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I Lost My Virginity When I Was 13

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    My First Time

    I've loved to be caressed for as long as I can remember. I was around 7 or 8 though, when I remember really liking it. I had an uncle who used to sit with me while Mom worked. I'd lay for hours in front of the tv with my head in his lap and him gently rubbing my bottom. When I...
    CalistaCann CalistaCann 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    What Should I Do??

    Okay, Im In 7th Grade & 13 Years Old. I Have Thiss Really Hot Neighbor & Finnally Started To Talk To Him . A Year Past & We're Still Textin The Other Dayy He Told Me Lets Hang Out But At Night. I Said Okay Then . We Hanged Out Then He Grabbed Me , Pulled Me Closer To Him & Kissed...
    AngelBa AngelBa 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Just With My Girlfriend

    I admit I am 13 and have had sex with my girlfriend we have been together for just 3 to 4 weeks now and about 10 days ago I had sex with her! it started with my friends and her friends sort of already deciding they were going to make us have sex. My girlfriend was having a...
    georj004 georj004 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2011

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    13

    I lost my virginity when I was 13 - and I've never regretted it. Before then I was playing with boys - being groped, playing with them and so on - but the first time I had proper sex, penetration, was amazing. Yes it hurt to start with. No that hurt didn't last. And as it...
    Kerstin1993 Kerstin1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    Lost My Virginity When I Was 13

    Well I lost my virginity when I was 13 I knew this boy who liked me over a year and 9 months and I started dating him on sept 3 2008 and a month later he accused of me cheating on him buy I didnt and he cried for me and then I was about to leave him he grabbed me and made me stay...
    Bbg55 Bbg55 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    In The Woods

    I lost my virginity at 13 to my girlfriend at the time. We had been going out for 2-3 months and always had fun fooling around. One night on the phone she told me she wanted to have sex; of course I agreed! 2 weeks later we had the chance...while taking a walk we were able to...
    Swordfish2185 Swordfish2185 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    I'm Just a Kid

    and i'm having sex is that wrong? i've had sex with three guys already, and i'm only fourteen! ahhhhh, i feel like such a ****, but every guy seemed somewhat legitimate, ya know? i just feel kinda crazy
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry 13-15, F 37 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Summer of '94.

    I was out of school on summer vacation, between my 7th and 8th grades, and there was this guy who lived down the street from us at the time. He was 25, had long dark hair, a nice body, and played guitar in a rock band. He was also a sweet guy, with a sarcastic sense of humor...
    QuartzKitty QuartzKitty 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    Virginity, Huh?

    Actually I don't lose it in 13 but in 10 when I felt my stepdad finger in my *****. Each time goming home from school, I have to lie back on the crouch and he will play his fingers in my *****. He do it gently until his **** growing hard. After it, he will lied back and it's came...
    NenaAndHubby NenaAndHubby 31-35, F 73 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Lost It? Not Exactly.

    I didn't lose my virginity. I gave it away quite gratefully, thank you very much!
    sarahcantstop sarahcantstop 26-30, F 6 Responses May 14, 2012

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    I Crave Sex

    I lost my virginity when I was 13 years old. There was this group of us three girls and five boys. Each of the girls would have to have sex with each of the boys. When it was my turn I turned chicken. My friends all teased me so I finally gave in. I'm glad I did I enjoyed it so...
    Angel3425 Angel3425 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    In January of eighth grade I started "dating" a

    boy that I thought liked me a lot, but it turned out that I had to constantly fight for his attention between his affection for another girl and his parents' hatred for me solely for being white (he is Asian). During this time I was also experiencing extreme self hatred...
    awnikkiyouresofine awnikkiyouresofine 18-21, F Jun 29

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    1st Time

    It all happened the summer before starting high school. All the girls i hung around was having sex and I was very curious to see what the hype was about. One morning when my mom went to work he rode his bike over. Either of us was very experience so it was very awkward! He...
    thelovelytay thelovelytay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Oops

    When I was 13, my boyfriend and I had been going out for about 2 months. We fooled around a lot. He fingered me and played with my **** and I had given him a couple of handjobs but that was it. One day we were fooling around in my room after school. We were dry humping and I was...
    arizonachijo arizonachijo 22-25, F 37 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I'm 14 and he just turned 19.

    I wanted it so bad. Just the feeling of his finger tips lingering on my skin gave me the goosebumps and we had so much chemistry. We had been acting like a couple for around 3 months. But I remember just going for it. I was pretty drunk. He didn't want to because I was drunk...
    clairekinz clairekinz 18-21, F Jan 3

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    Lost My Virginity At A Party [[must Read!]]

