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I Lost Someone Important to Me

Losing a family member and or close friend 2,779 People

    Friends Come, Friends Go

    When i was in primary school, i had a best friend, and we had a "close-friends" group, the 4 of us were always together, going out every day, talking, partying, drinking (yeah, since the age of 13, judge me if you dare :D :D ) but then at the last year of primary school something...
    lofaszbazmeg lofaszbazmeg 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    If Only I Could Play God For A Day..

    i see all these post's about how they can't find love or how they have found and can't get enough. well i used to be one of the 'all nighter's' on facebook and a non-stop talker on the phone. all of this was because of one man in my life that i have loved for almost two years. we...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Six Months Ago..Still Hurts Even Though I Can Hide It..

    Well, now it's been a little over six months since i lost you baby..since i had to let you lay in that casket..since i gave your body a kiss goodbye.. Since i touched your soft skin for the last time..but it all seems like it was just yesterday. It's still that fresh. I still...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I love him. I hope he knows that.

    I've always loved him. But I need to move on like he did. He's perfect. His smile. His laugh. His personality. The way he pretends to not care but he's always there. I miss him. I always think about when we used to talk on the phone. They way he hugged me. When he'd make me...
    keepitugly keepitugly 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I have once had someone I loved

    so dearly to my heart named Chloe then she had moved across country, I can't find her new number so I can never talk to her ;(
    Pokedog344 Pokedog344 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I sat with GG when no one else there on the

    morning they called us to come over; things were getting worse. It's takes her a while to breath about five seconds before she inhales and then quickly exhales. It's a sharp breath , inhales and exhales in about a second. I cover my ears and look away. It's to hard to see her my...
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    My Big Brother... I Am Going To Miss You Like Krazy.

    I need to write this story today. Just to get it out.My big brother died Sunday evening. I found out yesterday. It was presumed to have been a massive heart attack and he died in his home. He was 48.His wife had called me yesterday morning, but I missed the call. Something in her...
    simplygirl simplygirl 46-50, F 24 Responses May 29, 2013

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    My "boyfriend" and I have been having

    so any problems. He dumped me about 2 days ago. And he doesn't reply to my texts he claims he loves me and cannot be with me bc I hurt him. But when him and I had broke up for 3 weeks he kissed his ex gf. Bc he thought and claimed i was talking to other guys. He's really...
    lisa094746 lisa094746 16-17, F Mar 10

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    For Love's Sake I'm

    so tired of this empty feeling I'm so tired of being alone I lay here staring at the ceiling Waiting by the phone I jump when the phone rings It brings a smile to my face When he hangs up my heart stings And I sink back into my lonely place I wish and I dream That we'll be...
    Creativelyloved Creativelyloved 13-15, F Apr 1

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    My ex-bf and best friend passed away September

    2012 and I miss him like crazy. I still cry at night sometimes and I often blog about him. He was a pain at times but he was always there 4 me whenever I needed him. His mom and I keep in touch so we both often talk about him
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F Mar 16

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    I lost someone important to me drop me a line

    on y please pjline2003 don't forget com and the au for Australia
    pjline pjline 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    It has bee a couple of months now

    but I'm still depressed. I can barely bring myself to write about it. That morning I had called her to see how she was but we didn't get a chance to talk. The whole situation leaves me sad. The worst part was talking to our relatives. What do you say? We all share the same...
    ddemi ddemi 31-35, T 1 Response Mar 27

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    How I 'am Sad ..

    I don't know if there are people like me ,or no ..but i sometimes though that i'am the only in this world who have not best friends ,or just a friends ..this really really broken my heart ,i see all people have it ,but me no .. every thing inside me not sharing my sad or my happy...
    imaneema imaneema 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I lost my dad to cancer in 2012

    and I have nearly lost all of my children to death . Two of my children have suffered depression and tried to take their own lives and thankfully I was there to prevent that happening. I have had a daughter who could have easily died in a house fire and a son who could have bled...
    savedbygrace0 savedbygrace0 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    You Cant Be Gone.. You Just Cant Be..

    http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2012/08/14/therapist-helps-teen-live-outside-the-shadow-of-her-past/ She was one of my best friends. We trusted each other with everything. I cant believe you are gone. I love you so much. I cant handle this. We talked a few days ago, you snapped...
    battlewounds battlewounds 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Dearest Steph: I know you won't ever read this

    - for I have accepted the finality of the fact that I've lost you forever. My stupidity and my stubbornness drove you away, and too late did I realize what a treasure your friendship was. I wanted to atone, to make it right, but I guess we're way past that now, since by blocking...
    Gorstone36 Gorstone36 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    Dec 14,2013 i lost one of the important person

    in my life, shes my mentor, my friend,my second mother @ work she was brain dead after she suffered from heart attack the moment my friends told me that she was in the ICU and in comatose condition i was shocked and cant believed how it happens and why? I cant do things in my...
    iamyourwind08 iamyourwind08 31-35, F Mar 16

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    mixgirl83 mixgirl83 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I met this guy at a hockey game we hit it off

    right away we talked for about a month then he asked me out... We went out for like a week the he said I love you I told him that I love him more which was true I had/have really strong feelings for him I could tell that he loved me there was always someone that I knew was in...
    whyAmINeverGoodEnough whyAmINeverGoodEnough 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Goodbye

    My younger sister was adopted at birth. Her and my brother were twins. My parents decided to keep Nathan and they literally abandoned Lee in hospital when she was a baby. Lee found us at the beginning of the year, unfortunately soon after she found us she was diagnosed with...
    Keeper2902 Keeper2902 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    On Thursday it will be 4 years.

