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I Lost My Virginity At 14

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    I Saw My Little Princess Taken Away

    I knew this girl since I was in 2nd grade. She was 3 years younger than me, a fun, sweet, cute and very clumsy girl. She was best friends with my sister who was half a year younger than her. This girl, I will call her ''A''. So, A spent most of her days at me and my sisters house...
    4 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Was horrible, should have waited like my

    parents had been preaching. Was with a friend, but she was secretly in love with me. We were at her house hanging out with a group of friends. Her parents weren't home and she asked to talk to me alone for a sec. Went up to her room and she started kissing me and we ended up...
    bigdd2013 bigdd2013 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    When I hit highschool,

    I was a complete ****! I wore slutty clothes every day, like booty shorts and sports bras, and I always showed to others that I loved to express my sexuality! I was in 9th grade, and I was dating a 12 grader at the time. I hung out a lot with him and some of his other guy...
    Slutsister1234 Slutsister1234 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    I don't regret it... But I feel like everyone

    gets so caught up in other peoples opinions and they let it destroy them. I just want to talk to someone that feels and has done the same thing
    xaxelax xaxelax 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    Well it was this past July.

    I was dating my first love. We were very open with the topic & I gave the idea. We were both going to be home alone the next day. I went to his house, we took a shower together. We sat there in the warm water hugging, & talking about how much we loved eachother & how nervous we...
    eda99 eda99 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Lost My Virginity At 14!!! :(((

    it felt like yesterday, he was a family friend...  his sister hold me in her arms when i was a baby, his father and his mother come to us on every chrysmas, it seems that they were wery good friend? it started on my 9 birthday, he started to talk to me about everything, and...
    nensyna nensyna 18-21 13 Responses Nov 6, 2010

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    about 20 years ago when i was 14 i had sex

    for the first time , i had it with a close friend of mine , who had just became my boyfirend. i guess at that time me and him were very curios about sex and decided to try it , we enjoyed it very much and had sex often about 2 years later when i was 16 i got pregnant by him...
    jenneyroy2000 jenneyroy2000 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    I lost to a guy who told me

    that he was 18 but turns out he was really 22. It hurt like hell and I wish I didn't loose it to him. I ran into him years later and he's still scum and I still felt disgusted by him.
    Candykahn Candykahn 31-35 1 Response Mar 5

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    I was 13 or 14, I was

    so hot for this older woman who was my mom's friend. Every guy I knew who knew her thought she was hot. She was 18 years older than me, a wife with kids. So one vacation offered to teach her how to play pool. As the teaching progressed my control melted as I got behind I was so...
    Immaginazione Immaginazione 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 3

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    If Only His Mum Came Home Later..

    i've been with my boyfriend for almosst 5 months now. We had been together before, but ended up breaking up because he was acting real wierd. anyway, we got back together and after about 2 weeks we started doing different things, like he fingered me, i tossed him off etc. After...
    Savannah254 Savannah254 13-15, F 23 Responses May 30, 2011

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    I am 14 and he is 16 ,

    we've been dating for almost 5 months , but we were talking way before that . We were at his grandmas house and we went swimming . When everyone left to go somewhere it was just me and him , he asked me if I wanted to go in the back room . I said yes , because I wanted to know...
    Emilyrose1018 Emilyrose1018 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Yeah I did, so what? I'm fed up of everyone

    judging me before they know the facts. People see me around and just treat me like I'm dirt, like I'm worthless. I didn't sleep around every night, I don't get my boobs & bum out for all the guys. I did it round at the guy's house the first time, he was my best mate & if I...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 10 Responses Apr 10

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    My Bestfriend ...

    One night I went out drinking with some friends. The night had just started to get fun until the cops came. Immediately everyone ran. I called my bestfriend because he lived close by and I ran to his house. It was raining and I was soaking wet so when I got there I asked for some...
    xxdaniellexx xxdaniellexx 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    I remember it like it was yesterday.

