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I Love a Guy Who Doesn't Love Me Back

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with a boy I met in my band....... i spent every thought on him for about...... 4 months and then i finaly got up the guts to ask him..... he told me in these exact words " there is no place in my heart for you" i've been heart broken ever sense...
    Novemberain Novemberain 16-17 3 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    Ugh...

    He said he wanted to be friends. How can you be friends with someone and make them go through what I'm going through? I cry every night about him. It ****** me off sometimes, because my best friend has to deal with me wallowing in self-pity...and she says I need to think I can...
    Pirately Pirately 16-18, F 2 Responses May 16, 2007

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    Do Guys Feels Guilty Or Remorse When The Hurt Someone

    So here I go again...I'm a 40 year old single mom, dating is so tough.  I thought I finally found this great guy.  We have (had) been together for 7 months.  He spent every other weekend at my place.  I was introduced to 2 of his 3 children.  He met my 2.  In fact he...
    enk3 enk3 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Guys Are Confusing

    So I've been in love with this guy for what seems like forever. I met him back in high school then my family moved we lost touch. I ran into him again about 3 1/2 years ago at a local bar and the same feelings were there. He says he doesn't want a relationship that he wants...
    jsmith26 jsmith26 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Don't We All At One Time Or Another.........

    I admit that it can get old, fast. lol. I've had at least 3. I still love the first one. The second one I'm pretty sure was an a*s, so I've gotten over him. Mahahaha!!! The 3rd one, well we're good friends. I love him & he knows but he doesn't hold it against me & he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Always Have A Little...

     I have to warn you, this is a long story... If you've seen my other experiences, then you know that I really have more of a life online. This is another one of those stories where that's the case. And I should probably tell you before you read this that I am only 13. Mature...
    Kristin137 Kristin137 16-17, F Dec 1, 2009

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    Its Been 9 Years And He Still Doesn't Love Me

    fall 2003 i met my match i was only 16years old when i met him and i lied about my age to be with him he was only 22 at the time.. me and him was always together even when he would work he would leave me home at his place alone to and call me stupid but i loved it waiting in...
    QlovesJ QlovesJ 22-25, F Apr 23, 2012

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    He Loves Me He Loves Me Not

    I am only 12 and this guy i love is my age to. Since today everybody knows i love him including him but he doesn t like me he likes his ex still. His ex is my friend and i do not want to hurt her. He is such a pervert around his friends but he is actually really nice but only i...
    Flyawayunbreakable Flyawayunbreakable 13-15 3 Responses Sep 10, 2011

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    He Doesn`t Love Me Anymore

    I met him on a beautiful sunny Saturday. It was our first date; at the end, he told me he thought I was the one. Three weeks later we spent our first night together and four weeks later he told me he loved me. Second month: he brought me a shell from the beach because it looked...
    janksna janksna 31-35 2 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    NOT Anymore

    THANK GOODNESS...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    Wish He Could Love Me, But I Know He Never Will

    I've known him for almost a year. Our relationship moved pretty fast and we got intimate and were practically living together pretty quickly. i fell for him very fast. In the beginning he told me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship, and when he did i told him i couldn...
    aphr0dit3 aphr0dit3 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    Ugh..i Need Advice!!!

    so I really like this guy from my class...it's been like a year now. At first I tried to get his attention by teasing him and stuff but he took that in a bad way so I changed my approach and just acted like myself. He asked me out once but sorta stood me up, though we had never...
    chaskakr chaskakr 16-17, F Oct 23, 2012

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    Alexander

    OK, so this guy I fell for spent all of last year asking me out and i wasdn't able to date him at the time and i told him. He SAID he understood but this year he told me to move on and I am so heart broken and I love him with all of my heart. I will always love him. He tried to...
    crysi crysi 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2011

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    Messed Up Story #1

    we dated for a year and a half but then we fought and i got so sad i sat outside his house waiting for him to come and talk to me and give me some kind of explanation.. but i got nothing. its been two years and we started talking and now we have been hanging. and i love him again...
    somessedupeh somessedupeh 13-15, F Oct 20, 2009

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    He Loves Her... Advice Anyone?

