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I Lost My Virginity At 13

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 289 People

    We'Re Still Dating

    It was in 8th grade, I had just moved to a new school and I really didn't like anyone there and my friends from my old school were drifting away from me. He was all I had, and we got closer. In October he asked me out and we started dating, I didn't tell anyone at first, why you...
    sarahazul sarahazul
    18-21, F
    May 12, 2013

    Lost It To My Cousin

    I lost my virginity to my cousin when I was 13. It was not rape. It was completely consensual. I don't know why people always think it's such a bad thing to do it at that age. 11 might be too young but 13 is not. I love him very much and we both still do it sometimes.
    Sweetmonica Sweetmonica
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 24, 2013

    When It's Right, It's Right!

    I started Senior School when I was 11. Everyone matures at different rates and out of a class of about 15 girls, about a third seemed to be still little girls and just over half of us were already well into puberty - boobs, periods, hair, constant thoughts about guys - the lot...
    NeverFollowRules NeverFollowRules
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    My Sisters Boyfriend.

    I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my older sisters boyfriend. He was 17 and he would hang out at our house even if my sister wasn't there, my mom liked him. One night we were in the basement and watching TV I can't remember where my sister was. I had my feet on his lap which...
    OnTopofMe OnTopofMe
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 25, 2013

    Cold Hearted

    My story is quite lengthy. Anyways I started school early as a kid so that made me a year younger than everyone else. So I was 13 in 9th grade. I was new to the school and new to the county. I struggled never really went to classes. skipped alot. Eventually I met this guy i knew...
    ladi20 ladi20
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2012

    I Was Ready

    I guess I was always just a horny little thing.  I loved making out, beginning in sixth grade. When I was 13, I went to stay the summer with my grandparents, as I did every summer.  They lived in a golf-course-retirement-type community.  Spending the summers...
    hippieheart hippieheart
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2007

    It all started when I met this 16 year old kid.

    He was so sweet to me. We hung out a lot. Every time we hung out we would always end up making out though. I felt like he was just using me, but I didn't wanna tell myself that. After about a year we had almost done everything together except for sex. One day as we were making...
    Kenzcasanova Kenzcasanova
    22-25, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    I lost my virginity, at summer camp,

    August 7, 2013. I like pretending that i didn't know him so i do not have to face the fact that i was in love with him... Or at least that's what he got me to believe.. We sneaked out of one of the camp dances to go drink stuff he brought.. He then kinda lured me in with his...
    Dee283 Dee283
    16-17, F
    May 27, 2015

    By My Babysitter

    15 years ago this happened. i was 13, she was 24 and in college.  i'm not sure what she was thinking, but she basically jumped me in bed.  to my delight... lol.  i think she was drunk? the weird part was that she didn't tell me to use a condom, so i just did my...
    zlulzyname zlulzyname
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    The Sumer of which I was going to 8th grade I

    had a girlfriend and we were dating for about 3 months and we love each other and what we decided is to have sex and it wasn't one or the other forcing each other it was just we decided to have sex. However I was the only one to know about sex and at this age I had a friend who...
    Jobn79 Jobn79
    18-21, M
    Aug 14, 2015

    My First Time..... At 13..

    It started in the summer time of 6th grade... My brother had this friend named zack.... I liked zack alot he sometimes spent the night with my brother... One day we started making out under the bridge and then my brother started say ZAck do it bang her nd then he said L.c(me...
    xxHeartBreakxx xxHeartBreakxx
    26-30, F
    Apr 27, 2013


    I was brought up in a particularly conservative (read "backward") house, and I entered my teens sort of knowing where babies came from but nothing in detail, and certainly not about sex itself. At my friend's 14th birthday party, her sister's boyfriend brought drinks for the 20...
    BreadCatkin BreadCatkin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

    She's My World

    So im 13, female, and this is the story of how I lost my virginity. (Im still 13 now) (Early June 2013, my close friend (also female) who I was inlove with, asked me to be her girlfriend. I said yes. I went to her house for two nights and we kissed and talked and touched...
    cuttingtobreathe cuttingtobreathe
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    Friday, October 23rd. 2009

    Everybody assumes I'm a virgin because I'm not "hot". I lost my virginity when I was 13 years old. I know most people will disagree with me, but at that age, in those circumstances, I considered myself mature enough to make serious decisions like that. I have never regretted it...
    jeveuxreussir jeveuxreussir
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2013

    I Don't Know

    Sorry for my bad english One day ,it was vacation (but my parents had to work)a girl from my clas' mom asked if she could stay with us for 2 weeks my mom told it was ok. One night i fell asleep to awake on her Knees i had fallen on her knees that woke me up, we laught .i kept...
    Hotemetotem Hotemetotem
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 4, 2011

