approaching and I hurt still more than most can imagine. I met my love when I was 19......Turned him away at first...
    Moveon3511 Moveon3511 31-35 3 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    My Mark Left Without Warning.

    My husband passed away 11-30-12 he died in my arms after doing CPR on him for 20 mins until help arrived.His birthday is on Saturday and our 2nd wedding anniversary is on Monday and I am dreading it with every inch of my being.
    EverythingUnfinished EverythingUnfinished 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I Lost My Best Friend

    I lost my husband in September of this year. He was only 31. He had heart disease and he would have needed a transplant. We didn't know. I was with him when he died. I wish there was more I could have done. I am so sad all the time, but I pretend like I'm...
    heartbreakinsept heartbreakinsept 26-30 1 Response Dec 23, 2008

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    I Have Lost My Best Friend

    I am sitting here now, in the early hours, and thinking about my husband David through tears. I have only just lost him on 22nd December 2011. Last Thursday in the early hours, I woke to find him dead beside me. I feel like my world has been torn apart. I have to now wait to see...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Husband Died @43

    we all have common experience how our husband died... My husband died at the age of 43 sudden heart attack or what they called fatal cardiac arrythmia... I never expect that will happened because what i saw in him is he is doing well in fact the doctor told us that, after when we...
    wilfridis81 wilfridis81 26-30 Aug 17, 2012

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    My Husband Isn't With Me Anymore

    day before yesterday coming home from work together his chest starting hurting. We drove to the hospital and he walked in. It's only about 8 blocks from our house so i went home to take my dog home. I returned to the hospital to find that he was no longer there. They said he...
    veiledsadness veiledsadness 46-50, F 9 Responses May 6, 2011

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    Just Give Me One...

    reason to live? It’s been 3 ½ years since my husband’s death but it is the aftermath of his death is what I am so hurt about. I thought when death happens family and friends gather around to comfort one another or perhaps this is not what really happens and only in the...
    Mistibluez Mistibluez 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    I just don't understand

    why god had to take him... If one of us had to go why not me ... He was a way better person than I ever thought about being
    shannonb78 shannonb78 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I Lost My Husband And Best Friend On Nov 1st, 10

    Hello everyone,I just found this siteFirst of all I want to say im sorry for your losses.... I met my husband in 2002 , and in 2005 he was diagnossed with liver failure, he was referred to the Local hopital in the medical center for a evaluation for a liver transplant, as...
    mssara01 mssara01 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    To My Husband

    I feel so empty since you’ve gone; All that’s left is pain and despair; What am I supposed to do without you? I don’t want to be here alone. I tell you how much I love you; I tell you how much I miss you; I’m just begging for you to come for me. By your side is where I...
    LadyChatterley LadyChatterley 41-45, F Dec 12, 2011

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    I Just Lost The Love Of My Life And It Hurts Soooooooo Bad!

    My husband of 6 years just was killed two days ago, he was shot 8 times and I am lost, hurt, mad,and sad all at once. I bdon't know how I'm going to kive without him.
    nikkshanika nikkshanika 36-40, F 3 Responses May 16, 2010

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    Lost My Husband Of 55 Years

    Don and I met in class in college in N.C. in 1955. I lost him this summer after 55 wonderful years of marriage. We have 4 kids, generally in the area who are helpful to me, and live near my son. We live in Texas. I know I am so lucky, yet, I am now searching for the next...
    ji53la ji53la 70+, F Nov 27, 2012

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    On September 13th, 2012 My World Crashed

    The love of my life, my husband, my best friend, of 15 years past away at 4:30am, to cirrhosis. Though I knew and I prepared myself as I thought I was doing, can't no preparing in the world make it less painful. I was so angry still am that I couldn't do anything to lesson his...
    missingmyhubby missingmyhubby 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    Killed In Iraq

    It was Sept 10th 2007.  I had been at work all day.  A few strange phone calls with strange questions had came in, but still I never imagined what was to come.  Until the last phone call to work that said, "Go home straight after work'.  I crumbled inside...
    ssggregoryriverasantiago ssggregoryriverasantiago 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2007

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    Lost My Precious....he Was The Best Thing Ever Happened To Me!!!