    I like this guy, lets call him Edgar. He stole my heart a few months ago, in August. We sat next to each other in 6th period and he used to always cheat off my work. He's shy and sweet, and kind, and smart. But then he went out with Vanessa. She's a really mean girl. He soon...
    violinist7991 violinist7991 13-15 1 Response Mar 5, 2011

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    I Love Him

    for two years now i have loved a guy who doesnt love me. we both get really well and i cant stop loving him. he nows i love him and he keeps on telling me that i dont have a chance with him. but even though he told me that i still cant stop loving him.
    shadowcay shadowcay 16-18, F Nov 30, 2007

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    Complicated

    I fell in love with a boy I met in my band....... i spent every thought on him for about...... 4 months and then i finaly got up the guts to ask him..... he told me in these exact words " there is no place in my heart for you" i've been heart broken ever sense...
    Novemberain Novemberain 16-17 Jun 11, 2008

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    I'm In Love With A Wonderfull Man Who Just "like Me"!

    Here is my story!I just said to him that i'm in love with him and i screwd 5days of our meeting (long distance relationship).We both have children , i'm divorced and he is living with the mom of his children but he is not commited to her...he likes me, take care of me anytime we...
    svenskalove svenskalove 31-35 1 Response Apr 12, 2012

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    !?!...

    Me and this guy were just friends first...then we became best friends... I mean we would talk about anything and EVERyTHING! and he was hot so I asked him out... and he never answered me... we were still cool but it all changed, i mean we never talked like we usto or anything...
    ifeelsoalone ifeelsoalone 16-17, F Jun 8, 2007

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    Ugh This Sucks

    I e-mail him. He e-mails back sometimes. But god it's so weird how I desire him. I think about him more than I should... more than he does me I'm sure. It's so disgusting to me that I long for this man. But he is so intelligent and talented. Ever since I worked with him I've...
    LoveSpringsteen LoveSpringsteen 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    I Just Dont Understand!

    I was with my ex for 5 years and we split up and I never thought I would fall for someone else so soon, but a couple of months after we split I met this guy. He's funny charming gorgeous and great company... we got together and was together a couple of months but when my ex found...
    butterflies22 butterflies22 22-25, F Dec 4, 2009

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    Here...

     this song explains most of it, it is call "Mr. Brightside" by the Killers. Its a great song. you should listen to it.  It totally replays everything. 
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Ii Love Hiim =(

    im only 12 & i love this guy, he's 13,he knows that i like him..but he doesnt love me back.i've been waiting for him for 8 months now. i'm going through alot & i'm very young..i don't know what to do..i've done everything i could. i tried to get over him but i just cant...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 4, 2009

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    i think i should let go

    I have been online dating this guy for the past 7 months and 2 weeks. (I new him before we dated). Long story short i've grown to love him(i'm not in love with him, I just love him). The thing is i've known i've loved him for the past couple months, but i haven't told him...
    Ashie Ashie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Ragingskillet....

    This guy is...just the bees knees, guys. He's just so damn hot and OMG I love the naughty pics he sends me all the time, but sadly I learned that he was just using me.   RAT-BASTARD!! I thought we had something special!!!! I still remember that special night we spent together...
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 11, 2011

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    I Will Always Love You.

       FOR 2 YEARS I WAS CRUSHING ON THIS BOY AND FOR THE 2 YEARS HE LEAD ME ON. HE MADE ME THINK HE LOVED ME AND THAT I ACTUALLY HAD A CHANCE OF BEING WITH SOMEONE AS AMAZING AS HIM. AND TODAY I FOUND OUT I WAS WRONG. I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR HIM TO ASK ME OUT. I THOUGHT WE...
    Indigo413 Indigo413 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2010

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    I Love Him.

