Post

I Lost My Virginity At 14

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,707 People

    it was February 8th 2013.

    me & my boyfriend were at my house, no one but us were home. we were laying in my bed play fighting.. he ended up half on top of me, we kissed. & that kissed turned into a make out. i bit his lip occasionally, we got really into it, & he took my shirt off, then i took off his...
    18butterfly 18butterfly 16-17, F 14 Responses Dec 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    OMG!!! I lost my virginity.

    .. You see, me and this guy Josh have been best friends since 2nd grade. Well, I haven't seen him for about 2 years. Then out of nowhere he decides to go to skateland ( my favorite skating rink). I just so happened to be there that night (it was his birthday). We talked for like...
    Paigeeeeeee Paigeeeeeee 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I regret this so much

    and i feel so horrible. I also barley started talking to this guy and I liked him alot and i wanted him to like me so i went ahead and did it. He also is known for being a player and having sex with alot of girls, so I feel really stupid. I just couldnt hold it in any longer I...
    angelbaby8 angelbaby8 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Happy Story So Far <3

    I lost it a few months ago, it was so painful. I'm still with him though and he was amazing through the whole thing, he's never put pressure on me to do stuff and he's just perfect, i don't regret it at all. If anything, it made us closer :3 Update: It's been 13months and...
    lovessmiles lovessmiles 16-17, F 22 Responses Sep 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If Only His Mum Came Home Later..

    i've been with my boyfriend for almosst 5 months now. We had been together before, but ended up breaking up because he was acting real wierd. anyway, we got back together and after about 2 weeks we started doing different things, like he fingered me, i tossed him off etc. After...
    Savannah254 Savannah254 13-15, F 23 Responses May 30, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What the actual **** happened to this

    generation? 14-year-olds are not meant to be having sex! I mean what the hell? Why? You're fourteen.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 4 Responses May 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Not Ashamed...

    I met my boyfriend when I was 13, and he was 15.  I liked him a lot, and we really learned to love eachother over time.  After dating for a year, we decided to have sex.  I was 14, he was 16.  It was in his house, and after I slept with him, we became even closer.  We just...
    Banjobanjo3 Banjobanjo3 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 14, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't regret it. I lost it to the only man

    who has treated me with respect. We are still together. I lost it on the floor of my basement while my whole family was upstairs.
    xXDARKFOWERXx xXDARKFOWERXx 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To a guy I had a crush on

    for four years at least. in the woods. in November. in Canada. HOLY COLD I guess he was gentle and considerate but now he dosent even talk to me... I feel like he just used me for sex :(
    xxxBrokenDownxxx xxxBrokenDownxxx 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm now 15 and I lost my virginity around the

    beginning of my freshman year I don't regret it at all, but I don't think that some people understand that I was mentally ready. There is a much bigger difference between the mental age and physical age of teenagers. Many people don't want to think that. I think the only way to...
    jtfo jtfo 13-15, F 3 Responses May 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Under The Stars.. In My Backyard

    It was a sunday, the weather was perfect. It was fresh with warm air that would hit your face and make you smile. My boyfriend came over and we were doing the usual things we do when we hide in my backyard... touch eachother. I was giving him a ******* and he was giving his sweet...
    zombiegurl18 zombiegurl18 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was 14, obviously. It was this guy

    who i had only been dating two weeks, but i ha just gotten dumped by this guy who i dated for 8 months. My bf told me that if i didnt have se with him he would dump me, i wasnt ready to have my heart broken again, so i ha sex with him... He dumped me a week later. I've regret it...
    annoyinggirl101 annoyinggirl101 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Best Day Ever.❤

    Okay, so I was actually 13. About to turn 14. And he was also 14. We had been together for 1 year and about 6 months. He had always fingered me at this private little spot we found at the park. I was scared the first time. But after he had his hand down there and put his fingers...
    Alliedawnsmith Alliedawnsmith 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    15......Sex.....Showers....Sneakiness

    So, I turned 15 like this year and my boyfriend is 16. He always really wanted to have sex, but I was just to scared to do it because people said it hurt a lot. So one day I was at school, which is a all girl school and he goes to a all boy school, he asked me do you want to come...
    FrannieSaidHello FrannieSaidHello 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Romeo

    I am still 14. I lost my virginity to my 15 year old boyfriend a little bit ago. I guess it started in grade 6 when I started dating him. Every weekend I would bus to his house, and we would have the best time together. His mom was never home so we would have the whole night...
    Bananaplease Bananaplease 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was bored waiting for my friend to come over

    but she was taking forever and he text me to come over and i wasn't going to because i was waiting for my friend but like always i would pick to hangout with him rather than my friends. i went to his house as soon as he opened the door he grabbed me an we started kissing and he...
    Snowbunny8711 Snowbunny8711 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Christmas Break Booty Call- it was a wonderful

    story at the time. december 22nd 2013, the day before my family christmas party and the first day of christmas holidays, i'd only known him for 2 weeks, but i was crazy about him, this guy could get me to try anything. he was 16 going on 17 and i was 14. he worked for my brother...
    SamTornado SamTornado 13-15, F 11 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I lost mines at 14 and I don't regret it haha I

    had sex with a girl I knew for 3 years and dated for 2 so I was ready we had sex in her friends bed and it lasted 3 hours (: and then we just cuddled for 2 hours then I kissed her and left and I didn't have to go too far because I lived right across the street and I enjoyed it...
    confessedteen confessedteen 18-21, M Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I almost did at 13 but I just turned 14

    when I did. Me and this guy I liked had been hanging out for a while, and I used to sneek out to see him because I lived with my dad and hes veryy strict. However, my mom is not. So when I went to her place once she let him come over. After he met my mom I took him up to her...
    meli2 meli2 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Back Seat Girl

