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I Lost Someone I Loved to Cancer

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    Mymiic Mymiic 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2015

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    Today is recognised as World Cancer Day.

    What a dreadful disease that claimed the life of my cousin ... a wonderful person. I count it a privilege to have been able to care for her during the time of her illness, even as she was there for my siblings and I while we were growing up. What a great woman!
    chocomint chocomint 51-55, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Grandad

    A walking stick without it's owner, reading glasses with a fingerprint on their lense. Letters in that beautiful calligraphic handwriting, your face smiling at me in photographs. The buzz of relatives voices on the phone, the brochure on the side about bereavement and funeral...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    I am a cancer survivor.

    Not because I had cancer, but because my sister died of cancer. It has been two years and more often than not, people will always say that "It's okay, she is no longer suffering now/she's in a better place." There's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes people just do not know...
    gu1n33 gu1n33 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    My grandfather had bladder cancer,

    my grandmother died of lung cancer, and A friend of mine who I worked with died of leukemia. She shad a bone marrow transplant and her body rejected it. I was devestated when I got the phone call saying she died. Her husband had called me and told me while I was at work...
    Mlh2378 Mlh2378 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    Another days passes. It's almost been a year

    since u died my love, I miss u more than u could ever know..
    Widower1 Widower1 31-35 May 24, 2015

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    To Beauty. <33 From Your Little Sister.

    I just heard this news this morning. I can't believe you're gone. I loved you. I still love you. You were so beautiful. You always were. Always have been to me. Even when you lost your hair, I still saw nothing but beauty. You were so strong. Courageous. I admire that about you...
    hisnaughtygirl69 hisnaughtygirl69 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    So today is the anversary off the day i lost my

    mum to such an evil horrible disease so later on i be setting off for a long drive down to my home place to lay flowers on her grave spend the night in BNB drive back tomorrow
    CandiceMarieAllcoxx CandiceMarieAllcoxx 18-21, T 5 Responses Nov 25, 2015

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    So here it is, Christmas Eve,

    the night I've been dreading for a couple months now. Pretty much since Summer ended, actually. I miss my friend so much! I've cried so much this past month... She's not here and I hate it. I remember last year, when we were discussing each other's Christmas presents... Back...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Yesterday was my moms birthday.

    She lost her battle to cancer in 99. Still miss her and wonder how much better life would have been if she was still here with me.
    fighton13 fighton13 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    Man I miss my wife , every day

    since she passed i just feel sodrained. We were so happy together, life without her is so dull an long. I count the minutes passing n wish I could be with her. One day I know everyone will die including me an I look forwRx to it as at least we can be together
    Widower1 Widower1 31-35 2 Responses Apr 30, 2015

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    Two weeks ago, my best friend,

    ex room mate...may I add it was a non-sexual relationship between opposite sex. We were buddies! I lost my friend to cancer less than 24hrs ago. I feel pain, sadness... a throat filled with tears. Monday I drove from West Virginia to Illinois to the VA Hospice Health care unit...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 9 Responses Aug 8, 2015

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    Cancer sucks!!!! Missing my husband

    although I know he's at peace & cancer free!!!!
    NotperfectEver NotperfectEver 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2015

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    I kept seeing you sitting on the edge of

    that bed blowing me a kiss. I was so sure that if I walked back onto that ward, you would still be there and everything would be the same. No change. Sometimes I feel I've come to an acceptance in my mind, but then I'm screaming hysterically in my dreams, surrounded by darkness...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 22-25, F May 23, 2014

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    I've talked about him before,

    but his name was Austin. Although he was my neighbor, it was like he was my younger brother. I realized that today is the 26th...it's his Birthday. He would have been 15, a freshman in high school, taking exams today. Losing him when he was 7 was not enough time with him. I miss...
    JamesCarter20 JamesCarter20 18-21, T Jan 26

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    My granny died April 1st 2014 I listened to

    Slipped Away and had my first emotional breakdown, screaming and yelling at God to bring her back. I cried for an hour in my closet and when my parents found me I was unresponsive for about five minutes, just shaking my head and mumbling that I would do better, my body trembling...
    Ashthewolf7601 Ashthewolf7601 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 8, 2015

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    He was only 7. I was his 11 year old neighbor.

