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I Lost My Virginity When I Was 13

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 430 People


    I lost my virginity when I was 13 - and I've never regretted it. Before then I was playing with boys - being groped, playing with them and so on - but the first time I had proper sex, penetration, was amazing. Yes it hurt to start with. No that hurt didn't last. And as it...
    Kerstin1993 Kerstin1993
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2011

    I Crave Sex

    I lost my virginity when I was 13 years old. There was this group of us three girls and five boys. Each of the girls would have to have sex with each of the boys. When it was my turn I turned chicken. My friends all teased me so I finally gave in. I'm glad I did I enjoyed it so...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    Double Carneval

    I was raised on humanist ideals and education, thus have my latin grammar ready... The orgin of the term carneval probably has to do with caro, carnis = meat.. That makes sense for me because when I was just 13 I roamed the streets of my city, it was a warm winter afternoon, and...
    maestro1x maestro1x
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 4, 2010

    Good Man Or Bad, I Wish I'd Done It Sooner!

    I hit puberty early (about 8 years old) and had breasts and large nipples in third grade.  I hated it!  I was growing so fast that all my clothes were tight and boys in school would ogle and sneer, and girls shunned me.  At the time, I thought it was because I was a freak...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    48 Responses Mar 28, 2010

    Becoming A Woman

    It was only a week after my 13th birthday. I had about 4-5 periods to that point and felt an incredible desire to experience sex. I had *********** a lot and was naturally milti orgasmic and squirted everytime a lot.    My first man was a much older, extremely...
    CheatingBBW CheatingBBW
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 6, 2009

    Blame The English :)

    I was brought up a good catholic girl in Ireland till my Mum and Dad split up.  It was a real shocker to me made even worse because Mum decided to move to England because their economy was doing better than ours in Ireland and she could get a better job there in their health...
    KatiefromIreland KatiefromIreland
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2011

    Yes I Did.

    I lost my viginity when I was 13 to a guy that was 18. He was a guy that lived near the cottage my family owns. I was there for the week and he was talking to me at the lake. That night I sneaked out and met up with him. We went to his cottage and started fooling around. He got...
    GivemeyourbestShot GivemeyourbestShot
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

    It Was Like That...

    When i was 13 i was a really lonely kid, i almost didn't had any friends (and the ones that i had werent real)and stuff..... I really liked(and still like) emo style and there was this hot emo boy that I talked to on facebook ,he was 17 and lived in the same city that and we...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2012


    When I was 13, my boyfriend and I had been going out for about 2 months. We fooled around a lot. He fingered me and played with my **** and I had given him a couple of handjobs but that was it. One day we were fooling around in my room after school. We were dry humping and I was...
    arizonachijo arizonachijo
    22-25, F
    22 Responses Dec 14, 2011

    I don't know if this counts

    but I ********** and I took a huge brush handle and I stuck it up there and I bled a little and I told my ex boyfriend (now he's a ex) and he said why didn't you call me. Am I still a virgin or what?
    rascallydude rascallydude
    22-25, F
    Jun 26, 2014

    My First Time

    I was 13 in 7th grade and sexually frustrated.. I fantasized about sex ever since I could remember, but was to shy to even talk to guys. Or else I might have lost my virginity even earlier, tbh. anyway, one day in my math class my teacher sat me next to a boy who I had a small...
    sasha1013 sasha1013
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2012

    I Might As Well Put It Out There.

    I was debating if I was going to share this, but the idea of this site is to share experiences. So here I go. Some people might think this is creepy but I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my 16 yr old cousin. I'll explain. This cousin lived on the west coast and I lived and...
    OpenCallie OpenCallie
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 26, 2012

    In January of eighth grade I started "dating" a

    boy that I thought liked me a lot, but it turned out that I had to constantly fight for his attention between his affection for another girl and his parents' hatred for me solely for being white (he is Asian). During this time I was also experiencing extreme self hatred...
    awnikkiyouresofine awnikkiyouresofine
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2014


    I was 13 at the time i lost my virginity. We would always spend the Christams Holidays on the beach. The day i arrived was the day i met the guy who would pop me open. It was instant from the time we met, he was cute, well built and a little older (15). We awere talking and...
    divastar75 divastar75
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2011

    13, Sex Every Night

    Well, when I was 13 I moved to England, and found it really difficult to make friends, till I met this girl, she wore the shortest skirts, and smoked. I was so thankful to have found a friend, that I started smoking and drinking, I got attention from all boys, everyone thought I...
    AnnaLockhartx AnnaLockhartx
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    In The Woods

    I lost my virginity at 13 to my girlfriend at the time. We had been going out for 2-3 months and always had fun fooling around. One night on the phone she told me she wanted to have sex; of course I agreed! 2 weeks later we had the chance...while taking a walk we were able to...
    Swordfish2185 Swordfish2185
    22-25, M
    Sep 7, 2011


