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I Lost My Virginity At 14

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    Back Seat Girl

    I was 14 when I lost my virginity, to a guy who was 19 on the back seat of his Dad's BMW.  I don't regret it as he knew how to make it good for me and it was kinda hot.  Still, I wish I had the big bed or satin sheets that people dream of.  Your shirt open and your skirt...
    caseybabes caseybabes 16-17, F 8 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    It is actually a funny tale.

    I don't remember his name, what he look life, or what we talked about. I was simply a very curious 14-year-old. I was very curious as to what sex was and how it felt. I was the equivalent of a man in engaging in sex with a woman, tell her how beautiful she is, and dismissing her...
    perilousindenvers perilousindenvers 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    He was my first boyfriend,

    we've actually got back together as of March last year so at least I can say it was the right person
    jolop jolop 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I feel like a complete hoe.

    I wanted to lose it at 18 or maybe even later. I also wanted it to be with someone special. Not saying my boyfriend isnt special to me, but im not in love with him. Plus we were on the couch. I dont want to tell anyone because im scared they will call me a hoe. It was fun at the...
    thatgirl992 thatgirl992 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 3

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    christmas break booty call- i shared my story

    of losing my virginity at 14, itll have been a year since i lost it tomorrow... so i thought id share the after story. when he told me he liked someone else i had been talking to a guy i hadnt talked to him in 2 years and we had hung out a couple times that week, so i was fine...
    SamTornado SamTornado 13-15, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I lost mines at 14 and I don't regret it haha I

    had sex with a girl I knew for 3 years and dated for 2 so I was ready we had sex in her friends bed and it lasted 3 hours (: and then we just cuddled for 2 hours then I kissed her and left and I didn't have to go too far because I lived right across the street and I enjoyed it...
    confessedteen confessedteen 18-21, M Jul 7

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    about 20 years ago when i was 14 i had sex

    for the first time , i had it with a close friend of mine , who had just became my boyfirend. i guess at that time me and him were very curios about sex and decided to try it , we enjoyed it very much and had sex often about 2 years later when i was 16 i got pregnant by him...
    jenneyroy2000 jenneyroy2000 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    Yeah I did, so what? I'm fed up of everyone

    judging me before they know the facts. People see me around and just treat me like I'm dirt, like I'm worthless. I didn't sleep around every night, I don't get my boobs & bum out for all the guys. I did it round at the guy's house the first time, he was my best mate & if I...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 24 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm 15 now and lost my virginity a month

    before my 15th birthday with my then boyfriend, who was almost 17 and also a virgin. We'd been together almost 2 months, but it felt like Id know him for years. It was before 10 am on a Saturday, on his bunk bed. Thinking about it now I sometimes wish it was a little more...
    crookedteethteen crookedteethteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    I might be pregnant..

    . I hope not.
    kittynanny kittynanny 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 9

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    Lost My Virginity At Age 14.

    I've had like many sexes with 3 different guys . And we never use condoms. It's just weird that I'm still not pregnant. I mean it's fun doing it. But somehow, I tend to like pop my cherry to the 3rd guy That I had sex with . Is it because his penis is too big? or what? .. Im 15...
    Isabelle00 Isabelle00 13-15 10 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Sister's Friend.

    My sister had a friend that I will remember for the rest of my life. She was 14 when I first met her and I was 12. She was the sexiest most beautiful girl I knew. She came over to our house alot to hang out with my sister and me and her got to know each other pretty well...
    Cash1456 Cash1456 18-21, M 24 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    I was bored waiting for my friend to come over

    but she was taking forever and he text me to come over and i wasn't going to because i was waiting for my friend but like always i would pick to hangout with him rather than my friends. i went to his house as soon as he opened the door he grabbed me an we started kissing and he...
    Snowbunny8711 Snowbunny8711 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Me and my girl where walking home from her

    friends party and when I walked her to her house we played arctic monkeys and it happened on her bed, I love my baby and I always will 😊
    ItsRon ItsRon 13-15, M Jul 29

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    I haven't lost mine yet.

    . But my boyfriend and I plan to do it at a homecoming after party this Saturday, so I'm really excited. Does it hurt the first time?
    Theend1000 Theend1000 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 28

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    I almost did at 13 but I just turned 14

    when I did. Me and this guy I liked had been hanging out for a while, and I used to sneek out to see him because I lived with my dad and hes veryy strict. However, my mom is not. So when I went to her place once she let him come over. After he met my mom I took him up to her...
    meli2 meli2 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Actually at 13 but idk how to make my own

    experience so im posting on here. Anyways. I lost my virginity at a party to a guy who was 17 named Dalton. We couldnt do it in the house because it was his party and he didnt want to walk past his mum with a girl going to his room. And we had been texting and planning to loose...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    15......Sex.....Showers....Sneakiness

    So, I turned 15 like this year and my boyfriend is 16. He always really wanted to have sex, but I was just to scared to do it because people said it hurt a lot. So one day I was at school, which is a all girl school and he goes to a all boy school, he asked me do you want to come...
    FrannieSaidHello FrannieSaidHello 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    It really wasn't up to me.