    When I Was 13 Years Old I Lost My Virginity 7th Grade, With A Girl That Was 13 Too . She Wasnt My Girlfriend Or Nothing! We Would Always Sext , Exchange Rated R Piks Of Each Other ;D We Were // Are Both Freaks (; We Had Gone To Our Homegirls Party , We Had Both Tooken Like 2...
    HenryyAayee1 HenryyAayee1 13-15 2 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Sex At 13

    Well he was 14 and I liked him a lot and still don't regret it At first we were over his grandmas making out and then his grandma came home so we left and went to his house we were watching a movie and then we started kissing agin and then he took off my shirt then took off my...
    Kaylee20 Kaylee20 36-40, F Aug 22, 2013

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    One Stupid Mistake

    well my story is I met this guy when i was about 13 and a half at a camp. He wooed me and made me feel really special. Anyway we started dating. First started off with kissing then progressed to other things. He was my first boyfriend and I was a very shy girl. Anyway after...
    lachicka09 lachicka09 26-30, F Oct 6, 2012

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    Double Carneval

    I was raised on humanist ideals and education, thus have my latin grammar ready... The orgin of the term carneval probably has to do with caro, carnis = meat.. That makes sense for me because when I was just 13 I roamed the streets of my city, it was a warm winter afternoon, and...
    maestro1x maestro1x 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2010

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    My First Time

    I was 13 in 7th grade and sexually frustrated.. I fantasized about sex ever since I could remember, but was to shy to even talk to guys. Or else I might have lost my virginity even earlier, tbh. anyway, one day in my math class my teacher sat me next to a boy who I had a small...
    sasha1013 sasha1013 18-21, F Sep 3, 2012

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    Becoming A Woman

    It was only a week after my 13th birthday. I had about 4-5 periods to that point and felt an incredible desire to experience sex. I had *********** a lot and was naturally milti orgasmic and squirted everytime a lot.    My first man was a much older, extremely...
    CheatingBBW CheatingBBW 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Antonio

    Well. I lost my virginity to a guy they call chupie but his real name is Antonio. We dated for a while And then we started getting serious. Well one day we were chilling and then we started making out. We were making out and we got carried away. He started taking my shirt off And...
    xenababy xenababy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    Scared And Nervous!!!

    I'm 13 right now, my friend Remy wants to have sex with me! I'm so scared, every time i think about it my legs start to shake, my heart starts POUNDING!! I really really wanna have sex with him, but something is telling me no..What do I do? I'm so nervous...I don't wanna get...
    SexLifeScares SexLifeScares 22-25 4 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    13

    It had been summer time, there was this boy who always teased me in grade school. We had just randomly started to go out, curiosity struck us, and the second month it happened. I didn't like it *** much as I thought I would, plus he wasn't the perfect size he was almost too...
    Angelofloveandlife Angelofloveandlife 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    13, Sex Every Night

    Well, when I was 13 I moved to England, and found it really difficult to make friends, till I met this girl, she wore the shortest skirts, and smoked. I was so thankful to have found a friend, that I started smoking and drinking, I got attention from all boys, everyone thought I...
    AnnaLockhartx AnnaLockhartx 22-25 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    Holidays

    I was 13 at the time i lost my virginity. We would always spend the Christams Holidays on the beach. The day i arrived was the day i met the guy who would pop me open. It was instant from the time we met, he was cute, well built and a little older (15). We awere talking and...
    divastar75 divastar75 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    When It's Right, It's Right

    I started Senior School when I was 11. Everyone matures at different rates and out of a class of about 15 girls, about a third seemed to be still little girls and just over half of us were already well into puberty - boobs, periods, hair, constant thoughts about guys - the lot...
    NeverFollowRules NeverFollowRules 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    ..

    It wsa the beginning of the year and i met my friends brother he was 22, he would always try to come sit next to me when i was at her house... she thought it was strange but i quickly tried to cover it up by saying we are just friends when i knew he wanted to be more than jsut...
    anonymous1542 anonymous1542 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    I Might As Well Put It Out There.

    I was debating if I was going to share this, but the idea of this site is to share experiences. So here I go. Some people might think this is creepy but I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my 16 yr old cousin. I'll explain. This cousin lived on the west coast and I lived and...
    OpenCallie OpenCallie 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Didn't Think That That Was Gonna Happen..