    The week after Easter was our spring break. I had gone to Florida with my boyfriends parents, who don't care about us sleeping together. We rented a condo. His parents got the bed room and we slept on the fold out couch together. I loved him and he loved me. We're both very...
    PunkAsssBitch PunkAsssBitch 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I was home alone for a week

    so I called my boyfriend and asked him to come stay with so he did so the first night we were in my room watching a movie and we started to kiss then to making out then he.took my clothes off and started to finger me with 3 fingers it hurt soo much the I gave him a blow job then...
    Taylordesnomie19 Taylordesnomie19 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Its Happend.

    We both lay on my bed. No thought in "doing it". We were just there laying down cuddling. He began to kiss me, he bit my lip softly i bit back. His hand went slowly down my back. It gave me chills. His hands were now gripping my butt. My hands were around his back. I slowly...
    Lexxxieeee Lexxxieeee 13-15, F 13 Responses May 24, 2013

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    My Romeo

    I am still 14. I lost my virginity to my 15 year old boyfriend a little bit ago. I guess it started in grade 6 when I started dating him. Every weekend I would bus to his house, and we would have the best time together. His mom was never home so we would have the whole night...
    Bananaplease Bananaplease 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    Sister's Friend.

    My sister had a friend that I will remember for the rest of my life. She was 14 when I first met her and I was 12. She was the sexiest most beautiful girl I knew. She came over to our house alot to hang out with my sister and me and her got to know each other pretty well...
    Cash1456 Cash1456 18-21, M 28 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    In The School Bathroom

    I was an awkward freshman and desperately wanting to fit in. During lunch period, one of the seniors who I had a class with, a really cute guy, kind of preppy, approached me and started talking with me about what was happening in class. He started talking to me each lunch period...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Basically me and my girlfriend were making out

    and she was rubbing against my **** and it went in, from there we kept going and yeah... Is it normal to lose your virginity at 14? We are the same age.
    amuir16 amuir16 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Regret

    I was 13 at the time and he was 15, I was with friends at one of their house. I was wearing a tank top and tight short shorts. There were 2 boys and 2 girls, we were dating or anything so I wasn't very comfortable with it. After it started getting dark 2 of my friends left...
    nubcaik nubcaik 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    15......Sex.....Showers....Sneakiness

    So, I turned 15 like this year and my boyfriend is 16. He always really wanted to have sex, but I was just to scared to do it because people said it hurt a lot. So one day I was at school, which is a all girl school and he goes to a all boy school, he asked me do you want to come...
    FrannieSaidHello FrannieSaidHello 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I Was 14

    I met this guy who I thought was insanely cute, and I met some of his family. Well his cousin informed me he was mostly interested in just having sex, and me being a virgin he probably wouldnt be interested in dating. So I set my sights on seducing him, which wasnt hard. His...
    KindaSilly KindaSilly 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    i was barely entering middle school.

    There was one guy in particular that caught my eye,all the girls liked him so i pretended i didnt. We started talking afterschool and walked me to the nearest park with his friend i knew his friend liked me but i didnt. so my crush from there on then would try hooking ne up with...
    yourprincess yourprincess 13-15, F Mar 22

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    Christmas Break Booty Call- it was a wonderful

    story at the time. december 22nd 2013, the day before my family christmas party and the first day of christmas holidays, i'd only known him for 2 weeks, but i was crazy about him, this guy could get me to try anything. he was 16 going on 17 and i was 14. he worked for my brother...
    SamTornado SamTornado 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    HenryAlexanderr HenryAlexanderr 18-21, M Mar 9

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    I Lost My Virginity At 14

    I'm a 17 year old female, who lives with the regret of losing her virginity at 14. Now, three years on, it feels like it was all a horrible nightmare that is still haunting me. Here's my story... It was the summer of 2009 and this 17 year old guy started talking to me - he seemed...
    ylimesor ylimesor 16-17, F 11 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    So I'm not so happy I lost my virginity at a

    young age .-. ....But honestly that moment was special :/ I went to his house we were just talking kissing <3 and just acting dumb (: I love this gut I'm not even gonna lie... And then it all started he graved my waist and just pulled me close to him /. I kissed him he then...
    skurr skurr 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I Never Really Had Him, Did I?

