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I Love a Guy Who Doesn't Love Me Back

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     this song explains most of it, it is call "Mr. Brightside" by the Killers. Its a great song. you should listen to it.  It totally replays everything. 
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Ii Love Hiim =(

    im only 12 & i love this guy, he's 13,he knows that i like him..but he doesnt love me back.i've been waiting for him for 8 months now. i'm going through alot & i'm very young..i don't know what to do..i've done everything i could. i tried to get over him but i just cant...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 4, 2009

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    Ugh This Sucks

    I e-mail him. He e-mails back sometimes. But god it's so weird how I desire him. I think about him more than I should... more than he does me I'm sure. It's so disgusting to me that I long for this man. But he is so intelligent and talented. Ever since I worked with him I've...
    LoveSpringsteen LoveSpringsteen 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    Messed Up Story #1

    we dated for a year and a half but then we fought and i got so sad i sat outside his house waiting for him to come and talk to me and give me some kind of explanation.. but i got nothing. its been two years and we started talking and now we have been hanging. and i love him again...
    somessedupeh somessedupeh 13-15, F Oct 20, 2009

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    Do Guys Feels Guilty Or Remorse When The Hurt Someone

    So here I go again...I'm a 40 year old single mom, dating is so tough.  I thought I finally found this great guy.  We have (had) been together for 7 months.  He spent every other weekend at my place.  I was introduced to 2 of his 3 children.  He met my 2.  In fact he...
    enk3 enk3 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with a boy I met in my band....... i spent every thought on him for about...... 4 months and then i finaly got up the guts to ask him..... he told me in these exact words " there is no place in my heart for you" i've been heart broken ever sense...
    Novemberain Novemberain 16-17 Jun 11, 2008

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    Its Been 9 Years And He Still Doesn't Love Me

    fall 2003 i met my match i was only 16years old when i met him and i lied about my age to be with him he was only 22 at the time.. me and him was always together even when he would work he would leave me home at his place alone to and call me stupid but i loved it waiting in...
    QlovesJ QlovesJ 22-25, F Apr 23, 2012

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    I Just Dont Understand!

    I was with my ex for 5 years and we split up and I never thought I would fall for someone else so soon, but a couple of months after we split I met this guy. He's funny charming gorgeous and great company... we got together and was together a couple of months but when my ex found...
    butterflies22 butterflies22 22-25, F Dec 4, 2009

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    Commitment Issues

    I'm inlove with this guy who doesn't love me back... We've been seeing each other for 7 months now, but that has been it. I asked him where he sees us going, but he said that first of all I'm too young to be in a relationship (He's 4 years older than me) and he also said that he...
    Meisie12 Meisie12 22-25 1 Response Nov 10, 2012

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    He Loves Me He Loves Me Not

    I am only 12 and this guy i love is my age to. Since today everybody knows i love him including him but he doesn t like me he likes his ex still. His ex is my friend and i do not want to hurt her. He is such a pervert around his friends but he is actually really nice but only i...
    Flyawayunbreakable Flyawayunbreakable 13-15 3 Responses Sep 10, 2011

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with a boy I met in my band....... i spent every thought on him for about...... 4 months and then i finaly got up the guts to ask him..... he told me in these exact words " there is no place in my heart for you" i've been heart broken ever sense...
    Novemberain Novemberain 16-17 3 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    !?!...

    Me and this guy were just friends first...then we became best friends... I mean we would talk about anything and EVERyTHING! and he was hot so I asked him out... and he never answered me... we were still cool but it all changed, i mean we never talked like we usto or anything...
    ifeelsoalone ifeelsoalone 16-17, F Jun 8, 2007

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    Ugh..i Need Advice!!!

    so I really like this guy from my class...it's been like a year now. At first I tried to get his attention by teasing him and stuff but he took that in a bad way so I changed my approach and just acted like myself. He asked me out once but sorta stood me up, though we had never...
    chaskakr chaskakr 16-17, F Oct 23, 2012

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    Don't We All At One Time Or Another.........

    I admit that it can get old, fast. lol. I've had at least 3. I still love the first one. The second one I'm pretty sure was an a*s, so I've gotten over him. Mahahaha!!! The 3rd one, well we're good friends. I love him & he knows but he doesn't hold it against me & he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    He Doesn`t Love Me Anymore

    I met him on a beautiful sunny Saturday. It was our first date; at the end, he told me he thought I was the one. Three weeks later we spent our first night together and four weeks later he told me he loved me. Second month: he brought me a shell from the beach because it looked...
    janksna janksna 31-35 2 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Guys Are Confusing

    So I've been in love with this guy for what seems like forever. I met him back in high school then my family moved we lost touch. I ran into him again about 3 1/2 years ago at a local bar and the same feelings were there. He says he doesn't want a relationship that he wants...
    jsmith26 jsmith26 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Ugh...

