I Lost My Virginity When I Was 16 Years Old

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 377 People

    I Didn'T Want To

    We had gone out a couple of times together. The previous time we had made out... A lot. He invited me to his house. I told him I didn't want to have sex. But somehow, I knew we would. He started kissing me, kissing my neck. He had his hands on my waist. He whispered in my ear how...
    jessw jessw
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2013

    It was a typical Wednesday in February.

    Not cold at all. In fact it was irregularly warm for that time of year. I had just turned sixteen three weeks before. My boyfriend, having come over in the morning before school the past two days was acting like he usually does; smiley and funny. In fact it was a completely...
    thatrosegirl thatrosegirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2015

    Was a New Years thing,

    and I don't regret it! He was older! But was wicked hahahha
    Courtneybanks1 Courtneybanks1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 7

    A Day I'll Never Forget...

    I honestly couldn't have had a better experience to call my first time, It was quite some time ago now but I'll always remember that day for the rest of my life. [for privacy purposes we'll call him Joe] Joe and I were both virgins and had already been together a year before we...
    KandiKid217 KandiKid217
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Sep 21, 2009

    I was with my friend,

    and a guy and it didn't go in all the way because I'm too tight. Now I really regret that night I was peer pressured into it. If It didn't go in all the way just a little bit in.. am I a virgin still?
    Taleahh Taleahh
    18-21, F
    Jan 18, 2014

    I Took His V Card, He Didn'T Take Mine.

    I'm ashamed to admit this but I've come to accept it. I pressured my boyfriend into having sex. I was of course 16 and he had just turned 15. We had been dating for about six months and had fooled around before, sometimes even almost leading to sex but not exactly. We talked...
    high5hilary high5hilary
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2013

    I'll Never Regret It.

    Even though I wasn't married to him, and I didn't know if we'd be together forever, I told myself he was a person I'd never regret giving that too, even if it didn't work out. So far, I've been right. 2 years later, we're engaged, we have names picked out for all our kids, and...
    MissChii MissChii
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2009

    Yup. At 16 I decided I wanted to expand my

    sexual horizons and chose to lose my virginity to the guy I had been saying for a month. He was a poor choice; treated me terribly and all my friends hated him. I've regretted him being my first since right after it happened. Cannot believe it's been almost 20 years since that...
    canadagirl0101 canadagirl0101
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    5 years ago today (Valentine's Day) I lost my

    virginity to my first love. We spent the evening having a meal and playing games with his family, after which we went upstairs (I was meant to sleep in his sister's room.. That never happened haha) and we slept together. (In my country, 16 is the legal age of consent.) He was my...
    leo1292 leo1292
    22-25, F
    Feb 13, 2014

    Haha actually, yesterday.

    I just really wanted to talk about it. So we have been dating for a year and a half now, and he is truly my best friend. We have been through thick and thin, and have had our complications along the way. So we went out on a date, which was really just movies, lunch, and ice...
    mcc1109 mcc1109
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2014

    I lost it to my boss a month

    after turning sixteen. As soon as I turned sixteen I wanted a job. I was fed up asking my parents for money and baby sitting for change. I applied for a cashier at a local coffee shop. After he called to confirm my interview, I decided to go all out. I wore the shortest skirt...
    Laurenevans44 Laurenevans44
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    This Tuesday afternoon.

    Followed by watching tv together whilst cuddling.
    unfaiir unfaiir
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    It wasn't long ago. I've been hanging out with

    a guy I really like and am looking for a relationship with.. We'd been hooking Up, doing other things that led up to sex for a while before. He brought over wine and poured us each half a glass. I had class that day, but I had a spare, so I had two hours off every day. We made...
    classyandnasty classyandnasty
    22-25, F
    Apr 6, 2015

    It was in the back of his truck.

    I'll admit, it was peer pressure that was part of my choice to do it. I remember everything like it was yesterday.But I cannot forget his scent. Everywhere I go I smell him. It's stuck with me. We aren't together, as a couple....but friends.We go to different schools. But I...
    taoxkimchi taoxkimchi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2014

    I lost it to a close guy friend I had known

    for awhile. It wasn't magical or spectacular like every made it seem. It also didn't hurt like everyone said it would. He was 2 years older than I was and experienced. I knew he wouldn't do anything without my consent but it wasn't perfect. Yet I wish I could relive it all over...
    10x30 10x30
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2014

    I was 16 she was she was 33 one of my sisters

    friends. My sisters are 20 & 18 years older then I am it was awesome night.
    Dimitri1996 Dimitri1996
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 27, 2015

    One Night......