    I love him. I miss him. I want him to come home. I want him to walk through that door. He won't. His soul lies in the sea, no body to be found. So young and so precious. Every single day is a struggle without you, no medication, no amount of drink and no amount of crying can...
    butterfly789 butterfly789 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    My Seventh Grade Teacher

    The seventh grade was a tough year. Realizations were occurring, my grades were slipping, I had my first relationship, which was painful, and my friends were bickering constantly. So to help cope with the grades slipping, my mom paid my seventh grade teacher to tutor me. She...
    escariot escariot 16-18, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2007

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    Not literally but the person she is today is

    someone I can't get along with. The only hard part about letting ourselves drift from each other is she's about to lose a family member from cancer and I'd feel terrible if she was alone through that, she doesn't have many friends because of the way she is and I've been the only...
    unexpectedhope unexpectedhope 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My best friend of 10 years won't talk to me

    anymore. 😞 we have so many memories and she just stopped talking to me out of the blue. It really bothers me. I don't have many friends and she was always the person I went to with everything.
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I lost someone who was

    so great, but I could never say goodbye,I feel so horrible. I need someone to chat with :(
    MrRj1 MrRj1 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I had a friend on here,

    she was a good friend, we talked here and messaged each other often, every day in fact. Then suddenly, she stop talking to me. Wont respond to me at all. I have no idea what I did to offend her. I am getting a divorce but I don't think its because of that because she's not...
    lizziegirl10 lizziegirl10 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    This Is A Big Step For Me...

    I've wanted to express this for nearly 11 years but I've never been allowed to and never had the chance to. Now I have the two most amazing people in my life I have finally found the courage to get it all out there. When I was 6 my Nan got diagnosed with Leukemia. She was the...
    shannoncfc shannoncfc 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    I lost my boyfriend who recently passed away.

    This is our story. I met my boyfriend over a year ago on Ep actually, we started talking and connected instantly. After that day we were inseparable, we did everything together as couples did. He lived miles away but we didn't let that stop us! Always talking on the phone...
    CityLife90 CityLife90 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 17

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    Today Is Gonna Be The Day

    .........I couldn't believe I have lost you. Every time one turns around when I'm thinking of you, my heart always keep telling me you're always with me here. When I look at your pictures, I felt like we will return to day of our lives. Even though I know It won't be possible...
    FreakTurtle FreakTurtle 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Miss You Dad

    I was allways closer to my father than I was my mother. When I was little instead of staying home I allways wanted to go with Dad when he worked on the farm so he would allow me to go with him and help, untill I got married and moved out we worked on the farm, worked on trucks...
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    Almost a year ago to the date .

    . I lost my two little nieces... And every since then I am so lost without them . My little Amanda was only 3 years old and rebecca only 10 when my big sister house caught fire during the night .. Her and her boyfriend were able to get out and save her 5 months year old daughter...
    Katrinas16 Katrinas16 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I've lost quite a few people close to me.

    I lost my best friend in a car accident when I was 9. I lost my Grandmother when I was 11. And most recently -- today, I lost my grandfather. As my dad put it "the world lost a good man today." May he Rest in Peace now. I no longer have anymore living grandparents. The...
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 10

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    Mother

    I Lost my beautify MOTHER!!!
    cristina1rib cristina1rib 51-55, F 12 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    I lost my mother at the age of 9 ,

    to cancer . I can't really remember her well but I know that she was really sick throughout those nine years.
    musicdance814 musicdance814 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I lost my grandmother about a year ago.

    There were a bunch of close calls when it was just me and her. For instance when she couldn't breathe, It was the scariest thing! It made me want to join the medical field. So I'm working my way to be a paramedic.
    kels789 kels789 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Today makes one year

    since I lost you. You will always be in my heart. Gone but never forgotten. I love you.
    MSeigler MSeigler 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I guess I have lost two of the most important

    people to me that I met on. I am hoping that thing are going good for the both you and I wish you the best out life. I JUST WANT YOU TWO TO KNOW THAT IF IT WASN'T FOR YALL THEN I WOULDN'T HAVE MADE IT THROUGH THE ROUGH DAYS AND TIMES. LOVE YOU BOTH ADAM C. AND REGENIA I AM GLAD...
    samatha22 samatha22 36-40, F Mar 17

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    Today is the anniversary of the death of my

    little brother in law. He was three when I first me him. The first thing he did was crawl into my lap and lay his head on my chest and say, " I really like you!" He was the kind of child that wrapped your heart around his finger. Full of fun, mischief and laughter. He was...
    SweetMae SweetMae 56-60, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I Lost My Older Bro

    I lost my older brother.  One day I was at my friends house playing and my parents suddenly rushed over to tell me my brother had fallen down a mountain and was dead.  It's been almost eight years since he passed away and I still think about it almost every day. He was the only...
    satelliteoflove satelliteoflove 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 20, 2011

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    What Hurts As Much As Losing Someone To Death....

    ..... is losing people important to you that are still living. failed friendships, failed love affairs, etc. i think in a way it would be easier to cope with knowing that they left you not of their choosing but that the clock of life ran out for them. but when they're still here...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 16 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    My Precious Daughter

    Ava Madison was born at 5:50 p.m. on March 28th, 2008 in Charlotte, NC. March 27th, i woke up with stomach pains. There was an abnormal discharge so i called my OBGYN. They told me to come in for a check up, so i did. They gave me an examination and told me that i was dilated 2...
    mandagurrlface mandagurrlface 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    I lost my grandpa on Father's Day 2008,

    he was my best friend. He taught me how to play checkers and was always there for me. I was the last one to say good bye to him, but I didn't know he would die that night. I gave home a flower and said I love him for Father's Day. At his funeral when a navy man gave me my...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I have a very strange family dynamic with an

    uncle in jail since forever and my oldest cousin dead. That cousin actually threatened me and three of my friends one night. At gunpoint he started playing mindgames with my friend. When she wasn't scared, he asked her to tell him how many letters my name had. She answered and...
    ThreeIII ThreeIII 31-35, F Mar 17

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    I still dream about them.

    And it feels so real, like they're really visiting me. There's just something serene and warm about these dreams. When I wake up from these dreams I feel in peace and reassured...
    kopek kopek 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    I lost someone to drugs,

    and now they don't want anything to do with me? is it my fault that i tried and helped?
    maryytrangg maryytrangg 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Gone Forever

    My daddy Jerrylen Hosea Middleton was the most amazing man ever, he was the only one who understood me, and never judged me, no matter how ridiculos I may have sounded or seemed, I loved my dad and he was my very best friend. My dad passed away November,29th,2010, from a blood...
    telle19 telle19 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    A Letter To The 3 Strongest Kids I Know:

    To my beautiful baby cousins... I know it's not fair that your mother was taken from you so soon, I couldn't begin to imagine the sadness you kids feel. Although she's no longer with us here on earth, Just know... Every time you close those beautiful blue eyes to dream at night...
    foreverunnamed foreverunnamed 18-21, F Dec 1, 2013

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    My dear Kara, love and miss you very much!

    Knowing your in the arms of Jesus draws me!! It's been three years to date (12/14) and little did Taylor Swift know that her words in her song "Back to December" were your words for me! Lord, thank you for the time you loaned Kara to me for 26 years on this side. In a...
    wmec620 wmec620 51-55, M 5 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Your name will never appear in the missing

    persons list, not in gray courtrooms, not in files, no hearingsYour deepest, freshest tracks end up in a dead-end.I can not bear it, there's no case and no dossier.And knowing you're not here, feels like lead.I keep on searching for you, being long lost.But you remain ahead of...
    TheStoryman TheStoryman 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    In His Loving Memory,(neeran) A Member Of Ep!!

    'The good men perish ; the godly die before his time and no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to realize that God is taking them away from evil days ahead. For the Godly who die shall rest in peace.' Isaiah 56:1-2 May his Soul...
    stlalane stlalane 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    Over the last 2 years i experienced

    that running after a person who does not show the same interest is useless. Go for someone who cares about you. And this is where i messed up. Im a high school senior, and i am quite new to this school, i made a friend, we used to chat after classes and she was surely someone...
    uziiuzair uziiuzair 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    My grandpa died last month

    and i really miss him, whenever anyone brings up death or anything like that i start crying and everyone looks at me weird....
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    Apart from Ghandi, Mr Nelson Mandela is the

    most wonderful leader of all time. Mr Mandela, may you rest in peace. x
    TheStoryman TheStoryman 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I lost my mum to MS 24 years ago I was 9 at the

    time and she was 36. Then there was just me and my dad, so I never had a mother figure in my life it was just us. Dont get me wrong he did what he could it must have been really hard for him to bring up a daughter on his own. I think I turned out ok. I now have 2 daughters of my...
    purplebear33 purplebear33 31-35, F Mar 10

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    I just lost my nana recently & I miss her very

    much. I feel stink for not going to visit her as much as I should have. I know she's in a better place now & that the Lord is taking care of her. I miss seeing your smile & just how happy you always were. I miss you Nana & you will be forever in my heart ❤
    Charlie794 Charlie794 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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