    My first time was nothing like i expected it to be. I first had sex when i was 14, almost 15. I met Sean* when i was only 6 yrs old and he was seven. Our families introduced us. He lives in Texas and I saw him every summer when my family went there. I was from atlanta so it was...
    mochapup812 mochapup812 16-17 6 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    My name is Molly and I'm 14 (I'm almost 15

    though) I have a boyfriend called Matthew who is 17 and lives a little while away from me; he isn't a virgin but he has only slept with one other girl We ARE in love Last night (31/12/13) it was new years eve and my mum had let me stay at Matt's house. The night before I had...
    teenagedirtbagxo teenagedirtbagxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I Dunno Why....

    I dunno why but I want to have sex again... Like when I lost my virginity August 26th, and ever since then I had a little part of me wanting to have sex again... Is something wrong with me??
    breejanae breejanae 13-15, F 15 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Under The Stars.. In My Backyard

    It was a sunday, the weather was perfect. It was fresh with warm air that would hit your face and make you smile. My boyfriend came over and we were doing the usual things we do when we hide in my backyard... touch eachother. I was giving him a ******* and he was giving his sweet...
    zombiegurl18 zombiegurl18 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Best Friends Sister...

    I grew up raised by my grand parents and the kid that lived next door to me became my best friend and in turn his parents kind of semi-parents to me. We went to sports games together, always spent the nights together, played on the same sports teams. His sister was a year ahead...
    kevinisonfire kevinisonfire 22-25 8 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    I was 14 and he was 17 going on 18,

    we had been together for 4 months and I suppose he made me believe we were in love and that it was right. He asked me to come to his house in the countryside one day and after awhile we went for a walk down to the barn, we were just talking for awhile sitting on the bales of...
    clarahogie clarahogie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I Wasnt 14...i Was 12

    i was 12 years old and i was at my bros house and we had a party...but he wasnt there he was in jail or rehab...(his gf is the one tha had the party)...i dont remeber which on though. but any ways,i lost my v-card to my boyfriend's( the one i had then. not the guy im with now...
    emilyshantae emilyshantae 16-17, F 22 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    A Happy Story So Far <3

    I lost it a few months ago, it was so painful. I'm still with him though and he was amazing through the whole thing, he's never put pressure on me to do stuff and he's just perfect, i don't regret it at all. If anything, it made us closer :3 Update: It's been 13months and...
    lovessmiles lovessmiles 13-15, F 22 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Lost My Virginity At Age 14.

    I've had like many sexes with 3 different guys . And we never use condoms. It's just weird that I'm still not pregnant. I mean it's fun doing it. But somehow, I tend to like pop my cherry to the 3rd guy That I had sex with . Is it because his penis is too big? or what? .. Im 15...
    Isabelle00 Isabelle00 13-15 11 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Making Love...

    Okay so i was 14 and he was 16. We were both virgins. It was a Wednesday afternoon and we'd been dating for 6 months (we had been best friends since preschool and had recently gotten together as a couple). Okay so we were home alone because his parents went out to pick up his...
    momma1022 momma1022 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    it was February 8th 2013.

    me & my boyfriend were at my house, no one but us were home. we were laying in my bed play fighting.. he ended up half on top of me, we kissed. & that kissed turned into a make out. i bit his lip occasionally, we got really into it, & he took my shirt off, then i took off his...
    18butterfly 18butterfly 16-17, F 11 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Of course I regret it.

    I do not know many people who lose their virginity at such a young age and don't regret it. Thankfully it was with someone I cared about at the time. Unfortunately I did it because of the pressure to keep him in my life. I wish I would have waited until I was married, but I am...
    spreadthelove22 spreadthelove22 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    Party

    When I was 14 everyone in my school had a boyfriend.. Except me. I just told myself that they just weren't good enough for me (totally not true). I was invited to this big party by this girl who was known for throwing the best parties with lots of people and boys from our school...
    margaret707 margaret707 22-25, F 15 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    To My Cousin...

    so basically my cousin was always h0rny, and it was summer time, we were just watching tv together and we were just talking, and then he started kinda humping me, i thought he was playing, but he wasnt. so then i got on top of him and we just kinda started humping each other. a...
    marissarhoward marissarhoward 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    It was February 28 at his house.