    He was 28 years old. And yes, he knew how old I was. He was a perfect gentleman and it was a great experience.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2010
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2015

    I cannot believe that I lost it

    that early to someone it meant nothing to. I always told myself I'd wait for her, I would save it because she was worth it. And then I come to the realization that, there was no "her" because I was gay. And upon realizing that all I wanted to do was act on it ya know? And then a...
    masonlee14 masonlee14
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 5, 2014

    it was amazing! he was 19

    and we drove out to a dirt hill got in the back of his truck and had fun :)
    lynxacree7 lynxacree7
    18-21, F
    Mar 23, 2014

    The First Time

    Losing My Virginity at 16 in this day and age seems pretty cliche and mainstream...and I really did wish I did wait. I used to believe i'd wait till marriage...but now i wish i just waited till i was completely ready. I used to hold this idea that if i waited till marriage it...
    AviaDee AviaDee
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2013

    Lost It To A Friend

    I was in a relationship with my boyfriend and we were both seniors. Both virgins. Well the guy I lost my virginity too was not a virgin and he is my best friend. on new years of 2012 we did it at his house. I knew him for 3 years. I feel bad sometimes because I was in a...
    superpink superpink
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

    1976 was the hottest summer on record in

    England. What a year to be 16!
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Feb 25, 2015
    Cosplaygirl Cosplaygirl
    18-21, F
    May 2, 2014

    When I was 16 I lost my virginity to a guy

    and that day I thought we would be together forever! And a week later he broke up with me and I was devastated! He broke my heart! After that my luck with guys has went further and further down hill! Sometimes I feel like I'm just not able to have a relationship. Now I hook up...
    bbskeens497 bbskeens497
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2014
    OkJohnny OkJohnny
    16-17, M
    Apr 4, 2015

    My Favorite Summer Vacation 🌸

    Well , I have a boyfriend . He's my first real relationship , he was my first everything . So here's our story . June 18 summer of 2013 will be a year ill always remember , I went to his house early in the morning , which I did a lot . It was a normal hot day and I came over...
    MissPrincesss MissPrincesss
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2013

    My experience started the end of summer

    starting my sophomore year. My family moved as we just lost our house. The house my parents rented had a guy living next door that was a bit older than me in school but I did not know him very well in school. One day his hot friend came over. Love at first site. . I found...
    princesskimber princesskimber
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 18, 2015

    I Lost It To A Friend

    I lost my virginity not long ago and I lost it to a really good friend and we've got a romantic history which made it easier and although he's 5yrs older I wouldn't have wanted to lose it with anyone else...I always said that I wanted him to be my first and he was so I can...
    kerranggirl95 kerranggirl95
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

    I lost my virginity at 16.

    It was great. The way he was inside me. :D do all feel the same?
    dkash dkash
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 17, 2014

    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend

    who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait until marriage but it just seemed like the time was right.
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2014

    I was 10 when I lost my virginity I was at a

    friends house for a week while our parents were on a trip his big sister was babysitting us an I had to go pee at night and took a rong turn to his sisters room she was playing with her self and she saw me and day not to tell her brother so I waked over to her and she ask me for...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 7, 2015

    Hi i am aakriti....and i am gonna share a

    experience which was sudden and scary also.This is the story of how i lost my virginity.I am a good looking girl with a decent attitude...i live with my aunt and uncle in America..who r very liberal with me.So i have a life full of freedom.Days back a guy had proposed to me(he...
    Aakriti1212 Aakriti1212
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I remember I wanted to lose my virginity with

    someone special. There is always a ton of pressure as a guy to lose your virginity though. All of my friends were in relationships and having tons of sex. I would get so frustrated and upset. My self esteem dropped and I was depressed. I began a realtionship with a girl I did...
    boredstories boredstories
    22-25, M
    Feb 26, 2014

    It was Valentine's Day

    and it was with my bf at the time. We split up 2 weeks later 😥
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 16, 2015
    SkateDutch SkateDutch
    18-21, M
    Mar 23, 2014

    We have only been dating

    for a little over two months, I know we were quick to get to but we were so excited to be with someone who felt the same about the other. He's such a sweetheart and I could never ask for anymore of him, but it was horribly awkward. We both had to laugh at just how silly we...
    NeonOctopus NeonOctopus
    16-17, F
    Nov 1, 2014

    When I was 16 years old I lost my virginity to

    my boyfriend. We had sex only one time and I ended up pregnant. Nine months later I delivered a beautiful set of twin boys. My twins are now 33 years old.
    susanfromarizona susanfromarizona
    46-50, F
    4 Responses May 5, 2014

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