    It wsa the beginning of the year and i met my friends brother he was 22, he would always try to come sit next to me when i was at her house... she thought it was strange but i quickly tried to cover it up by saying we are just friends when i knew he wanted to be more than jsut...
    anonymous1542 anonymous1542
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2010


    Well. I lost my virginity to a guy they call chupie but his real name is Antonio. We dated for a while And then we started getting serious. Well one day we were chilling and then we started making out. We were making out and we got carried away. He started taking my shirt off And...
    xenababy xenababy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2013

    Sex At 13

    Well he was 14 and I liked him a lot and still don't regret it At first we were over his grandmas making out and then his grandma came home so we left and went to his house we were watching a movie and then we started kissing agin and then he took off my shirt then took off my...
    Kaylee20 Kaylee20
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2013

    I'm 14 and he just turned 19.

    I wanted it so bad. Just the feeling of his finger tips lingering on my skin gave me the goosebumps and we had so much chemistry. We had been acting like a couple for around 3 months. But I remember just going for it. I was pretty drunk. He didn't want to because I was drunk...
    clairekinz clairekinz
    22-25, F
    Jan 3, 2014

    On my 13th birthday, I lost my virginity to a

    older boyfriend. We had protected sex, a few times, and no I did not get pregnant at that time.
    bustymominbackyard bustymominbackyard
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    I Was 13 When I Lost My Virginty..

    So me and my boyfriend had been together about 2months.. i Truste him enough to loose it to him but never really thogh about the idea until one day i was home alone an we had been texting, he wanted to come over so i agreed. when he got to my house i was kind of nervous but not...
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2012
    canuckrider canuckrider
    56-60, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015

    Lost It? Not Exactly.

    I didn't lose my virginity. I gave it away quite gratefully, thank you very much!
    sarahcantstop sarahcantstop
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 14, 2012

    Just With My Girlfriend

    I admit I am 13 and have had sex with my girlfriend we have been together for just 3 to 4 weeks now and about 10 days ago I had sex with her! it started with my friends and her friends sort of already deciding they were going to make us have sex. My girlfriend was having a...
    georj004 georj004
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 6, 2011

    Amateur Love

    He was a good friend of mine. Handsome, smart, sexy and rugged for a 14 year old. I actually wanted him so badly and he wanted me too. So when we were at a pool party of a old friend of mine, I decided that I was ready for him. I wor my skimpiest flattering bikini and let my...
    xoxsexicupcakez xoxsexicupcakez
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 18, 2012

    When It's Right, It's Right

    I started Senior School when I was 11. Everyone matures at different rates and out of a class of about 15 girls, about a third seemed to be still little girls and just over half of us were already well into puberty - boobs, periods, hair, constant thoughts about guys - the lot...
    NeverFollowRules NeverFollowRules
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    Scared And Nervous!!!

    I'm 13 right now, my friend Remy wants to have sex with me! I'm so scared, every time i think about it my legs start to shake, my heart starts POUNDING!! I really really wanna have sex with him, but something is telling me no..What do I do? I'm so nervous...I don't wanna get...
    SexLifeScares SexLifeScares
    4 Responses Mar 25, 2013

    What Should I Do??

    Okay, Im In 7th Grade & 13 Years Old. I Have Thiss Really Hot Neighbor & Finnally Started To Talk To Him . A Year Past & We're Still Textin The Other Dayy He Told Me Lets Hang Out But At Night. I Said Okay Then . We Hanged Out Then He Grabbed Me , Pulled Me Closer To Him & Kissed...
    AngelBa AngelBa
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

    Mates Big Sister Nadine.

    I was 13 and well developed compared to most boys my age but completly inexperienced, my mates sister was a curvy curious babe called Nadine and she wanted to be sexually active i just didn't take the hints, like the time she walked into the bathroom and caught me wanking and...
    ErikShun ErikShun
    31-35, M
    Nov 10, 2010


    It had been summer time, there was this boy who always teased me in grade school. We had just randomly started to go out, curiosity struck us, and the second month it happened. I didn't like it *** much as I thought I would, plus he wasn't the perfect size he was almost too...
    IvannaQuinn IvannaQuinn
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2012

    Didn't Think That That Was Gonna Happen..

    Well first off i was 12 when i dated him and he was 13 but in the same grade. and then he dumped me for my bestfriend and she sayed yes but i really didnt care so after that i left and went to go live with my dad and like i didnt really date after that only like 2 or 3 guys but...
    iMadeaMistake iMadeaMistake
    18-21, F
    Apr 17, 2012


    I lost my virginity at 13 yrs old to a guy who was 27. I was living in Guatemala at the time. He was a friend of the family and we had sex one night two times. Both times bareback and he emptied inside of me both times.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2013

    One Stupid Mistake

    well my story is I met this guy when i was about 13 and a half at a camp. He wooed me and made me feel really special. Anyway we started dating. First started off with kissing then progressed to other things. He was my first boyfriend and I was a very shy girl. Anyway after...
    lachicka09 lachicka09
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2012
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