    I lost my hubby on 6th dec 2012....the worst day of my life...can't believe he's no more...he was just 27....I don't think I will ever be able to move on...I m so depressed I don't feel like doin anything ...we loved each other so much...we had so many plans....we wanted to have...
    Fb10 Fb10 22-25 2 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    Lost Dreams

    My tears are flowing, Like a river rushes to the sea. I feel so alone, Why did you have to take him from me? Lord I'm grateful for my husband, And the wonderful times that we had, But the loss of dreams for the future, Leaves me broken hearted, and sad.. It doesn’t seem fair...
    dare2love dare2love 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    I Am 23 Years Old And Lost My Husband To Cancer

    I am at this moment feeling a whole lot of emotions mixed in. I have lost my husband 2 weeks ago to cancer. when we first met 4 years ago, he was in remission for 1 year, it mestasise and he relapsed while we were engaged with our plans of wedding set. I love'd him so much i...
    UnstitchHeart11 UnstitchHeart11 22-25, F 5 Responses May 4, 2011

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    Lost Without My Husband

    I am a young widow. My life  only evolve around him. He is a quiet guy. we dont have people who we can hang out together. we know people but not close. it's hard now I dont have anybody to share, to do things, I;m scare to go alone. I dont know where can i stay. i'm...
    usa2005 usa2005 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2010

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    My Husband Died Today

    I left the hospital just not to long ago after my husband, who is the owner of this nic, died. he was at his office he owns on friday night when someone went there around 9 that night and shot him 8 times. he shot my husband 6 times in  the stomach and 2 times in the chest. the...
    TJinBlueJeans TJinBlueJeans 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    I Miss Him So Much

    My husband died Nov 6, 2011. He was the love of my life and a wonderful man. We had only been married 3 weeks when he passed and I feel both cheated and blessed. Cheated because it's not supposed to be that way...I just found him again 3 years ago after losing him for 20. We...
    LadyChatterley LadyChatterley 41-45, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    I Lost Half My Life

    My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 throat cancer July 7, 20ll. He went through nine surgeries in less that a year trying to rebuild his throat. There were may other complications that he had to be hospitalized for. But the cancer stayed away. They got it all. Even though he...
    Katnissa Katnissa 56-60 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    Preminition

    the night of my sons 4th birthday me and my husband had a premanition but in the one i had i was not fully asleep as for me i felt as if i couldnt move scream i tryed to call my husbands name but nothing would come out and i felt very affraid i seen men faces...
    wboy wboy 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31, 2007

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    When I woke up on 8-22-14,

    I knew deep down nothing was okay. He should have been home at 8am, and it was 9am. I called his phone 8 times in 42 minutes: all straight to voicemail. I called a friend of mine to check about the wreck down the road from where she lives. Her husband drove the short distance to...
    seannabug seannabug 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Lost With Out My Other Half

    My husband was only 43 yrs old. We met our sophmore year in highschool. This month would have been our 25th anniversary. He was my whole life. I have never been with out him. I am lost :( We just got home from purchasing a boat my husband has been wanting, I went in to start...
    heartdrops heartdrops 41-45, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    I Lost The Love Of My Life

     Dec.6 2006 was the worse day of my life. My husband went out into our washroom to have a cigarette there was a gas leek and then an explosion. We all thought he was going to be fine. He didn't look that bad. His beautiful blond hair was burned off but his body look as if he...
    solonelynow solonelynow 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    Love You Alway

    It was july 2007 when i first meet Billy. I wasnt looking for love but there it was, though not quite a first sight. After months of flirting, a kiss, december 21 2007, then a date, febuary 23 2008, moving in together, augest 21 2008, engaged, december 24 2010, and finaly married...
    missingulove missingulove 22-25 3 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    I Lost My Husband 2 Weeks Ago

    We were only married for 5 months, dating for 3 years. I lost my husband to a stupid mistake. A self inflicted gunshot to the head. I feel like it is all my fault. I could have saved him. I had a feeling all week to do something different but I ignored it. He was trying to show...
    nyvonnia nyvonnia 31-35 3 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    My husband died at the young age of 29 on the

    morning of Halloween 2013 from an accidental overdose. We met at the ages of 10 and 11 and he had been my best friend for 19 years. We both struggled with our addictions but I was somehow able to break away from mine after I graduated with my degree. After my graduation I felt...
    desireediane desireediane 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    The Worst Day Of My Life

    It all began on March 11th 2008... the day was an unusual one as my husband had called me twice that day from Iraq. It was the only time he had ever done this. I almost didn't answer the phone as it rang at 1030 that night but thank god I did. It was a great conversation but...
    goldstarwife goldstarwife 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    I lost my husband to surgery on 4/1/08.