    Sex With My Older Sister

    When I was 13 I was playing outside and my parents had left for the day. My 16 year old sister was yelling for me to come inside as we were the only ones home. I get inside and she says I am feeling so horny and I want to you get naked now. I had been ******* off for some time...
    Dexterlibra Dexterlibra
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

    When I Was 13 I Lost My Virginity

    So during the seventh grade I met a boy who was a year older than me, (still in my grade) but he was already a lot more mature than the other guys at my school. We started dating that summer and six months into our relationship we decided that we wanted to take each others...
    Cheergirl0605 Cheergirl0605
    1 Response Nov 25, 2013

    It was Christmas break in 8th grade.

    My best friend and I are really close with the boys and we do everything together. I live in a small town. We're country and our parties are on the back roads drinking beer and shootin stuff. The boys were both 16. My best friend and I were both 13. Like I said, we were...
    forever1701 forever1701
    Dec 31, 2014

    I Was 12

    I was 12 and my girlfriend was 13. One night i invited my girlfriend to my house to discuss some homework…when she came my parents were at work my sister was out shopping with a couple of friends.At first it really was just about discussing homework but we still had lots of...
    daddy3332 daddy3332
    31-35, M
    Jan 8, 2011

    Looking Back

    Originally I lost my virginity at 13. Prior I was molested at a very young age, but I remembered all the therapy & the doctors looking at my private parts more than actually being molested. This might have played a part in losing it so young, but it may have been that I wasn't...
    infinie infinie
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2013


    It was about 8 months after the rape. There was this boy, we started going out. He was only 15. We were going out for about 6 months before he suggested it. I was completely besotted by him. He was the first man in my life who didnt hate me, didnt hurt me (but looking back he...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Apr 1, 2008

    **Lucky Number 13**

    Yeah Wen i was 13 i lost my virginity to this guy that i had been seeing for about 6months.....i had done other things like hooked up and ya know got poked nd sucked d*ck and s*it just the usual but alot of people were doing the same thing wen i done it so i dont think its that...
    SaHrA001 SaHrA001
    Apr 6, 2009

    My Lucky Friend

    It all started in 7th grade when my friend came over to hang out for the day. My mom had just come home from work and we were playing video games in the basement. It was getting late and my mom was dead tired, so she went to sleep, before she did, she said that my friend, we will...
    result385 result385
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 2, 2013

    Was It Love? Guess So (:

    Ok, I was 13 yea it's kinda young but at the moment things happen. The guy I did it with was 14 and the night before just broke up with his girl friend yea I no... Horrible but they went out for a week.. Long story really so any way it was the morning and no one was at my friends...
    hothothotstinginghot hothothotstinginghot
    22-25, F
    Feb 11, 2011

    I kind of wish I had left it longer,

    I had always promised myself I would be at least 15 before I did anything at all with another boy. But I was quite a mature 13 year old. It was in the summer, I had only met this boy at the start of summer, and he was very caring and I knew he was older than me. He turned out...
    Angel0005 Angel0005
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014

    My First Time;)

    I had wanted to lose my virginity since I was like 10, so when I was 13, I made an online web page saying I was happy to meet up with an experienced man, he could do what ever he wanted to me and I'd do what ever he wanted me to do to him, on the way into town there's a Premier...
    hornybiatch3 hornybiatch3
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2013

    My First Slumber Party

    When I was 12 I went to my first slumber party. I went upstairs to go to the bathroom. I noticed that my friends mom and dad were watching a movie. I snuck into their room and hid at the foot of the bed. The bed look huge because I was so small. I waited till everyone was...
    aprilslutwife aprilslutwife
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 11, 2013

    11 Or 13

    hi im gay. I have always known im gay and have never been attracted to women in any way sexually. So when did I have my cherry popped? Well if you count oral sex at 11. I had my first anal encounter at 13 .The guy was. 4 years older than me but i was well up for. it! We did the...
    thegaychef thegaychef
    56-60, M
    Feb 2, 2013


    He had red hair, he was a little older than me maybe five years, he was not very nice, can't remember his name, i did not really enjoy it, he was not impressed by me, after that i had to prove myself to others, that i was sexually aware, sexually cape-able of giving enjoyment to...
    stardark stardark
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2009

    Friends Brother

    I lost my virginity when I was 13 to the older brother of a friend, he was 18. He was a total player and had been flirting with me for a while. He was very good looking and I enjoyed the attention. I was at his house and he made his move. He fingered me and ate me out. He started...
    OpenandReady OpenandReady
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 23, 2013
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