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I Lost My Virginity When I Was 13

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    Lost My Virginity When I Was 13 - Well I lost my virginity when I was 13 I knew this boy who liked me over a year and 9 months and I started dating him on sept 3 2008 and a month...
    Bbg55 Bbg55 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    What Should I Do?? - Okay, Im In 7th Grade & 13 Years Old. I Have Thiss Really Hot Neighbor & Finnally Started To Talk To Him . A Year Past & We're Still Textin The Other Dayy He...
    AngelBa AngelBa 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    I Was 13 When I Lost My Virginty.. - So me and my boyfriend had been together about 2months.. i Truste him enough to loose it to him but never really thogh about the idea until one...
    BigGEMINI BigGEMINI 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    In The Woods - I lost my virginity at 13 to my girlfriend at the time. We had been going out for 2-3 months and always had fun fooling around. One night on the phone she told me...
    Swordfish2185 Swordfish2185 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    My Mom's Boss - I lost my virginity to my mom's boss. I used to go visit her at work sometimes, and he'd flirt with me and I'd flirt back just playing around. At some point it...
    alexisissex alexisissex 18-21, F 21 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Good Man Or Bad, I Wish I'd Done It Sooner! - I hit puberty early (about 8 years old) and had breasts and large nipples in third grade.  I hated it!  I was growing so fast...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F 48 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    Oops - When I was 13, my boyfriend and I had been going out for about 2 months. We fooled around a lot. He fingered me and played with my **** and I had given him a couple of...
    arizonachijo arizonachijo 22-25, F 39 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    Yes. - I lost my virginity at 13 yrs old to a guy who was 27. I was living in Guatemala at the time. He was a friend of the family and we had sex one night two times. Both times...
    AlwaysMisha AlwaysMisha 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    When It's Right, It's Right - I started Senior School when I was 11. Everyone matures at different rates and out of a class of about 15 girls, about a third seemed to be still...
    NeverFollowRules NeverFollowRules 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    Her Name Was Liz - Her name was Liz and she was 16. Not sure what see saw is some skinny 13 year old, but for what ever reason we had played around some for a while, kissing and...
    indybrit indybrit 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2013

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    One Stupid Mistake - well my story is I met this guy when i was about 13 and a half at a camp. He wooed me and made me feel really special. Anyway we started dating. First...
    lachicka09 lachicka09 26-30, F Oct 6, 2012

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    13 - I lost my virginity when I was 13 - and I've never regretted it. Before then I was playing with boys - being groped, playing with them and so on - but the first time I had...
    Kerstin1993 Kerstin1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2011

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    Holidays - I was 13 at the time i lost my virginity. We would always spend the Christams Holidays on the beach. The day i arrived was the day i met the guy who would pop me open...
    divastar75 divastar75 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    I'm Just a Kid - and i'm having sex is that wrong? i've had sex with three guys already, and i'm only fourteen! ahhhhh, i feel like such a ****, but every guy seemed somewhat...
    Gallimaufry Gallimaufry 13-15, F 37 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Antonio - Well. I lost my virginity to a guy they call chupie but his real name is Antonio. We dated for a while And then we started getting serious. Well one day we were chilling...
    xenababy xenababy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    Lost It? Not Exactly. - I didn't lose my virginity. I gave it away quite gratefully, thank you very much!
    sarahcantstop sarahcantstop 26-30, F 5 Responses May 14, 2012

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    Summer of '94. - I was out of school on summer vacation, between my 7th and 8th grades, and there was this guy who lived down the street from us at the time. He was 25, had long...
    QuartzKitty QuartzKitty 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    .. - It wsa the beginning of the year and i met my friends brother he was 22, he would always try to come sit next to me when i was at her house... she thought it was strange but i...
    anonymous1542 anonymous1542 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    13 - It had been summer time, there was this boy who always teased me in grade school. We had just randomly started to go out, curiosity struck us, and the second month it...
    Angelofloveandlife Angelofloveandlife 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    My First Time - I was 13 in 7th grade and sexually frustrated.. I fantasized about sex ever since I could remember, but was to shy to even talk to guys. Or else I might have lost...
    sasha1013 sasha1013 18-21, F Sep 3, 2012