    He was 17 and I was 14. He was my bestfriends brother. We've been flirting for a couple months behind her back. So one day day she was going to austin for a trip with her band... and that's when we took to the opportunity to hang out. He called me and said no one is home and he...
    autumnv autumnv 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    We skipped school one day

    and went to a place where we were alone and we had sex.... We were together for 9 months but not no more... She has a new bf now
    MontyB2 MontyB2 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I was 14 and he was 17.

    We had been together for 4 months and it was both of our first time. We were both madly in love and I fall for him a little bit harder more and more each day. Our first time was at school. The last place where I'd want the magic between us to happen. We made love in the green...
    alysonmora alysonmora 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    While yeah I did! But it was long time ago!

    Like when I turned 13, look the ought my exper..... You'll see it there And I'm a GUY
    NathanNathanial NathanNathanial 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Back Seat Girl

    I was 14 when I lost my virginity, to a guy who was 19 on the back seat of his Dad's BMW.  I don't regret it as he knew how to make it good for me and it was kinda hot.  Still, I wish I had the big bed or satin sheets that people dream of.  Your shirt open and your skirt...
    caseybabes caseybabes 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    Hey , I havent lost my virginity yet

    but yes . Me and my boyfriend have been talking about it .We have been going out for almost a year . But I'm like really scared because I have no type of experience . And he is a virgin too . But can I get some advice. ? thankssss :)
    reluctancy reluctancy 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    About two months ago I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend. The Disney movie Aristocats was playing. I thought twice on the spot and we were at his house. We were both making out on his bed and one thing led to another. I've only been with him for 6 months but he's the most caring and respectful guy I ever met. He asked me if...
    notakat notakat 13-15, F Mar 12

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    I'm Not Ashamed...

    I met my boyfriend when I was 13, and he was 15.  I liked him a lot, and we really learned to love eachother over time.  After dating for a year, we decided to have sex.  I was 14, he was 16.  It was in his house, and after I slept with him, we became even closer.  We just...
    Banjobanjo3 Banjobanjo3 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    We was dating for 6 months

    and it was actually really sweet. He took his time and told me if he was hurting me we would stop. It only hurt alittle though. It was in my room, because he was visiting because we are long distance. He came in my room and then it just happened. It wasn't sex, it was love. We...
    laurenlici0us laurenlici0us 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    I lost my virginity at 14 to a guy

    who was 17. I wasn't in love and I don't regret, it was the beginning of my journey to explore and discover my sexuality. We continued having sex for about a year and then drifted apart.
    thenymphomanic thenymphomanic 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I don't regret it. It was with my boyfriend,

    one night I stayed over at his house. It's been almost a year now and we're still together and sleeping together was amazing for both of us and brought us closer together. He's 16.
    xAlix3 xAlix3 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Lost My Virginity At 14

    Me and my boyfriend had been dating a year and a half before we lost our virginities to each other. It was June 26, 2011. It wasn't exactly planned to happened but it did. It felt right and brought us closer. I have no regrets but a memory I can still vividly remember. It...
    ariyanna ariyanna 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    So I am 14 at the moment.

    I am dating a 16 year old guy that turns 17 in February. Me and him have been dating for a whole and so we decided to have sex. It was actually on the 5th of January (this year of coarse) we both decided it together but I'm scared he will run off and tell all his friends. I...
    promise90210 promise90210 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    So seeing this a lot of people lose their

    virginity at 14... I did I'm not proud of it and kind of regret it we used protection and this was a couple weeks ago it was my first time and I'm just worrying I might be pregnant but we used protection all 3 times we had sex and those 3 times we had sex was in one day I just...
    CountryGirl280 CountryGirl280 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 7

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