I Lost My Virginity Really Young

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    I lost it when I was really young.

    12 actually, to my sister who was even younger than me, at 8. I never forced her, and she never forced me, it was just a mutual thing we did out of love, and neither of us regret doing it. and we have continued doing it for years after.
    rihouse777 rihouse777
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    I was just 15 and with in a month turning to 16

    and i lost it with my boyfriend.
    lovelyshabana lovelyshabana
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    lost it at 12 with my school driver.

    he always droped me last home.my parents never bothered.one day he took me home and screwed me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    I sucked first, at 6.

    But I lost my virginity at 12 to a family member.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    i know its not a competition.

    . but i did it before my 3 years older sister
    xArmyBratx xArmyBratx
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    It happened when I was 12 years old.

    I was attending this party, and made on I was older - at least 16 - in order to impress the boys there. It was stupid, but at the time, I thought I was really cool with all the eyeliner, blush, lipstick, just everything. I also went to that party wearing a very short, tight...
    Lipsinco Lipsinco
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 2, 2016

    I regret it, I love my parents

    and seeing them work hard to give me everything I want. And me paying them this way I regret . I did enjoyed it but I'm just scared. And very disappointed on myself help please
    bere24 bere24
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2016
    betweenmylegs22 betweenmylegs22
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2016

    My first sexual experience wasn't the whole

    route but I count it as at least losing my innocence. Story in comments below.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2015
    Pinkiepie98 Pinkiepie98
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2016

    I was 12, he was 23. now I know it was very

    wrong and I was far to young, he had a fiancé and we had met online!! that was the start of my love for older men who are off limits!! I'm 19 now, not had many sexual partners sadly :( but I have enjoyed all the experiences I have had!! I'm looking for a older man to teach me...
    AlmostNotaTeen AlmostNotaTeen
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend(we

    were in 8th grade). It was not at all like I expected it to be! We had made out many times before. We had even talked about wanting to be each other's first. We lived in the same neighborhood, so we made a plan to meet one night in the woods just down the street from my house...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

    I was 9yo when I lost my virginity to a much

    older man. I was always afraid to say anything but after reading stories here on EP I don't feel embarrassed anymore. I enjoyed it and miss it still.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016
    alexxxxx96 alexxxxx96
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Last year with my boyfriend.

    I was 12 and he was just 13 and we didn't plan it it just happened. We didn't use protection but he pulled out soon enough. I don't feel great about it but I still love him and don't regret it. We didn't have sex again since then.
    legzzz2002 legzzz2002
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2016

    well im 14 and i lost my virginity to my older

    brothers friend. him and i have always been close like really close. it just happened i went to his house and we had sex. (with a condom)
    XxhippyxX XxhippyxX
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 3, 2015

    Looking back at it now,

    I really regret losing it that young and I wish I had been a bit more grown up and saved myself for someone special. The worst thing is, the guy I did it with wasn't even my boyfriend, he was just a lad in the year above me in school. It was May 2008 and I was eleven years old...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 12, 2016

    I was 13 at the time.

    It was with my friend Brandie. We were dating at the time and we had been for 2 months. Anyway, I snuck out late one night and went to her house. We were kissing then we started *******. We're not together anymore but we're still friends.
    alyssanar123 alyssanar123
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    I lost mine at 19 to a friends cousin.

    I don't regret a thing. We loved each other and I wanted a family with him but my mom would of flipped out if she found out so I never told her. He was amazing and I do miss him a lot.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016

    My first was not planned at all.

    It started with a movie and snacks and by the end of the night I was his. I was probably too young but I don't actually regret it.
    littlelolo littlelolo
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 5, 2015
    Quokka61 Quokka61
    51-55, M
    9 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    I was 8 or 9. It was with my cousin,

    he was 10. I'm not sure we really did it that first time but we keep trying!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 13, 2016

    Today I was soo close.

    He told me we should do it after a while but I suppose he's right. We only started going out today. Good thing is though, we are both 13
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 21, 2016

    I was 14 she was 17 and she was gorgeous

    but also very experienced for her age. She giggled at my package constantly and would only use two fingers while touching it. I came inside her after my third pump and she was livid haha
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016

    Anyone wanna tell me how

    and when they lost their virginity. I also love taboo stories. Pm me
    Liv1221 Liv1221
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    i was 12 and it was the perfect time.

    changed my life into the right direction. 1st time hurt like hell, 2nd time was a lot better, 3rd time started the fun and since 4th time im addicted.
    badgirladdicted2fun badgirladdicted2fun
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Mar 16, 2016
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 13, 2016
    SteffiBanks SteffiBanks
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 3, 2015
    karebear92 karebear92
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Aug 25, 2015

    When I was ten a friend took me to a bush in

    dressed me and sat on top of me and I never did it again till was 17 but I don't class it as losing it at the age ten.
    Leylandlad Leylandlad
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    It happened before I was a teen.