    I was 14 when I lost my virginity, to a guy who was 19 on the back seat of his Dad's BMW.  I don't regret it as he knew how to make it good for me and it was kinda hot.  Still, I wish I had the big bed or satin sheets that people dream of.  Your shirt open and your skirt...
    caseybabes caseybabes 13-15, F 8 Responses Apr 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It was before the summer in june 2012 .

    I lost it to some 16 year old womanizer but at the time I didn't care what he was like I was just happy to have some ones attention because of my daddy issues (or so I believe). When we actually did the deal it wasn't anything like I imagined. It was terrible, I don't even think...
    zaynisbae zaynisbae 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Never Really Had Him, Did I?

    My first time was nothing like i expected it to be. I first had sex when i was 14, almost 15. I met Sean* when i was only 6 yrs old and he was seven. Our families introduced us. He lives in Texas and I saw him every summer when my family went there. I was from atlanta so it was...
    mochapup812 mochapup812 16-17 6 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel like a complete hoe.

    I wanted to lose it at 18 or maybe even later. I also wanted it to be with someone special. Not saying my boyfriend isnt special to me, but im not in love with him. Plus we were on the couch. I dont want to tell anyone because im scared they will call me a hoe. It was fun at the...
    thatgirl992 thatgirl992 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When I hit highschool,

    I was a complete ****! I wore slutty clothes every day, like booty shorts and sports bras, and I always showed to others that I loved to express my sexuality! I was in 9th grade, and I was dating a 12 grader at the time. I hung out a lot with him and some of his other guy...
    Slutsister1234 Slutsister1234 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I liked this girl for a while

    and one day she invited me to her party. When I got there she wasn't ready.she had just finished setting up and was going to get dressed. She came down stairs with a bottle of vodka and she was wearing a bikini. We went upstairs got naked and had sex. For the rest of the night...
    Jacksimondog Jacksimondog 26-30, M Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    While yeah I did! But it was long time ago!

    Like when I turned 13, look the ought my exper..... You'll see it there And I'm a GUY
    NathanNathanial NathanNathanial 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yeah I was very young,

    but at that age we were not rational and I just wanted to try it. I thought he was cool cos he had a car so we did it in his car.. Uncomfortable, stupid and regretful. He was a family friend too but my parents never knew cos they would kill him!
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 1 Response May 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Too Big Part 2

    He asked his usual question. "Wuchu thinkin" I answered him by saying i may want to lose my virginity..with you...tonight. He sai I don't have to if I don't want to and reminded me, " baby steps" I ended up giving him another *******, better than the last. He asked if I was...
    EmptyIsStrong EmptyIsStrong 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was at this party and this gorgeous guy

    whisked me away to a bedroom and took complete control - and I loved every second of it <3
    eviieemai eviieemai 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My name is Molly and I'm 14 (I'm almost 15

    though) I have a boyfriend called Matthew who is 17 and lives a little while away from me; he isn't a virgin but he has only slept with one other girl We ARE in love Last night (31/12/13) it was new years eve and my mum had let me stay at Matt's house. The night before I had...
    teenagedirtbagxo teenagedirtbagxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It was the end of my freshman year

    and I hand just ended things with a girl I was dating at the time. One of our mutual friends asked me if I wanted to come over to her house. Once I got there she let me in and offered to show me around. After she showed me around upstairs we went to the basement where her larger...
    adman6493 adman6493 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was home alone for a week

    so I called my boyfriend and asked him to come stay with so he did so the first night we were in my room watching a movie and we started to kiss then to making out then he.took my clothes off and started to finger me with 3 fingers it hurt soo much the I gave him a blow job then...
    Taylordesnomie19 Taylordesnomie19 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Saw My Little Princess Taken Away

    I knew this girl since I was in 2nd grade. She was 3 years younger than me, a fun, sweet, cute and very clumsy girl. She was best friends with my sister who was half a year younger than her. This girl, I will call her ''A''. So, A spent most of her days at me and my sisters house...
    5 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its Happend.

    We both lay on my bed. No thought in "doing it". We were just there laying down cuddling. He began to kiss me, he bit my lip softly i bit back. His hand went slowly down my back. It gave me chills. His hands were now gripping my butt. My hands were around his back. I slowly...
    Lexxxieeee Lexxxieeee 13-15, F 12 Responses May 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sister's Friend.