    He had neuroblastoma and was in a coma for a long time. I remember two hours before he was taken off of life support I went across the street and said goodbye. I begged him to wake up and beat cancer, but he wasn't strong enough, and I was just a kid with a knife in my heart...
    JamesCarter20 JamesCarter20 18-21, T May 13, 2015

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    My Uncle.

    I just wanted to thank youThank you for being my favorite person in my Dad's familyThank you for believing in meThank you for being the first person ever in my country to carry me when I was a toddler, he waited for me at the airport (I was born somewhere else for those who don't...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    It my was my best friend.

    Except a best friend you love. I always avoided a relationship with him for the fear of losing him and I did. And I regretted not being with him just because of his sickness. We had so much fun together and had a lot in common. When we had sex it was beautiful, when he held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 7, 2015

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    Last year my sister called to say mum went to

    emergency. She had the 'flu' but wasn't getting better. 6 hours later she died from leukaemia.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2015

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    I lost my Mother in cancer.

    I did all I could for her. I saw her pass away.. I loved her.. I love her.. mid my mother so much.. she had.. Brest cancer 1st stage in 2010.. Brest was removed.. wrong treatment.. was not given chemotherapy.. 2012 she got cancer Brest again... Brest was removed and got all...
    subhankar2105 subhankar2105 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2015

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    I lost my grandpa (Papa) to cancer 3 years ago.

    Yesterday we found out my grandma has it in her liver, meaning that it was likely found way too late. I'm not ready to go through this shock and pain again. I haven't even fully accepted that my Papa is gone. I woke up and sobbed over him for hours a few a months ago, it's like...
    wino4life wino4life 22-25, F Jun 22, 2014

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    I have lost several people I love go cancer.

    The first was my grandmother, then in 2012 my cousin Sammy died of cancer at 18 years old and earlier this month my best friends battle with cancer was ended with her passing. I miss her terribly and am still grieving.
    PrettiestPirate PrettiestPirate 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    Can Any Good Come From Something So Bad?

    She's gone. It's the first thought that comes to mind when I wake up. It wasn't all a dream. She's really gone. The last time that I saw my sister alive, her eyes were yellow with jaundice. Yet I showed only the same poker face I had for the two-and-a-half years that she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    My sister was sleeping over

    and we decided to go for a walk, my dad and uncle were standing around the ute, I went over to talk to them and as I got there my uncle said "So Vincent Maloney died of cancer" I went back to the house and inboxed my friend who also knew him and told her, she already knew. I...
    starflicka starflicka 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2014

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    The most wonderful father in the whole world

    passed away in 1984. He was only 46 years old. He was my step-dad, but the only father I ever knew. He loved me, loved my husband, and adored our children. He was gentle, kind, polite, and wise.
    asjmk asjmk 56-60, F Oct 8, 2015

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    6 Months The Fastest 6 Months Ever

    First month----Oh we found something, need more tests but nothing to worry about.Second month---small tumor no worries radiation.Third month--complications from radiation,hair loss,vomiting,visible hardship on the body,Dr.'s say it's going well.Fourth month---Time to operate take...
    februarydays februarydays 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Within A Mile Of Home

    Jake McCarthy was 24 years old when he died. I met Jake when I was six. He was friends with my oldest step-brother. I always thought he was really cool, and he had a black italic tattoo around his arm saying 'within a mile of home'. He told me he got it because he wanted to...
    erosesmith erosesmith 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    18.11.13- The day I lost my only grandmother to