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    I Might As Well Put It Out There. - I was debating if I was going to share this, but the idea of this site is to share experiences. So here I go. Some people might think this is...
    OpenCallie OpenCallie 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    I Crave Sex - I lost my virginity when I was 13 years old. There was this group of us three girls and five boys. Each of the girls would have to have sex with each of the boys...
    Angel3425 Angel3425 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    13, Sex Every Night - Well, when I was 13 I moved to England, and found it really difficult to make friends, till I met this girl, she wore the shortest skirts, and smoked. I was...
    AnnaLockhartx AnnaLockhartx 18-21 Aug 30, 2013

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    Sex At 13 - Well he was 14 and I liked him a lot and still don't regret it At first we were over his grandmas making out and then his grandma came home so we left and went to his...
    Kaylee20 Kaylee20 36-40, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Lost My Virginity At A Party [[must Read!]] - When I Was 13 Years Old I Lost My Virginity 7th Grade, With A Girl That Was 13 Too . She Wasnt My Girlfriend Or Nothing! We Would...
    HenryyAayee1 HenryyAayee1 13-15 2 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Yes I Did. - I lost my viginity when I was 13 to a guy that was 18. He was a guy that lived near the cottage my family owns. I was there for the week and he was talking to me at...
    GivemeyourbestShot GivemeyourbestShot 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Scared And Nervous!!! - I'm 13 right now, my friend Remy wants to have sex with me! I'm so scared, every time i think about it my legs start to shake, my heart starts POUNDING!! I...
    SexLifeScares SexLifeScares 22-25 3 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    Didn't Think That That Was Gonna Happen.. - Well first off i was 12 when i dated him and he was 13 but in the same grade. and then he dumped me for my bestfriend and she sayed yes...
    iMadeaMistake iMadeaMistake 18-21, F Apr 17, 2012

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    Double Carneval - I was raised on humanist ideals and education, thus have my latin grammar ready... The orgin of the term carneval probably has to do with caro, carnis = meat...
    maestro1x maestro1x 31-35, M Nov 4, 2010

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    1st Time - It all happened the summer before starting high school. All the girls i hung around was having sex and I was very curious to see what the hype was about. One morning...
    thelovelytay thelovelytay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Blame The English :) - I was brought up a good catholic girl in Ireland till my Mum and Dad split up.  It was a real shocker to me made even worse because Mum decided to move to...
    KatiefromIreland KatiefromIreland 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2011

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    Amateur Love - He was a good friend of mine. Handsome, smart, sexy and rugged for a 14 year old. I actually wanted him so badly and he wanted me too. So when we were at a pool...
    xoxsexicupcakez xoxsexicupcakez 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    Virginity, Huh? - Actually I don't lose it in 13 but in 10 when I felt my stepdad finger in my *****. Each time goming home from school, I have to lie back on the crouch and he...
    NenaAndHubby NenaAndHubby 31-35, F 73 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I'm 14 and he just turned 19. I wanted it so bad. Just the feeling of his finger tips lingering on my skin gave me the goosebumps and we had so much chemistry. We had been acting...
    clairekinz clairekinz 18-21, F Jan 3

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    Just With My Girlfriend - I admit I am 13 and have had sex with my girlfriend we have been together for just 3 to 4 weeks now and about 10 days ago I had sex with her! it started...
    georj004 georj004 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2011

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    My First Time - I've loved to be caressed for as long as I can remember. I was around 7 or 8 though, when I remember really liking it. I had an uncle who used to sit with me while...
    CalistaCann CalistaCann 18-21, F 20 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    It Was Like That... - When i was 13 i was a really lonely kid, i almost didn't had any friends (and the ones that i had werent real)and stuff..... I really liked(and still like...
    Ponche Ponche 22-25 2 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    Becoming A Woman - It was only a week after my 13th birthday. I had about 4-5 periods to that point and felt an incredible desire to experience sex. I had *********** a lot...
    CheatingBBW CheatingBBW 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    I lost it. Lost it all. Lost everything that came with you. Your love, your kisses, your sweet words, your encouragement, your faith in me. I lost everything when I lost you.
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    Christmas Break Booty Call- it was a wonderful story at the time. december 22nd 2013, the day before my family christmas party and the first day of christmas holidays, i'd only...
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