    And no, it was no force, no rape, no abuse, no love... just curiosity. I felt ready, I wanted to try sex and there was this guy who gave me what I wanted :)
    sxylaura sxylaura
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Mar 15, 2016

    I was 13 when I lost it.

    Full (comical too) story below.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    I lost mine when I was about 4

    or 5 years old... Well I thinks so. Could have been earlier. I don't know... The only thing I remember Is that I used to play with some boys and I wanted to have it in my mount and in the ***. And I also wanna give... I also remember how I told them to pee in my mouth...
    realcomplicated realcomplicated
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 12, 2016

    Siblings playing games.

    Then the games get more serious and daring. When I was 8 an older brother started trying to penetrate me but it wasn't happening yet. He was 11. I actually think I took care of it myself with a carrot. He got what he wanted when I was 10.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    I was nine, he was fortytwo.

    He had to pull me on to him we were so mis-sized together. We got pregnant after my first baby, that's how long we've been together.
    bustybobo bustybobo
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Mar 26, 2016

    I lost mine at 11 to my cousin

    that was a bit older then me. But I'd gave head a lot before actually doing it with him and I'd been fingered by a couple guys.
    emily69all emily69all
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 14, 2015
    drummerchic4Christ drummerchic4Christ
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2014

    not sure if i by this group actually qualify

    as really young lol... but was last september few weeks after my 14th birthday. could have done it before but i wanted my first time to be complete... no condoms or pulling out... feel it all. so had to wait till i could get on birthcontrol. and it was worth it.. it was...
    Marceline01 Marceline01
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    I was very young when I lost my virginity.

    I lost it to my brother when I was about 7. I don't remember it too much, but I do remember that it wasn't rape. I fully consented to the act and I enjoyed it. I had been doing other stuff with him since I was 6 and I fully understood what was happening to me and what he was...
    Grace167 Grace167
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 6, 2015

    I was 13 and my dad had a few friends over

    and they were all drinking.. my dad must have passed out or gone to the store bc it was me and his friend alone in the hot tub.. he was older and i thought he was cute so i was flirting with him, rubbing against him a little.. rest has to be in comments bc they always delete my...
    sexxibaby4u sexxibaby4u
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    It's pretty good I think!

    So me and this guy were talking for about 3 months but have known each other for about 4 years we go to school together and he's super cute. Anyways he came over 4/2 at 2am and I got into his car and we began to talk and then it escalated quickly to him grabbing my had and...
    Destiny85 Destiny85
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2016

    I was 13. He was much older,

    a friend of my parents. He pursued me for ages, flirting with me, watching and touching me inappropriately... Pm for more x
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    I was 12, no idea if thats what you call

    "really young". Anyway, i was proud of myself after i got it done... why wait when you are ready to have fun!?
    poiuztrkjhgf poiuztrkjhgf
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Dec 2, 2015

    I finally lost it to my boyfriend of 6 months.

    It was amazing, and it felt so good. Every time I see him I can't help but want to get him back into my bed. So glad this happened to me :)
    thegirlwunder thegirlwunder
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I was 13 as I lost my virginity,

    it was really painful but ok
    Orsolya Orsolya
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2016

    I was under 13 that's all I will say

    for now , but it did make me very sexual in life later and still am now
    karacumming karacumming
    41-45, F
    12 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    I was 10 when I first had sex.

    It was with my mum's best friend's son
    Clairebear31 Clairebear31
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jan 17, 2016

    I just lost my virginity like a week ago,

    it was so fun, but my friends older brother caught us, but he was cool about it and didn't tell on us. now he covers for us and even lets us have sex in his apartment
    Natashka12 Natashka12
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Oct 19, 2014

    Wasn't by choice. luckily I've forgiven him

    for all the things he did those three years and I've not held a grudge against men like my sister has for what she went through. forgiveness had been one of the best lessons in my life that I've learnt. But it's also me trying to find the good side in bad situations, even rape...
    CherrybombBetty CherrybombBetty
    31-35, F
    Mar 16, 2016

    i was 15 last summer.

    .. reading this here i feel like i missed out for years doh
    xBadgirlx xBadgirlx
    16-17, F
    8 Responses Feb 26, 2016
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