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I Lost My Virginity When I Was 16 Years Old

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    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M Mar 23

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    The First Time

    Losing My Virginity at 16 in this day and age seems pretty cliche and mainstream...and I really did wish I did wait. I used to believe i'd wait till marriage...but now i wish i just waited till i was completely ready. I used to hold this idea that if i waited till marriage it...
    AviaDee AviaDee 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    I Lost It To A Friend

    I lost my virginity not long ago and I lost it to a really good friend and we've got a romantic history which made it easier and although he's 5yrs older I wouldn't have wanted to lose it with anyone else...I always said that I wanted him to be my first and he was so I can...
    kerranggirl95 kerranggirl95 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Lost It To A Friend

    I was in a relationship with my boyfriend and we were both seniors. Both virgins. Well the guy I lost my virginity too was not a virgin and he is my best friend. on new years of 2012 we did it at his house. I knew him for 3 years. I feel bad sometimes because I was in a...
    superpink superpink 18-21 2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I'll Never Regret It.

    Even though I wasn't married to him, and I didn't know if we'd be together forever, I told myself he was a person I'd never regret giving that too, even if it didn't work out. So far, I've been right. 2 years later, we're engaged, we have names picked out for all our kids, and...
    MissChii MissChii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    One Night......

    He was 28 years old. And yes, he knew how old I was. He was a perfect gentleman and it was a great experience.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    When I was 16 I lost my virginity to a guy

    and that day I thought we would be together forever! And a week later he broke up with me and I was devastated! He broke my heart! After that my luck with guys has went further and further down hill! Sometimes I feel like I'm just not able to have a relationship. Now I hook up...
    bbskeens497 bbskeens497 18-21, M Jun 5

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    Older Man

    He picked me up in a walmart. I thought he was 23 and worked long hours. He ended up being 30 married with two kids one was born during the time we were still hanging out. It was a disaster. I knew this and still found excuses for him. I still wanted to see him, and I did until a...
    whatislife96 whatislife96 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    It was in the back of his truck.

    I'll admit, it was peer pressure that was part of my choice to do it. I remember everything like it was yesterday.But I cannot forget his scent. Everywhere I go I smell him. It's stuck with me. We aren't together, as a couple....but friends.We go to different schools. But I...
    taoxkimchi taoxkimchi 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Well today was the day.

    Me and my boyfriend Mario have been together for a month now. He hadn't seen me in a week so he snook away in his car. He picked me up and we went on to go buy donuts and coffee. After we kissed in his car and he was hard and grabbed mine. We decided to go look for a place and...
    Jmorales7503 Jmorales7503 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    5 years ago today (Valentine's Day) I lost my

    virginity to my first love. We spent the evening having a meal and playing games with his family, after which we went upstairs (I was meant to sleep in his sister's room.. That never happened haha) and we slept together. (In my country, 16 is the legal age of consent.) He was my...
    leo1292 leo1292 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I lost it to a close guy friend I had known

    for awhile. It wasn't magical or spectacular like every made it seem. It also didn't hurt like everyone said it would. He was 2 years older than I was and experienced. I knew he wouldn't do anything without my consent but it wasn't perfect. Yet I wish I could relive it all over...
    10x30 10x30 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I lost my virginity at 16.

    It was great. The way he was inside me. :D do all feel the same?
    dkash dkash 16-17, F 1 Response May 17

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    I was with my friend,

    and a guy and it didn't go in all the way because I'm too tight. Now I really regret that night I was peer pressured into it. If It didn't go in all the way just a little bit in.. am I a virgin still?
    Taleahh Taleahh 16-17, F Jan 18

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    Cosplaygirl Cosplaygirl 18-21, F 1 Response May 2

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    I cannot believe that I lost it

    that early to someone it meant nothing to. I always told myself I'd wait for her, I would save it because she was worth it. And then I come to the realization that, there was no "her" because I was gay. And upon realizing that all I wanted to do was act on it ya know? And then a...
    masonlee14 masonlee14 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Hi i am aakriti....and i am gonna share a

    experience which was sudden and scary also.This is the story of how i lost my virginity.I am a good looking girl with a decent attitude...i live with my aunt and uncle in America..who r very liberal with me.So i have a life full of freedom.Days back a guy had proposed to me(he...
    Aakriti1212 Aakriti1212 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    My Favorite Summer Vacation 🌸

    Well , I have a boyfriend . He's my first real relationship , he was my first everything . So here's our story . June 18 summer of 2013 will be a year ill always remember , I went to his house early in the morning , which I did a lot . It was a normal hot day and I came over...
    MissPrincesss MissPrincesss 16-17, F Sep 14, 2013

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    When I was 16 years old I had my first boyfriend

    who I typically thought then was my love i'd never get over but after a long time of tears and tantrums I eventually did move on! We bunked school one day and decided to go to a hotel and get a room. I regret losing my virginity to him because he put me through unnecessary...
    shannen4 shannen4 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I remember I wanted to lose my virginity with

    someone special. There is always a ton of pressure as a guy to lose your virginity though. All of my friends were in relationships and having tons of sex. I would get so frustrated and upset. My self esteem dropped and I was depressed. I began a realtionship with a girl I did...
    boredstories boredstories 22-25, M Feb 26

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    I Took His V Card, He Didn'T Take Mine.

    I'm ashamed to admit this but I've come to accept it. I pressured my boyfriend into having sex. I was of course 16 and he had just turned 15. We had been dating for about six months and had fooled around before, sometimes even almost leading to sex but not exactly. We talked...
    high5hilary high5hilary 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    it was amazing! he was 19

    and we drove out to a dirt hill got in the back of his truck and had fun :)
    lynxacree7 lynxacree7 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Haha actually, yesterday.

    I just really wanted to talk about it. So we have been dating for a year and a half now, and he is truly my best friend. We have been through thick and thin, and have had our complications along the way. So we went out on a date, which was really just movies, lunch, and ice...
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    When I was 16 years old I lost my virginity to

    my boyfriend. We had sex only one time and I ended up pregnant. Nine months later I delivered a beautiful set of twin boys. My twins are now 33 years old.
    susanfromarizona susanfromarizona 46-50, F 4 Responses May 5

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    I Didn'T Want To

    We had gone out a couple of times together. The previous time we had made out... A lot. He invited me to his house. I told him I didn't want to have sex. But somehow, I knew we would. He started kissing me, kissing my neck. He had his hands on my waist. He whispered in my ear how...
    jessw jessw 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    A Day I'll Never Forget...

    I honestly couldn't have had a better experience to call my first time, It was quite some time ago now but I'll always remember that day for the rest of my life. [for privacy purposes we'll call him Joe] Joe and I were both virgins and had already been together a year before we...
    KandiKid217 KandiKid217 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Amazing

    I couldn't have lost my virginity to a more amazing woman.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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