    Ok so I met this guy back in 9th grade Spanish class.  I really liked him, but since he was too years older than me and I was only a shy freshman, I didn't act on my feelings.  He ended up moving to another state and then I moved to another state as well.  I...
    doyoucopy doyoucopy 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2008

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    Commitment Issues

    I'm inlove with this guy who doesn't love me back... We've been seeing each other for 7 months now, but that has been it. I asked him where he sees us going, but he said that first of all I'm too young to be in a relationship (He's 4 years older than me) and he also said that he...
    Meisie12 Meisie12 22-25 1 Response Nov 10, 2012

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    Sad and Alone

    I love a guy who doesnt love me back I ruined though its all my fault and i dont know what to do
    Nataliee1983 Nataliee1983 22-25 Oct 5, 2008

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    I'm in a deli inside a Grocery store.

    A girl is all over this guy, leaning into him, rubbing all over him like a Cat. He's moving away no display of emotion back, looked like he was ready to leave for the last 30 mins. I think he doesn't publicly display affection, or he's really not that into you girl. Can't she...
    TxRocker TxRocker 46-50, M a week ago

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    Ugh. Falling in love with your best friend sucks 😔
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    There are some that want help and when you try they don't listen, I can't help someone who doesn't want it and can try and be there for them when they need me but that's about as...
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    Last night I did a coward move and said "I love you" over Facebook to a guy that I'm inlove with, were not going out and I've told him I liked him and he said he likes me too and...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    Harsh reality. She doesn't feel the same way. And tells you, " I tried, but just don't like you". Um, thanks for trying I guess. Thanks for the effort? Coulda been a bit less blunt...
    topsearch92 topsearch92 22-25, M 35 mins ago

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    First off, I understand that girls have a lot of stress and drama about fitting in and being skinny and pretty. But guys have it hard to. I have seen some of my guy friends get...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    And it sucks. It makes me feel like crap. He has made it clear he doesn't care and so why do i? it's not fair.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My version of flirting is looking at someone I find attractive multiple time and hoping they're more brave than I am. Well with this guy, we just kept looking at each other and...
    FaFiPe FaFiPe 18-21 Jul 31

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    I hate how money can change a person. It's crazy but some how it happens. My ex boyfriend was one of a kind. Our freshman year, he was quirky, a band geek, down to earth...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F Jul 28

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    I have this really good friend who I think I might be in love with, but I don't ever think he will see me as more than a friend. As it is now I am "one of the boys"... And to...
    jtajulie jtajulie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I wanted to send something cause I thought you would like to know that I think about you and I thought I would say hello. The truth is not a day goes by without you on my mind. So...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I have young Kids and am married to a woman. I just accepted the fact that I am gay and don't know what to do...
    TKnight11 TKnight11 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Falling out of love needs to be a much quicker process. I haven't spoken to him in two months and I haven't seen him since October. I have been trying to get over him but I just...
    atadbitinlove atadbitinlove 18-21, F Jul 22

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    About 5 months ago, me and my boyfriend broke up. I am over him for the most part but lately, I think about our old times. Not necessarily the relationship part but the friendship...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F Jul 28

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    Hahaha it's been so long since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just...
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    It's been about 8 month now, that I cling to a guy that doesn't love me back. At first he even wanted something, but hen somehow I managed to ruin that feeling and everything...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F Aug 4

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Honestly, love is love. As long as the ages are appropriate, I believe it's okay! For instance, when I was 14, I was in "love" with an 18. It doesn't matter how old, or how young...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    So I was dating a soldier for almost a year (one month from a year when he broke up with me). We were perfectly happy before he let for annual training. Two weeks into it he calls...
    ArmyNakata ArmyNakata 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    (Not excluding guys who don't skate) I just love it. Message me if you skate 😋
    ohlayla ohlayla 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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