    And we weren't even dating. He was a total ***. But then I was into that kind of thing. He paid attention to me. That was new. We usually just made out and felt eachother up. Nothing serious. But here's the catch. He was 25. Yeah. I know. I was a stupid girl. We were out just...
    SongBird2115 SongBird2115 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    it was February 8th 2013.

    me & my boyfriend were at my house, no one but us were home. we were laying in my bed play fighting.. he ended up half on top of me, we kissed. & that kissed turned into a make out. i bit his lip occasionally, we got really into it, & he took my shirt off, then i took off his...
    18butterfly 18butterfly 16-17, F 12 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I'm Not Ashamed...

    I met my boyfriend when I was 13, and he was 15.  I liked him a lot, and we really learned to love eachother over time.  After dating for a year, we decided to have sex.  I was 14, he was 16.  It was in his house, and after I slept with him, we became even closer.  We just...
    Banjobanjo3 Banjobanjo3 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    I Never Really Had Him, Did I?

    My first time was nothing like i expected it to be. I first had sex when i was 14, almost 15. I met Sean* when i was only 6 yrs old and he was seven. Our families introduced us. He lives in Texas and I saw him every summer when my family went there. I was from atlanta so it was...
    mochapup812 mochapup812 16-17 6 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    When I hit highschool,

    I was a complete ****! I wore slutty clothes every day, like booty shorts and sports bras, and I always showed to others that I loved to express my sexuality! I was in 9th grade, and I was dating a 12 grader at the time. I hung out a lot with him and some of his other guy...
    Slutsister1234 Slutsister1234 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    I was home alone for a week

    so I called my boyfriend and asked him to come stay with so he did so the first night we were in my room watching a movie and we started to kiss then to making out then he.took my clothes off and started to finger me with 3 fingers it hurt soo much the I gave him a blow job then...
    Taylordesnomie19 Taylordesnomie19 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Regret

    I was 13 at the time and he was 15, I was with friends at one of their house. I was wearing a tank top and tight short shorts. There were 2 boys and 2 girls, we were dating or anything so I wasn't very comfortable with it. After it started getting dark 2 of my friends left...
    nubcaik nubcaik 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I was 14 when I lost my virginity the boy was

    17 I should have waited until marriage but I wanted to experience because some ppl I was around was doing it. It wasn't as painful as I thought it would be but the second time it hurted maybe because it was with a different boy. But I do regret losing my virginity before...
    cutelilshawty cutelilshawty 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    To My Cousin...

    so basically my cousin was always h0rny, and it was summer time, we were just watching tv together and we were just talking, and then he started kinda humping me, i thought he was playing, but he wasnt. so then i got on top of him and we just kinda started humping each other. a...
    marissarhoward marissarhoward 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Too Big Part 2

    He asked his usual question. "Wuchu thinkin" I answered him by saying i may want to lose my virginity..with you...tonight. He sai I don't have to if I don't want to and reminded me, " baby steps" I ended up giving him another *******, better than the last. He asked if I was...
    EmptyIsStrong EmptyIsStrong 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    I liked this boy for years

    and he finally started talking to me! I was over the moon he told me he wanted to be with me one day and told me loads of other cute things that made me fall for him more and more. About 3 weeks after we had started talking there was a party and it my first time drinking alcohol...
    khloee123 khloee123 13-15, F Jul 5

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    Ew ew I know. Okay here's the story.

    I lost my virginity. I just lost my virginity like 4 hours ago to my boyfriend. He is 14 and I'm 13. Ignore the title^ We thought about it and how weird it was because we're young. KIDS DO NOT HAVE SEX PLEASE. I'm very young but like I was just so curious. I told him would you...
    Azndiamond1234 Azndiamond1234 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    My Bestfriend ...