    He said he wanted to be friends. How can you be friends with someone and make them go through what I'm going through? I cry every night about him. It ****** me off sometimes, because my best friend has to deal with me wallowing in self-pity...and she says I need to think I can...
    Pirately Pirately 16-18, F 2 Responses May 16, 2007

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    Sad and Alone

    I love a guy who doesnt love me back I ruined though its all my fault and i dont know what to do
    Nataliee1983 Nataliee1983 22-25 Oct 5, 2008

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    I'm In Love With A Wonderfull Man Who Just "like Me"!

    Here is my story!I just said to him that i'm in love with him and i screwd 5days of our meeting (long distance relationship).We both have children , i'm divorced and he is living with the mom of his children but he is not commited to her...he likes me, take care of me anytime we...
    svenskalove svenskalove 31-35 1 Response Apr 12, 2012

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    I Will Always Love You.

       FOR 2 YEARS I WAS CRUSHING ON THIS BOY AND FOR THE 2 YEARS HE LEAD ME ON. HE MADE ME THINK HE LOVED ME AND THAT I ACTUALLY HAD A CHANCE OF BEING WITH SOMEONE AS AMAZING AS HIM. AND TODAY I FOUND OUT I WAS WRONG. I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR HIM TO ASK ME OUT. I THOUGHT WE...
    Indigo413 Indigo413 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2010

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    NOT Anymore

    THANK GOODNESS...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    i think i should let go

    I have been online dating this guy for the past 7 months and 2 weeks. (I new him before we dated). Long story short i've grown to love him(i'm not in love with him, I just love him). The thing is i've known i've loved him for the past couple months, but i haven't told him...
    Ashie Ashie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    I Love Him.

    Ok so I met this guy back in 9th grade Spanish class.  I really liked him, but since he was too years older than me and I was only a shy freshman, I didn't act on my feelings.  He ended up moving to another state and then I moved to another state as well.  I...
    doyoucopy doyoucopy 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2008

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    I Love Him

    for two years now i have loved a guy who doesnt love me. we both get really well and i cant stop loving him. he nows i love him and he keeps on telling me that i dont have a chance with him. but even though he told me that i still cant stop loving him.
    shadowcay shadowcay 16-18, F Nov 30, 2007

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    He Loves Her... Advice Anyone?

    I like this guy, lets call him Edgar. He stole my heart a few months ago, in August. We sat next to each other in 6th period and he used to always cheat off my work. He's shy and sweet, and kind, and smart. But then he went out with Vanessa. She's a really mean girl. He soon...
    violinist7991 violinist7991 13-15 1 Response Mar 5, 2011

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    Wish He Could Love Me, But I Know He Never Will

    I've known him for almost a year. Our relationship moved pretty fast and we got intimate and were practically living together pretty quickly. i fell for him very fast. In the beginning he told me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and when he did i told him i couldn...
    aphr0dit3 aphr0dit3 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    I Always Have A Little...

     I have to warn you, this is a long story... If you've seen my other experiences, then you know that I really have more of a life online. This is another one of those stories where that's the case. And I should probably tell you before you read this that I am only 13. Mature...
    Kristin137 Kristin137 16-17, F Dec 1, 2009

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    Ragingskillet....

    This guy is...just the bees knees, guys. He's just so damn hot and OMG I love the naughty pics he sends me all the time, but sadly I learned that he was just using me.   RAT-BASTARD!! I thought we had something special!!!! I still remember that special night we spent together...
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2011

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    Alexander

    OK, so this guy I fell for spent all of last year asking me out and i wasdn't able to date him at the time and i told him. He SAID he understood but this year he told me to move on and I am so heart broken and I love him with all of my heart. I will always love him. He tried to...
    crysi crysi 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2011

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    I wanted to send something cause I thought you would like to know that I think about you and I thought I would say hello. The truth is not a day goes by without you on my mind. So...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have young Kids and am married to a woman. I just accepted the fact that I am gay and don't know what to do...
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    Falling out of love needs to be a much quicker process. I haven't spoken to him in two months and I haven't seen him since October. I have been trying to get over him but I just...
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    maleable maleable 22-25, F Jul 1

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    adriefranco adriefranco 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    sgngng sgngng 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Honestly, love is love. As long as the ages are appropriate, I believe it's okay! For instance, when I was 14, I was in "love" with an 18. It doesn't matter how old, or how young...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Pretty self-explainitory. It is probably the worst pain I've ever felt. Well, it is. But I have to stay stong because she is struggling with these feeling for this other person who...
    pmjstubbs11 pmjstubbs11 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I loved someone who didn't care about me. He was too selfish to give a damn about any of my feelings.
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    9 years ago I saw him. It was a new day at my new class, thought it could be the new start at better life. However, we had few moments, we were almost the best friends, but he...
    whiskeyandtypewriter whiskeyandtypewriter 18-21, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Love doesn't exist. Boys and girls can't love anymore. I wish it was the way it used to be. But sex has become to much of a priority for people.
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I remember the exact moment that I knew i loved him. It was when I discovered he was moving away for six years to another country I couldn't possibly visit. Must when I was about...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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