    Cancer. She was terminally ill and was only expected to live 5 years. She fought it for 20. 6 different kind of cancers. She was sent to the Cancer ward in hospital about three weeks before her death. We were told no body ever came out of there alive. The worst feeling is...
    EnchantedHopes EnchantedHopes 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2015

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    Three days before my friend Steve died,

    he demanded for me to take him to Walmart. I went and spoke to his Nurses and they thought for a bit...and I signed Steve out for 3 hours. Walmart was just down the road. He handed me a list and I got him into the electric chair and he told me he had a few things he wanted to...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 5 Responses Aug 11, 2015

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    I lost a my loving uncle to cancer several

    years ago. I never got to say goodbye, I closer to him more than any of my other uncles. When Over The Rainbow played at the funeral, needless to say I cried.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 18, 2015

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    Do not stand at my grave

    and weep. I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning’s hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I...
    cmyk323 cmyk323 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    For My Friend, On Her Anniversary

    Was thinking today about my best friend, Sushi. This is an important day for her. We were in High School together. I don’t remember how we met, exactly, but she was hard not to notice.  Standing over 6 feet tall, and built like a quarterback, Sushi struck a figure in the...
    simplygirl simplygirl 46-50, F 11 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    i can't get that day out of my mind

    when my bf told me that. he was caughing differently for a long time, but always refused to take it seriously. then he started caughing up blood. he would never admit it but i know that he was frightend. and he wouldn't go to hospital.until he didn't have a choice.one day he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 9, 2015

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    I lost my mother to cancer in 2009.

    Boone understands the pain I feel everyday without her. I have 2 kids that will never know her and that rips my heart out! She was amazing! She was my best friend through everything and such a great and understanding woman. She would miss a meal to feed a stranger and go without...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 8, 2015

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    NotperfectEver NotperfectEver 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2015

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    I believe that those of us

    who have lost someone to cancer should stick together. We understand each other. We share the pain, anger, sadness, disbelief. I believe that we can help each other work through the awful emotions. My grandma died of pancreatic cancer just one month after she was diagnosed...
    unpredictableprediction unpredictableprediction 22-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2015

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    Four years ago, my best friend died of cancer.

    She fought until the end. I still feel tears and sadness well up in me every time I drive by her old house. Now, whenever someone says they hate getting old, I say, "I don't." I hope to be very old some day. My friend would have been thankful to still be here with her...
    PurpleGremlin PurpleGremlin 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2015

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    My Sweet Angel - I miss her

    so much tonight. I wish I could just give her a big hug and hold her tight and never let her go. She was the greatest friend I've ever had. It's been over a year and I still can't believe that she's gone... Oh Madi I wish I could see you one last time!!! I miss you so much...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F Jun 25, 2014

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    Dad

    Where to begin.. The day I lost you was the day I knew I will forever be broken. Every single day i miss you even more. Every single day feels unreal. It has been a month since i lost my dad, and it stills feels like it was yesterday. My dad was a creative, adventerous and humble...
    jeseekuh jeseekuh 18-21 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Shout out to all the cancer survivors,

    Warriors & now Angels. Xoxo
    NotperfectEver NotperfectEver 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2015

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    Two years ago I saw the light fading from your

    eyes and from my soul. My mind raced with moments over those days. Moments that spanned our short time together. In the beginning I fought against your love so hard it nearly killed you. Your vision of our beauty together was so clear. I didn't see it. Thank God for your...
    Karenskrssroads Karenskrssroads 51-55, F Jun 15, 2015

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    Words Of Inspiration

    My best friend died of Leukemia last April, and I found this post on her Facebook wall not too long ago. It made me cry, and it really hit home for me, because I feel this way all the time... "Since when have our lives become so routine? The same thing, everyday. What happened to...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2013

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    I lost my Cousin to cancer.

    she was 13 when diagnosed, it was already stage 4. she started developing tumors and the hospital said she would die in 6 months, she lived for a year and a half after that. she was so close to me because I saw her every day and she was like an older sister to me. she died on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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