    One night I went out drinking with some friends. The night had just started to get fun until the cops came. Immediately everyone ran. I called my bestfriend because he lived close by and I ran to his house. It was raining and I was soaking wet so when I got there I asked for some...
    xxdaniellexx xxdaniellexx 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    When I was 14 I was still figuring out my

    sexuality. I went to this party where people were drinking and I saw my best friend there (who I had a small lesbian crush on) and after a couple drinks she and I left and we walked through the woods to get home where she then grabbed my *** and lead me to her house where her...
    MalloryCapel MalloryCapel 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Under The Stars.. In My Backyard

    It was a sunday, the weather was perfect. It was fresh with warm air that would hit your face and make you smile. My boyfriend came over and we were doing the usual things we do when we hide in my backyard... touch eachother. I was giving him a ******* and he was giving his sweet...
    zombiegurl18 zombiegurl18 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    If Only His Mum Came Home Later..

    i've been with my boyfriend for almosst 5 months now. We had been together before, but ended up breaking up because he was acting real wierd. anyway, we got back together and after about 2 weeks we started doing different things, like he fingered me, i tossed him off etc. After...
    Savannah254 Savannah254 13-15, F 21 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I lost my virginity at 14

    and it was only a couple weeks ago , I lost it with my sisters friend she's 16,I was at football training and I was the only one left in the locker rooms and I was in the showers and I heard the door open I just thought someone had left something in their locker so I went back...
    mrmarshall1 mrmarshall1 13-15, M Oct 28

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    I regret this so much

    and i feel so horrible. I also barley started talking to this guy and I liked him alot and i wanted him to like me so i went ahead and did it. He also is known for being a player and having sex with alot of girls, so I feel really stupid. I just couldnt hold it in any longer I...
    angelbaby8 angelbaby8 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 15

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    GRAFIC WARNING! Let's just say.

    It wasent like dream. It wasent magic or anything. But i lost it to the right person, and im happy about that. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 3 months. He had just turned 16 and i was 14 and 7 months. And to this day we had just kissed and somethimes made out. But i...
    rileysees rileysees 13-15, F Oct 28

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    I Dunno Why....

    I dunno why but I want to have sex again... Like when I lost my virginity August 26th, and ever since then I had a little part of me wanting to have sex again... Is something wrong with me??
    breejanae breejanae 16-17, F 11 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I'm still fourteen going on fifteen in a month

    and I lost my virginity a little while ago (: It was a pleasant experience and I don't regret it.
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F Dec 3

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    About two months ago I lost my virginity to my

    boyfriend. The Disney movie Aristocats was playing. I thought twice on the spot and we were at his house. We were both making out on his bed and one thing led to another. I've only been with him for 6 months but he's the most caring and respectful guy I ever met. He asked me if...
    notakat notakat 13-15, F Mar 12

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    OMG!!! I lost my virginity.

    .. You see, me and this guy Josh have been best friends since 2nd grade. Well, I haven't seen him for about 2 years. Then out of nowhere he decides to go to skateland ( my favorite skating rink). I just so happened to be there that night (it was his birthday). We talked for like...
    Paigeeeeeee Paigeeeeeee 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    Party

    When I was 14 everyone in my school had a boyfriend.. Except me. I just told myself that they just weren't good enough for me (totally not true). I was invited to this big party by this girl who was known for throwing the best parties with lots of people and boys from our school...
    margaret707 margaret707 22-25, F 14 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I havent lost mine yet

    but im planning to. Im 13 so hopefully i can lose it by this year or the next.
    KingGael07 KingGael07 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I lost mine to my best friends ex boyfriend.

    . this all happened in May. We were talking for almost 6 months over txt only, I hadn't seen him in person before that night. I was a Virgin and he wasn't.. So after my best friend and her mom went to sleep I snuck out. Yea I snuck out of my best friends house. We met up at the...
    Muppo23 Muppo23 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 29

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    I was at this party and this gorgeous guy

    whisked me away to a bedroom and took complete control - and I loved every second of it <3
    honeyhoney8 honeyhoney8 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I am 14 but yeah. I lost it to my current

    boyfriend. it was great :D. it felt different. like it hurt but felt good , lol.
    bbygrldifferent bbygrldifferent 13-15, F Nov 9

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    It was at school to tell the truth.

    We were alone in detention, I was writing a short story and she peeked at it, told me what I should add to it, grabbed me, pushed me in a corner, began kissing me and instructed me what to do. She never spoke to me after that but told a friend of her sister's who became my...
    Analdaddy420 Analdaddy420 51-55, M Nov 10

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    I don't regret it. I lost it to the only man

    who has treated me with respect. We are still together. I lost it on the floor of my basement while my whole family was upstairs.
    xXDARKFOWERXx xXDARKFOWERXx 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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    A Happy Story So Far <3

    I lost it a few months ago, it was so painful. I'm still with him though and he was amazing through the whole thing, he's never put pressure on me to do stuff and he's just perfect, i don't regret it at all. If anything, it made us closer :3 Update: It's been 13months and...
    lovessmiles lovessmiles 16-17, F 21 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Me and my boyfriend both lost our virginity

    when i was 14 and he was 15. We started having *** when we had been together about 9 months and now have been together 15 months. My parents found out this weekend and im struggling A LOT with the aftermass. Im just looking for some support and someone to message and tell the...
    greendayfan11 greendayfan11 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 14

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