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I Lost My Virginity When I Was 16 Years Old

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    The First Time

    Losing My Virginity at 16 in this day and age seems pretty cliche and mainstream...and I really did wish I did wait. I used to believe i'd wait till marriage...but now i wish i just waited till i was completely ready. I used to hold this idea that if i waited till marriage it...
    AviaDee AviaDee 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    I remember I wanted to lose my virginity with

    someone special. There is always a ton of pressure as a guy to lose your virginity though. All of my friends were in relationships and having tons of sex. I would get so frustrated and upset. My self esteem dropped and I was depressed. I began a realtionship with a girl I did...
    boredstories boredstories 22-25, M Feb 26

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    Hi i am aakriti....and i am gonna share a

    experience which was sudden and scary also.This is the story of how i lost my virginity.I am a good looking girl with a decent attitude...i live with my aunt and uncle in America..who r very liberal with me.So i have a life full of freedom.Days back a guy had proposed to me(he...
    Aakriti1212 Aakriti1212 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I cannot believe that I lost it

    that early to someone it meant nothing to. I always told myself I'd wait for her, I would save it because she was worth it. And then I come to the realization that, there was no "her" because I was gay. And upon realizing that all I wanted to do was act on it ya know? And then a...
    masonlee14 masonlee14 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    I lost it to a close guy friend I had known

    for awhile. It wasn't magical or spectacular like every made it seem. It also didn't hurt like everyone said it would. He was 2 years older than I was and experienced. I knew he wouldn't do anything without my consent but it wasn't perfect. Yet I wish I could relive it all over...
    10x30 10x30 18-21, F Apr 5

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    A Day I'll Never Forget...

    I honestly couldn't have had a better experience to call my first time, It was quite some time ago now but I'll always remember that day for the rest of my life. [for privacy purposes we'll call him Joe] Joe and I were both virgins and had already been together a year before we...
    KandiKid217 KandiKid217 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I Didn'T Want To

    We had gone out a couple of times together. The previous time we had made out... A lot. He invited me to his house. I told him I didn't want to have sex. But somehow, I knew we would. He started kissing me, kissing my neck. He had his hands on my waist. He whispered in my ear how...
    jessw jessw 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    I Took His V Card, He Didn'T Take Mine.

    I'm ashamed to admit this but I've come to accept it. I pressured my boyfriend into having sex. I was of course 16 and he had just turned 15. We had been dating for about six months and had fooled around before, sometimes even almost leading to sex but not exactly. We talked...
    high5hilary high5hilary 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M Mar 23

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    My Favorite Summer Vacation 🌸

    Well , I have a boyfriend . He's my first real relationship , he was my first everything . So here's our story . June 18 summer of 2013 will be a year ill always remember , I went to his house early in the morning , which I did a lot . It was a normal hot day and I came over...
    MissPrincesss MissPrincesss 16-17, F Sep 14, 2013

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    Well today was the day.

    Me and my boyfriend Mario have been together for a month now. He hadn't seen me in a week so he snook away in his car. He picked me up and we went on to go buy donuts and coffee. After we kissed in his car and he was hard and grabbed mine. We decided to go look for a place and...
    Jmorales7503 Jmorales7503 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    One Night......

    He was 28 years old. And yes, he knew how old I was. He was a perfect gentleman and it was a great experience.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    I Lost It To A Friend

    I lost my virginity not long ago and I lost it to a really good friend and we've got a romantic history which made it easier and although he's 5yrs older I wouldn't have wanted to lose it with anyone else...I always said that I wanted him to be my first and he was so I can...
    kerranggirl95 kerranggirl95 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    it was amazing! he was 19

    and we drove out to a dirt hill got in the back of his truck and had fun :)
    lynxacree7 lynxacree7 18-21, F Mar 23

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    5 years ago today (Valentine's Day) I lost my

    virginity to my first love. We spent the evening having a meal and playing games with his family, after which we went upstairs (I was meant to sleep in his sister's room.. That never happened haha) and we slept together. (In my country, 16 is the legal age of consent.) He was my...
    leo1292 leo1292 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    It was in the back of his truck.

    I'll admit, it was peer pressure that was part of my choice to do it. I remember everything like it was yesterday.But I cannot forget his scent. Everywhere I go I smell him. It's stuck with me. We aren't together, as a couple....but friends.We go to different schools. But I...
    taoxkimchi taoxkimchi 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was with my friend,

    and a guy and it didn't go in all the way because I'm too tight. Now I really regret that night I was peer pressured into it. If It didn't go in all the way just a little bit in.. am I a virgin still?
    Taleahh Taleahh 16-17, F Jan 18

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    Lost It To A Friend

    I was in a relationship with my boyfriend and we were both seniors. Both virgins. Well the guy I lost my virginity too was not a virgin and he is my best friend. on new years of 2012 we did it at his house. I knew him for 3 years. I feel bad sometimes because I was in a...
    superpink superpink 18-21 2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I'll Never Regret It.

    Even though I wasn't married to him, and I didn't know if we'd be together forever, I told myself he was a person I'd never regret giving that too, even if it didn't work out. So far, I've been right. 2 years later, we're engaged, we have names picked out for all our kids, and...
    MissChii MissChii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    angelrodriguez123 angelrodriguez123 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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