    He had many neck surgeries and felt this would be the one to fix him. We got married on 8/9/75 and I hung in with him to the last. !as in sickness and in health" it will be 6 years this april and I just had another full "cry out". I wish my body would stop remembering, /every...
    juliethomas58 juliethomas58 56-60, F Mar 11

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    November 13th 2012 Turned My Whole Life Upside Down

    If I had one message to pass on to anyone in a relationship it would be don't be afraid to love with all that you are. It sounds like a line out of a fairy tale but it isn't. I was blessed with a man who lived to make me happy and ensure that I was taken care of. The night he...
    shair1tu shair1tu 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2012

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    After spending almost seven months in the

    hospital after his triple bypass surgery, my husband of thirty years gave up his fight. He made I clear that he was determined to get a heart transplant so he could watch his three grandsons grow up and live out the rest of his days with me. however, after a long hard fight and...
    donna713 donna713 51-55, F Mar 30

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    I Lost My Husband

    It is one month since I saw your face. Tomorrow a month ago, our Lord took you home. I have been blessed, so blessed, But I miss you so much my love. Ben and I have two sons. Dylan, turned 3 on Wednesday and baby Dean, 14 months old. Ben was the best father. He was the patient...
    YvonneGbay YvonneGbay 26-30, F Oct 19, 2012

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    I married my high school sweetheart

    when I graduated at 18. We were married for almost 4 wonderful years. At 22 I became a widow when he was killed in automobile accident. I thought the end of my world had arrived. I will never stop loving him.
    greeneyedgirl12 greeneyedgirl12 22-25, F 14 Responses Aug 10

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    My Bob

    My husband of 34 years died on Feb. 18, 2011. He tripped on tree branches in my neighbor's yard and fell on his face on cement. He was on blood thinners because he had a stroke 18 mos. ago, but he was completely recovered and feeling well. After he fell, I took him to the ER and...
    Pandoralou Pandoralou 56-60 3 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    I wonder when you become ok with being alone ?

    Or when I will find my happy again
    shanbeck shanbeck 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Time Does Not Heal All

    About a year and a half ago, myboyfriend at the time was suddenly diagnozed with colon cancer . We were shocked and confused. They said it was pretty bad and if he didn't have surgery he would have 5 years to live. He couragously made the decision to have the most radical...
    mfmm mfmm 46-50 7 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    He Is Gone And Now I Must Go On (kinda Long Sorry :( )

    we had one of those crazy instant violent loves. We met at a keg party I was 19he was 26 instantly I was drawn to him and we never spent a night apart since then. He was so quiet and sexy I just knew there was something fantastic and deep behind those blue green eyes. I was right...
    bobbyswife30 bobbyswife30 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2012

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    WITHOUT Warning

    I LOST MY HUSBAND ON WEDNESDAY NIGHT TO A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK AND IT WAS SO SUDDEN AND UNEXPECTED.WE LEFT THE HOUSE FOR SOCCER PRACTICE LIKE WE ALWAYS DO HE WAS PLAYING WITH ALL THE KIDS KICKING THE BALL AROUND LIKE HE NORMALLY DOES.THEN HE SAT DOWN ON THE GROUND SAY HIS CHEST...
    dreamcatcher4u dreamcatcher4u 36-40, F 4 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Lost My Husband My Friend

    my husband went out on his quad as he did every weekend on july 24, 2008 i was notified at 1030 that night that he was airlifted to lehigh valley hospital in allentown,pa.  He was severely brain damaged and i had to let him go as he didn't want to live as a vegetable. ...
    debby7 debby7 46-50 3 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Lost The Love Of My Life

    My husband died 2 months ago from a heart attack at age 53. I am so sad and I cry a lot. I miss him terribly. I am very lonely and think I'll never be myself again. We were married 30 years.  We had a very loving relationship with God as our foundation.  We loved each other...
    jennyba jennyba 51-55 3 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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