    Well first off i was 12 when i dated him and he was 13 but in the same grade. and then he dumped me for my bestfriend and she sayed yes but i really didnt care so after that i left and went to go live with my dad and like i didnt really date after that only like 2 or 3 guys but...
    iMadeaMistake iMadeaMistake 18-21, F Apr 17, 2012

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    Amateur Love

    He was a good friend of mine. Handsome, smart, sexy and rugged for a 14 year old. I actually wanted him so badly and he wanted me too. So when we were at a pool party of a old friend of mine, I decided that I was ready for him. I wor my skimpiest flattering bikini and let my...
    xoxsexicupcakez xoxsexicupcakez 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    It Was Like That...

    When i was 13 i was a really lonely kid, i almost didn't had any friends (and the ones that i had werent real)and stuff..... I really liked(and still like) emo style and there was this hot emo boy that I talked to on facebook ,he was 17 and lived in the same city that and we...
    Ponche Ponche 22-25 2 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    Yes I Did.

    I lost my viginity when I was 13 to a guy that was 18. He was a guy that lived near the cottage my family owns. I was there for the week and he was talking to me at the lake. That night I sneaked out and met up with him. We went to his cottage and started fooling around. He got...
    GivemeyourbestShot GivemeyourbestShot 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    I Was 13 When I Lost My Virginty..

    So me and my boyfriend had been together about 2months.. i Truste him enough to loose it to him but never really thogh about the idea until one day i was home alone an we had been texting, he wanted to come over so i agreed. when he got to my house i was kind of nervous but not...
    BigGEMINI BigGEMINI 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Blame The English :)

    I was brought up a good catholic girl in Ireland till my Mum and Dad split up.  It was a real shocker to me made even worse because Mum decided to move to England because their economy was doing better than ours in Ireland and she could get a better job there in their health...
    KatiefromIreland KatiefromIreland 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2011

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    I don't know if this counts

    but I ********** and I took a huge brush handle and I stuck it up there and I bled a little and I told my ex boyfriend (now he's a ex) and he said why didn't you call me. Am I still a virgin or what?
    rascallydude rascallydude 18-21, F Jun 26

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    Good Man Or Bad, I Wish I'd Done It Sooner!

    I hit puberty early (about 8 years old) and had breasts and large nipples in third grade.  I hated it!  I was growing so fast that all my clothes were tight and boys in school would ogle and sneer, and girls shunned me.  At the time, I thought it was because I was a freak...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F 48 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    Her Name Was Liz

    Her name was Liz and she was 16. Not sure what see saw is some skinny 13 year old, but for what ever reason we had played around some for a while, kissing and touching when ever we had the chance. She had red hair and her ***** matched. I remember getting on my knees and licking...
    indybrit indybrit 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2013

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    Yes.

    I lost my virginity at 13 yrs old to a guy who was 27. I was living in Guatemala at the time. He was a friend of the family and we had sex one night two times. Both times bareback and he emptied inside of me both times.
    AlwaysMisha AlwaysMisha 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait...
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    I was always afraid, and I wanted to wait till marriage, but it didn't happen. :/ I lost it at 18 to an ex. That was 2 years ago, and he wants me back. :/
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    I waited through my teenage years to lose my virginity, it was something very special and precious to me, I didn't want some random guy to take it. it took me three useless...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Yes, again. I know I'm not on this very frequently. I see this as my secret little place to vent out and say how I feel. Anyway as few of you may know, I lost my father last year...
    Kratie Kratie 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I found my soul mate 35 years ago, When I met her she said she hated me, yet a week later we were married and spent the next 2 Years together. I lost her when a drunk driver hit...
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    Hello, my name is Diane and I am a junior at Rutgers. After the recent news concerning Mike Brown/Ferguson and police brutality, and reading about the protests occurring in NJ, I...
    deekayyy deekayyy 18-21, F Aug 18

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    About three years ago in September, I was physically abandoned by the man I once considered my hero. He was my best friend, my hero, and my protector. I miss him but he wants...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just read this on someone's blog and it's so true .. "Defining virginity ultimately has to be an individual journey. From a personal perspective I prefer to say that I was raped as...
    demie18 demie18 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am 49 years old I am in the middle of my second failed marriage I have been disabled since I was 38 years old but did manage to hold my head above water until recently I have 3...
    smitttyd smitttyd 46-50, M 15 hrs ago

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16. I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Ew ew I know. Okay here's the story. I lost my virginity. I just lost my virginity like 4 hours ago to my boyfriend. He is 14 and I'm 13. Ignore the title^ We thought about it...
    Azndiamond1234 Azndiamond1234 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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