    My sister had a friend that I will remember for the rest of my life. She was 14 when I first met her and I was 12. She was the sexiest most beautiful girl I knew. She came over to our house alot to hang out with my sister and me and her got to know each other pretty well...
    Cash1456 Cash1456 18-21, M 26 Responses Feb 13, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Me and my girl where walking home from her

    friends party and when I walked her to her house we played arctic monkeys and it happened on her bed, I love my baby and I always will 😊
    ItsRon ItsRon 13-15, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To My Cousin...

    so basically my cousin was always h0rny, and it was summer time, we were just watching tv together and we were just talking, and then he started kinda humping me, i thought he was playing, but he wasnt. so then i got on top of him and we just kinda started humping each other. a...
    marissarhoward marissarhoward 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Looking back, I wish I would of waited.

    I was way too young, and I thought I knew it all. At that age I couldn't even enjoy sex the way you are supposed to because I didn't know what my body liked. It wasn't until I was 18 that I really got to discover my body and my likes and dislikes. And crazy enough as it may...
    Teeze22 Teeze22 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Bestfriend ...

    One night I went out drinking with some friends. The night had just started to get fun until the cops came. Immediately everyone ran. I called my bestfriend because he lived close by and I ran to his house. It was raining and I was soaking wet so when I got there I asked for some...
    xxdaniellexx xxdaniellexx 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Was horrible, should have waited like my

    parents had been preaching. Was with a friend, but she was secretly in love with me. We were at her house hanging out with a group of friends. Her parents weren't home and she asked to talk to me alone for a sec. Went up to her room and she started kissing me and we ended up...
    bigdd2013 bigdd2013 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Was 14

    I met this guy who I thought was insanely cute, and I met some of his family. Well his cousin informed me he was mostly interested in just having sex, and me being a virgin he probably wouldnt be interested in dating. So I set my sights on seducing him, which wasnt hard. His...
    KindaSilly KindaSilly 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 9, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    about 20 years ago when i was 14 i had sex

    for the first time , i had it with a close friend of mine , who had just became my boyfirend. i guess at that time me and him were very curios about sex and decided to try it , we enjoyed it very much and had sex often about 2 years later when i was 16 i got pregnant by him...
    jenneyroy2000 jenneyroy2000 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I wanted to try it there's a girl

    who I dated for a long time we had a really close relationship her name was Victoria were not in touch anymore I loved her and I still miss her I get cravings sometimes... and please don't comment stuff that's not positive feedback because this is serious
    chickmagnet13 chickmagnet13 13-15, M May 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i was barely entering middle school.

    There was one guy in particular that caught my eye,all the girls liked him so i pretended i didnt. We started talking afterschool and walked me to the nearest park with his friend i knew his friend liked me but i didnt. so my crush from there on then would try hooking ne up with...
    yourprincess yourprincess 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Dunno Why....

    I dunno why but I want to have sex again... Like when I lost my virginity August 26th, and ever since then I had a little part of me wanting to have sex again... Is something wrong with me??
    breejanae breejanae 13-15, F 16 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was 14 when I lost my virginity the boy was

    17 I should have waited until marriage but I wanted to experience because some ppl I was around was doing it. It wasn't as painful as I thought it would be but the second time it hurted maybe because it was with a different boy. But I do regret losing my virginity before...
    cutelilshawty cutelilshawty 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Regret

    I was 13 at the time and he was 15, I was with friends at one of their house. I was wearing a tank top and tight short shorts. There were 2 boys and 2 girls, we were dating or anything so I wasn't very comfortable with it. After it started getting dark 2 of my friends left...
    nubcaik nubcaik 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    About two months ago I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend. The Disney movie Aristocats was playing. I thought twice on the spot and we were at his house. We were both making out on his bed and one thing led to another. I've only been with him for 6 months but he's the most caring and respectful guy I ever met. He asked me if...
    notakat notakat 13-15, F Mar 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    In The School Bathroom

    I was an awkward freshman and desperately wanting to fit in. During lunch period, one of the seniors who I had a class with, a really cute guy, kind of preppy, approached me and started talking with me about what was happening in class. He started talking to me each lunch period...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 30, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    there was this guy , i first fell in love with

    him while i was 13 at a basketball game . i talked about to my friend for a while to , i messaged him, he was 18 then . So he told to hit him up the weekend , when i come down there . he came to my friend house to see me & we talked & then later that night he messages me asking...
    xo757 xo757 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am 14 and he is 16 ,

    we've been dating for almost 5 months , but we were talking way before that . We were at his grandmas house and we went swimming . When everyone left to go somewhere it was just me and him , he asked me if I wanted to go in the back room . I said yes , because I wanted to know...
    Emilyrose1018 Emilyrose1018 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I liked this boy for years

    and he finally started talking to me! I was over the moon he told me he wanted to be with me one day and told me loads of other cute things that made me fall for him more and more. About 3 weeks after we had started talking there was a party and it my first time drinking alcohol...
    khloee123 khloee123 13-15, F Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel