I Love a Guy Who Doesn't Love Me Back

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    Me and this guy were just friends first...then we became best friends... I mean we would talk about anything and EVERyTHING! and he was hot so I asked him out... and he never answered me... we were still cool but it all changed, i mean we never talked like we usto or anything...
    ifeelsoalone ifeelsoalone
    16-17, F
    Jun 8, 2007

    I'm in a deli inside a Grocery store.

    A girl is all over this guy, leaning into him, rubbing all over him like a Cat. He's moving away no display of emotion back, looked like he was ready to leave for the last 30 mins. I think he doesn't publicly display affection, or he's really not that into you girl. Can't she...
    TxRocker TxRocker
    51-55, M
    Aug 13, 2014

    Sad and Alone

    I love a guy who doesnt love me back I ruined though its all my fault and i dont know what to do
    Nataliee1983 Nataliee1983
    22-25
    Oct 5, 2008

    Ugh...

    He said he wanted to be friends. How can you be friends with someone and make them go through what I'm going through? I cry every night about him. It ****** me off sometimes, because my best friend has to deal with me wallowing in self-pity...and she says I need to think I can...
    Pirately Pirately
    16-17, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2007

    Here...

     this song explains most of it, it is call "Mr. Brightside" by the Killers. Its a great song. you should listen to it.  It totally replays everything. 
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

    I Will Always Love You.

       FOR 2 YEARS I WAS CRUSHING ON THIS BOY AND FOR THE 2 YEARS HE LEAD ME ON. HE MADE ME THINK HE LOVED ME AND THAT I ACTUALLY HAD A CHANCE OF BEING WITH SOMEONE AS AMAZING AS HIM. AND TODAY I FOUND OUT I WAS WRONG. I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR HIM TO ASK ME OUT. I THOUGHT WE...
    Indigo413 Indigo413
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2010

    I Just Dont Understand!

    I was with my ex for 5 years and we split up and I never thought I would fall for someone else so soon, but a couple of months after we split I met this guy. He's funny charming gorgeous and great company... we got together and was together a couple of months but when my ex found...
    butterflies22 butterflies22
    22-25, F
    Dec 4, 2009

    I'm In Love With A Wonderfull Man Who Just "like Me"!

    Here is my story!I just said to him that i'm in love with him and i screwd 5days of our meeting (long distance relationship).We both have children , i'm divorced and he is living with the mom of his children but he is not commited to her...he likes me, take care of me anytime we...
    svenskalove svenskalove
    31-35
    1 Response Apr 12, 2012

    He Loves Her... Advice Anyone?

    I like this guy, lets call him Edgar. He stole my heart a few months ago, in August. We sat next to each other in 6th period and he used to always cheat off my work. He's shy and sweet, and kind, and smart. But then he went out with Vanessa. She's a really mean girl. He soon...
    violinist7991 violinist7991
    13-15
    1 Response Mar 5, 2011

    I Always Have A Little...

     I have to warn you, this is a long story... If you've seen my other experiences, then you know that I really have more of a life online. This is another one of those stories where that's the case. And I should probably tell you before you read this that I am only 13. Mature...
    Kristin137 Kristin137
    16-17, F
    Dec 1, 2009

    He Doesn`t Love Me Anymore

    I met him on a beautiful sunny Saturday. It was our first date; at the end, he told me he thought I was the one. Three weeks later we spent our first night together and four weeks later he told me he loved me. Second month: he brought me a shell from the beach because it looked...
    janksna janksna
    31-35
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2011

    Guys Are Confusing

    So I've been in love with this guy for what seems like forever. I met him back in high school then my family moved we lost touch. I ran into him again about 3 1/2 years ago at a local bar and the same feelings were there. He says he doesn't want a relationship that he wants...
    jsmith26 jsmith26
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 10, 2009

    Complicated

    I fell in love with a boy I met in my band....... i spent every thought on him for about...... 4 months and then i finaly got up the guts to ask him..... he told me in these exact words " there is no place in my heart for you" i've been heart broken ever sense...
    Novemberain Novemberain
    16-17
    Jun 11, 2008

    He Loves Me He Loves Me Not

    I am only 12 and this guy i love is my age to. Since today everybody knows i love him including him but he doesn t like me he likes his ex still. His ex is my friend and i do not want to hurt her. He is such a pervert around his friends but he is actually really nice but only i...
    Flyawayunbreakable Flyawayunbreakable
    13-15
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2011

    I Love Him

    for two years now i have loved a guy who doesnt love me. we both get really well and i cant stop loving him. he nows i love him and he keeps on telling me that i dont have a chance with him. but even though he told me that i still cant stop loving him.
    shadowcay shadowcay
    16-17, F
    Nov 30, 2007

    Do Guys Feels Guilty Or Remorse When The Hurt Someone

    So here I go again...I'm a 40 year old single mom, dating is so tough.  I thought I finally found this great guy.  We have (had) been together for 7 months.  He spent every other weekend at my place.  I was introduced to 2 of his 3 children.  He met my 2.  In fact he...
    enk3 enk3
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Mar 23, 2011

    I Love Him.

    Ok so I met this guy back in 9th grade Spanish class.  I really liked him, but since he was too years older than me and I was only a shy freshman, I didn't act on my feelings.  He ended up moving to another state and then I moved to another state as well.  I...
    doyoucopy doyoucopy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2008

    Wish He Could Love Me, But I Know He Never Will

    I've known him for almost a year. Our relationship moved pretty fast and we got intimate and were practically living together pretty quickly. i fell for him very fast. In the beginning he told me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and when he did i told him i couldn...
    aphr0dit3 aphr0dit3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 18, 2010

    Complicated

    I fell in love with a boy I met in my band....... i spent every thought on him for about...... 4 months and then i finaly got up the guts to ask him..... he told me in these exact words " there is no place in my heart for you" i've been heart broken ever sense...
    Novemberain Novemberain
    16-17
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2008

    Commitment Issues

    I'm inlove with this guy who doesn't love me back... We've been seeing each other for 7 months now, but that has been it. I asked him where he sees us going, but he said that first of all I'm too young to be in a relationship (He's 4 years older than me) and he also said that he...
    Meisie12 Meisie12
    22-25
    1 Response Nov 10, 2012

    Its Been 9 Years And He Still Doesn't Love Me

    fall 2003 i met my match i was only 16years old when i met him and i lied about my age to be with him he was only 22 at the time.. me and him was always together even when he would work he would leave me home at his place alone to and call me stupid but i loved it waiting in...
    QlovesJ QlovesJ
    22-25, F
    Apr 23, 2012

    Ragingskillet....

    This guy is...just the bees knees, guys. He's just so damn hot and OMG I love the naughty pics he sends me all the time, but sadly I learned that he was just using me.   RAT-BASTARD!! I thought we had something special!!!! I still remember that special night we spent together...
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2011

    Ugh..i Need Advice!!!

    so I really like this guy from my class...it's been like a year now. At first I tried to get his attention by teasing him and stuff but he took that in a bad way so I changed my approach and just acted like myself. He asked me out once but sorta stood me up, though we had never...
    chaskakr chaskakr
    16-17, F
    Oct 23, 2012

    Ugh This Sucks

    I e-mail him. He e-mails back sometimes. But god it's so weird how I desire him. I think about him more than I should... more than he does me I'm sure. It's so disgusting to me that I long for this man. But he is so intelligent and talented. Ever since I worked with him I've...
    LoveSpringsteen LoveSpringsteen
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2010

    Alexander

    OK, so this guy I fell for spent all of last year asking me out and i wasdn't able to date him at the time and i told him. He SAID he understood but this year he told me to move on and I am so heart broken and I love him with all of my heart. I will always love him. He tried to...
    crysi crysi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2011

    Don't We All At One Time Or Another.........

    I admit that it can get old, fast. lol. I've had at least 3. I still love the first one. The second one I'm pretty sure was an a*s, so I've gotten over him. Mahahaha!!! The 3rd one, well we're good friends. I love him & he knows but he doesn't hold it against me & he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

    Messed Up Story #1

    we dated for a year and a half but then we fought and i got so sad i sat outside his house waiting for him to come and talk to me and give me some kind of explanation.. but i got nothing. its been two years and we started talking and now we have been hanging. and i love him again...
    somessedupeh somessedupeh
    13-15, F
    Oct 20, 2009

    Ii Love Hiim =(

    im only 12 & i love this guy, he's 13,he knows that i like him..but he doesnt love me back.i've been waiting for him for 8 months now. i'm going through alot & i'm very young..i don't know what to do..i've done everything i could. i tried to get over him but i just cant...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 4, 2009

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